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Honestly, I’m not even a man, but I would not date someone that worked in the sex industry. To me, sex and intimacy go hand-in-hand so it’s a very private thing I would want to enjoy with my partner, male or female. I don’t have anything against sex workers though as long as they are safe and not advertising their lifestyle to underage teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:46 AM
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You’ve got to meet women in person. You can’t online date as an average male. Even as a woman, it’s not easy but easier than it is for an average male for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:16 PM
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Women aren’t the only ones who suffer from absent parents. It’s probably what you just have the most experience with being male. Men can also have mommy and daddy issues as well it just takes a different form in men than in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:49 PM
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I mean, this is online dating. I don’t know if it’s an accurate representation of the world or humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:22 PM
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Lol, who knows maybe you do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:34 PM
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God, I cannot stand casual sex unless it’s gay. It’s just not worth the risk of conceiving a child with a stranger. I would value any child if I became pregnant, so though I’m not against others getting abortions, I would never do that myself. I act accordingly because of that. I mean it’s just not yourself you have to think about but your, possible, future children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:58 PM
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“Never sleep with a woman you wouldn’t want to have a child with” should also be a thing for males. If you put your dick in a woman and she gets pregnant, you have no reproductive rights over her pregnancy whether or not she gets an abortion. I’ve heard of men punching the woman in the stomach so they lose the child because the woman decided to keep the child. So that casual sex partner you thought you’d be sleeping with for two weeks can turn into a child support payment taking a majority of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:36 PM
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I got an average, nerdy dude from a stock photo and went on match.com. He was maybe like 4-6/10 depending on what you find attractive. I vaguely filled out the profile to be what I would consider typical male responses. Liking sports, beer, etc. He was on there for 6 months and got 4 likes. 3/4 of those likes were from overweight single moms. It’s an interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:58 PM
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I did that once as an average looking white dude and didn’t get any matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:19 PM
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What is your issue? It’s my standards what does that have to do with yourself exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:50 PM
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Bro what. Ive invited men out and paid before. You have some issues dude. I’m bi and would also expect the same from the woman if she were romantically interested in me. I think it’s rude to invite someone out romantically and not pay for them so it’s whoever initiates first. Men tend to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:40 PM
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What are you talking about? I either want a traditional relationship or I want a split sharing of house duties if I have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:30 PM
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Nope. If someone invited you out, they should pay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:29 PM
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I was simply referring to the language of toxicity of feminism in the headship of males. I totally agree with you. If you see some of my other, already downvoted, comments I feel the same way. Part of the reason I refuse to have children with someone who refuses to do his share domestic labor or doesn’t want to have a more traditional relationship with myself. I think both genders take what benefits them from a traditional relationship without doing their part that comes with it. So you either c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:18 PM
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Better yet, do all of it at once because it’s hard for the average family to support a middle class and upper middle class income without two parents working.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:54 PM
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What I got from his post is that men are no longer in charge in the relationship/family as they would be traditionally. Basically saying that women want men who are traditional when it benefits them, but don’t want the traditional relationship that comes with it which would be a man being the head of the family which feminism would view as toxic. But, men are not head of families now because they are not the sole breadwinner. We are far from traditional. The best we can do is try to find someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:51 PM
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And this is why I refuse to have kids with someone who isn’t willing to do half the domestic labor or is wealthy enough to let me stay home with kids. That shit is exhausting. I was lucky to be born into a family where the father does his share of the labor, so it can be done, but I feel it’s not the norm. Most people are unwilling to give up the traditional parts of a relationship that benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:42 PM
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As a woman, I think about what kind of man I would want long-term both in ideal situations and realistic ones. For example, if I want children, I would most likely be off work for at least a few months - 1 year per child. That’s 2-3 years of my life not working. So, ideally, I would want someone that would be making the same amount of money as me (not being the breadwinner) to support our lifestyle during that given time. It would put a lot of stress on me (the woman) to both be the primary care…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:42 PM
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I don’t have sex with anyone I wouldn’t want to have kids with. The majority of relationships I’ve been in have been leading to sex but I’m just not willing to sleep with someone who has no indication they want to be there for the future. So idk how I would fit into the enthusiastic sex piece when I’m vetting the man for his qualities as a long term partner before sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:30 PM
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I’m against an excessive amount of porn because of the relationships I’ve been in. It’s not only devalued myself but the relationship. I’ve been with men who have asked me to want to play out some sexual fantasy they have from porn without having sex with just me. Before they even have sex with me, they’re already trying to fit me into whatever porn star they’ve become addicted to. It makes me feel less than human and like I’m just a meat sack for them to ejaculate their porn fantasies into.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:15 PM
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Damn what women have you been talking with? I would be happy just to receive flowers 😂 The only expectation I have is a man to pay if he invites me out on a date and that’s only the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:23 PM
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And the opposite of this would be porn. Romance novels are fake. I know they are. I’m not looking for Prince Charming. I’m looking for a millennial version of the way my father treats my mother. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:53 PM
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I go with both redpillwomen and femaledatingstrategy being somewhere in the middle. From my opinion, a high value man is one like my father to my mother. Kind, attentive, romantic, emotionally available, masculine, educated, and supportive of their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:25 AM
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From what I’ve seen, Be kind Feminine Attractive Nurturing/caring Make an effort That’s all I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:17 AM
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🤔 I wouldn’t mind a man liking inexperience, whatever it’s what they’re into, but voicing it in the first couple of messages is not HVM IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 11:51 PM
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From my own personal experience, the men have not cared about my education as long as it met a certain requirement. For example, I was dating a doctor. He did not want to date someone who didn’t have at least a bachelors degree. It has been more of a plus to have intellectual conversations, but not a deal-breaker if I also don’t obtain the same education or money as him. Pretty much all the guys I’ve dated have wanted someone nice, nurturing, feminine, and attractive. The more high-value they ar…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 11:39 PM
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Yeah I work in finance. It’s pretty lucrative, but not unheard of to make a lot, but you do stagnate after awhile. I wonder how much money it would take for a young woman, let’s say 21 year old to date someone in their 40s. Ruling out the minority of course that do like older men. For example, I don’t know if I would date someone that old unless they made at least a million to a few million dollars annually just because the age gap is not worth it. I can’t imagine a young, hot 21 year old ~serio…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 11:03 PM
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Wait? A rich man is one who makes 6 figures? Isn’t that average? I wouldn’t consider someone making $100,000 to be rich. Even I make almost $100k at 27.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 09:29 PM
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It’s not personal experience or opinion. It’s based on marriage statistics from the US. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships#Statistics Women want someone who has better social standing to them, yes, but it’s within their age range. You can even see this. Anything above 10 years older is a very small minority. A 25 year old woman and 35 year old man would be about 5% likelihood of marriage. Whereas a man 2 years younger or man 9 years older would be vast majority…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 08:58 PM
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What science? I’m not attracted to 35 year olds as a 27 year old. Even 33 is too old. Do you think this would have something to do with who has the most advantage in dating market rather than “prime” ages? Thus, it would reason that 26 - 34 would be an equal market for both sexes (and I think you can see this as this is usually the ages where a majority get married or in a serious LTR leading towards marriage). I would think men between the ages of 35-38 would be more likely to be divorced looki…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 08:11 PM
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This is a red flag IMO. I say that because if someone can’t take care of themselves, especially with hygiene, it often bleeds into other areas of their life too. If he is grateful to be living under his parents roof, he should at least be cleaning up after himself if not for his parents too. I was talking with a dude like this. He was 28, still lived in his parents house. His parents are pretty well off so I couldn’t understand why they wouldn’t just hire someone to clean. Anyway, I didn’t even …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 02:24 PM
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