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| 1 | I'm [24F] potentially having intimacy issues with my [29M] boyfriend.This is the Sunk Costs Fallacy. As in, “I’ve got so much invested in it; if I stop now I’ll waste all that.” Classic example is people who overeat because they bought the food and “don’t want to waste it.” It can be difficult to let go of something that you’ve invested in, but the simple fact of having invested in something is not sufficient reason to continue investing in it once it becomes obvious that those investments are wasted. You’re right: Dating is difficult; building relationships is d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/20 02:19 PM |
| 6 | I'm [24F] potentially having intimacy issues with my [29M] boyfriend.You’re young and there are many wonderful men out there. He’s young and there are many other wonderful women. This does not sound like a relationship to fight for. Let it go; it’s not working, and that’s okay. Sexual incompatibility is notoriously difficult to fix because it depends so much on things we can’t control. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/20 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be boringCSLewis writes: “No man who bothers about originality will ever be original: whereas if you simply try to tell the truth (without caring twopence how often it has been told before) you will, nine times out of ten, become original without ever having noticed it.” I think the same holds true for being boring. Be interested in something. Care passionately about something. Let it show, when appropriate. Tell the truth with humility. Then, the people who find that boring would likely bore you, so don… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Always blaming myself. Always nervous that he’s mad at me.This may not be applicable to you, but I have found that many people with this problem have an assumption or background voice that says something like, “I don’t want him to feel bad. I want to make it good for him. I love him and I want to show him. I don’t want him to misunderstand...” etc. Sometimes it can help to voice to yourself, “I love that I can depend on him to handle his own emotions. I honor him by giving him space to feel whatever he feels. He is in control of his own feelings. The f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | How to do feminine makeup without going overboard?Always work in a well lit room with a good mirror. Natural light is best. Practice a lot so you can get a feel for what works with your skin. 1) Concealer. If your skin is light, look for ones labeled Fair and then compare against the skin of your inner wrist. You want to err on the side of being lighter rather than darker. Apply with pinky finger or small brush to any place your skin tone is uneven—red places, under eye circles, etc. Pat gently and blend well to avoid splotches. 2) Powder. “Loo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Any advice to get out of this toxic mindset? Competing with FMILThe way I see it, you ARE are helping her (specifically, and the whole family in general) when you help meet her psychological needs by accepting her assistance. If you value helping others, then the manner in which you help will necessarily broaden as your family expands. You do it for children all the time--let them stir the batter and then thank them for helping you make cookies because you understand how important it is for a child to feel helpful. We don't outgrow that need. It is just as i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/14 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Another virgin question (cute vs sexy)Rather than tweaking things in order to attract a particular type of man, consider tweaking in light of how your current vibe accurately expresses your inner self. I mean, do you choose your clothes because you love them and love yourself in them, or because they were on sale, or because they suit your work environment, or because you bought them once upon a time and they haven't worn out yet, or some other reason? I suggest this because the man you really want is the one who wants the real you-… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/14 03:23 AM |
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