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| 1 | What are successful autistic guys doing differently likely?I developed a framework for that: In general, the more physically attractive you are, the more autistic you are allowed to be. After that, there are three options: a) You try dating normie local girls. Those relationships usually have a time limit and require heavy-masking. NT foreign girls are a little more accessible depending on how attuned they are to the local culture. Because they are also "outsiders" in a sense, it takes them longer to catch up that you're a weirdo freak. b) Passport broi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Q4 People in Relationships: Does Assortative Mating Apply to Your Relationship? If so, how?It's the first relationship for me that has been lasting for over a year, and I genuinely feel comfortable in: Mental disorders, moral values, religious beliefs, personality traits, and behavioral characteristics Before that, I went for girls who matched my physical standards & educational attainment while trying to fake having no mental disorder. Always went fucking nowhere after a few months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weightGuys should 100% lie about their height. I'm legit 6'3 and still lie about my height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:02 PM |
| 11 | Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexuallyIf your absolute perfect dream man would come along, you would suddenly forget your silly rule and kiss him on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:19 PM |
| 11 | Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexuallyI don't believe that nonsense. If a woman is genuinely attracted to a guy, she won't react overly negatively to some contact with him ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:15 PM |
| – | An example of how it's about CONFIDENCE for Men....I stopped reading after the first word of your post. Jay-Z is in the Top 0.00001% of SMV/LMS Making these nonsense examples using world-famous celebrities and one in a hundred million outliers has to be the most brain-dead argument possible. "Bro, just look at Elon Musk/Jason Statham/Jay-Z; he is autistic/bald/ugly....!!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: an enthusiastic 3 or a starfish 10?Those look alright? Then the 3 by far. Hot, freaky sex is important to me, and I don't like to fuck women who aren't into me and act like they are doing me a favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: an enthusiastic 3 or a starfish 10?Give me examples of what you consider a 3. How overweight is she and does she have good hygiene/some nice features? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:05 PM |
| 10 | Impact of aspergers/high functioning autism on menYou won't be able to mask forever around a person you're dating and seeing 24/7. Your neurodiverse traits will slip through a few weeks/months into the relationship. The "pill thinking" is the only thing that might lead to success for a neurodiverse man. Being autistic/ADHD/whatever is such a massive handicap in the dating world that you need to be exceptionally good-looking, rich, and successful for any woman to put up with you long-term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:37 PM |
| – | Men and women define "Attractive" differentlyisnt what op states exactly the opposite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | We hear enough about red flags on this sub, what are some of your dating green flags?Someone who is all about honest, open communication without any mind games A girl who is all in, making it obvious she's into you (so there's no need for second-guessing), and who not only puts in the effort but is also super passionate when it comes to sex Doesn't spend all day badmouthing their exes (because, let's face it, we likely end up on that list someday) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?I guess you are masking heavily, and the longer time you spend with somebody, the more likely it is you'll majority slip up somewhere. And once that happened, the ship has sailed, and there is no way to recover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 11:20 PM |
| 12 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?Neurodivergence is a death sentence for long-term stuff for sure, you can do fine short term (max. 3 months) if you're good-looking enough and try hard to act “normal” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Men want women who look promiscuous but don't actually act promiscousSure. Guys want someone who's a slut but only for them. Extremely basic take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 10:23 AM |
| 9 | Change my View : Location is a very Big factor, in terms off sexual success, there are Playboys in a certain region who would be incels if they moved to a "harder" region.I told you how you could experience it yourself: Buy a ticket to Miami, buy a ticket to BKK (either real or a tinder travel pass) Try Dating/Swping in both cities Compare your results And the reason why you'd have more success: Being a young average American/European guy automatically makes you Top 10% in BKK, which gives you plenty of access to decently attractive women, while in Miami, you'd get fuckall You're always in a way higher percentile bracket in BKK than in Miami as a guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Change my View : Location is a very Big factor, in terms off sexual success, there are Playboys in a certain region who would be incels if they moved to a "harder" region.Traveling to both cities or swiping a bit on dating apps would be sufficient, too, and report back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 08:26 PM |
| 8 | Change my View : Location is a very Big factor, in terms off sexual success, there are Playboys in a certain region who would be incels if they moved to a "harder" region.Unless you're not into SEA women at all, I guarantee you that you can secure a better-looking woman with a personality you deem more attractive in Bangkok than in Miami | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | In the Old days the Redpill claimed that "Game" was the most important thing, in my observation the Manosphere transitioned hard to Looks/Money/Status maxxing theory, why did the Manosphere abonden game?If she is already attracted to you, "game" only becomes relevant when it's several standard deviations terrible compared to the average guy (meaning you have some mental illness or are neurodivergent...) Then it's a MASSIVE obstacle - maybe even the biggest one for LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 04:31 PM |
| 10 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingReally? Women who are into me are making an effort. If you are an attractive guy and have had success dating, you should have a similar experience. Might be a location thing - are you American? I'm from Austria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:28 PM |
| 43 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.Excellent post! It's important to recognize that having a successful dating personality doesn't necessarily mean that someone has a "morally good" personality. In fact, there may be a disconnect between the two. This is because the traits that often lead to success in dating, such as charm and charisma, can be used for both good and bad purposes. The just-world fallacy, the belief that the world is fundamentally just and that people get what they deserve, is most likely what plays a role in this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?Yes, indeed, but it depends on which one. Schizophrenia and Autism are the worst single factor a man can have regarding dating success - there are studies on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 04:58 PM |
| 4 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellPersonality for a man correlates with what his career/financial success is though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:17 PM |
| -1 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.You explained why you're confused. You incorporate status in your evaluation, while men who call her a 7/10 only judge her looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Tinder is effectively broken already.The worst thing about the entire problem is that most women and the majority of mainstream media would rather not acknowledge or admit the situation and go with some middle-ground fallacy like “dating is equality shitty.” It's demonstrably not. One is magnitudes more favorable than the other. Or like in the recent article which had massive traction on social media: Even WORSE, turn the situation around, completely misinterpreted everything, and make it seem like the data shows how dating got hor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Does it really boil down to looks as far as what makes a woman a potential partner vs a best friend?If they propose FWB, then not always. They might not want to date you because you seem mentally ill or have some other "slut" red flags. You make a fun friend, though, because your personality is entertaining. Do you like to go out a lot and are generally loud and quirky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 05:47 PM |
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