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4	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice I think it can work either way for sure, thanks for the respectful good talk:)	/r/seduction	18/01/25 06:29 PM
2	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice Most women will lust for a man intensely and just hold off on sex for up to 6 months because they don't want to pair bond and then get deeply hurt if the energy dies after that (we have gone through the whole "men will do and say anything" countless times before). 4 dates is still a stranger. Waiting is way more romantic anyways... please go touch grass	/r/seduction	18/01/25 06:27 PM
2	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice Paying for dates and flowers is not the same as letting a stranger inside your body. I get my boyfriends flowers, plan dates, etc	/r/seduction	18/01/25 06:17 PM
3	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice My dude.... I am a woman. You sound crazy 😭	/r/seduction	18/01/25 05:50 PM
3	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice Ehh, I think sex shaming is moreso internet talk than anythin It's still real people behind the screen- body shaming is also something that is more of an internet thing but it's still pervasive because of social media. & is valid if you like a guy and don't want to risk getting hurt And I agree that you may not feel instantly attracted to most men, but those few, are the ones you should be going after Ok, my last boyfriend and I saw each other as friends for around 2 years (we both dated other p…	/r/seduction	18/01/25 05:44 PM
3	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice The man you like alot, is the man who you should be sleeping with right away And then we get shamed if he ends up hitting and quitting for having a "high body count" lol. because you shouldn't waste the time of men who you think you 'like', I don't usually develop sexual attraction to most men unless I've been around them for a while. Very, very few women will just look at a man and instantly want to bone him, it works different for us	/r/seduction	18/01/25 05:33 PM
3	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice 4 dates is not a lot. Women know right away if they want to sleep with you Yeah, but many will intentionally hold off for weeks or even months because we've been through the same "men will do/say anything to get laid" bs before. To protect ourselves, with a guy we really like, it is safest to wait	/r/seduction	18/01/25 05:28 PM
1	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice He did get her back to his place, he did escalate, but not till the end, she put a last minute resistance ( which is a bad sign in all circumstances ). It actually sounds like he was being pushy, and likely very obvious for 4 dates what he was after. Also your first paragraph is not true, many girls will hold off sex (not too long, but a reasonable amount of time 6 months or less) if she REALLY likes the guy because if they're looking for something serious they don't want it to be a hit n quit t…	/r/seduction	18/01/25 05:26 PM
2	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice They've been on 4 dates. Chill	/r/seduction	18/01/25 05:24 PM
4	4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice Just wait until she's ready ffs. Continue to court her and tease without insinuating anything more will happen. If she's holding off it's because she actually likes you & doesn't want to risk getting hurt by being hit n quit. Sounds like that realization came through when you were sucking her tits and she realized she didn't feel 100% safe and comfortable with you. You've only been on 4 dates, things got crazy on just the 2nd, I bet you're being pushy & too obvious with what you're after. There …	/r/seduction	18/01/25 05:23 PM