falshami Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What to do with a neutral girl?		falshami	/r/seduction	07/12/12 12:22 PM
0	Jezebel seems quite bitter torwards logical men, reddit do your thing		falshami	/r/MensRights	26/02/13 08:26 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Making it clear that you like someone is more sexually attractive than hiding your feelings, new research finds. So .. like the sky?	/r/seduction	09/06/18 01:30 AM
2	This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progress In her defense. Some people are good at sexy foreplay talk and some aren't. Good on you for taking a stand. But ehh. I'd hate to be caught in her position not realizing I'm not very good at this talk stuff hahaha	/r/seduction	08/06/18 04:04 PM
6	Week 5 of cold-approaching and I am getting ready for my second date of the day! Where do you cold approach?	/r/seduction	13/05/18 05:22 AM
4	"If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. " - Lao Tzu I've never read something more true. My depression. Is because I'm stuck in my own past.... And when I do get anxious, it's thinking of my actual tomorrow... Life changed.....	/r/seduction	04/02/18 07:24 AM
4	PSA: Nice cars attract creepy guys, not women Wow now guys. While I get that a car isn't an instant ticket to lady town. I'm a little surprised at the answers. I drive my humble dream car daily. A car that to me is stunning and so far most people have liked it. But besides the point. My car is a small symbol of my passion and lifestyle. I put effort into keeping it tidy. Tuning up. Sprucing up etc. Because it shows my general life style. I never use my car as an initial selling point. But I definitely use it as a tool for social proof. Afte…	/r/seduction	31/07/17 08:12 AM
2	What should a boy learn to become a man? How to problem solve. This will literally fix all your problems. As funny and obvious as it sounds. It makes you more confident .it gives you drive and ambition . it builds passion and makes your more alpha. More street smart. Being a problem solver literally fixes your problems and helps make you a man. At least to me	/r/seduction	24/07/17 09:03 AM
1	How attractive do you have to be for girls to approach you? I don't think its how hot must you be for women to approach you. That's like saying there is a threshold in which women suddenly break from their personalities when they see that hotness. Women that approach men are simply women that feel comfortable approaching men. And might I say they are really cool chicks! Just like guys approach some women are very outgoing and approach men. If you seem interesting and fun you are much more likely to get approached. I'm not a a Hollister model and it does …	/r/seduction	24/07/17 08:53 AM
2	To seek women is to find beauty, that will define a man from a boy -- The Alabaster Girl My god this was amazing. I completely agree. A boy wondering if she likes him is unsure of himself. A man wondering if he likes her already assumes attraction and is trying to make sure they are right for each other and not waste each others time and hopefully not hurt her or himself. To seek her beauty is to get to know her in depth and see that she is a person. With beautiful complexities. A boy is like a baby giraffe learning to walk. Unsure and learning . a man is a confident being that is t…	/r/seduction	24/07/17 08:48 AM
1	Girls hate on my car Lol I drive what I consider to be a nice car. Fairly rare. Stunning to me. Not super expensive but seems to be so. I normally get complimented for it and i do use it as a prop. Since often times if a girl likes you she will compliment something like a car of yours. Also when. The topic comes up I show I am passionate about cars and that I get to drive my dream car everyday. Suddenly she is much less likely to crap on it. Because it means something to you. I did have one girl say oh no I wouldn't…	/r/seduction	24/07/17 08:36 AM
3	Not texting back, what should i do? Well to be fair your initial reply to her really gave her no reason to reply. It was a conversation ender. I'll reply with a thank you and a question or a witty remark that will usually be appropriate to reply to with banter or something. I think the point is to keep people on their toes. If they've won you they tend to lose interest. I'm often told I am hard to read though I'm open and outgoing. And hey they still reply to me so I'll associate the two. just a suggestion!	/r/seduction	24/07/17 08:24 AM
1	Dating and trying to pull is just depressing me now Like they have mentioned I personally think online dating is a silly way to go about it for many people. I'm not a bar guy. However though I know you said its not your thing. I started taking country dancing classes at a local country bar. And I find I do much better this way. I get to dance with plenty of pretty girls. I talk to many and make connections. It builds my confidence. I'm enjoying the music I have a great time and it opens me up. Oh and yeah I dont drink. I'm literally there to have…	/r/seduction	24/07/17 08:19 AM
1	How to be a "cute" guy and seduce? OK my 2 cents. Your stature . at least in your case is seriously not an issue. I'll start off by saying we will never be everyone's cup of tea. I'm 5 10 and I know that in some cases a girl that wants 6 2 wont look at me. However.I also realize I have a personality. And its one I develop and am learning to enjoy more and more every day and with that comes confidence.I genuinely like myself these days. Flaws and all. This is important to have. Because it leads to the next thing I feel. Which is a…	/r/seduction	24/07/17 07:45 AM
1	THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit. I love the effort you put into this message. So thank you for this..what do you consider clean eating? I'm willing to do whatever!	/r/seduction	22/07/17 06:02 AM
2	THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit. I will say. I've been learning to dance and it has worked wonders for my confidence and talking to women. Country dancing is my thing and the people I jive with well. Many many dates have come from this with some truly amazing women. Seriously try it	/r/seduction	21/07/17 04:24 AM
1	THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit. Can you suggest workouts for hard gainers in the arm department? It's my most difficult part to grow	/r/seduction	21/07/17 04:22 AM
1	Going out for the very first time tonight (alone) wish me luck see... i had two left feet. so what i did was start going to the free classes some of the bars offer. Im not an expert. and i still consider my dancing a bit boring but im improving, and as i improve my confidence shoots up. because it means i can take a girl out on the dancefloor and really rock her boots off! plus it opens up to some fun talking and you meet new people. plus not every girl knows how to dance. so you get teach something which automatically makes them like you a bit more. seriou…	/r/seduction	10/07/17 07:25 PM
2	Going out for the very first time tonight (alone) wish me luck Might I suggest country bars and country 2 stepping dance classes. If you're into it. Its done me wonders. seriously. I won't do any other types of clubs anymore. People there are willing to talk and have a great time. asking girls to dance is a lot easier since they WANT to be asked to dance. So learn some moves and go out there. I've gotten like 5 numbers from women I've genuinely clicked with recently and am having a great time getting to know these human beings as well as others .its helped …	/r/seduction	10/07/17 07:20 AM
2	I hate my name. I have an obscure ethnic name that few Americans can pronounce on the first try. I feel like it holds me back socially. But at the same time I feel like I've used my name for so long (37), that I'm to old to change it. I'll tell you what man pm me and maybe we discuss your name and see if we can get anywhere with it. I'm so sure it will be fine and we can come up with some cool tricks for it. My name too sounds like some English words of which it gets confused for often	/r/seduction	10/07/17 06:40 AM
2	I hate my name. I have an obscure ethnic name that few Americans can pronounce on the first try. I feel like it holds me back socially. But at the same time I feel like I've used my name for so long (37), that I'm to old to change it. As a guy with an ethnic name, I absolutely use it to my advantage. Though to this day it annoys me because it is a bit difficult. When a woman asks my name I immediately know it's time to have fun. Especially in a club it goes like this. Her: what's your name by the way. Me :falshami . Of course it's odd so she leans in close and asks again. So I lean in to her ear cheek to cheek and I whisper it in her hear with a light tough of My breath moving across (always listerine prior to going out) and …	/r/seduction	10/07/17 03:12 AM
9	Does Being Good Looking Guarantee The Girl? F*** no Can confirm Being good looking makes life easier. Source my mom and grandma say I'm the most handsomest boy ever and the cookies haven't stopped flowing	/r/seduction	03/07/17 09:03 AM
2	A father's love knows no bounds; "Father overdoses on heroin to shock his addict son into going to rehab-told his son "if you won't stop I will do the same as you"-Son is now seeking rehab". Time we stop forgetting fathers in the rush to put all mothers on pedestals. Dude I love that show!	/r/MensRights	04/06/17 12:08 PM
4	Good response to comments on age? Don't lie. But make a game out of it. Or reply with "old enough to know what I'm doing" something fun a flirty that keeps you in control of her perception of you	/r/seduction	31/05/17 10:43 AM
1	I accidentally said hi to a feminist the other day... Thank you for having humor Instead of down voting me lol	/r/MensRights	14/11/16 04:06 PM
-2	I accidentally said hi to a feminist the other day... Well to be fair when he said hello he did it like trump and shook down under. Lol jk guys I kid.I kid	/r/MensRights	14/11/16 01:03 PM
0	MRA Milo exposes the long history of racist hateful misandrist tweets from feminist Ghostbuster Leslie Jones, and proofs that she's lying only to claim she's a victim Lol at least we had fun	/r/MensRights	24/07/16 09:27 AM
0	MRA Milo exposes the long history of racist hateful misandrist tweets from feminist Ghostbuster Leslie Jones, and proofs that she's lying only to claim she's a victim No I will not hold my tongue in an open forum it simply seems as if men's rights activists shouldn't resort to this sort of speech.as it makes you seem bat shit like crazy feminazis. Speak with respect and get your point across intelligently instead of invoking silly emotion. Learn from the things we dont like about crazy feminists. Simple as that. Be smarter than the moron this forum claims to Want to change	/r/MensRights	23/07/16 06:54 PM
1	MRA Milo exposes the long history of racist hateful misandrist tweets from feminist Ghostbuster Leslie Jones, and proofs that she's lying only to claim she's a victim Non offense taken. I do agree in some aspects. I wasnt offended at any point. It just seemed to me that removing a persons value in their right to to exist seems to water down your argument and sort of make you seem more emotional than logical. I don't think a persons opinions are worth telling them they don't deserve to take up space. Now if their opinions are of genocide like Hitler or Stalin different situation. I say this to clarify what I mean is within reason. Now I am also saying this as …	/r/MensRights	23/07/16 08:11 AM
1	MRA Milo exposes the long history of racist hateful misandrist tweets from feminist Ghostbuster Leslie Jones, and proofs that she's lying only to claim she's a victim Oh OK. Thank you. I see what you're saying! I appreciate it!	/r/MensRights	23/07/16 08:06 AM
1	MRA Milo exposes the long history of racist hateful misandrist tweets from feminist Ghostbuster Leslie Jones, and proofs that she's lying only to claim she's a victim I'm not a fan of political correctness all that much myself and I see and acknowledge your frustration. I simply mean to not devalue humans is all	/r/MensRights	23/07/16 05:28 AM
1	MRA Milo exposes the long history of racist hateful misandrist tweets from feminist Ghostbuster Leslie Jones, and proofs that she's lying only to claim she's a victim What is sjw?	/r/MensRights	23/07/16 05:25 AM
3	MRA Milo exposes the long history of racist hateful misandrist tweets from feminist Ghostbuster Leslie Jones, and proofs that she's lying only to claim she's a victim Wow I understand disliking someone but your rhetoric is the problem with our society. You devalued her existence as a human just because you don't like her. Its like me saying you are the poster child for why people should get abortions. No I don't like your opinion but I also don't feel you are a waste of space. You matter and deserve to exist . this of course I say with the assumption you're not going around raping children or some thing that would actually make you a waste of space.	/r/MensRights	22/07/16 12:20 AM
2	MRA Milo exposes the long history of racist hateful misandrist tweets from feminist Ghostbuster Leslie Jones, and proofs that she's lying only to claim she's a victim I actually find her terribly funny though. So I believe your statement is more opinion based which seems obvious. But I feel should be mentioned	/r/MensRights	22/07/16 12:17 AM
2	How to properly handle the "how old are you?" question i think they mean in the spirit of flirtation, if the tone is more serious just say it, but if youre having some fun have some fun!	/r/seduction	02/07/16 09:24 PM
2	Here is the new narrative in action: Resign your jobs so a woman can have it. Its the only way to make amends for being an accomplished male As a man.I have stopped caring what nutty feminists say. If a woman is willing to out work me. She deserves my job. But if I out work her I will unnappologetically take what is mine as she should do if she were in my case. This is a fair war this way	/r/MensRights	07/06/16 09:06 AM
7	I feel like only desperate girls likes me how do i get rid of this feeling If she's desperate for you its because your seduction made her so. She's has an infinite pool of options and she picked you to fall for. Revell in the feeling don't make it something that makes you feel bad. I bet the people saying this are feeling quite lonely and do t really Want to see you doing well	/r/seduction	08/05/16 10:15 PM
10	Models, models everywhere. A lesson in social status. I personally felt that all of the Interactions were more exciting than getting laid. Being with people and having Fun is a beautiful thing especially if you feel chemistry with people. There us fun,mystery, allure, and the idea that you're breaking your comfort zones. If you're out to just have sex you've already failed and broken the first rule of this all	/r/seduction	25/03/16 07:21 AM
4	How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person? Personally offering a nice 401k plan or Roth IRA does the trick for me. Investment every time!	/r/seduction	18/01/16 11:24 AM
2	There can be no Male Spaces: Girls fight for their 'right' to join the Boy Scouts Ladies. If the girl scouts suck and is boring... Make the girl scouts suck less and be less boring... Where is the disconnect?	/r/MensRights	23/11/15 11:16 PM
1	What difference does a good cologne/fragrance make? What I found that seemed to work was a signature scent. Have one that is you. it can act as a trigger, hang around someone enough , leave a good impression and that scent is now a reminder of you and you are now on their mind if they come across it. Its used to reinforce you as long as you made a good impression to begin with and when they see you again or smell you. Boom reinforced your presence	/r/seduction	21/11/15 01:23 AM
2	What difference does a good cologne/fragrance make? What I found that seemed to work was a signature scent. Have one that is you. it can act as a trigger. hang around someone enough . leave a good impression and that scent is now a reminder of you and you are now on their mind if they come across it. Its used to reinforce you as long as you made a good impression. To begin with and when they see you again or smell you. Boom reinforced your presence	/r/seduction	20/11/15 07:23 PM
3	A few months old but.... Woman tried to rip off her 6 year old son's balls. Superglued them back on. the fact she touched him in this manner period is fucked up	/r/MensRights	15/11/15 11:46 PM
1	A few months old but.... Woman tried to rip off her 6 year old son's balls. Superglued them back on. Weirdly enough. Not say she isn't a scum bag. Super glue is used on occasion to fix lacerations or cuts. Woman is still batshit though	/r/MensRights	15/11/15 07:31 AM
2	Skinny Fat Success with Girls You sound incredibly pleasant. I like you in this community!	/r/seduction	29/07/15 10:53 AM
1	Skinny Fat Success with Girls Thank you, and you're right it can't be assumed, although he does look more muscular than i. So there's that in my head, also I looked way chubbier Than him, but I understand nothing can be assumed, I still think confidence is key however. And with that body. Why not. He worked hard for it	/r/seduction	28/07/15 11:14 AM
1	PSA: The BEST BF destroyer (tested with 100% success rate) No sir congrats to you, i and us all, we improve this way!	/r/seduction	28/07/15 01:19 AM
1	Skinny Fat Success with Girls Nah, you're fine	/r/seduction	27/07/15 06:59 PM
0	Skinny Fat Success with Girls Buddy. Advice from a guy that is also 5 10 and about 150 pounds as of this morning. i think you must be lower that 20 percent body fat, I am around 11 to 12 percent body fat now, and at my fattest, which was 190 I was almost 23 percent body fat, so take solace in the fact your number is lower. I do a ketogenic diet which got me down to that body fat percentage quite effectively. Then about 4 months ago hit the gym hard. Which is helping me move closer and lower to my goal of 8-9 percent. Focus, …	/r/seduction	27/07/15 06:58 PM
3	PSA: The BEST BF destroyer (tested with 100% success rate) Ahh, I knew I wasn't crazy, did that recently, in the past two weeks, she's over the old guy now and on to me, genius stuff man	/r/seduction	27/07/15 06:50 PM
1	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? From an honesty point, if asked point blank sure, but explain you do it in a respectful manner, from a DHV point of view I occasionally sprinkle in positive experiences women HAVE had with me. but I try to make every date feel individual and special because at the end of the day the most attractive allure you can use is making someone feel like no one has made them feel before.	/r/seduction	26/07/15 11:57 PM
10	So I came across this alongside a highway... Focus on thigh gaps not wage gaps. #letsbefattyfree ? Kidding aside I used to like you Kenneth cole...	/r/MensRights	26/07/15 02:45 AM
1	Went to a nightclub last night - not sure if I'm ugly or not now :/ I'm 5 10, i envy you	/r/seduction	08/05/15 06:46 PM
1	Went to a nightclub last night - not sure if I'm ugly or not now :/ I'm 5 10, i envy you	/r/seduction	08/05/15 06:46 PM
8	Feminism becomes more like Islamism every day Jesús guys, as a men's rights subscriber I'm usually on board with you guys, but you're bordering a circle jerk of hate here, let's step back, and cool down here.	/r/MensRights	29/04/15 06:39 AM
-1	Male Privilege well with those statistics id give the kids to the spouse most likely to make it through the day without dieing too! this is a joke fellas just a heads up	/r/MensRights	20/04/15 07:53 AM
1	CDC Wants Male Teens to Know "Benefits" of male genital mutilation It was not my choic3, however I am happy with it, even though I do believe people should be able to choose later on in life	/r/MensRights	31/01/15 05:36 AM
1	CDC Wants Male Teens to Know "Benefits" of male genital mutilation That sounds Fair to me	/r/MensRights	30/01/15 10:34 AM
0	CDC Wants Male Teens to Know "Benefits" of male genital mutilation I feel for you, while I am happy with my parents decision for me, I am sorry it's not working for you and even more sorry to hear of your hard ship, keep your head up all bad things get better	/r/MensRights	30/01/15 10:33 AM
-6	CDC Wants Male Teens to Know "Benefits" of male genital mutilation Another reason for my bias towards it, I was circumsized at birth I believe if not short after. But after discussing it with a few friends, and seeing the troubles my friends have, in quite happy being the way I am, I feel cleaner as well	/r/MensRights	29/01/15 03:56 PM
3	CDC Wants Male Teens to Know "Benefits" of male genital mutilation Circumcision should be a choice. Personally ,I'm glad I am, but that's just one man's opinion	/r/MensRights	29/01/15 07:56 AM
6	Recent "studies" show: Men who take selfies are psychopathic, antisocial, narcissists (women who take selfies are okay, though) I only take selfie to improve my low self esteem caused by Years of female middle school bullying. Now I can't even have this! Awwwwww maaaaannnnn!	/r/MensRights	08/01/15 11:59 AM
8	[Outrage]Actress Accuses Gay Men of Being Misogynistic for Focusing on Homophobia Instead of Women's Issues. No.. I was trying to be friendly... or sounded better in my head	/r/MensRights	13/11/14 06:25 PM
2	[Outrage]Actress Accuses Gay Men of Being Misogynistic for Focusing on Homophobia Instead of Women's Issues. And have an upvote	/r/MensRights	13/11/14 08:41 AM
12	[Outrage]Actress Accuses Gay Men of Being Misogynistic for Focusing on Homophobia Instead of Women's Issues. There there little buddy, let it all out. You're safe here. We all hate crazy PSYCHO feminists here too...	/r/MensRights	13/11/14 08:41 AM
4	Domestic Abuse In Public (Social Experiment) that was sickening to see , especially when someone else jumped in to hit the abuse victim.. what the hell?	/r/MensRights	25/09/14 06:11 PM
0	Why Women Need To Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls Ok all negative comments to her dribble aside, she does have a point in that alot of us are afraid to ask a woman , not all of us but some of us exist. Let's take it as a lesson from a crazy self centered feminist that you know what. Maybe we have gone a bit soft, and make a concious effort to not fall into the pit fall that many people fall into the fear of asking a woman out, a reminder is never a bad thing.	/r/MensRights	11/09/14 03:10 PM
-1	I'm ok with you being a slut Im actually fine with it, I strive to be with the best I can get why shouldnt a woman? If a woman finds that to be ok go for it, I have made my choice and stick by it mostly, I am even dating an ex feminist, were all people with minds and ideas, why cant we all just pick what makes us happy, personally I prefer the days where you had to woo a woman, as much as I agree with empowering women to be as slutty as any man can be it tends to ruin social dynamics, you get alot of women asking, where did…	/r/MensRights	06/05/13 12:50 AM
4	I'm ok with you being a slut Thats a perfect description. I believe women are free to do what and who they want, sleep around if you'd like, dress how you like, be who you like. Its your right! But! Im not taking you home to mom and im not marrying you, and thats my right. Modesty in both genders goes along way	/r/MensRights	05/05/13 09:37 PM
2	What's the worst rejection you've ever gotten? Noooo. That would still be beta! Dont appologize lol	/r/seduction	21/04/13 09:30 PM
1	Found this on a friend's FB post... apparently killing married guys is violence against women oh dont worry guys , we're dispposable is all! its cool . i hope god forgives me for dying and leaving my wife a widow. my death is nbd	/r/MensRights	01/04/13 09:08 AM
5	[FR] Got dumped, went out, got punched, hooked up. I applaud you for that comment sir, priceless	/r/seduction	28/03/13 10:27 AM
1	Jezebel seems quite bitter torwards logical men, reddit do your thing I didnt know this. I didnt even know what a gawker site was.... thank you for Informing me	/r/MensRights	26/02/13 09:16 PM
0	Jezebel seems quite bitter torwards logical men, reddit do your thing I sinply thought you guys would like it. I had never heard of jezebel. And I thought you guys would like the gentlemans article. It was quite well minded I feel. And reddit is kind of am army , a fun one lol	/r/MensRights	26/02/13 08:57 PM
1	The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing? True, not all but enough that it boggles my mind why people want to make human interaction harder than it already is. I think pick up was made for shy people , it just gets abused by ass holes. Im going to assume it started with good intentions	/r/seduction	01/01/13 01:10 AM
-1	The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing? My question to women trying to debunk pick up artists is this. Why are they trying so hard to have guys not give them attention? I get constant hitting on is obnoxious, hence why PUA do what they do. To hopefully break the common guy mold, why would women try to make the mating game even harder by doing that? Alot of that stuff makes psychological sense as to why it works. Once they succeed in turning away all these guys they will complain for having no. Boyfriend. My question I guess is . Women…	/r/seduction	28/12/12 02:22 AM
0	"How can a girl rape a boy" I'm sitting here trying to imagine what it would be like to be raped by a woman, and my brain can't wrap itself around the concept, I see it, but I can't imagine the feelings associated with it.... I'm sorry for this guy	/r/MensRights	24/11/12 05:39 PM