fajandi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Reminder to my fellow man. Wow if I only hear this when I was divorcing my first wife, my life could be much better. Kudos you OP!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/23 01:44 PM
2	It's been over 2 years... Don't worry bro, sooner or later (I hope sooner) you will get what you want. It's a matter of waiting right? While you're into the waiting, a single malt whiskey is a good companion. Drink wisely my friend.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/22 07:20 PM
1	Divorcing my wife after 31 years of marriage and over 40 years of knowing each other. Am I making a huge mistake? Had same experience with you. Me and wife are both 61 years old high school sweethearts. There will definitely ups and downs in marriage. Better go to individual and marriage counseling. Open up to her. Communicate. Listen! I believe your marriage will survive and go strong.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/22 02:01 AM
5	Sometimes You Have To Be The Bigger Man Proud of you bro.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/22 03:38 AM
8	In for a fight, does it sound like I have a chance? My ex wife accused me of physically abusive to her and my children. It was a good thing my children debunked her claims as to me being to them and her. OP be aware that she is not the woman you married before. She is the devil's advocate and wants to ruin your life. She's a narcissist and have no compassion and empathy. I believe she's cheating that's why she's checking out on your marriage. You have an advantage here financially. She has to pay you alimony when you contested the divorce. Don't …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/22 06:13 PM
4	still don't know if i did the right thing. I'm sorry that you're undergoing through all of this. I'm usually the person who will advice for R but in your case, there's a big doubt. Do you want to stay in a marriage that doesn't make you happy and nourish your potential? Do you want to stay in a marriage with your wife's cheating, lying and manipulation? I believe your answer is a big no. Please don't be a doormat and a back up plan. You deserve to be happy and free from this kind of abuse. Wishing you the very best.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/22 02:42 PM
3	my wife left me for a 22 yr old from Finland You won the lottery! Now it's time to focus on yourself - go to the gym, reunite with old friends and meet some new friends. Get a hobby. Go out and have fun. Date date date or just enjoy somebody's company. Be happy!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/22 04:51 AM
2	I asked a question I know what you mean. I divorce my ex wife due to the same reason. Good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/22 12:14 AM
3	I asked a question I believe your relationship with your wife can be save by good communication, IC and MC. There is a time in marriage especially having children that there's a fog or what I called "the dark night" of the relationship where in married couples go into a slump. I'm married for 30 years and through those years, there's a lot of downs especially when children are involved. Sometimes I FEEL there's no more love between us. I emphasized feel because emotions change and are fleeting. In marriage, there …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 05:59 PM
2	AP is a douche canoe Same goes with my ex wife. Suddenly her choices were illogical and runs contrary in every sense.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/22 12:42 AM