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fadeawaybro/r/seduction18/02/17 09:47 PM
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Red Pill Theoryfadeawaybro/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 05:15 PM
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Generalizing about a state is retarded. Find a place to settle down and make do.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 03:10 AM
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No, generalizing about almost a hundred million people is retarded. Get some fucking confidence.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 03:08 AM
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If it is, ok, doesn't matter. If it isn't, ok, doesn't matter. Nothing you can do about it.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:52 AM
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First of all, social media is not necessary. But it can be a big boost. If you have it, don't get sucked into the world of self-validation and comparing yourself to others. And race? What the fuck are you going to do? It's a fact of life and you can't do shit about it. Talking about race is an excuse for low self-esteem and confidence.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:51 AM
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Stare at yourself in the mirror in your eyes for 10 minutes. Smile. Do it.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 05:29 AM
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You should be the one in control of the interaction with that first girl. Control the situation and make it more exciting so she won't even leave herself.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 05:27 AM
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Yeah in France white men are the LOWEST of the low.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 07:34 PM
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Get of your head and be in the moment. Stop "trying" to be witty. It'll come naturally.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 07:33 PM
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Don't go "monk mode." You don't need to completely seal yourself off by lifting and reading - unless you have some deep internal problems like low self-esteem or feelings of inferiority. Doesn't seem like you do. But do try to focus on yourself and make everything more natural. Do you feel like you're putting on a fake "player" persona or having exaggerated confidence? Let it all come naturally. You're a man. She's a woman. You're meant for each other.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 05:19 PM
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LTR - Long Term Relationship (self explanatory) AWALT - All Women Are Like That (Belief that most women deep down share the same urges and desires.) PUA - Pick Up Artist (Men who specifically go around using seduction techniques to pick up girls.) Oneitis - Focusing all of your time and energy on one girl in your mind. The idea that nobody is as special as her.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 02:30 PM
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Unfortunately I have a year before college.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 02:27 PM
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That's fair, but you must understand that there are unique cases, especially in Asian culture. Are they right to prevent me from socializing? Are they right to tell me not to be confident? Are they right to tell me to stop "faking" everything? Are they right to keep me confined at home? Are they right to tell me to stop talking to girls? I'm not rebelling in the sense of drugs and getting hella drunk but just simple human necessity.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 02:22 PM
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You sound like someone who makes completely false assumptions of strangers on the Internet.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 01:56 PM
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I made a post just now in askTRP but I might as well ask here too: I'll keep it short. I'm 17 and my family is Asian. No surprise there. My whole family is against anything social. Every person in my family is extremely socially awkward and they have no social intelligence whatsoever. They don't know how to interact with others, and especially they're against anything with the opposite sex. My parents were the definition of beta to the extreme. They keep trying to press their family and moral va…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 01:18 PM
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What are your thoughts on this study that 43% of single women agreed to date on a "cold approach"? Read this article that discusses the study before. http://attractiondoctor.com/date-and-dating-advice/how-to-approach-and-chat/how-do-you-find-a-date-or-sexual-partner-just-ask/
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 04:05 PM
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I don't do improv, but one thing I can for sure tell you is a man with a quick wit and humor is infinitely attractive.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:55 PM
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No, you should get foot implants to make yourself taller. But actually, 5' 7 isn't short for any ethnicity. Even if it's specifically within your own ethnicity, it still doesn't matter. Height is an excuse people use to not improve.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:43 PM
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Thanks, I've read that body weight exercises such as crunches and push-ups are bad for you and they don't exercise all the muscles. Is this true? Also, I've been drinking a ton of water. I drink mike too but recently I've drank more water instead. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP26/06/17 10:13 PM
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Thanks for the simplification, looks like I'm good for 1 and 3. I'll try to get heavier dumbbells soon for fewer reps.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:20 PM
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Well I actually cannot because of my schedule currently but I am honestly a bit nervous about going since I have no idea what equipment to use, how to use it, when, and how long.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:19 PM
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Keep in mind I'm skinny as a toothpick and weak as fuck. I'll plan on joining a gym soon but I can't right now... I guess I'll stick with 10 and get to 20, 25 soon?
/r/askTRP26/06/17 06:02 PM
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I think that's exactly it, it's the way she talks so i guess i'll just go cold shoulder
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:13 AM
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Just go out with the intention to get to know them. It's natural to feel nervous, but next time try this: When you feel nervous, tell yourself you're excited. Turn that nervous feeling into one of excitement. The mind can go a long way.
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:51 AM
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It's never too late man. Grind!
/r/seduction09/03/17 10:58 PM
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sounds great man! fuck it
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:55 AM
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Bro, you literally say the same thing on every post. If they say no, you keep asking. And if they say yes, you're still not going to be satisfied. What exactly are you looking for?
/r/seduction01/03/17 08:11 AM
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If it's 99% of people, it's you. Don't stop caring - how do you usually act? Are you sociable? Positive?
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:09 AM
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All those things you mentioned in the first paragraph are great ideas! In fact, if you accomplish most of those things are great for attraction and confidence. Unfortunately, working on career stability and social circles come hand in hand. Without a solid job or consistent work, it's going to be hard to become friends with many people. Did you have an education? Career stability is NEVER out for good. Things always change and most of these changes are caused by yourself. You need to start now o…
/r/seduction20/02/17 06:46 AM
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Pardon me, but I explicitly stated that you can work on "loving oneself" by working on things that will help you.
/r/seduction20/02/17 06:15 AM
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If you're not "willing" to "eat more" then you're just relegating yourself to the same depressed, self-doubting mindset. Why is it "physically uncomfortable"? Also, being thin isn't even that bad at all. Like I said, sure, it's usually not going to help your case, but there are so many other aspects of a man, especially to a woman, that would make him attractive. And don't give me that BS about how you're the most unattractive vile-looking creature on the face of this Earth.
/r/seduction20/02/17 05:30 AM
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If you're recognizing the lack of quality in your life, do something about that.
/r/seduction20/02/17 05:24 AM
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You're the problem here. I've been looking at some of your posts, and all of them are completely negative. You keep shaming yourself and saying you're completely unattractive to any girls. You complain, complain, and complain some more without taking action. Stop now. Do you want to live the rest of your life like this?
/r/seduction20/02/17 05:22 AM
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Skinny guys do not get buff? That's like saying bad soccer players can't get good at soccer. It's based on your own healthy lifestyle, and it might be a little harder for some based off genetics but anybody can do it with enough work.
/r/seduction20/02/17 05:20 AM
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You nailed it brotha. Exactly. Let them become the most interesting thing in the world, and you want to find out everything you can about them. Preach.
/r/seduction19/02/17 07:29 AM
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You're right, you have absolutely no chance if you continue with this depressed, self-deprecating torture. So why not change it? Do you have a job? Close friends? Force yourself to interact and you'll eventually become comfortable. The reason you probably hate socializing is because you're constantly shaming yourself and thinking that everyone else is too. You can't even fathom what it's like to love yourself. Self-esteem obviously isn't the end-all-be-all, but it's the river that feeds every ot…
/r/seduction19/02/17 06:34 AM
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Realize that extremely few women will reject someone solely based on their skinniness. Yes, they will judge you, and it's inevitable, it's just a fact of life (there are some things we just have to accept). I know exactly where you're coming from, and like I said, you need to eliminate all the sources of negative energy in your life. All you need to do is eat more (a lot more) and get some easily portable equipment (dumbbells etc.). Use this inner doubt and anger to fuel your motivation to do th…
/r/seduction19/02/17 05:57 AM
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You need to be able to see it! When you realize that women have sexual desires just as great as men do, everything becomes easier. Obviously, you have to be careful with your approach but your "flirting" should not make them too uncomfortable (you always need some, that's what creates uncertainty). Women will usually like you only as a friend unless you make her aware that there's more to you. Show you're interested!
/r/seduction19/02/17 03:29 AM
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I know exactly what you mean - overanalyzing your behavior and getting stuck in your head. You're thinking about every possible scenario and trying to solve everything intellectually rather than emotionally. You're getting way to caught up in this mindset. I totally understand where you're coming from. This is just another side effect of hating yourself. When you dislike yourself, you inevitably blame all perceived "failures" on yourself, only yourself. Everything that seemingly goes wrong is be…
/r/seduction18/02/17 10:47 PM
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I can't give you a free PDF, but what I can tell you is that you should read Models very, very slowly. Understand everything and absorb it. Otherwise, you'll find that you finished it and truly got nothing out of it.
/r/seduction18/02/17 09:28 PM
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Thanks man, I constantly find myself with the same mindset. All I need to change is that mindset and things begin to click from there. Of course, reading and gaining experience is also very helpful for this cause. I'm reading "Models" by Mark Manson currently since I've heard a ton about it, and a lot of stuff in there hits home. I definitely am being overly eager in trying to change, and I'll keep that in mind. It's all in the mindset, cause that's exactly what dictates your thoughts and action…
/r/seduction15/02/17 08:40 PM
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When I say "change" my personality, I don't mean a complete overhaul. Just some major fine tuning, and when I've become the person I want to be I'll be comfortable with it (not pretending). Thanks!
/r/seduction15/02/17 12:10 AM
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Definitely, I'm more saying that I'll be fully comfortable with my new personality in a week, and I'll take to smooth it out - also planning on doing those, you're so right about that, they do go a long way!
/r/seduction14/02/17 07:13 AM
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Yup, I'm asian in a mostly white community (5-7% asian). And I do have many connections with others, but everyone mentally places asians into the "nerd" category.
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:40 PM
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The reason "we" think "differently" is simply because the world we grow up in is so different from the old one. Society today has less clear direction. I'm the old days it was simpler and straightforward.
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