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Hi, long time ago but this was me...and my engagement ended bc of it
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 03:51 AM
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This is great advice. I was in a toxic engagement and in the middle of a petty argument my fiance suggested a 'break' until summer. He refuses to acknowledge me in the meantime so I just ended it. Idk how to move on when I also caused the breakup.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 11:17 PM
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Why get off the apps?? I wouldn't suggest that, dating is a numbers game
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 04:45 AM
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Hi again, ...sadly my fiance who needed a prenup kept avoiding going to lawyers...he always swept it under the rug which made me feel this was deceitful. I blew up at him and now it's over for now and I'm devastated..my immaturity and insecurity really tipped it over but I found him not drafting the prenup on purpose (until last minute when venues booked etc was sooo sadistic)....sucks having to start over at 29..
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 09:33 PM
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I just ended the relationship with my fiance out of his needling comments. He never cheated but would always say how he'll do something shady to me on the bachelor party...purposely making me feel insecure. Even tho they're innocent but I get really angry at these comments. Never fully stopped... I feel remorseful for being so insecure too tho
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 09:48 PM
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This is very helpful advice. My engagement just ended and I'm 29 it's very sad it took it this far for me to have this wake up call and not learning to stfu and not push him away.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 12:00 AM
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The resentment? Maybe cos i dont want him going.. but he makes comments at very uncalled for times. In front of family, (even once when my dad was in the hospital) he said he had fun with a girl on a date, again, I lost it. Is it controlling or a bad idea of me to tell him to straight up not go, and go somewhere else? I asked him and he said, I make more and your reason isn't good enough. I will tell him the code red. Thank you again for reading and giving your valuable advice. I appreciate it..
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 09:06 PM
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Hi, I know late post but your response still resonates with me. We are engaged and he wants to go to that country for a bachelor party. He makes nasty jokes like I'm going in all the brothels or in a sinister tone 'I'll never tell you what I'm going to do there' so now I'm going to lose it...do I let him go or let this eat me up? Thanks for the response..would appreciate it..
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 05:00 PM
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I appreciate this post, can I dm about questions?
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 03:27 PM
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Maybe give him 2 to 3 different products ranging in prices from not so expensive to somewhat expensive and be like I can't choose pick whichever and see if he picks the expensive one? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 03:03 PM
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Read the book psycho cybernetics from Dr maxwell. Free audio book on YouTube. I can't recognize myself before I read that book. Before I read it, I had a self image of guys never wanting anything to do with me, but after I read this book, I just imagined guys approaching me, wanting to be with me, and it being normal for me. This book teaches you how to be the best version of yourself by changing the self image about yourself, without forcing it. Basically we have all these negative thoughts lik…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 10:51 PM
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I can't land or execute a dish well, always falls flat of something all the time, sooo frustrating
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 03:27 AM
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I have to start getting ready everyday and I think it makes a huge difference. What is your daily get ready routine if you don't mind me asking
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/23 04:06 PM
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Are you looking for marriage? Have you asked yourself what are your non negotiables and stuck with it? Have you done anything recently to improve your looks? What were they? For me I lost weight, put flattering makeup on, let my hair down(no heat styles are great), but always act grateful, you will get chosen over a hot girl with an entitled attitude even. Men love effort
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 03:16 AM
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Helena hart, adrienne everheart
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 12:02 AM
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Which was the takeaway you had the epiphany moment if you don't mind sharing?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 11:19 PM
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I have a fiancee 10 years older, doesn't feel like a gap! But I'm scared he will cheat on me on the bach party when he goes to colombia (never cheated before but is obsessed with them (exs)/made jokes about he wants to visit the brothels there) is it wrong of me to tell him I don't want him there?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 01:51 PM
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Lol take a look at the rest of the comments 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/23 02:33 PM
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Misery loves company, I had a friend who would console me every time i had a heartbreak, but as soon as I got in a serious happy relationship(now engaged), she would make it a point to humiliate him with her friends, even pin pointing little things about him and saying i deserve better, and I cut her off immediately. As a 'joke' she said she wouldn't come to my wedding I was friends with her for 7 years. I didn't even let her meet him. I visited her from out of state and she would purposely ditc…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/23 02:41 AM
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What books on dating/communication did you read
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 11:19 PM
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Podcast on YouTube? I hope there is a free pdf :]
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 01:58 PM
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I felt a sense of permanence with him out of all the other guys. Our first date was so awkward I didn't plan on seeing him again, but then we kissed and I kind of fell in love that moment. Now we engaged, I did threaten to baby trap him if he didn't propose tho 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 10:53 PM
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Kind of. Sometimes I get stares/approached for dates from attractive men. I did lose 37 lbs and grow my hair almost to my hips, so I have that going for me, and I'm engaged to a hvm now so I pass some threshold lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 02:18 PM
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I wanted to make a similar post, but I'm not married (getting engaged this year tho), but I had a big fight with my bf where I was screaming at him through the phone and I canceled our trip plans. He called to apologize and even tho I was screaming at the top of my lungs he questioned me about something and we both burst laughing in the middle of the fight 😭😭 and he rebooked the ticket, the man's patience is another level and I feel even more close and in love after that fight...it's been a year…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/23 04:16 PM
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Going to check!
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 09:10 PM
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Yes, as soon as I met my BF my best friend completely went 180, ofc she is a man hating bashing feminist (loves screaming how much she hates men) and would bad mouth him like no other because she was jealous she did not have anyone. Good riddance.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/23 02:08 AM
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Thank you ❤️ 💙
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 03:43 PM
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Idk if it's worth it but should I tell him if I find out anything it's off, I find if I do that it just sounds tacky but it needs to be said in my head. Oh well.....
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 03:27 PM
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How do I know he won't cheat on a possible bachelor party where all he talks about is how hot the girls are in another country, even tho he is insanely loyal and loving towards me. Also something I'm struggling with.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 03:10 PM
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Are you in the US? Are you into spa treatments (chemical peels, facial lasers) or a European wax center wax pass( for legs and or Brazilian can easily go over 1k if you buy the 9 get 3 free)
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 03:06 PM
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Tips? 😘
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 02:04 AM
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Tips on how to become a better cook? It just doesn't land whenever I try :(
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 02:04 AM
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Yes, I tried flipping the switch and he doesn't say much besides making uncomfortable faces but I hate that back and forth.. so I'll just keep telling him to stop doing that bc it's so disrespectful 😤 I suppose this isnt a deal breaker..I'll look into therapy too...
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/23 05:04 PM
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Sorry if I sound overly emotional
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/23 03:46 PM
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Hi, thanks for responding, I am just over focused on the bad bc he made comments about it, I told him to stop multiple times and he hasn't! So I feel disrespected I feel sensitive bc his exs were from that country and I feel so insecure when he mentions them and the gorgeous women of that country, even before he said I would never compare to them either. literally won't shut up about it with me or his friends, just on and on.. How do I fix myself and focus on the good?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/23 02:12 PM
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How can I get to be more of #3
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 08:13 PM
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All your responses are making me tear up. I'm rehearsing what I'm going to say and I can't stop crying cause I'm so angry and emotional lol such a loser
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 04:27 PM
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What do I do if he shrugs it off or plays it off, also I really appreciate your thorough responses thank you
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah the incident happened like 1.5 weeks ago and it didn't bother me until now!! And I'm furious and don't even wanna speak with him I just feel awkward on how ill approach it so randomly...I'll just start with, hey somethings been bugging me why do you always joke around with wanting to date other people?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 02:15 PM
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This is the phrase I was looking for, 'shit test'. I treat him very good though and never say no to him either( not in an unhealthy way) so I was just so weirded out. Haven't responded to his text for a few hours cause that's all I have the balls to do lol...I will only confront him when he does it again but I am so emotional rn
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 04:15 AM
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I feel this is a little extreme, he spoils me rotten and I'm happier I am with him than anyone and he is still the biggest blessing in my life but I got very upset at the comment-also take some steps how ND do I tell him?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 02:07 AM
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This is great advice. I hold onto so much anger in my heart
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 01:51 AM
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Yeah it's fine besides the commentary about hot females (on top of him being a little iffy but that stems from another ltr that didn't work out)
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 12:54 AM
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Tried this, doesn't work bottling up. Then I'll get to a breaking point.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 12:40 AM
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Okay I agree with you it is retaliation and I want it to end ultimately
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 12:07 AM
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How can I make it hurtful omg I'm so evil but I appreciate the twist and your outlook. You made me feel better. But I'm so angry I want to hurt him For example: he sometimes jokes that we will break up or if we break up he is going to colombia to find his next gf. So when he brings up when both our parents meet I will tell him it's not a good idea bc I don't feel safe having them meet knowing that he'd rather be with someone else especially if he jokes like that
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 10:28 PM
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He's just disrespectful in this regard but he is good otherwise. I'll still bring it up if he brings it up again
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 10:02 PM
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This in my opinion is a great response but I really want to hurt him
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 10:01 PM
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It's so hurtful and I'm so sensitive who grudges alot but I hide it from him....so I make sparky comments about other men who liked me and how I left them after they kept chatting about females with me. But your advice is solid and honest, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 09:38 PM
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Yes I agree with the first paragraph. He is just testing me. I retaliated once by saying I ghosted a guy that really liked me bc he talked about females too much, he got visibly upset. But I would never threaten him in my life to text an ex.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 08:33 PM
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Idk if I can do this Honestly. But I'll try.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 07:53 PM
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Yah. I love this response. 😊 thank you
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 07:52 PM
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I'll have a hard time with this but you are right
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 07:37 PM
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Perfect example and this is exactly how I will approach it. Hey but should I have this convo the next time he mentions a comment like this (my original plan) or just randomly bring it up (I find this odd)
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 07:24 PM
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I'll tease back and I notice it does hurt him. I'm a little insecure but his comments come uncalled for when we're just chilling for example
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:55 PM
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He hasn't done it in a while but these comments just bug me randomly when im PMSing. Should I confront him when he brings up comments again (my plan) or just randomly talk about it...I don't wanna do the 2nd but I'm jw ur opinion. Thanks for your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:52 PM
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Okay I'll just be honest and not ignore it. Maybe I get irritated when he occasionally points out hot girls wherever we are. I feel like he's somewhat iffy about me and those comments just confirm my thoughts (on the contrary his family is very much in love with me and vice versa) so idk...
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:25 PM
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Okay I'll ask him to stop with those comments.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:20 PM
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I think if I ask him what his intention is, he'll joke it off. Rita was a girl we briefly met at a party and she was just a cute friendly girl. I will say that I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:20 PM
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No I cannot just end a great relationship because of this comment. I genuinely am having a hard time going about this which is why I asked.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:17 PM
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So what am I suppose to say exactly?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:01 PM
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No , I'm scared to say how to because I think, "oh maybe if I play cool he'll stop"
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 05:59 PM
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Can you give examples of asking for help?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 07:32 PM
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Same?
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 08:04 PM
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Have u tried vipassana meditation or got the app headspace? I can't even recognize who I was before and I was the most angriest and anxious person I knew
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 01:43 AM
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Please share examples
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 04:19 AM
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How does one radiate feminine energy
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 06:15 PM
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Haha thank you, I think 3 people answered so far the original question but I appreciate their answers regardless. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 05:30 PM
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He seems to be persistent on inviting me to his place so I already know what I am to him, regardless I'll tell him this. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 05:02 PM
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Yeah I guess. He seemed very nice otherwise. Can't go backwards with men so ill just leave it
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 04:46 PM
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I'm happy that it worked out that way for you. Hoping I have that soon 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 04:39 PM
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So me and him originally planned to meet up at a few different bars in his area, and 30 min before he got cold feet and didn't want his coworkers to see him( he was isolating for 10days for covid) and the cdc said u only need 7....so he pleaded to go to his place and I drove all the way there..
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 04:35 PM
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We have been FaceTiming for almost 2 weeks and saw each other for the first time. It lasted ~4 hours, so I did like him somewhat. I know I would explore options with men in the city i live in, if I ultimately decide to go which is 80% sure....
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 04:06 PM
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Yeah I think ill have to say I can only see him again after a month or so when I return, if anything
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 04:05 PM
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I am going to be in the other city for about a month to scope out areas, see how I like it, before I pull the trigger. But he is just in my original city and we both want a long term relationship (lol been only one date so maybe he lying) but it was just rare that someone actually wants that......my future plans as to where I'll be is a tad fuzzy for now.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 04:04 PM
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So im first visiting the city for about a month to see if I like it, then ill move if I really like it. So i have a very unclear trajectory where ill be in the next few months and I really want to get married soon
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 03:55 PM
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How did you all meet? I need ways of finding me someone im so burnt out.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 03:27 AM
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I need to be a good cook, send me tips prerelease:(
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/21 11:07 PM
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So happy I found this sub!!!
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 08:51 PM
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embrace the "bad" side of you. dont be ashamed. accept yourself and all the flaws.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:32 AM
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go to concerts alone, i do that all the time the girls there are way more chill and fun to talk with...clubs are shallow, but just go and first enjoy urself, the girls will come
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:27 AM
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