| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | What should I prepare before filing for divorce?This is amazing. If it was the other way around there would be a bunch of comments telling her to leave. Bravo guys. You have showed more class and maturity than your counterparts again | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | She's not the woman you marriedDamn | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 11:23 PM |
| 2 | She's not the woman you marriedOf course. Her support system tells her that all the time. "You're strong" plus "you poor baby for going through all of that." Situations that she caused but will never take responsibility for her actions. I have kids with this woman. If I did not this would be an easy regret/mistake to move on from. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 07:38 AM |
| 3 | She's not the woman you marriedSame. I see the same bs lives in a lot of women | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 07:03 AM |
| 5 | She's not the woman you marriedExactly! 💯 "I deserve" and "I'm a victim" with no accountability for her actions | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | She's not the woman you marriedExactly! 💯💯💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Is there something in the water?Social media has them all feeling like there is someone better out there for them. Marriage is temporary and those kids shouldn't stop your fun | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 01:23 AM |
| 10 | She's not the woman you marriedSame. My ex is already reaching out to different men. She has a total disregard for the kids and their pain. It is all about her but she has the audacity to quote bible verses. God first she always says as she sins with another man. It is laughable. She is not the women I married or knew | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Kid's birthdays after divorceGo and leave early | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/23 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Letting go…I'm going through it now. We have only been separated for less than 2 months and she is already entertaining different suitors. This just says that they were there before I left. She is a different person and it is sickening. Sickening that I chose the wrong person to marry and have kids with. My kids are hurting and it kills me. This is truly difficult | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/23 10:36 AM |
| 8 | GymThis is so true. I losted my passion for going to the gym because I let myself get in a dark place. Recently though I have found it and the world seems a lot brighter. I don't even stress about the ex. Not worth my time and energy. My time (1.5 hour) and energy is in taking care of myself. Go to the gym fellas. Check in and let's keep everyone accountable to going. No bs | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/23 03:39 AM |
| 2 | I have been divorced over 13 years and have moved on to live a happy life. What am I still doing here?This is a support group | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 03:42 AM |
| 6 | It’s our faultThank you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 10:19 AM |
| 11 | Ex wife jealous?💯💯💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Is marriage a flawed concept?Sadly it is usually unbalanced with the man giving more while the woman is taking more | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/23 12:36 AM |
| 8 | Pending Divorce. Moved Out. Life Is….File. Get out of limbo. It is not a good place to stay in willingly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/23 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Lonely now as I was then.Mine said the same thing. Never acknowledging the signs of what she was putting me through first and how that shifted my reaction to her. Her words I "traumatize her". Smh. She is the victim | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/23 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Stuck in the sadnessExactly. On all points you made. It is so hard for a woman to be accountable for their actions. They would rather lie to everyone around them instead of saying "I was wrong." For a man we are blamed as soon as the relationship ends. The first question is always, "what did he do?" I'm painted as the bad guy as she does her best to be the victim. The real victims are the kids and what they go through as mom is doing "what is best for her". Never taking accountability for her actions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 01:51 PM |
| 6 | Stuck in the sadnessMine kept saying she is "only focused on the kids and there is no one else. She isn't even thinking about that." BS. She lived on her phone texting someone constantly. When I would walk in she would quickly hide her phone. She would have unplanned lunches to go to with her friends. I give it 2 months before she finally presents her new guy. I really am disgusted by just the sight of her | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Stuck in the sadness💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Stuck in the sadnessSo crazy. Everything you wrote is what I went through and had said to myself during this transition | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 02:52 AM |
| 11 | Stuck in the sadnessSo true. My x won't admit to being interested in someone else but I know in a month or so a guy will magically appear. Women don't bring up divorce until they have all their ducks in a row | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | my 14 years old princess wants nothing to do with me boys, it's over for meGive her time. Remember how we were as teens. Distant but over time we grow out of it. She will come back to you. It is unfair. I believe we have all said that same statement at one time through this "I don't desrve this. This is unfair." You are not alone | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/23 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Official DeadbeatSadly, I learned that there is never "the right person" out there. Now I'm worried that this might happen to me. Focus on your kids. You're still stuck on your ex. You have to let that go. Replace that with more time for yourself. Stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/23 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Lonely now as I was then.Stay strong brother. These women are just evil | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/23 11:16 AM |
| 5 | Lonely now as I was then.Mine did the same. Waited until her life was exactly how she wanted it. She said she had been feeling this way for a long time. Instead of telling me she waited for herself to "heal" and then 3 days before my bday told me she wanted to separate. Plotted it out for more than a year | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/23 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Lonely now as I was then.Exactly. Don't let her win. Stay strong and know that you are on a path of healing and strengthen yourself. Everything is tough in the beginning but believe that at the end of this is a better life for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/23 04:19 AM |
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