fancysuit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Several opportunities but no execution		fancysuit	/r/seduction	03/08/14 03:02 AM

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1	What Seddit had taught me... You are not the lucky one, people are privileged to be able to talk to you. I realize this is true and important, but I find it difficult to convince myself of this. tease girls, kino and employ push-pull techniques to build attraction. I don't get a lot of opportunity to do this, but I'm pretty bad at this too. When I get a chance to talk to a girl I like then I become dumb.	/r/seduction	18/11/13 03:51 AM
-7	Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it? They just don't drink light beer :-)	/r/seduction	11/08/13 04:58 PM
1	Solid openers on sets It's what's being sub-communicated through your body language, confidence, and comfortability that ultimately counts. Not that I'm questioning the importance of non-verbal communication, but does it alone really influence the encounter that much?	/r/seduction	06/07/13 06:56 PM
1	I got rejected for the first time.[Field Report] "Hi, my name is zzppbtozz...you're beautiful" and just walk away like a creeper. That's sort of where I'm at right now. I don't entirely regret it as it is better than not saying anything. Right? Maybe?	/r/seduction	04/07/13 07:25 PM
1	What are the must watch seduction videos? As someone who is generally shy, the picking up girls (physically) and grabbing their hands as they walk by seem very outside anything I could ever do. Even if I can, it would feel forced. Would it just get time to get used to? Also, I usually go out solo, so that also poses an issue since it may seem very awkward.	/r/seduction	04/07/13 02:51 AM
3	Thought I gained the ability to overcome it, but held back by Approach Anxiety more than ever. Every time I practice smiling in the mirror, the mirror cracks :-(	/r/seduction	04/07/13 02:20 AM
9	What are the basic tools of life that a successful Sedditor MUST HAVE starting out? The only circunstance you are really failing is when you're not doing anything. This is so true. I regret 100% of the opportunities I don't take and never regret at least trying.	/r/seduction	04/07/13 02:09 AM
1	[FR] First approach, got mixed signals I would appreciate advice and feedback. What are some examples of how you would've approached this situation?	/r/seduction	20/01/13 01:21 AM
12	I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some Insights But to be fair, the drunk storyteller is the one who gives you motivation and excitement for the conquest :-)	/r/seduction	13/01/13 05:39 AM
16	How does one get over shyness and uncertainty ? The 3 things that I've read that have helped me: Talk to everybody. Say something to the girl within 3 seconds of seeing her. This prevents you from getting in your own way. Pretend that you're talking to your best friend. I'm still working on AA, but of the things I've read, these three have been the most helpful.	/r/seduction	09/12/12 06:01 AM
2	Stop looking for IOIs and just approach. Regret is way worse than rejection. I've regretted many missed opportunities. I've never regretted trying.	/r/seduction	27/10/12 06:02 PM
1	Stop looking for IOIs and just approach. international jewel-thiefing I can never come up with a good opener for this one.	/r/seduction	27/10/12 05:58 PM
1	The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with Women I was actually going to post a question regarding this. What if I really don't deserve to be with beautiful women? I am an average looking guy, working on improving my physical appearance by working out, but still average. I could use some fashion work, but I'm not a slob. I am also working on being more alpha and more social. I'm pretty interesting and funny when you get to know me. I have a good career and am all around pretty decent. But that's the problem. I'm just a pretty decent guy. There…	/r/seduction	18/10/12 07:10 AM
1	Are you afraid of making a fool out of yourself? Don't be. I've struggled this for a really long time. It's been something I've been working on. The other day I was talking to a cashier and I said something stupid and she looked at me all weird. Usually, I would've shut up and get out of there ASAP, but I actually just brushed it off and continued talking. We ended up talking to another 20 minutes. As you said, they don't care about our mistakes as much as we think.	/r/seduction	12/10/12 04:06 PM
10	Girls I approach keep asking me this... Do you assume something different in a bar?	/r/seduction	08/10/12 01:56 AM
1	I suck at dancing, any good advice? This may be terrible advice, but I've been watching this guy's channel	/r/seduction	05/10/12 03:29 AM
1	I suck at dancing, any good advice? Seriously, right? If I looked like that when dancing, I wouldn't be sitting at my computer right now.	/r/seduction	05/10/12 03:28 AM
5	For the love of pickups, don't pulling your phone out to check the time! I read Casio and googled the model number hoping to find this	/r/seduction	05/10/12 03:14 AM
2	For the love of pickups, don't pulling your phone out to check the time! This inspired me to get a real pocket watch.	/r/seduction	05/10/12 03:12 AM
1	How to ask a girl to dance and/or talk to her while dancing. I'm a decent enough dancer to be constantly complimented I'm curious about this. Are you just naturally a good dancer or did you have to invest in this?	/r/seduction	22/09/12 03:37 AM
2	Does anyone have the video link on youtube where you can practice eye contact? Its the one where an cute asian chick stares at you in the eye Did I miss something? I didn't see any eyes in that video :-)	/r/seduction	18/09/12 04:57 AM
2	[FR] That girl is NOT out of your league. Get out of your head, and have fun. Well done. I've been thinking maybe I should aim lower because I've been doing so poorly, but this is encouraging.	/r/seduction	18/09/12 04:53 AM
1	F*ck perfection. To be good at something, you have to suck at it first. Great post, thanks. I've been actively practicing for the past 2 months and have had no success and minimal improvement. I've been getting down on myself, but this is a good reminder.	/r/seduction	18/09/12 04:44 AM
10	[FR] I can't believe this worked... Nicely done! I always over-analyze what I'm saying and this approach obviously removes that possibility. I've thought of doing something similar and may have to try it. since we're already holding hands she should give me her number This is quite brilliant.	/r/seduction	14/09/12 02:25 AM
1	FR: #-close and a raincheck (first FR ever) Despite some suggestions from the pros, this is great. I read the "text/phone" game section, since that's kind of where I am now with her and I definitely need work on that, as I'm pretty comfortable in person. This is not a bad problem to have. In my opinion, text/phone isn't nearly as interesting/fun as in person.	/r/seduction	14/09/12 02:12 AM
1	Any tricks to force myself to talk to everyone? This is sort of where I'm at. It does make it easier to be in a "mundane-we're-here-anyway" type situation to talk to people. If you get lucky, the person will say more than "yeah, it does" and you can have a decent conversation. Or if you get even more lucky, it's an HB10 that is so insecure about herself that the remark about the donuts makes her think you think she's fat and she'll do anything to get your validation and f-close.	/r/seduction	14/09/12 01:51 AM
1	A little trick for easily maintaining eye contact I like the idea of noticing 5 things. I'm curious though, about switching between eyes. I'm assuming it's weird to keep looking into one eye so the idea is to switch between eyes?	/r/seduction	13/09/12 02:18 AM
1	Why Yoga will help your game Yoga \| Religion and Philosophy	/r/seduction	11/09/12 02:46 PM
7	Saw some girls moving heavy boxes. Am I on the right track? never offered any help with anything Wow, you sound like my friends. It's lazy, not alpha.	/r/seduction	10/09/12 02:37 AM
1	Saw some girls moving heavy boxes. Am I on the right track? I haven't read all the posts, but I agree with this. but what you did is "alpha." I really like this. As you mentioned, being alpha isn't being a prick. It's more about doing what you want without reservation of other's opinion. For example, I had a very similar experience. A girl who worked at a coffee shop was carrying out a bag of trash and I offered to help and she said no. What I wish I had done, was get off my ass and take the bag and tell her that I'm helping her. Not in an arrogant way, …	/r/seduction	10/09/12 02:35 AM
1	5 things I would have told myself 3 years ago. You opened with "Hi, I'm Brad Pit"? :-)	/r/seduction	31/08/12 06:32 AM
1	5 things I would have told myself 3 years ago. This is sort of where I'm at too. I feel lame, but it's less lame than not, right :-)	/r/seduction	31/08/12 06:32 AM
1	5 things I would have told myself 3 years ago. Telling a girl her dress looks pretty is not being honest...you are talking to her because she is pretty, not her dress. How would you open then? "hey, you look great in that dress"? The truth is that the dress compliments her figure or brings out her eyes, or something. So to say you like the dress isn't entirely false, right?	/r/seduction	31/08/12 06:30 AM
1	[FR] Mission to get over AA was a huge success I like the 3 second rule. I've noticed recently that once I give myself a chance to analyze the conversation/outcome that is about to happen, I seriously fumble. The 3 second rule should help :-) Think of the nervous feelings as a challenge, and capitalize upon them to approach girls. What if your nerves manifest themselves physically? How does one get over that?	/r/seduction	17/08/12 03:24 AM
3	Decided to get over AA. This is how it went Great feedback. I still commend OP for going for it.	/r/seduction	17/08/12 02:47 AM
1	Street / Day Game texting or otherwise distracted How do you handle this? Today I was going to say hi to a girl walking the opposite direction, but she was on the phone. I smiled and she smiled back, but I didn't go beyond that because she was distracted. Do I just go for it anyway?	/r/seduction	10/08/12 03:25 AM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Her: "My family moved here recently from South Africa." Dibs!! That's my people, that is! Oh, and very well done.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 05:27 AM
8	So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible. Repeat five times. Wouldn't that make the conversation a little strange? "I want fries! I want fries! I want fries! ..." :-p Seriously though, that's a good suggestion and I may try it myself.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 03:33 AM
1	What's your game like without alcohol? Same situation here. I generally don't drink either, but on new years I drank some. It was great. I flirted with groups of girls where usually I would never consider approaching a group. I got some random kisses :-) If I can be that confident and care-free sober, it would be great.	/r/seduction	28/06/12 04:41 AM
2	I think I may have crushed my eye contact issues! I salute you, sir. It's a great idea and I'll give it a try myself.	/r/seduction	28/06/12 04:28 AM