f_ckupsomecommas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	How to make intentions clear without coming across as creepy?	Logistics	f_ckupsomecommas	/r/seduction	25/03/21 05:21 PM
4	Is it weird to go to a bar alone?	Fundamentals	f_ckupsomecommas	/r/seduction	28/07/22 05:46 PM
3	Went to a party last Saturday, advice welcomed		f_ckupsomecommas	/r/seduction	25/05/21 12:38 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Why do people tell unattractive guys to be “nice” to compensate for being unattractive? Ditching the label is important. There’s no need to feel less than for not sleeping with tons of girls, really. Even if you’re a virgin as an adult it’s not something anyone is gonna realistically ask you. I didn’t even have sex until I was 21, hadn’t kissed a girl until 20. And I’m far from the usual stereotype of an incel. I look completely normal I think.	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 03:32 PM
6	Why do people tell unattractive guys to be “nice” to compensate for being unattractive? Yeah usually they’re guys who feel like they’re involuntarily celibate, meaning it’s all out of their control which is untrue. No one is really “destined” to be an incel unless they are too far down the rabbit hole to come back out	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 03:29 PM
1	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. Yeah I prefer to keep it bottled up. I’ve complained a couple of times but when I did the other person was quite dismissive of it, so I assumed it wasn’t really something to people wanted to discuss. I’ve found that not talking about it helped me. I decided to ditch the labels of “virgin” and what not because it was only holding me back. Instead I just saw myself as a normal guy going out, which really helped me. People who moan on and on about it are annoying, but that goes for complaining in g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 10:50 PM
1	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. I used to be very unsuccessful but I never really complained about it because it’s cringey and no one really cares to hear it, which is unfortunate but that’s just reality. When other people would ask about girlfriends etc I’d just say I preferred to be single which was a lie but helped deflect any weird conversations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:31 PM
3	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. And it’s just very dismissive and making a lot of generalizations. A man being unsuccessful with girls doesn’t fit into one demographic or subculture. I know many guys who struggle and a lot of them are pretty normal people otherwise. These aren’t just guys who play video games all day or who only drink Mountain Dew. They’re your classmates, your friends, and your coworkers. They might not talk about dating or anything like that because it’s a touchy subject for them. Sometimes it might be the g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:27 PM
1	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. Yeah nobodies really entitled to anything by that logic I suppose. Like yeah it’s a true statement but i think it’s pretty much stating the obvious	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:22 PM
1	Social proof seems much more important to women than innate/natural attraction Yeah I suppose it’s true but how would you know how sexual successful a guy is right away? You can make assumptions based on appearance but who really knows unless you ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:20 PM
2	Fat looks worse on women than on men. Yeah back when I was really into powerlifting I was pretty muscular and at a higher body fat, but folks still said I looked really strong. That’s cause I had the underlying muscle mass to give my body a masculine frame even with excess fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 07:20 PM
1	So what exactly is a Chad? Usually it refers to a guy with handsome facial appearance, tall stature, and a good build (not too skinny, not too fat, appreciable muscle mass). If you have all three of those generally you’d be considered a “Chad,” which is basically a meme at this point but there’s still truth to it. You can be a Chad who’s a friendly respectable guy, or a complete jerk. I’ve met both, chads who are hard working and intelligent, and chads who are deadbeat criminals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 07:16 PM
4	Fat looks worse on women than on men. Even when a man is heavyset, you can often still tell if they’re well built underneath or not. If they’ve got wide shoulders and thick arms they’re gonna look fine either way, unless they get disgustingly fat	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 07:06 PM
1	Fat looks worse on women than on men. You’re on to something. I used to be really into powerlifting and bulking up to get bigger. I got pretty muscular but also fat. I’ve since shredded down quite a bit but I sometimes miss being bulkier. The sleeves on my shirts being really tight, just having a lot of mass, a really thick neck, just looking larger and more intimidating overall. I think I look a lot more attractive at a leaner state, but I miss the overall size I used to have, especially being 6’2. At 195 lbs I look a lot less inti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 07:05 PM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” That’s unfortunate. Wouldn’t want her anyway in that case. I was once told “I wouldn’t go out with you if you were the last man alive.” Talk about hurtful	/r/seduction	12/08/22 01:02 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” I’d say so yes. Self esteem is a pretty ambiguous concept. It’s often context dependent, but someone with generally high self esteem wouldn’t be overly affected by a rejection. And obviously self esteem can change throughout your life	/r/seduction	12/08/22 01:01 AM
6	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? I have no idea, I don’t know what “on the floor” means. That the expectation for a man’s physical appearance is low? I’m not sure that’s the case. I know men who look perfectly fine who are deathly afraid that they’re “ugly” because some dumb girl told them that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 01:07 AM
0	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards What’s considered below average Jimmy? What does that look like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 07:23 PM
2	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards Fair enough, but it sounds like these are assumptions being made about a man without really knowing their situation entirely. Unless you know him or people close to him closely, you’re likely not going to be aware of his interactions or lack thereof with women, unless you have enough context to make that guess. I also know very few men who have directly been asked out, good looking or otherwise. It’s just not something that happens all that often, unless they’re already popular without a certain…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 02:53 AM
2	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards Man I feel you for sure, I’ve definitely been there. But it sounds like you’re pretty accomplished which is a good start. You’ve got the hard parts figured out at least. I will say that being smart is without a doubt a disadvantage in the dating world, unless the intelligence has been applied to achieve lofty financial goals. I’m not sure what it is about it, but probably just because we overanalyze things more and often second guess our interactions with others. Also bear in mind you might not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 02:46 AM
8	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards Good points. It’s difficult to give proper or even remotely considerate advice to someone without fully assessing their situation. Unless you know their every habit and social patterns on a day to day basis, most of it is just going to be the first thing that comes to that person’s mind. They haven’t yet done a deeper analysis to the other person’s life, and chances are, they don’t have the time to dedicate to that. Going to a trusted friend could certainly help, someone who knows you well and c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 02:32 AM
-1	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards I think it’s really a matter of poor interpretation, at least from most women’s’ standpoint, which isn’t their fault per se; how could they really understand the man’s point of view completely, without looking through the lens of his experience. Honestly, men’s standards do vary man to man, so it’s difficult to really know what he might find attractive or might not. He might not even truly desire a perfectly hot girl, just a plain Jane with a decent body and a good personality. Some men don’t ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 02:22 AM
5	Is it weird to go to a bar alone? Yeah I wouldn’t mind just sitting there and drinking honestly, if there are a lot of girls there maybe I’ll approach them, maybe not. I’m visiting a city briefly that I’m not from, so I won’t know anyone there. Is that better or worse? Oftentimes I’d avoid approaching girls at the bar in college because that was the only spot in town and I didn’t want to develop a reputation for getting rejected all the time lol	/r/seduction	28/07/22 05:56 PM
1	Girl pretending not to like me? What do I do? You should probably talk to her 1 on 1 if you haven’t already to clear things up. I think a lot of these issues come from unclear communication. If she starts acting weird again just say hey what’s going on here or something like that	/r/seduction	28/07/22 05:54 PM
1	How to daygame when the universe is against you? I feel you man, I really do. If a girl makes eye contact with you I think that’s enough to go ahead and approach. They’re clearly acknowledging your presence (whether it’s bad or good isn’t necessarily clear) but can’t hurt to go ahead and talk. Assuming your halfway decent looking you gotta just walk around and see who notices you. You can approach girls who don’t acknowledge you if you want, but I think it’s better to go talk to them if they’ve made eye contact or even just a smile. As long as…	/r/seduction	28/07/22 05:49 PM
1	Are some males infatilized/desexualized because they look childish? Everyone has a different natural build, but a lot can be accomplished through lifting. If you’re a teenager don’t even worry about being skinny, you’ll naturally fill out as you get older. I remember my wrists used to be like toothpicks when I was 15 which I was super insecure about, but now at 21 they’re much thicker and I even had to buy a new watch. When I was a teen I was also only about 160 lbs at 6’2, which is pretty thin. I was definitely not respected by other people, and I noticed that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 12:08 AM
-1	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong I agree with you OP. I feel like this subreddit is constantly filled with pseudoscience to the point where I’m honestly having a hard time taking some discussions seriously. The so called statistics aren’t consistent, there’s very little real data to back up ridiculous claims, and most advice here seems purely anecdotal. That being said, I have a deep interest in some of the topics that discussions on PPD allude to, which is why I continue to engage here in hopes that we can go a little deeper w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 03:46 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah I generally acted poorly. Was arrested for it even, so yeah I’ve had to cut back considerably. There were hundreds of good nights though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 01:35 PM
1	Have you been in a situation where you were called creepy? Countless times. I used to take offense to it, but I’ve been called far worse over the years to really give a shit about such a tasteless, vague, and low effort insult. If people want to call me creepy at this point in my life, go the fuck ahead. I know that I don’t do anything that could be construed as creepy unless someone felt personally offended by me for whatever reason. I don’t make advances when others are clearly uninterested, and I respect others’ boundaries. I was called creepy more o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 04:08 AM
2	what exactly are the standards for an average man ? That’s a difficult question to answer, but I suppose it could be broken down into categories. Appearance: To be average, you’d have to be around 5’8-5’10 in height, depending on your build probably between 150 to 180 lbs, maybe a little higher or lower. You’d ideally have most if not all of your hair, facial hair trimmed neatly or shaved, and a plain looking face. You build isn’t skinny, but isn’t fat either, but also not particularly muscled. Personality: You’re not awkward, but not charming. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 04:00 AM
1	Women's preferences in men are culturally engineered Generally people are attracted to others in their demographic. As someone of a lower socioeconomic status, I’m pretty limited. In certain circles I’m not considered remotely attractive, whereas in others I imagine I might appear as a viable option. I’m not entirely sure though, as this is all anecdotal. For instance wealthier girls generally have better options for men who look better than I do, yeah maybe I’m insecure but it’s true. Whereas in my own demographic, putting on clean clothing, havi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 03:51 AM
1	Why this misconception that less attractive men will treat women better? I don’t think there’s necessarily a correlation between how good a guy looks and how he engages with other people, at least not a clear one that I’m aware of. I think maybe if you’re better looking than people might engage with you more positively, which can either make you feel content or in some cases, difficult to swallow your pride. Whereas if you’re not very good looking, you either allow it to make you frustrated and cynical, or more kind and empathetic to others due to your understanding …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 03:41 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread That depends honestly. I mean I think I’m fairly smart but I don’t have the greatest social skills. But I definitely know guys who aren’t very bright who are very charming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 04:50 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Faking being Neurotypical is pretty tough. I had a similar problem where I couldn’t figure out how to properly greet someone. In the past I’d usually just stand next to them until they acknowledged me, but I’ve figured out that “Hey how are you?” Is usually a better option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 04:48 PM
9	Daily Community Chat Megathread This used to be me last year. I would smoke weed all day, watch the same TV shows day after day, and I would drink heavily almost every evening while enrolled in university. I did fine academically, but my social life diminished greatly. At one point I had a big group of friends, but my constant drinking significantly reduced my circle. During all this time I felt incredibly lonely, almost as if I had a hole in my heart. I wanted nothing more than to come home to a pretty girl, and couldn’t for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 04:44 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’ve slowly come to terms with my ineptitude in the dating game. While I’m not happy about it, I suppose it’s not a permanent state. However, the hardest part is trying to identify where my difficulties lie specifically, to which I am unsure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 04:33 PM
1	What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average? Generally having a youthful complexion I’d imagine. Some guys look 10 years older than their actual age. Usually due to stress, drug problems, etc. Can make you look a lot older	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 11:40 PM
2	The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debate For sure, I appreciate it. I used to have very little self awareness but I’ve been through a lot over the years and I like to think I’m pretty observant these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 07:52 PM
2	The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debate I’m 6’2, and built fairly heavy at about 220 lbs, but I don’t look particularly fat in clothes even at 20 percent body fat. My height hasn’t done me very many favors romantically, but in more general social interactions it’s easier to be a commanding presence. People will listen more, notice me a bit more, and I know in the back of my mind that my height won’t provide any disadvantages per se- In terms of physique it’s harder to look as dense and muscular as a shorter guy even if you’re bigger i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 07:20 PM
1	What feature would make dating apps better for society? I don’t know, probably not having it at all would be better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 09:50 PM
1	Have you seen a handsome and successful man struggling in his romantic/sexual relationships? I wouldn’t call myself handsome but I’m probably 5-6/10 on an ideal day and yes it’s challenging because of my autism	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 09:43 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread I feel like the ugliest, most undesirable man in the world, but at least my gym progress has been good, and I’m feeling confident about attempting a 300 lb bench press sometime next week. I also feel slightly ashamed of my low socioeconomic status compared to my peers at university, but I have my EMT certification exam Monday and my last year of university starts in less than a month so luckily I’m taking the necessary steps to address that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 09:39 PM
2	You read a lot, online especially, about these so called ''Damaged'' women who chase ''bad'' guys or whatever. I'm curious if there's a term for the opposite of this kind of woman. For example, is there a term describing a self-sufficient woman with no time for BS/a career, etc? As attractive as some bad boys may be, many of them have significant problems in their lives like being in trouble with the law, having a drug problem, being a petty criminal and what not. And yeah the women they’re dating usually are from a similar demographic at least	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 09:53 PM
2	How do you think women spend their time? I don’t know, and I really don’t care, because I highly doubt it’s very interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 06:21 PM
4	It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-related Yeah it’s pretty fucked. As an autistic guy I already had to deliberately learn how to socialize because my retarded brain doesn’t know how to do it naturally. I still can’t read most nonverbal signals and have had a lot of approaches with women that were such a disaster that I gave up trying for some time. It just pisses me off that approaching women and escalating is something I straight up have no ability to do. I can make friends with other men easily (something that I used to have trouble w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 07:37 PM
1	Does the average guy really not get casual sex? Who the hell knows bro, it depends on a variety of factors I’m sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 06:59 PM
1	How important is a man's physique to women? Yeah I’m sure it varies from woman to woman, but if you think you’ll attract a ton of women being an overweight guy you’re shit outta luck. It only helps to have a good physique I think. Sure you might attract SOME women while being overweight, but I’m sure you’ll be limited. If you’re a natural lifter of average to above average height you won’t look too big even if you build a lot of muscle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 06:57 PM
1	What are you and why? (Also why are you here?) This will probably get buried but here goes: I’m a 21 year old male who’s a university student starting his final year in a couple of months. On paper I’m fairly normal; decent student, have been involved in internships and research, and used to work part time as a landscaper before starting college. I enjoy going to the gym frequently to work on my strength and physique. I found the sub because I’ll admit I used to look at the red pill frequently. As a young male who didn’t receive attention fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 06:52 PM
1	Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered? I prefer women personally to be a little thicker I think the 24-26 looks the best in my opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 01:56 AM
1	How do I stop being a virgin loser? Idk man I was in the same position as well	/r/seduction	18/06/22 01:48 AM
1	What exactly is a "Low value man"? Low value to women or generally? Low value to women might include: -Unsightly face -Poor hygiene -Short stature, out of shape -Aspie personality traits -Social awkwardness/strange personality In general might include: -Drug addict, alcoholic -Chainsmoker -Low educational attainment, low socioeconomic status -Bad clothing style, white guy dressing like a thug -Lack of ambition -Financially irresponsible -Lack of a moral compass -Misogynistic/abusive/creepy -Criminal record, convicted felon -Unemp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 10:17 PM
2	What exactly is a "Low value man"? Yeah i mean look at Frank Gallagher from Shameless. He’s a narcissistic drug addict alcoholic con artist with terrible hygiene who pretty much looks homeless; yet he does pretty well with the ladies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 10:09 PM
2	Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male" Most of these guys already had psychological problems, pair that with a bad childhood and this is what happens	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 01:56 PM
3	Uncertainty + Fear Of Rejection + Neediness = Creepy To Women Good points. As an autistic guy this is very challenging to overcome. Only been with a couple girls and I’m 21, and they were definitely not the most attractive, I just felt better knowing I did it I guess. As I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to “hide” a lot of the autistic tells. It’s very challenging, but I think it comes from trying to mirror other peoples’ mannerisms. The main problem is that I can’t read nonverbal signals, which is why I often tap out of interactions a little sooner than I sh…	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/22 01:13 PM
7	What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle? Yeah I don’t think it’s healthy to over fixate on a specific type of lifestyle. Being rich isn’t realistic for a lot of people, but I think if you work toward your personal goals and try your hardest, that’s the best solution. Women will appreciate a guy who’s responsible in the context of his own situation. Like me personally, I go to the gym a lot, strive to obtain a good physique, work really hard at my job, and try to be as social as I can. Yeah I’m autistic, but I’ve been with women before.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 09:33 PM
8	What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle? I think it’s context dependent as well as based on socioeconomic status. I know guys who are tall well built and fairly handsome who pull in a lot of girls but they’re still broke bums, have criminal records, are drug addicts and alcoholics, etc. And there are obviously men who are wealthy who aren’t as attractive. It’s more status in a specific context. For instance in a low income neighborhood, a man who’s a drug dealer has a lot of influence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 09:30 PM
1	What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle? I don’t really know what’s meant by “high value life,” because I think it’s more important to put effort into your long term goals for your own benefit instead of just trying to mimic someone else’s lifestyle. Some of us are socioeconomically disadvantaged obviously, but I think a man who’s responsible financially even if it’s not the same amount of wealth as another guy is high value in my opinion. Then again a lot of guys prefer to find girls within their social class. Like lower income men I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 09:28 PM
3	Fds is now gone, thoughts? As a dude I’m not gonna lie I sometimes had a guilty pleasure of reading it and laughing my ass off	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 09:12 PM
1	Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman? I’ve only just started lurking in that subreddit, but oh boy. They pretty much expect a man to be perfect to even be dateable. I understand having standards for a partner and making the guy is a decent dude, etc, but the entitlement seems extreme.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 06:20 PM
1	How are you supposed to apply any of the advice here if you don't have any women that interested in/attracted to you? I have the same problem man, it’s pretty tough. Although you look pretty good so I’m sure there are some interested in you but you just haven’t noticed	/r/seduction	10/09/21 12:31 AM
2	Wednesday Night Report; Close Call Good point. I mean I go to the gym a lot and lift and stuff, so I’m well equipped to fight if need be. But I’m a pretty gentle guy generally, so I’m not used to it. But thanks for the advice!	/r/seduction	23/07/21 07:19 PM
1	[deleted by user] I feel your pain man. It seems like very few are interested in me as well, even though I think I'm halfway decent looking at the very least. Just keep in mind how many women are in the world, there'll be plenty who like you I'm sure, hot ones too.	/r/seduction	10/07/21 06:46 PM
1	20 year old feeling lost and somewhat hopeless Yeah believe me, my mind was saying hell no when my friends approached the girls initially. Yeah, they were a little awkward since they’re relatively new to this too, but at least they had the balls to do it. I was worried the entire time about embarrassing myself somehow, so I just figured I wouldn’t.	/r/seduction	07/07/21 09:55 PM
1	20 year old feeling lost and somewhat hopeless Yeah man, for whatever reason I’m just terrified of rejection.	/r/seduction	07/07/21 07:19 PM
1	Lets talk wardrobe I usually like a nice polo shirt, short sleeve button ups, t shirts, and khakis and jeans for pants.	/r/seduction	28/05/21 03:02 PM
1	How to make intentions clear without coming across as creepy? Yeah essentially this, that’s the problem, as someone who’s pretty plain looking like mylself it might go either way	/r/seduction	26/03/21 04:11 PM
1	I think I hit the shit end of the genetic lottery, but I'm not really interested in the girls who are willing to take me. Yeah I feel you, I don’t even want a 10/10 girl honestly, just someone who looks good enough, a 5/10 I’d be completely satisfied.	/r/seduction	07/12/20 03:14 PM
1	Muscles and women Yes, I agree that proportions are very important.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/20 04:43 PM
2	Muscles and women They’re important in the sense that you’ll look good without a shirt; but unless you’re walking around without a shirt on a regular basis, which most of us probably don’t, I wouldn’t say it’s that important. Don’t be a lardass, but size over abs any day	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/20 04:42 PM
1	Muscles and women Yeah, I never discuss the gym with girls, and rarely even other guys, unless they also train with me. I’m not particularly lean, so most people assume I’m just naturally beefy. I think it has to do with “show” vs. “go” muscles. Show muscles being pecs, biceps, and abs, whereas go muscles being lats, traps, hamstrings, posterior chain, glutes, triceps, forearms, and neck. These show that you’re legitimately strong, not just a cosmetic lifter.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/20 04:37 PM
12	Muscles and women Agreed. I’m a bit on the higher body fat side at 218 lbs at around 6’1. I’ve been bulking a lot since October, and I’ve concluded that because I’m natty, if I want to look really big in clothes, I won’t be able to be too lean. For me, looking big in clothes is what’s the most important to me, because as someone who used to be skinny, all I wanted was to be respected by others. I’m definitely not a small guy, especially compared to other 20 year olds, but I don’t feel like I’m particularly muscul…	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/20 07:51 PM
20	Muscles and women I’ve made it my goal to get “freakishly jacked.” Might as well aim high, especially if you’re a natural lifter. If I fall short, rest assured I’ll have plenty of muscle mass.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/20 05:41 PM
1	HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN AT GYM? Not worth it. You should be focused on your gains at the gym, not worried about girls	/r/seduction	30/11/20 02:52 AM
1	Girls are repulsed/intimidated by me I think, what do I do Why?	/r/seduction	18/11/20 10:52 PM
1	Girls are repulsed/intimidated by me I think, what do I do It’s not about anyone in specific, this isn’t a field report, do you know how to read?	/r/seduction	18/11/20 05:57 PM
1	Girls are repulsed/intimidated by me I think, what do I do Agreed man. My voice sounds very non masculine like a 14 year old and I’m sick of being cast aside by women. I bet at least a couple are attracted to me, but I bet it’s only a couple not very many.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 05:56 PM
2	Girls are repulsed/intimidated by me I think, what do I do Yeah, I think while walking around I look decently confident, but when i open my mouth it’s another story. I tend to avoid confrontation which is the biggest issue. I’ve started trying to command more authority in small ways, like talking a bit louder. The problem is that I don’t have a very masculine voice, I sound like a 14 year old, which is funny considering that I look like a grown adult.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 04:40 PM
5	How to NOT argue with feminists. Arguing with a feminist is pointless in my experience, you’ll never be able to change them from believing in the bullshit that they do	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/20 02:48 AM
4	The 3 Best Ways To Show Sexual Intent - (Without Being a Creep) This is great thanks buddy I’m gonna use this over the weekend	/r/seduction	01/11/19 05:27 PM
1	Girls just don’t notice me at parties, don’t know what to do really Damn dude, I really appreciate the comprehensive guide!!! I wouldn’t say I just stood around, had something to drink and I was dancing quite a bit and getting into the music etc. And you’re right, standing silently isn’t going to work for me, I’m definitely not a 9/10 in looks, I’d say a solid 5-6. Like my face isn’t bad looking, but it doesn’t stand out either. I mean, I feel like I was definitely one of the biggest guys there in terms of stature and overall build, but obviously a lot of guys w…	/r/seduction	15/09/19 07:09 PM
6	How to get laid even though you're ugly Yeah, there’s something to be said about the mental fortitude that you create by being under a heavy bar. For example, I almost nutted the first time I benched 225 (not literally, but I can see what Arnold means now). Two months later, I can rep it out for 6-7 reps, and although it might not seem like much, I feel so manly being able to lift a weight that I know most people can’t handle. Also, building muscle and strength gives you a sense of accomplishment, which is a surefire way to boost your…	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/19 05:50 PM
0	How to get laid even though you're ugly Read the entire post, he carefully breaks everything down in a detailed manner.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/19 04:12 PM
12	How to get laid even though you're ugly I agree with the lifting part so much, and I can easily see why it’s encouraged here all the time. By being muscular, I feel as though you allow yourself to be seen in a more sexually dimorphic way to women, if that makes sense. When you’re a skinny fat slob addicted to video games, you obviously won’t look attractive to most women. As much as “gymcelling” is made fun of on most forums, I certainly do think that gaining muscle and losing fat is nothing but a positive way to improve your SMV.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/19 04:11 PM
5	Study: Only 3% of Straight People Are Willing to Date a Transgender Person Yeah, I have an idea, it’s called being attracted to women. Who would’ve thought of that?	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/19 09:23 PM
1	Guys, if I drink lots of brotein and get massive muscles that are popping from my shirt, will I have girls on my cock? At that height you’re gonna need a lot muscles, might take close to 4-5 years	/r/seduction	08/04/19 07:28 PM
3	The guilt of being red pilled Yeah for sure, especially with my parents and family being very blue pill in general, I definitely feel a little out of place, but I keep it to myself and choose to follow the path that will allow me to succeed the best.	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/19 03:54 PM
1	Why do they hide the truth ? I know the feeling too. I feel so much more enlightened and less naive and foolish than I used to be. I’m also starting to pick up on every day examples. Once you realize the reality of a situation, it’s completely idiotic to turn a blind eye to it and choose to feel good about it if it’s a problem. The best step is to address the issue while not being afraid of the truth	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/19 07:34 PM
1	How do I approach a guy at a gig this weekend and how can I be flirty? I want to leave with his number. Most guys would love an approach, go for it	/r/seduction	21/01/19 02:25 PM
10	Efforts to ban TRP have surfaced once again These people are ignorant and think that our sub is bad without a good reason. I’m still a high schooler but look at red pill occasionally for sexual strategies and how to build my confidence up as a guy and appear more masculine and manly. But oh no, god forbid men actually trying to do better.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/18 01:28 PM
5	I discovered TRP at 34. C’est bien que tu as trouvé TRP!!!	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/18 03:50 PM
3	How to hook up with a girl as a 17 year old boy? Yeah, I do have several friends who are girls. However, they are just friends. I’m thinking of asking them for advice about how to approach this. And good point, I shouldn’t try to rush towards sex right away.	/r/seduction	10/04/18 10:57 PM