failly1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	[FR] First date ever	failly1	/r/seduction	25/04/16 07:46 PM
5	Need advice about conversation skills	failly1	/r/seduction	17/12/15 06:27 PM
1	Have a question about the right technique to asking out	failly1	/r/seduction	10/11/15 03:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Will setting boundaries on such thing make you needy and insecure? Thank you so much for making it clear. I will not mention guys, but will share my feelings with her if the moment arises and I keep having this feeling. Thank you again.	/r/seduction	10/10/16 04:21 PM
–	Will setting boundaries on such thing make you needy and insecure? Thanks for trying to help, even after closing this thread. What about just telling her that these guys want her and she needs to be alert, without putting something upon her or directing her decision, behaviour? The thing is, I get so many mixed advice. Some users here and on relationship_advice say that I need to talk about these guys with her, and some say that will drive her further away... Thanks again.	/r/seduction	10/10/16 02:08 PM
–	Will setting boundaries on such thing make you needy and insecure? Thank you for your comment, I appreciate it. Whenever the moment comes up with my girlfriend when we talk about this guys, shall I tell her that this guy is clearly wanting to be with her, just like you said?	/r/seduction	10/10/16 01:44 PM
–	Will setting boundaries on such thing make you needy and insecure? Thanks for your comment, I really appreciate it. I assume if something goes wrong between you and your girlfriend he will be next in line or not. He could be a friend. Have you asked your girlfriend what she thinks of him. How can I ask her something like that? It's like saying "If you break up with me are you going to start a relationship with this guy?". Isn't that very weird? I think you should see if she is thinking about breaking up with you. The thing is, I get mixed signals from this. Sin…	/r/seduction	10/10/16 01:20 PM
19	Has disappearing ever worked for you guys? I tried it once, and it worked. "I don't want to be the only one investing, so I decided to disappear." , good job having such a mindset.	/r/seduction	12/01/16 03:12 PM
1	Have a question about the right technique to asking out Great, thanks for your advice! I have one question left. I have texted alot with this girl, for days. I now have stopped texted her for a few days, so we have something to talk about, since I already know alot. However, should I just text her directly: "I will be at this place friday night. Let's grab a drink." or should I start the chat as usual? ""Hi, how are you etc." And then ask? Sorry if this is a noob question, it's the first time asking out a girl.	/r/seduction	10/11/15 05:32 PM
1	Have a question about the right technique to asking out What if she gives a valid reason, but doesn't offer another day. Can I say 'Ok no worries, let me know when you have time.", so I won't have to ask her again and get less value. Or is that needy?	/r/seduction	10/11/15 04:38 PM