fabianoid Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	NEVER ASSUME that a women selling photos and videos of herself is doing it for you. It's for herself only. But head to my OnlyFans to desire me more. It's not objectification it's eMpOwERİNg.	NAH, SIS	fabianoid	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/20 10:48 PM
2	The bar for men is so low		fabianoid	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/20 07:34 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What do you think of MGK & Megan Fox? Apparently MGK cheated on Sommer Ray to be with her, then tried to make himself look like the victim when he was already dating Megan. "Glue gun Stanley"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 09:13 PM
1	Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling. Oof	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 04:07 PM
42	I briefly dated an Italian guy and I would like to hear from you if what he shared is true or he was being subjective. Christ, no. Divorcing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 05:34 PM
38	I briefly dated an Italian guy and I would like to hear from you if what he shared is true or he was being subjective. Married an Italian, and this was also my experience. Also to add that for him at least, buying sex was very normalised as a fulfilment of need. For him, what you've mentioned definitely contributed towards his general fuckery.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 04:53 PM
11	Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex? It is sexual assault, and it's normalised.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 08:43 PM
90	Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespect Also wanted to add: you don't have to be kind to someone who has been disrespectful towards you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 02:03 PM
16	The 'evolution' of a LVM in a relationship Same	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 07:13 PM
10	💅 Oh, it me..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 02:49 PM
45	Say it with fruit! My dumb ass: Melon? No, wait..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 09:33 PM
14	Where being a pick me will get you. I don't think people are taught it at all! My midwife told me, but before that I only knew because of my medical background. I don't recall it ever being mentioned apart from that. And I know women whose midwives haven't told them that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 09:37 PM
26	Where being a pick me will get you. I think most people don't realise that there's a wound roughly the size of a dinner plate inside your uterus after you give birth, vaginally or via c section. Discounting external stitches, bruising, tearing etc, there is real risk of infection by having sex too soon after giving birth because of this wound.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 08:54 PM
118	Where being a pick me will get you. This is less pick me and more abuse dynamics.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 01:22 PM
5	The deck has been stacked against us since the dawn of time. This hits hard	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 10:23 AM
10	Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing. Oh, yeah	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 05:39 PM
35	Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing. Yeah this is pretty awful isn't it. I remember before I had a colposcopy for precancerous cells, my partner was texting me (he waited in the car, pre covid but he didn't want to come wait with me or be in the room with me) asking when we would be able to have sex again afterwards. When it was over and I told him I wasn't able to he would say well you can do blow jobs so.....? The lack of empathy displayed by some men is utterly astounding.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 03:48 PM
4	How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me? Social media is a front and the mask is likely to slip eventually. Just be grateful he's someone else's problem now not yours and concentrate on what you need now. If possible, block him from all your socials.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 08:02 PM
12	Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriages "gave". What a gift!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 02:19 PM
84	They don’t even try to hide how vile they are. They just tell on themselves. You know what else we call that? Grooming	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 05:34 PM
6	Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis: Agreed	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/08/20 01:11 PM
98	Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis: Man: God. The only reason that woman has so many followers is because she is half naked all the time. It's so trashy and she has absolutely no self respect. Me: interesting. So this £20 monthly payment to... Let's see, onlyfans. That's for a fully clothed woman, right? Man: silence	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/08/20 01:11 PM
3	Hook ups and ONs are a touch overrated due to the influence of porn. Yeah see all the assumptions you made here about what women want are bang wrong. And all informed by porn, what a surprise!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 04:13 PM
6	Hook ups and ONs are a touch overrated due to the influence of porn. Professional what, though? You do realise porn isn't intended to pleasure the people who are performing in it? The sole intention is to look appealing. What your aim seems to be is for more women to watch porn to become more performative when they have sex. Some people enjoy being performative, but for most it's not going to arouse them or make them enjoy sex any more, just give you the other partner the illusion that they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 09:45 AM
11	Dump him. Oof, this is accurate	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 04:13 PM
2	I walked away from my cheating ex while pregnant. Today is my first Mother’s Day and this is the card I received from my 10 year old cousin. 🙌 I started a chat with you instead of sending a message because I'm bad at Reddit. Fucking A for walking away	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/20 07:21 PM
15	I just... want to puke. Man marries daughter's best friend who he's known since she was in kindergarten There's a typo in the title. Man groomed his daughter's best friend	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/20 03:23 PM
37	NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY point Can we talk about vetting men for this sort of thing? Anyone willing to share positive or negative experiences about the vetting process?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/20 03:35 PM
70	A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker! Side note: how fking expensive is catering to men's flippant sexual fantasies? A tonne of (expensive) lube required. Butt plugs of varying sizes. Enemas	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/20 04:23 PM
6	I thought this one was a little ridiculous. Some women aren't even healed at the two month mark Thiiiiiiiissssssss	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/20 03:56 PM
5	I thought this one was a little ridiculous. Some women aren't even healed at the two month mark No sex make me depress hurt durrr	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/20 03:55 PM
57	The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is BLOCKED My (soon to be ex) husband crossed a line sexually with me (many times, but this was one in particular). He coerced me into having sex when I didnt want to. The day after he messages me like hey um I'm sorry about last night. I got carried away and I got the feeling that you didn't really want to do anything and that I might have made you? I said yeah thanks for acknowledging that, I wanted to talk to you about it actually. Cue the WTF ARE YOU CALLING ME A RAPIST?!?!!!!? And admitted to saying t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 06:39 PM
263	The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is BLOCKED Me: yeh u kinda are aren't u? Him: U WOT HOW FKIN DARE U	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 05:22 PM
26	How does anyone see this and like/share it cause they think it’s cute? Barfffff Romanticised bullshit. Feeds into the narrative that men need saving and you're special if you do it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/20 11:43 AM
5	Daily Reminder that "High Status" Does Not Equal "High Value": 83-year-old right-wing billionaire Silvio Berlusconi (who once paid a 17-year-old prostitute for sex) replaces 34-year-old GF with even younger 30-year-old GF - and if he could get away with it, he would replace her with a 16-year-old... Either way this man's a huge pile of steaming garbage	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/20 07:34 PM
32	Daily Reminder that "High Status" Does Not Equal "High Value": 83-year-old right-wing billionaire Silvio Berlusconi (who once paid a 17-year-old prostitute for sex) replaces 34-year-old GF with even younger 30-year-old GF - and if he could get away with it, he would replace her with a 16-year-old... That should read: sexually exploited a child. There is no such thing as child prostitution. Children aren't prostitutes, they're victims of abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/20 02:51 PM
9	In your experience, do men remember the things you say or do? Yeah he's a pretty shitty person overall, but he just couldn't see how I wasn't flattered by what he was doing. He thought I should be grateful that he was "overcome" with desire for me, and said nobody had EVER told him that interrupting them was rude .... 😳	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/02/20 02:33 PM
37	In your experience, do men remember the things you say or do? My ex would interrupt me mid sentence, and not be able to tell me anything about anything I was saying. It was as though he couldn't hear it. He did a thing where he would grab me and kiss me while I was talking about something important, or stare at me like you see Disney characters swooning at each other while still not listening to what I was saying, because he thought it was romantic. He would be offended that I was upset that he wasn't listening to me. Suffice to say I wasn't amused.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/02/20 08:18 AM
19	Man using his girlfriend as a literal sex doll; she’s worried about offending him for not wanting sex 6 TIMES AN EVENING. Ugh. What's really disturbing, and it's a theme that you see a lot on the AITA threads, is this idea that "he didn't make me do anything, he's not forcing me and I want to do this thing that makes me feel dead inside" without seeing that this is subtle coercive control. Men like this will usually turn the table when they're spoken to about this and be incredulous, saying things like "How could you say that, are you calling me a rapist!!!?!!??".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 04:24 PM
49	LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted. Isn't this just rape culture with added steps though? Wanting to go for drinks with someone because drinking might lower their inhibitions enough to allow them to sleep with you is part of rape culture where a woman's wants and desires are seen as less important and less valuable than a man's. You're probably right in that the majority don't intend to get a woman blind drunk and rape her (although this will be the intent of some, I have no doubt), but this sidestepping or trying to coerce consen…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/20 06:56 PM
49	We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be cooler He was guaging how much of a cool girl you are. Whether you'd be all "yeah she's totally hot, I would". You did the right thing. Edit: autocorrect fail	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 02:45 PM
8	Accurate. Omg yes, this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/20 02:56 PM
114	"Women are so lucky! Everyone takes their feelings seriously!" Yeah there's this prevailing feeling that when women cry, it's for attention, a manipulation, or for some kind of benefit and can be ignored. When men cry, it's serious, you should pay attention and do what it takes to stop them being upset. It's not only the face value problem of this, it's the underlying idea that because men's emotions and feelings are more important and have more value than women's, that women should fix it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 02:25 PM
12	Beware of Love Language discussions on the first date - RED FLAG Yeah this is 100% an attempt to justify trying it on with little to no effort from them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 01:50 PM
70	She had 2 babies. Yep. I'm in the same boat. Never in a million years thought this is who he truly is, but it's clearly who he was all along, just playing a role. I think he felt it was safe to let his guard down and "be himself" after the marriage and a baby, because he felt the chances of me leaving him were much lower than they clearly were!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/20 03:45 PM
3	NEVER ASSUME that a women selling photos and videos of herself is doing it for you. It's for herself only. But head to my OnlyFans to desire me more. It's not objectification it's eMpOwERİNg. Couldn't agree more	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/20 10:28 AM
1	NEVER ASSUME that a women selling photos and videos of herself is doing it for you. It's for herself only. But head to my OnlyFans to desire me more. It's not objectification it's eMpOwERİNg. You make some interesting points. While I understand fully that women wear what they want for themselves, for me it feels a little bit contradictory to be posting a video with this sort of caption but encouraging objectification by pointing people who comment lustily towards her onlyfans account. It's difficult to convey because I obviously can't post the video, in which there's nothing particularly special that happens she just attempts to seductively tease while wearing underwear. Surely if yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/20 10:25 AM