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facsis/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:02 PM
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I feel the same way! These older guys have sign of aging ( more body fat, thinning hair, etc) and still think they are the catch! After 35 both men and women have lower ability of conceiving a healthy child, so they act like they never learned about basic biology. It’s so crazy to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:47 PM
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Second this. I’m in my early 20s and has been trying to date men in their late 20s - early 30s because I’m fed up with younger guys wanting to date for fun. Nothing changes, most of these guys in their 30s still don’t want to get married. I honestly got sick of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:59 AM
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That’s amazing! Couple goal right there!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 03:01 AM
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Wow congratulations! Could I ask how old you two are?
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 02:06 AM
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When you realize Chastity and Marriage have always been the way…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:10 PM
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I don’t think I was missing out. Seeing many people without sex involved really helped me figure out who’s good and who’s not. That’s maturity. In fact, I think hoe phase keeps you stuck with the childish idea that you will stay young forever and everything is a game to you. It’s a total abdication of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:49 PM
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Like I said in the other reply, we get old. The people we know, doesn’t matter the quantity, will be old and pass away eventually. Forming new bond is not easy, especially when we got hurt. Also, forming many deep relationships is not easy. We have to survive and that consume a hefty sum of time that should be used to keep up with those relationships. And no matter how much you invested, people can just leave you. In this sense, marriage is like a contract that your partner won’t leave you no ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:44 PM
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I think when we get older, a lot of people we bonded with like friends and family members also get older and will eventually pass away. You can try and form a bond with people of younger ages, but it’s unlikely you will like them due to generations differences. About your grandma, I’m very sorry to hear about her situation. Maybe you will have an answer on what she should do to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:39 PM
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Men isn’t immune to being old and reaching the peak of their career either. It’s worse when you are old and lonely. Being married is like an insurance against that tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:32 PM
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As a woman who never got married nor kid, I wouldn’t. I don’t think I can love his children like my own. They will hate me for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:18 PM
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He’s biologically successful…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:45 AM
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Bars/ Club is probably your best bet, as many women go there for the same reason: sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:58 AM
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What I mean is one should also have substance, which conversation skills alone isn’t enough. At one point these topics for small talk will run dry, and that’s when the test really begins. Knowledge is something you need to spend a lot of time and effort to acquire, which I believe many level-up coaches neglected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:53 PM
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I think dressing up accordingly with wherever you are going, looking presentable, and having good manners are just the “must” for anyone, both men and women. However, that’s not enough to make you a high quality woman if the inside is empty. Imagine you can barely entertain someone with a decent conversation. Low chance a high quality man will keep you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:54 PM
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Yeah dude I know where you are coming from. Unfortunately I was born and raised in an Asian country, and my family is extremely traditional. If they caught their daughter wanting to be a hoe, the first thing they are going to do is to cut tie with her. And though I don’t really care what others say, I care about my daughter well-being and how she’s going to live after my wife and I die. She has so many other alternatives to live a happy and fulfilling life that actually last after she passed her…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:03 AM
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Have you and your kids ever have a dad? Because that’s what a dad should do: teach his kids on what is right and wrong and not coddle them with “unconditional love”. Yes, daddy worked hard to feed you and raise you to become a decent person. He loves you so much that he’s willing to give you 1m so you can start working on your higher education to get a decent career, or start a business, that can potentially sustain your life and your own kids. And when they are 18, daddy don’t have the responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:23 AM
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After all those money and time daddy and mommy spent to raise her to become a decent person, I would be very upset if prostitution is what she ended up with. It proves that I have failed horribly as a father on teaching her she will eventually get old fast and objectifying herself won’t be a choice to maintain her living. Any smart and successful man that she wants to leech on for the rest of her life would be smart enough not to put the ring on her finger. Just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:08 AM
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They got married and live peacefully together till now, which is very lucky of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:10 PM
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Not particularly lack of dad, he’s there, but lack of a strong father figure. He uses men around him as the figure to follow, with standards like money, fame, girls, sex, etc, which contributes to his lack of confidence when he couldn’t get those.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:58 PM
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No. His dad is a construction worker and a fun time dad. He didn’t pay child support, though he supported some of the minimum needs. His mom is a social worker. Both have no assets. He suffered a lot of pain from the lack of presence of his dad in his life, so he wants to be there for his kids instead. I’m not sure which pill I take, or if I take any pills at all. You can take one pill, take all pills, or take none. You create your way of living, not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:29 PM
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I think the question now should be who take the responsibility when a woman is pregnant, the man or the woman? It takes two to tango you know. What do you think is the appropriate answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:15 PM
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I chose working in a more technical role for the reason of having more time with my kids in the future. In fact, I haven’t been to work for a while because of covid. But if we are busy, I will just ask his mother to take care of the kids. We all don’t like daycare though, and she insisted on taking care of the kids when we have one, so it should work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:12 PM
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We talked about marriage, though he wants to pass the bar first. He’s already working so it won’t take long for him to become a partner. Money will be more stable at that point and we can get married and have kids. 2020 is a bitch and we went through a lot of changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:04 PM
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It’s very hard to judge our smv though. We both have the perks, for example I’m way far away from the wall with some look and he has look and money. I’m working on my CFA and looking towards being a data scientist, and he’s working in the legal industry, going to become a lawyer. I trade when I’m bored lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:59 PM
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I agree that the divorce system is ducked up. Though being bitter or hateful isn’t a good long term state either. Eventually men should learn to be indifferent towards women. If you knocked some woman up, it comes with responsibility. Think well before dating someone, let alone getting married to them. Not getting into it will guarantee no bad outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:48 PM
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We both disagree with a lot of modern feminist ideas, though we are in between of liberal and conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:41 PM
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That’s good for you, unfortunately that’s not the case with my bf though. Hope you are always in a happy, fulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:38 PM
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I think many people refuse to look at the true cause of their problems because their emotions tell them to. It’s not something I focus on all the time in the relationship, just a problem to be solved once and for all. I know it’s a weird approach, but it definitely worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:19 PM
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For once, he is smart and he has good judgement of himself. He also realized a lot of these redpill men are angry and not actually solving their issues. I recommended huMAN because both of us believe he has the best approach till now in the redpill community. He has been treating me well and still treat me well, but I definitely see some improvement in his confidence, now he understands some more about the nature of men and women. I am there to make sure he’s not sucked into the blackpill and en…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:16 PM
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Could you explain about TRP and men, and what I’m not understanding? My idea of TRP is mostly based on these YouTubers, which can be very biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:08 PM
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I agree with that. I was only reflecting the more negative side of guys believing PUA will help them get into any girls’ pants, and get frustrated when it’s not turning out well. And that can further increase anxiety and anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:06 PM
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No it’s not an open relationship. I just realized he felt insecure of everything about himself because of the rejection from women in the past, which affects his performance with what he is doing in his life. I think helping him solving that is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:04 PM
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I think it’s a good tester. If he dumps me because some other guys told him to, he shouldn’t be in my life in the first place, and I was a dumb duck for letting him in. Other than that, redpill is good when used with skepticism. It requires lots of trust to tell him of course. We are still together now, and the biggest change I saw is he’s more concerned with his business and less concerned with others’ validation , which is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:01 PM
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I think that’s proven my point well. Redpill is more than just being single through hatred. It’s about improving yourself and find what is valuable for you. Many men realize being single is something they want, but most came to redpill because they want a relationship but were rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:57 PM
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I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:55 PM
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I actually stared sending him a few videos of Coach Red Pill, George Brunos, and eventually huMAN. He was surprised at first on how I know about these redpill thing ( and he doesn’t). He has always had problems being rejected by women and is always insecure about himself because of it. He’s a very smart and hardworking man working in the law field, his look is at least 7 in my opinion, and he got angry when he sees other ‘losers’ got all the girls around them and he doesn’t. Redpill definitely i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:17 PM
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From a woman’s perspective, I think he has good point in working hard and invest on yourself first. He does have a few videos for women too, though some of his ideas are kinda like Boomer’s logic etc old, a bit inapplicable. In general, I think his advices are good, better than many redpill channel that only pour hatred on women and do nothing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:36 PM
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