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You're using sick pedos as an example. I'm talking about consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:25 PM
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It shouldn't be that way. It should be conditioned that sex-workes are still people and have the same rights/protections as anyone else. Sex work needs to be destigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:04 PM
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How so? Do you think it conditions men to see women as things to buy? I'm genuinely curious to know your take on this because it's relevant to a new thread I wanna post. Given whats happening in society, and what this sub is all about, how do you feel of the idea of sex work becoming more mainstream and "norm"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:54 PM
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. Women learned not to be dependent on men, men need to do the same. Easy for women to do because they subconsciously know that men, all types of men, will always desire them and they can have a relationship whenever they want. Men are collectively and chronically unwanted and people expect them to just find a way to be "happy" about it... Completely delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:45 PM
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Wow. This is basically it. You should make a whole new thread on this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:42 PM
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Yes it does 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:41 PM
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Platonic touch is something completely different from the other physical touch. I love petting my dog, I have no issue hugging dear friends/relatives,... It doesn't help. Being starved of the physical touch of the non-platonic variety offers a different kind of pain that platonic touch does little to alleviate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:31 PM
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Yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:26 PM
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Jeez is that really becoming more common? Any recent stories on that in particular? Society is im shambles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:16 PM
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Proof that you aren't a catfish and are socially able to have a reasonable amount of friends. You don't have to post, it's existance is enough What's a "reasonable amount" of friends to you? . If you met through a hobby club she knows youre social enough to be able to go and function in those settings Makes sense. It's too bad many women are now beginning to avoid those things because they're getting tired of dudes who join those clubs for the sole sake of meeting women which taints the whole sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:14 PM
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Out of curiosity exactly what kind of vibrant social life for a guy is ideal for you personally? How big of a circle? Is everyone mutually acquainted or are there separate "circles within circles" sorta speak? Do those separate circles occasionally interact with one another? Are we talking of having up to a dozen or so friends? 50 ? 80? 6? What if a dude just has one small circle of less than 10 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:08 PM
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thanks for the stats, I'll look into them later (I'm on mobile which sucks). Like what I said next. Intimidation, implication. Using his body to block an exit implies a threat of violence if she isn't compliant. This is why "she didn't say no" is bullshit. Did she say yes? Did he deliberately never ask and make it very difficult to say no? Yeah, thats rough. Sticky situation. I wish there was a better way to rectify it. Is she a hooker? Did she explicitly agree to let him fuck her while she pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:02 PM
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What the general person call you a sociable person? Or not so much? To a certain degree. I mean, i go out and such, usually bars and restaurants, maybe see a movie from time to time, haven't done that in a ling while though, since before covid... Nightclubs not so much. Once in a blue moon if I'm with someone(s). Don't care for them much otherwise. Every other year my best friend from high school may invite meet out to a live conert/venue and I'm always down to go because I hardly ever do lol. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:46 PM
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Wait? Huh? Can you reword that please? Lol When shit hits the fan? How does social media play into that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:14 PM
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Do you have a crew of friends you regularly hang with? I did. Not it's more a select few i can count on one hand. All at single, individual times. Do you attend social events that have a mixed-gender crowd in which you comfortably liaise and interact with gals AND gents? From time to time. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:05 PM
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I mean, there's been studies that about 30-35% of men would rape if they knew they'd get away with it. Which studies exact? Im not calling u a liar or anything, just looking for reference. but what about things that are not legally rape but are still coercive or difficult to prove? Like what? Give an example. How many men think they're "genuine" but also see no issue with pressuring women for sex and using intimidation or "the implication"? I suppose I see where coming from, I mean, does that re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:37 PM
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Thank you! maybe this is a generational thing then. I'm in my 30's as well and I remember the early Internet. Back then, it would have been unthinkable to post one's real identity and personal life so openly the way modern social media does. How things have changed. I feel like an old man now lol. Remember dialing in to AOL? lol good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:55 PM
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It seems like most of them increasingly *do* care though. That's the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:44 PM
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I actually do have a sister...so yeah despite the tone of my OP I do actually get where women come on this issue; sometimes when I'd accompany my sis and her group of friends on a night out on the town I'd always make a joke how I'd be her "hitman" in the background keeping an eye on her and her friends in case anyone tried getting too pushy/touchy. ​ That being a said, I'm still a dude with a hetero sex drive and as much as I keep an eye out on my sis I know that women are being extremely weary…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:40 PM
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Lmao! that's what I find so puzzling about this whole thing! women spend time vetting guys by social media when in reality a guy can completely manufacture a façade lifestyle online, thus fooling the vetting process entirely. That's why I find it odd that women put so much stock in social media vetting when it can totally backfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:25 PM
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This is an interesting take. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:20 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:14 PM
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I understand women's caution of being kidnapped/assaulted, etc. But seriously, how often does this really happen? despite what the media will have you believe the vast majority of guys aren't raging lunatics looking to rape at the first opportunity that kind of overzealous paranoia has a negative spill-effect onto genuine guys who are just trying to meet someone and date like a normal person. You see all men as monsters when so many of us are just trying to be genuine while being constantly judg…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:09 PM
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Like I told another poster who said something similar to what you're saying, won't they also use that against you for having a bland account? "I looked up his facebook and he doesn't have much on there, seems pretty boring, I think I'll pass"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:58 PM
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It really does seem that way sometimes. They literally sift through guys like employers sift through job applications.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:56 PM
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But then won't that also be used against you? "I looked up his facebook, and yeah, he doesn't have much on there, seems pretty boring...think I'll pass"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:20 PM
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Would you believe it if I told you that it's not always about dry dick/wet dick? Loads of dudes actually want a genuine connection but women don't give them a chance because they don't have social media...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:17 PM
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To use your grandfather example, technically there are jobs out there that don't necessarily require a resume to apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:09 PM
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Yes, because you're comparing social media usage (or lack thereof) to rape and assault. Apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:55 PM
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That just sounds like blatant stereotyping based off what exactly? I bet if a guy was tall and handsome with a six pack women wouldn't think twice about him not being on social media, but if its an average guy he just must be a basement dwelling neckbeard? Yeah. Fuck everyone who automatically judges and thinks that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:47 PM
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Why does someone who doesn't care to use social media automatically put into the hermit living under a dark rock category? Someone can have a socially fulfilling life and not have social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:17 PM
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I keep hearing this but I'm not sure I understand. What do mean make sure he's "real"? Assuming you initially met the guy out in public somewhere and he gave you his #...of course he's "real"...what would make you doubt he's not "real"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:13 PM
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I actually agree that social media can be a useful tool when used well. What grinds my gears is it being used as a prerequisite to even be considered because not everyone gets down with it, I basically have to manufacture an ideal image to be considered worthy to talk to and the fact that social media can be easily manipulated should tell us that it probably doesn't give an accurate reflection anyway on what a person is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:08 PM
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That has absolutely no bearing on what my OP is addressing, just a lame attempt to deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:04 PM
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It's like pulling teeth just to get them to admit and something and have a concrete argument to stick with. But they seem to fluctuate from issue to issue depending on how they feel at any particular moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:58 AM
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I admit it hasn't happened a whole lot (yet) but it's just one of those standoffish things I've seen girls do lately: being vague and coy regarding her own onpine identity while wanting to view mine. It's mainly among the younger women. The ones who basically grew up in front of a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:54 AM
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See, isn't this right here a form of deception? But only okay when women do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:30 AM
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No because people were managing to date/hookup before social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:15 AM
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"Be a social butterfly or GTFO" Sounds reasonable. Not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:12 AM
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Is it really such a radical notion that maybe someone doesn't want to be seen online as much as possible for principle's sake of privacy? I dont understand why society is hell bent on going full George Orwell '1984' with little rehard to their personal information.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:10 AM
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Why is it weird? People managed just fine without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:50 AM
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Because some peoe value their privacy and don't feel comfortable having their info just out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:49 AM
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Are you encountering this irl? Or is it just something you see online? Both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:31 AM
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So you're implying that he's genetically gifted? Hence why having no social media doesn't hinder him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:30 AM
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I think it's certainly hypocritical if say a woman doesn't want a guy who's interested in her checking out her social media but she wants to check his I've seen this firsthand. Plus what I see posted here tells me its a growing trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:29 AM
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I don't like being "exposed" and "tracked" like that. As I'm sure many women feel the same but yet for a guy it's a subtle prerequisite to be considered? It's the blatant hypocrisy that bothers me the most .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:58 AM
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An "online presence" can easily be inflated and artificial. It doesn't always give an accurate insight into how someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:54 AM
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But why should that even matter? What if a guy just doesn't care to regularly use social media like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:52 AM
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Good for you, exceptions still happen but I'm mainly referring to the growing trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:49 AM
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In this case though it's her own social circle that's filling her head with shit. What's a guy to do? Tell her who she can/can't hang out with? Who she can/can't listen to? Then he becomes an "emotional abusive jerk" if he takes that route even if all he's doing is attempting to defend himself against what her stupid friends are putting in her ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:01 PM
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Men here get called out all the time for using AWALT and hypergamy to demonize women. It's only fitting that they women also get called out for the same kind of behavior towards men. In othet words, two wrongs don't make a right. But this sub is heavily biased in favor of women so...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:55 PM
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So basically it's okay for women to generalize and demonize all men as a group because of a few bad male actors but heaven forbid men generalize and demonize women as a group because of the shitty things some women do... Like I said, double standard misandrist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:27 PM
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So basically men aren't even given the benefit of the doubt even in a professional setting like a shrink's office... Do you not how problematic this is? This blatant demonizing men full stop. A guy can't even go to a female shrink because she'd feel "uncomfortable" treating him? So basically men just need to jandle their issues on their own. This is a straight rebuttal of the notion that men need to seek help and not keep their emotions bottled up. Because apparently, even female therapists are …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:52 PM
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Part of this reason--according to my licensed social worker/therapist sister and a therapist acquaintance--is that many female therapists won't see men one-on-one. Why is this the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:58 AM
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That's always the part that they conveniently forget to mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:28 PM
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Citation? From where? We're talking about interpersonal relationships here. There's not exactly a scientific model for that if you're looking for concrete "proof" of something. Also, you act like there's no such thing as birth control. We're not in the middle ages anymore. All the huge rish of sex for women is greatly reduced with effective birth control. Lame excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:26 PM
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I'm thinking more and more that there's a subconscious agenda to keep a, certain type of men, in the dark about these things. It's like yeah I get that the onus is on each individual man to see through the bullshit and improve himself accordingly...but jeez, there sure as hell doesn't seem to be much interest in, idk, perhaps correcting the misleading narrative(s) regarding women and sex that's instilled into boys at an early age? it's like I don't think we would be seeing these issues in such a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:48 AM
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