farang Archive

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2	I miss being “girl crazy” and being very horny. My libido and interest in women is almost non existent at 22. Make sure you have a health checkup at a clinic, even if you don't have major symptoms.	/r/seduction	06/11/25 05:49 PM
2	First date nerves and what actually helps The thing that helps me the most is the phrase "anxiety is excitement". That helps turn the energy right around. Also, on the phone or on the date I'd have figured out just one simple thing to say to start off a conversation. Even if I never used it, I wouldn't feel speechless or tongue tied. And that was all it took.	/r/seduction	28/09/25 06:13 PM
2	Would you be friends with someone who rejected you? You owe her nothing and you have to accept that friendship is all it will be. Don't decide on the basis of attraction to her, don't decide on the basis of being hurt by rejection, just decide if you will enjoy the friendship enough to make it worth it.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 01:36 PM
2	I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself? Look her right in the eyes, smile with just a hint of a smirk, and say "Okay, but not here".	/r/seduction	21/07/22 04:20 PM
1	Should I have sex with some prostitutes for sexual confidence? I'd say it would depend on the prostitute, you need one with skills and some empathy. If it's legal you may be able to find reviews.	/r/seduction	05/06/22 05:23 PM
0	a girl/my best freind said im being to clingy and she wants me to leave her alone after i told her how i feel It hurts, but it won't damage you unless you let it affect your self esteem. Think about other things. Put your energy into other friends (including guys), school work, a job if you have one, new skills, working out etc. Build yourself up. And always believe in yourself.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 01:20 PM
3	What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub? Treating women with respect might actually get you somewhere. No, that doesn't mean being a wimp.	/r/seduction	25/03/22 12:59 AM
1	[deleted by user] >I will never be the best one and even if she genuinely likes me, it's guaranteed that she will find someone better soon. With that kind of attitude, you're already in trouble. There could be more than one reason why she didn't text back. Have a little patience.	/r/seduction	12/10/21 05:31 PM
10	Met a rich young girl, she didn't tell me at first, and now she wants me to meet her family. Should I just put an end to it, before it gets complicated? They'll respect you if you respect yourself. You have nothing to apologize for.	/r/seduction	19/06/21 12:36 PM
5	How to stop being loser? Stop thinking you're a loser and start thinking you're a learner.	/r/seduction	27/05/21 02:33 PM
2	What To Do On A Date This is the best thing I've ever seen on this sub. Friendly, not manipulative, and really smart.	/r/seduction	17/12/19 03:01 PM
1	Extremely Shy and Have a Date I used to make a few notes of things to talk about which I looked at before I set out for a date (and sometimes before calling a girl - ) it helped me not go blank for the crucial first few minutes.	/r/seduction	08/09/18 02:40 AM
4	im 29, and trying to learn how to flirt with girls for the first time in my adult life..... Remember, smiling and looking directly into someone's eyes is also flirty. And fun. And you don't have to say or do anything special.	/r/seduction	27/08/18 05:09 PM
1	I got slapped by a guy in the club. Can't stop thinking about it. You did good. Didn't escalate, didn't back down.	/r/seduction	15/04/18 03:23 AM
2	Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do. You can have one drink, then arrange with the bartender to serve you soda the rest of the night (or cola if you order a rum and coke, for example). You won't stick out and you won't fall over.	/r/seduction	24/11/17 02:19 AM
9	FR (failed) : When the girl you are asking out says 'Why dont you ask her out ?' First of all, you did good because you tried.	/r/seduction	04/10/17 10:58 PM
1	Went dancing, I really need to learn to loosen up. Help? See if you can find a class in clown or improv comedy. That's all about learning to loosen up and drop your inhibitions.	/r/seduction	22/04/17 04:28 PM
2	I asked a girl I know out on coffe date, and she seems concerned about if I could attend. She could just be being considerate. Or you could be right, in which case, show up, and convince her otherwise.	/r/seduction	14/02/17 09:49 PM
1	Do they exist? The men that find generous natural pubic hair a turn on, or are they a [hairy] wife's tale? This is so simple to answer: google porn hairy.	/r/seduction	18/09/16 11:56 PM
2	Hey guys, i'm 5'6 and i was wondering is this a deal breaker for a lot of women? A good friend of mine only likes tall men, she says, which explains why her last (long term) boyfriend was 5'6. Ya know?	/r/seduction	27/06/16 01:26 PM
12	What to say when girl on my bed says, "I don't netflix and chill?" Talk to her. See what she wants. Tell her what you want. Be brave. If you can't make it work, don't be crushed, just move on.	/r/seduction	13/04/16 03:03 PM
2	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... It's tough, but you took the first step. Don't be attached to outcomes, just be in the moment and take one step at a time. Remember that anxiety is excitement - let yourself be excited. And the enemy of confidence is low self-esteem. Be proud of yourself. So it's hard, and you don't have too many social skills and you feel awkward - so what? Doesn't make you a bad person or a loser. It's just stuff you have to work on.	/r/seduction	05/02/16 04:30 PM
18	Something I learned from a gay guy hitting on me Good lesson. Looks like you handled it really well, by the way.	/r/seduction	29/01/16 12:40 AM
1	Does my [35 F] therapist love [16 M] me just platonically? What should I do? Feel sorry for her? That's nice, but not your job. She's the therapist, and the adult, and should be able to deal with her own issues. Just be polite, say you want to stop therapy and get on with your life.	/r/seduction	23/01/16 04:44 AM