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| 1 | this sub seems dead what happened?Good reply. I also didn’t see anybody attempting to invalidate the value of powerlifting for those that choose to do it. What I saw was at least one person invalidating any decision to exercise or lift in any other manner, adding personal attacks that they are afraid of “adversity” or that they can “just get a pill” if they choose not to powerlift for legitimate reasons, e.g. they will wreck a body that was damaged in the past. They would like to be able to walk and play catch with grandkids. I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/01/26 04:21 AM |
| 1 | this sub seems dead what happened?No, my self esteem is quite good and the negative opinion of somebody that has so little perspective and wisdom does not affect me. He can do what he wants. Likely he is so broken that the program he is following is the only thing keeping him together. That’s fine. It’s working for him. But it is axiomatic that one size does not fit all. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/26 04:45 AM |
| 1 | this sub seems dead what happened?He doesn’t have to wreck his body AGAIN to create more adversity. Functional strength, flexibility and mobility are far more important than brute strength in powerlifting categories as they are factors in longer life. But obviously some people are getting validation that they desperately need from lifting and of course from dissing anybody that isn’t doing what they are doing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/26 04:39 AM |
| 2 | this sub seems dead what happened?Here is the reason that few people are active on this sub. Right here. If you aren’t doing it exactly this dude’s way, you might as well curl up and die because you’ll never be a real man and you are of no use to the world. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/26 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice for dealing with manipulative exTake the kids as much as you can. But don’t change the schedule. You get the kids on your weeks. Don’t give that up. If she wants to be free on her weeks, you take the kids. Then after some time, you go to the courts and you sue for a greater percentage of child custody and lower child support. Also, stop talking to her. Shun her. If it doesn’t have to do with the kids, don’t talk to her. Don’t send her pics of the kids events when she isn’t there. She should be there. But ignore her when she is… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/23 04:54 AM |
| 2 | I hate her..“I don’t want job to hate me forever…” She wants absolution. If you are friends then what she did couldn’t have been that bad, right? Nobody should have a problem with it since you don’t. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyMaybe I’m not a high earner. Define high earner. I’m definitely not mid six figures. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyAh, I forgot about the sexism. Want to throw some racism in too? Yes, drugs was a bad idea. But in those high income party circles, apparently it is normal. I had no idea. You have no idea what I am. But it is apparent that you are extremely insecure and your solution for that is to go scorched earth on anybody that contradicts you - even when you are obviously wrong. Red pill content is like a lot of other self help or life improvement training - it can be used to justify being a selfish asshol… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyWow. Homophobia, ableism, ageism, all in one post. Wow. The insecurity just drips off of you. As I’ve thought about you, I just remembered you reminded me of my cousin. He got into self help and red pill. Deep. He dumped his almost 20 year LTR because they weren’t compatible any more. Sounds like you. He was building something big. He started doing contract work, moved to NYC and making big bucks. He was living it up. Hot girls, fancy dinners, parties, theater, and all that. Tons of “friends”. H… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyChad, if what you say is true, and I am not assertive, then logically, according to your own statement, I outrank you. Because if you outranked me, and I cave like a pussy, then I should be caving in the face of your extreme manliness and self confidence, as fake as it may be. Are you like really young or really immature? I haven’t heard the insult “retarded” since the 80s. And “autistic”? And “beta”. And “pussy”? You need some fresh new material to hurl at people to try to make yourself look li… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyExactly. There you’re wife wasn’t good enough for you. That’s why you, “kicked her to the curb”, which is what you do with things you don’t value. Good morning, Chad. And thank you for admitting that there are situations where an assertive person is not assertive. There are men who are assertive at work, and church, and wherever, because they have developed frame in those situation, who are not assertive at home. And they need to change that. That’s the whole purpose of the teaching about frame.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyI really can’t believe that you made that analogy. It’s like you’re trying to prove me right. You want to race and you thought you married the Formula 1 but it was actually a kit car with a VW engine, in a sleek looking frame and when you realized that, SHE WASN’T GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU. She’s good enough for some applications, but not good enough for you and what you want to do. Or in your terms, a RAV4 wouldn’t work for you. It’s a fine car, but not good enough for your purposes. Thank you for ma… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyYou already admitted that an assertive person is not assertive in every situation. But declining to be assertive in every situation doesn’t mean that the person isn’t assertive. Also, assertiveness is not like pregnancy. It’s a spectrum. This isn’t hard to understand. Which is why a question of “how assertive are you” is valid. But then you want to argue that it is a binary and not a spectrum. That if you aren’t assertive in EVERY situation then you aren’t an assertive person, while admitting th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 04:06 AM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyI didn’t say you should treat everyone differently. I just said that an assertive person isn’t assertive in every circumstance. You confirmed the truth if this yet still wanted to argue about it for some reason. And I said that men treat women differently than they treat men. I didn’t say they should, that’s a different discussion. I said they do. Now this is a gross generalization. Assholes treat everybody badly except those they think will destroy them, so they would be exceptions. “Not the ri… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 03:34 AM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyWait, faithfulness to wedding vows and a wife is blue pill shit? Humans and relationship are complicated is blue pill shit? I read what you wrote. “[she has] Limited potential for growth.” IOW, you outgrew her. She wasn’t good enough for you any more. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyYes, absolutely. I am to be lectured because I have no idea what a marriage vow is by somebody who is divorced because he says that his wife wasn’t good enough for him. Sheesh. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyHaving strong morals and being a man of your word, aren’t those red pill attributes? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 02:37 AM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyOh. I didn’t realize that a principle of red pill was breaking vows that you made to somebody just because they aren’t good enough for you now. Learn something new every day. TY! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyI’m sure you’ll be an inspiration to all the men coming to this sub looking for a reason to divorce the wives they swore vows of loyalty until death to. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyThen it didn’t work. Right? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyAwesome. Look forward to hearing from you when you make these principles work in a LTR. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyNice. How often do you get to see them? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyOh cool. How old are your kids? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 10:52 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomy1) “Exceptions” are not stupid. Ignoring them is stupid because it is ignoring reality. It is living in a fantasy world. It is trying to shove every shape into a round hole. With understanding we know that people are complicated, and situations are complicated, and we can listen and really grok to be able to, with wisdom, give advice appropriate to a situation and not a one size fits all solution which will not work for everybody. 2) Excellent. I appreciate your willingness to invest in others a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyYou should do two things: 1) come to understand the complexities of human nature so that you will be giving good advice. A man can be a complete alpha boss in the company of other men and go home and be completely dominated. This could be because he was groomed by a mother or some other reason. Yes, he needs help, but he needs to have real information. Just because he is shutdown at home and never presses the issue doesn’t mean he isn’t an assertive person as he is assertive in every other aspec… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyThank you for validating my point. Men can be assertive, even alpha, in the company of a bunch of other men and go home and be completely pussy whipped. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 08:21 PM |
| 0 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomyYour take completely lacks the nuance requisite for an exploration of human behaviors. No. Just no. If you’re assertive, it doesn’t mean you are going to be assertive in the alley when somebody is robbing you at gun point. You can be assertive when dealing with a room full of toddlers and deferential when dealing with a room full of Nobel laureates. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 08:10 PM |
| 0 | There’s no alpha/beta dichotomy“Change of context does not matter at all” This is completely false. Most men behave much differently when dealing with men vs. women as just an example. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/23 06:58 PM |
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