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As an introverted woman, my experience has been the exact opposite. Unless having particular lifestyle preferences include not planning every minute of my free time. Meanwhile, several men I’ve dated were the type to have each day of a vacation figured out and Iiked planning all the things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:50 PM
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Speaker Johnson already said what he’d do, which is the typical knee-jerk conservative reaction to anything requiring a solution—instead of using brain cells to come up with an actual sustainable solution, they just intend to take away people’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:15 PM
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Same here—I grew up playing with all that and also playing sports. Because we (guys and girls) all hung out based on what we wanted to play and enjoyed playing. Things we were interested in. Ended up having different friend groups in high school (a private school) based on interests and clubs, not shared experiences (that are nothing more than conversations apparently? haha). Sure there was a small handful (guys and girls) who focused on looks, but that was just one small clique in a sea of othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:02 PM
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No. But I’m sure there are people who would feel better if it was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:21 AM
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Yes, they’re speculating about many of the reasons for the drop off—because it’s something that’s actually happening and everyone has an opinion, and like I said before it’s only part of the reason for the decrease in users. Originally you want to try to call me a liar and say it’s not true, now you want to harp on the word “speculating”? I get you’re thirsty for attention but you really need to brush up on your trolling skills and if you want to be a better advocate for your “cause” get some be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:26 PM
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I literally just typed into Google and got an article as recent as two weeks ago. It’s very simple to go further from there and look into additional research. Try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:41 PM
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Right—you’re a big kid and have thumbs? Try Google. Takes even less effort than you trying to get people to do your work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:37 PM
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ALL users are down. There are articles speculating the reasons why. One was as recent as a month or two ago. While social media is NOT an arena for actual dating (getting hit on isn’t equated to an LTR or even a relationship of any kind), it doesn’t fare much better. Aside from decreasing popularity and cleaning of fake accounts lowering number of users, you also have the growing mental health issue currently being researched, EU regulations, and the new charges/investigation brought against Met…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:35 PM
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It’s literally reported on constantly at this rate. Usage and users are way down in part because of it. I don’t know why you’re so ill informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:10 PM
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Yeah it’s kind of funny how it’s widely known that online dating apps are set up to intentionally scam people out of money (not set people up in LTRs), yet they’re still used as some sort of source material for these kinds of debates…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:33 AM
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(See last sentence of OP’s post—he asked if we agreed or not, not to disagree with him.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:08 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:40 PM
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You actually aren’t being fair at all and the fact that you think you are is entirely part of the problem. You can try to bait me with the stupid generalization height bs, but I’m 5’4”, a ton of guys are “taller” than me. Keep projecting though and proving exactly how not “fair”you actually are. 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:32 PM
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Right. Clearly you have no clue what mutable or immutable mean. But wow, so valiant of you for not punishing women for their “fake tits”. Please. Keep fishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:26 PM
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Ah so because women cover up their immutable (not “unmutable”) looks, that somehow makes their looks overall mutable. Right, that’s not how it works. If men too weren’t interested in immutable looks, women wouldn’t spend time and money trying to fool men into thinking that’s how they naturally look. Women wouldn’t have to do that if guys were actually interested in “just” looks. But continue feeling sorry for yourself and viewing women as the enemy to your hypocritical stances. I’m sure it’s wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:25 PM
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It is when men think they can be hypocritical about it, which is most, yet they complain when women want the same thing because it’s not fair. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:36 AM
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Yeah, men’s attention is cheap, but maybe it’s all about where you live. My sister in law is over 300 without crooked teeth and no one gives her a second glance. I guess it’s the extra pounds and messed up teeth that she’s missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:21 AM
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“Overweight” to them has NOTHING to do with an actually healthy BMI and everything to do with unrealistic standards created by the filters they see online because they think it’s real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:19 AM
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It’s my favorite. They want women to be a very certain and specific way and then bitch if women are that very certain and specific way. They’re literally their own biggest problem, but are too dense to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:17 AM
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“The only requirement”. Right. And to guys, “overweight” in women is anything above a size 2, whether it’s healthy or not. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:14 AM
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Honesty is demanded, but you’re a bitch for being honest. 😂 They’re victims in this cruel world, and it’s everyone else’s (women’s) fault always, and they don’t stop telling you. Ironic how that is part of their problem, but they’re too dumb to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:55 PM
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Men in general aren’t “predators of women and children”… what in your life happened that has caused you to think that way? And giving credence to an unhealthy ideology that doesn’t represent at all the majority of men is actually more harmful than what they spew because you’re perpetuating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:00 PM
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The male version of extreme feminism is TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:55 PM
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Can we add to that posting only photos that have been heavily edited? Creates false standards for other women (and men truthfully).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:55 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:21 PM
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You’d be surprised how people change once you’ve been properly baited. Or maybe not considering how common it’s becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:05 PM
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There’s no “blue pill guide” because most people deemed “blue pilled” see no need to give credence to a bs theory by coming up with a guide to counter it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:23 AM
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I agree with you on the other three, but that one isn’t even a compliment either—it’s disingenuous and condescending as hell. And as someone who receives these “compliments” often, men that say this stuff in the real world know exactly what they’re doing and what it means. They know they aren’t compliments and don’t mean them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:34 PM
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Haha ah. So all partnered men claim head of household. Still wrong on that one too, but no use trying to convince you. Best of luck in your loneliness 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:03 PM
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Ok buddy 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:01 PM
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Umm my ex isn’t married but is head of his household? So only married men are head of household? EDIT: Google. There were several that popped up before your older article.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:53 PM
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Bro—scroll up and read what I took fault in. You keep going off on side tangents to try to be right about something. I don’t get why men who claim to know so much about women have such a hard time in dating tbh. It’s probably because they don’t have a clue. And yes, the pessimistic, woe-is-me comparison mentality between two completely different sexes is very toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:53 PM
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Right—CNCB released an article in 2022, sharing a study in 2021, that female head of households earned $0.55 for every dollar vs a male head of household. And they expect the gap to continue widening. So yeah… power intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:49 PM
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“…they are less sexless, its also why they have more relationship experience” That’s what I’m asking how do you know about. Again, you’re relying on small numbers and skewing data. Still. You’re so laser-focused on these small percentages that don’t speak to/refuse to acknowledge the majority (70-75%) of men and women because it doesn’t fit these self-pitying toxic views. Saying things are “facts” is a gross mischaracterization because it only applies to a minority (who want people to believe it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:40 PM
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Oh I wasn’t aware we were being exclusive to developed countries… haha. And being educated if it means college degrees, what about trade schools and the like? I fail to see why education even matters if men still earn more. Seems that economic “power” is still intact. Kind of points to a woman’s need to be educated is to keep from faking behind vs a man’s lack of intellect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:32 PM
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How do you know? You’re literally taking a small percent from an article you read as the basis for your generalizations. And yes, saying “in general” is very much applying it to the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:24 PM
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Haha right 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:21 PM
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Ah, so your data is sourced primarily from your social circles and you’re applying that to all women despite your data containing a small sample. Makes sense. EDIT: You fail to point out that the overwhelming majority of both men and women in that study from 2 years ago don’t identify as being lonely. So it’s best not to skew the data to fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:18 PM
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Men are still grossly more educated than women, just more women now are educated than before. So your data seems a bit off. Regardless, what does that have to do with their inability/ability to stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:15 PM
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First off, I’d strongly consider against using PT as any kind of source material—it’s not remotely scientific or peer reviewed and is known for publishing quack opinions. Second, your other source used numbers taken 4 mos into the pandemic. Over 2 years ago. Still, it doesn’t show huge margins in loneliness, just that men feel lonelier by a small percentage. Your generalizations weren’t in relation to these articles—“some choose to be single mothers which is why they freeze their eggs”, “…they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:06 PM
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Wow, what kind of circles do you run in to know men who are actually successful at pulling off multiple monogamous relationships “from the perspective of the woman”?? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:42 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:33 PM
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I’d love to know what your actual source material is with respect to your generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:32 PM
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Please tell me more about what I’m supposed to be attracted to as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:39 AM
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Yes—thank you! You’re so right. I love how these guys seem to know so much about women, making gross (and not even remotely scientific) generalizations to prove their pathetic points even though they aren’t based in reality. You’d think that if they knew so much and knew the truth, they could use it to their benefit… (And the comment made to you about the “psychic damage of being unwanted” is such a common manipulation tactic predominantly rooted in this self-induced pity party and obsessive del…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:33 PM
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Nothing will help you in the near future. Realistically.
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:10 PM
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As said it doesn’t have to be a drawn out process as long as you don’t treat it that way. 👀
/r/seduction22/10/22 05:01 PM
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Therapy doesn’t have to be a long drawn out process if you show up and do the work (and get real with yourself) instead of treating it as a way to get girls so you can lose your virginity. You might actually like it. And no. Your attitude isn’t so hot either. If you just want to get your dick wet and don’t care about the attraction part (which doesn’t sound like a deal breaker for you), just go on Tapdat, Wild, CasualX, Down or any other strictly hookup/one-night-stand app.
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:55 PM
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Therapy. For the millionth time. And being desperate isn’t the same as being needy; you’re clearly desperate. While both are toxic, desperation is rooted in unrealistic expectations. Which again, is something therapy can help you with. And yeah, it might mean you have to stop approaching women, but how’s that gonna hurt you at this point? Because it’s going so well for you? Be open to change.
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:32 PM
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You really proved my point didn’t you? Why bother even asking for guidance if you already know everything, especially in how women think? Good luck, you need it. Edit: The good that getting therapy will do is that women might actually want to date you. And you might rid yourself of this obsessive behavior.
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:21 PM
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Why did you delete the post? If you want advice from people—you need to stop getting defensive if you’re not told what you want to hear. Be open to gaining some perspective outside of your viewpoint and strive to be a bit more introspective. I’ll humor you and offer some suggestions; although, I’m not sure of the point since you have a rebuttal for everything. But what do we non-virgins know, right? You want me to believe your desperation is controlled in front of girls. That’s very unlikely. I’…
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:11 PM
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Your post reeks of desperation honestly. And maybe you don’t realize it, but you could be coming off a bit too strong because of it. Which would impact their interest in you, whether you got their number or not. Truthfully, you should just come out and ask if they want to be a means to an end. It’ll save you both some time because I don’t get the vibe that you’re really interested in potential partners other than to get laid for the first time
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:39 PM
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DARVO? That’s a bit excessive/extreme. My point was simply guilt transcends gender. As for why I’m on this sub, the beauty of this world is knowledge is always attainable; it’s good to gain insight from multiple perspectives (including multiple subs). Don’t you agree? Or do you prefer for you and others remain narrow minded? “Genders studies class”, yet another assumption made by your narrow purview. I’m sorry you were so wronged that you feel the need to make such generalizations/assumptions of…
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 03:07 PM
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By disagreeing with you?
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 01:24 PM
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Yes women feel guilt. Maybe the handful you encountered didn’t, but most do. They’re kind of like men in that way.
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 12:19 PM
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I get you’re never wrong, so I’ll just leave it at this: I’m saying your dating tips are both harmful to men and women. That has nothing to do with me being a woman. Edit: Specifically this post.
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:55 PM
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Haha no I didn’t read every comment, just the ones at the top. Honestly, why would I? Your post should be reflective of your intent. I shouldn’t have to read all of your comments to understand what you mean by x, y, z. Discuss your intentions in the beginning, instead of forcing people to rely on comments (that have to be scrolled through) for clarity. If you’re going to post tips that shouldn’t be a list, don’t write them out in a list; you can call them tips, but they’re still a list. And just…
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:33 PM
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I appreciate your confidence in what you believe (though at times it comes across a bit condescending), but you’re only offering the “basics” that “help a lot” from your own purview. You’re suggesting for men to do all these “basics”, but what if they aren’t reflective of who they are? What if they aren’t much of a texter, but are great on the phone (or better yet, are great at in-person conversations)? What if I don’t want to be on a date with someone who talks to me like they would their frien…
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:52 PM
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Oh no, I did. “Basic tips” that “help A LOT”. Right?
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:55 AM
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I’m a woman and there are a lot of things wrong with this post. I won’t get into all of them, but the most obvious is not all women are the same. There’s no manual or anything of the sort. Generalizations aren’t helpful and actually make guys feel as though they have to perform some ridiculous dating ritual. The onus isn’t really on guys to “attract us”. I’m much more for authenticity, but maybe that’s just me. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:23 PM
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As a woman who is often told I “seem bitchy” (I’m not which is why people make me aware of it) and is also highly sarcastic—this works. I don’t know why, it just does. Depending on the shot/joke taken, I’ll either laugh outright or deliver one of my own. Sometimes both.
/r/seduction04/10/20 02:53 AM
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As a woman—do not take anything on that sub as pertaining to all women. They’re seriously disgusting in their methods of degrading men as if they themselves are some perfect prize in no need of self reflection and growth. I don’t know a single woman in my social circles (yes, I’m close enough with them to know) who believe any of the nonsense they post. They claim to be feminist but they aren’t even that; they’re narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:43 AM
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I’m 5’3”, so tall is a very broad term. You would, in fact, be tall to me. I’ve dated guys who were 5’6” to over 6’. For me, it doesn’t release anything primal. I think because I’m used to everyone being taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:03 PM
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Depends on how many partners are included in the “10+ years of sex research”. I’m just curious what you consider an appropriate number to qualify painting all western women with the same brush. If you re-read your comment, you immediately defended yourself against another poster by saying women say worse about men; you’re justifying it. My point in “tit for tat” not being a sound argument is that no gender should be “trashing” the other as a whole based on experiences with some. Period. Has noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:47 PM
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Still directly generalizing a complete subset of women; as well as other subsets of women indirectly. What are you basing your analysis on? Also, “tit for tat” is hardly a sound argument for either gender to treat the other gender like garbage (i.e. “but they say this about us”).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 05:13 PM
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Totally agree. Also, OP is projecting by generalizing. Blanket generalizations mean nothing and are often made off of a small sample size in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 04:26 PM
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My parents had an awful divorce when I was in high school. I’ve been in a couple pretty serious LTRs since then during which marriage was discussed, but it has always terrified me; sure I was in these relationships for awhile, but I just couldn’t see a forever-type future with them (I was always honest about it). After my parents’ divorce, I knew I wouldn’t marry someone unless I felt really sure it could last. Over time though, while open to marriage, I realized it wasn’t necessarily the end go…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 04:15 PM
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Neither are you. Clearly
/r/seduction18/09/20 05:16 AM
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You realize the wheat and tares parable was in reference to the end of times/world/one’s life about getting into heaven or going to hell, right? It’s not a blanket metaphor for types of women/men...
/r/seduction18/09/20 03:42 AM
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I don’t find fault with OP’s mindset at all (anyone calling him a simp is bitter over their own failures with women and are harboring some serious resentment and jealousy). But I do think you need to work on building your confidence a bit. Insecurities can be crippling, but you have to consider what you bring to the table, even if it’s small to start. Chastising yourself will only make it worse. I’m glad to hear you’re working on it though. That’s the first step forward honestly.
/r/seduction18/09/20 03:32 AM
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👀
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:51 PM
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Trust me—we all fuck up
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:00 PM
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Kind of scared ngl
/r/seduction17/09/20 10:57 PM
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Whoa
/r/seduction17/09/20 10:07 PM
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I love these guys that seem to know all the inner workings of women. As women, we aren’t always 100% sure what our inner workings are because we’re constantly evolving. These guys with so much knowledge to bestow having zero idea what it is to be a woman should really write a book. Oh wait...
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:58 PM
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If you have a supportive partner. I don’t get women that make men give up their hobbies. I wouldn’t want a man to make me give up mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 10:55 PM
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No bueno. She’s not that interested. Why she doesn’t just say that could be for a multitude of reasons. (Source: I’m a woman)
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:43 PM
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As a woman, I have to agree with the priority part. Though to add to the reasons, she might not be looking for anything serious (which would be why you aren’t a priority). But if that’s the case, she should be upfront about that. I’m sure you prob would’ve kept the texts casual if you knew that and were still interested anyway. Or maybe you want something serious and aren’t interested in wasting the time. Unfortunately (and I know I’m preaching to the choir here), I know there are some women tha…
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:32 PM
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💯 I JUST posted a comment stating that smiling at a guy is a way we show interest IRL.
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:24 PM
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The analogy is flawed. Gatekeepers, by definition, control who gets in the gate. The key (gatekeeper) has the control to open the lock (gate) as you mentioned in this analogy, obviously since locks don’t control keys. So then if men are the gates, they’re the lock; if women are the gatekeepers, they’re the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:45 AM
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Yes, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:18 PM
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You’re forgetting something—the other end of the equation. If the girl was just sitting there and he just rando says he wants to fuck (whether ugly or good looking), it’s a creep move. However, the girl in this scenario started the convo with a bold question. Feigning surprise or disgust when he responds honestly, when she was the one that went there in the first place, is gaslighting on her end. EDIT: Honesty is attractive. That’s what the point was.
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:23 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:08 PM
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I am one haha. All anyone has to do is look at your post history to see your privacy standards, but your job title/profession is too private. I guess that’s you’re line in the sand. At least you have one, right? You posted this here intending to be controversial; it’s not seemingly so, so why pretend otherwise? There are other subs you could’ve posted to if you were looking to just vent or not seeking a rise for attention. If you’re gonna take on an online persona, you should really make sure it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:04 PM
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Right, so why not just say that then? I was referencing the intentional deceit in her responses; this post was created by a bored person seeking attention. Her post history is no different. You can’t take anything said here with any real value. Her comments are all over the place. She just wants reactions and attention and will say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:00 PM
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“In medicine”. “Not a nurse”. Haha ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:41 PM
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Right. And seduction leads to a relationship of some sort. How are you defining “relationship”? And you can’t use a fictional character as the basis of an argument for why this post is imprecise. That was my point in my response to you.
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:20 PM
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“Barney Stinson style”? I didn’t know that was a thing. Advice: Don’t follow the Bro Code. Now suit up! You realize his character was created to represent the antithesis of successful relationships, to counter Marshall and Lily, as we join Ted on his journey to find how he met “your mother”, right?
/r/seduction09/09/20 06:06 AM
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I don’t disagree with what you’re saying. I mean to be taken literal, it’s problematic at best. (I don’t think this is meant to be taken so literally. It doesn’t even seem that legit of a post.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:48 AM
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It seems she’s just fed up with dating. That’s how I read it at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:37 AM
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She probably isn’t since she’s trying to get over her one heartache. In that respect, I’m sure she doesn’t expect you to necessarily wait for her either.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:51 PM
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Oh I thought you were implying you knew they weren’t attracted to you before you even made a move. I guess the thing to consider, if you can be selective, aren’t you already choosing/selecting from an “abundance” of women then? It’s just confidence. I mean, rejection can sting, but it shouldn’t frame your mindset.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:46 PM
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OP—this advice is applicable to both genders. As a female, I agree with the majority of what you said. Honesty and confidence truly go a long way.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:19 PM
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Why don’t you ask her? If she says “in the future” she could see it going somewhere again, you really should stop focusing solely on her then. It’s like she’s kind of keeping you in the wings for when she’s ready, and that’s not really fair to you.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:18 PM
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You’re putting way too much pressure on yourself. How can you possibly guess which girls would find you attractive? Some girls don’t approach guys due to lack of confidence as well. What OP said could really go for both genders.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:16 PM
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If she’s bold enough to ask you, be bold enough to respond honestly. It’s not on you to avoid weird looks; she’s the one that asked the question. And being that confident is attractive, not unattractive.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:11 PM
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💯
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:08 PM
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It must be hard to “just know” everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:58 AM
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How do you know that’s why it was deleted? The graphs mean nothing without the data to support them. Truly you’ve shown nothing. There’s no data here (not even outdated data), no evidence to prove your numbers. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 07:09 AM
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The link to the OKCupid data in the first article is a dead link. The second article is from five years ago and is data from Tinder with no data source provided. Neither are data sources from the scientific community conducted with actual scientific study. I think you need to re-research.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:59 AM
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I can assure you, it’s not random in his case. So I’m using his method of compiling data to see if there’s any legitimacy to it. It was just a simple question based on actual data. I hardly doubt people come to this sub to make love connections anyway. Edit: I assumed it was safe to ask because he made reference to drawing conclusions based on women in the real world. So it was more with respect to those interactions, not those on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:26 AM
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Again—source? Edit: It’s easier to dissect factual data. I’m sure you’ve acquired these percentages from some data source. Interested to know what it is and what other findings there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:20 AM
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Do you have a source for those facts? The data from actual studies show kindness and humor as what attracts women to men the most. Maybe that’s where you fall short?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:51 AM
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He has large sample sizes. Just ask him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:43 AM
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That’s a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:50 AM
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Ok, just making sure I was understanding. So if hypocrisy can transcend gender, age could have something to do with these generalizations then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:49 AM
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Ok, just trying to get a sense of your sample quality and size. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:44 AM
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Who are these “most women”? I’m super curious where you’re meeting them/interacting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:38 AM
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Just for clarity, so it’s not hypocritical for older men, who refer to women their own age as too old for them, to then call women they’re trying date who are 15 years younger than they are bitches when they say these older men are too old for them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:27 AM
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Negative. You don’t have to share finances. In fact it really helps keep you from arguing about finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:36 PM
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Who says they want you to contribute to them? Why do you insist on applying that? Most don’t. Thats not the step-parent’s place and is actually more annoying than helpful. Anyone that does insist on a step-parent contributing to a child that isn’t theirs, you wouldn’t be with anyway because anyone that uses others as atms aren’t good people (unless that’s your thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:59 PM
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In what world is it assumed that a dual-income house equates to combining finances? And if being a step-parent is hard, it’s more than likely due to custody/co-parenting issues. But again, not every situation is like that—it’s usually because the parents forget about their child’s best interest and care more about their pride. While it’s safe to say the horror stories of nightmare single-parents are far more popular than those of the contrary, single-parents don’t make lousy partners just becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:49 PM
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It doesn’t. Any parent that expects the stepparent to “expend resources” on their stepchild isn’t creating healthy boundaries, and again, single parent or not, who would want to be with anyone like that? It’s up to the parents to be grown ups and do that, not obligate someone to care for a child that isn’t theirs. Courts don’t take into account stepparent income when considering support because of this, for example. EDIT: My child already has a father, and I’m not looking for a replacement. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:38 PM
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Right. I can. But not all situations are super dramatic (or really have to be). It’s the people who make it about themselves rather than their child(ren) that are selfish enough to complicate things. Who wants to be with people like that anyway? I guess I just hope not every single mother/father are painted with the same brush. Because honestly, it’s becoming more common for there to be single parents, whether they’ve been married before or not (I have not). At 36, I know a lot of them my age. 🤷…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:00 PM
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I just didn’t gain a ton of weight to begin with. I’m active, but I always have been. I’m not on a strict diet or anything. But I’ve never had issues with fluctuating weight, so I don’t know. EDIT: While reading some of these posts sucks, my child’s father is divorced and has another child, and stepkids and coparenting aren’t for everyone—it’s extremely hard depending on the drama involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:40 AM
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Wow, a 2% I’m a part of and can be proud of (I have zero stretch marks as well).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:18 AM
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:)
/r/seduction26/08/20 01:40 AM
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This is so true.
/r/seduction26/08/20 01:26 AM
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