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Discussionfareorb/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:20 PM
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What you say is the main factor for attractiveness then? Physical appearance alone? If you need a strategy to date then you're starting off way below average. I doubt this. Data from dating apps states otherwise.The average man does pretty badly on dating apps whereas the average woman does fine. This just shows that it's much harder for men, and being average is definitely not good enough. For women, perhaps, being average is good enough. For men it’s a different story. It's the way the human s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:04 AM
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I mean they also have content on how men should focus on building wealth and fitness in their 20s so that they can have a strong foundation for their 30s and be in a stronger position to pick their ideal partner. 1stman talks a lot about how many men fall into the trap of marrying too early when they are not yet at the peak of their social value, and as a result, get married to someone they don't really like, get divorced, and don't fulfill their potential and aspirations in other areas of life.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:43 PM
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It's funny cuz the tips from 1stman (and other people that could be considered 'red pill' like Jordan Peterson) made me much more positive and healthier as a person. Discovered his advice about a year ago, and it really changed my life in positive ways. I started taking health and fitness more seriously, became more ambitious, and my life became more organized. Women found me more attractive and I've been getting asked out more. It puzzles me how can you refuse to date a person that listens to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:12 PM
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What, do people really think 1stman is bad content? I feel like there's nothing negative..he's just being realistic and giving practical tips for self-improvement for men. I definitely got my life together a lot more from the tips 1stman gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:33 PM
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They were most likely just cheering me on, but it felt awkward nonetheless.
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:39 AM
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Yeah that’s why I was saying I should have included them into the conversation..in the heat of the moment It just felt a bit cringy in the moment I ended it without thinking.
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:51 PM
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They are 19-21☠️
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:42 PM
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Actually the two of my friends that were teasing me were girls lol
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:39 PM
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Yes, I am bloody old Martin. I KNEW I'd find you on Reddit someday. You haven't changed at all. This kind of behavior is what got you fired. I'm reporting this to HR. s/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:37 PM
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Don't worry I'll do it s/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:35 PM
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Dunno what you're on about there.. All I was saying was that men should be patient and strategically marry later for the better of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:43 PM
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Even if they were simply being honest about something they did in the past, because the number of men cheating is increasing in a commutative sense, meaning that tge general trend is that more and more men cheated as they got older with a spike at 50-59. Also, how come the number of women cheating decreased? Did women suddenly become less honest at age 60-69?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:38 PM
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From my personal experience, I was happy at first. Apart from sexual satisfaction, I felt a sense of pride that I could win over many women. But that feeling gradually faded.. My guilty conscience started kicking in. I knew how to win girls over, but wasn’t really acting like my true self. I was also hurting people by ghosting them once I got bored. I learned the hard way that if you’re not happy with your inner self, nothing will make you happy. So I’d say the best thing is being happy with you…
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:26 PM
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I’m a half-white guy living in Thailand..and let me tell you, Thai girls really dig white guys, perhaps half white even more. XD
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:27 AM
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Bro I'm literally in college rn. Ultimately, a good relationship is what I want, but I'm just finding myself getting bored of people after a good number of dates or right after sex. Dunno how to change this
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:08 PM
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You're definitely right about my standards being higher now. The vast amount of options from online dating has definitely made me pickier and more judgemental on dates. It literally shifted my mindset from, "How am I gonna impress them?" to "How are they gonna impress me?" Also, I hardly feel that butterfly feeling I used to feel when I was a teenager anymore... Or perhaps I'm just not truly healed from my oneitis with the first girl.
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:59 PM
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Why are u spamming the same thing all over Reddit..are you still drunk now? 😂
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:04 AM
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Make frequent eye contact. Look at my lips and eyes back and forth during conversation. Then bite your lips occasionally. Ask lots of questions and act really interested in what I have to say. Act cheerful, giggly, and flirty. A bit of shyness/awkwardness/clumsiness can also be cute. Turn your body towards me and brush your breasts against me in a teasing manner. Ask me to do little favors for you like opening bottles. Grab onto me when you see something that frightens you. This is what I’ve exp…
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:44 PM
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I disagree with the voice bit. It doesn’t apply to both genders. Most men prefer women with higher pitched, girly voices.
/r/seduction01/02/22 01:50 PM
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Then what is the most important thing?
/r/seduction01/02/22 01:43 PM
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Pornhub has entered the chat
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:18 AM
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Dude I never wanted to believe this, but it’s pretty true from my experience. There are times where I’m getting zero women and then there are times where I’m dating multiple women at a time and it’s just choice overload. It’s never anything in-between.
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:25 AM
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I’m not sure about this. It sounds a bit like one of those “alpha male” videos. I don’t think it’s healthy for long term relationships to completely disregard what women say they want. I think there’s a bit of truth from both sides. Men can sometimes go over the top as well. For example, men often think that women like huge bulky figures like the Hulk. But that couldn’t be further from the truth; most women like balanced physiques.
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:28 PM
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Wouldn't Instagram or Tinder be better?
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:03 AM
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Romance and erotica are completely different. Imagine if Jack Dawson in Titanic suddenly had a massive boner while they were romantically hanging from the edge of the boat. Lmao that'd be hilarious
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:07 PM
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Yo bro I’ve never been on Snapchat, does it help you get chicks?
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:33 PM
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Been pretty busy lately so haven't talked much. But I bumped into her again yesterday as she happens to live close by. She walked me back home, had a nice chat, and I asked her out to watch spiderman. She was cool and down for it.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:43 AM
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Both
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:37 AM
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Not really but it’s the first time I approached a stranger like this so I consider it progress.
/r/seduction14/01/22 07:21 AM
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Bro hollup
/r/seduction13/01/22 06:42 PM
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Fake it till you make it
/r/seduction13/01/22 05:09 PM
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I’m 5’11 and have a six pack
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:35 PM
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Cough..cough..threesome??
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:32 PM
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Concerts and music festivals. Seriously man. Nothing connects people more instantly than a shared music taste. Or even better, learn an instrument and join a band. If you want to find a band quickly and easily, I suggest learning bass. Most bands are looking for bassists and you can learn to play well enough for most rock and pop bands with a month of dedicated practice. Not to mention lots of girls will want to talk to you after the gig. I’m in a band and I’ve experienced this. Great fun.
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:39 PM
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I think the important thing is that you say something. Doesn’t have to be clever or witty. Just say anything and conversation will happen naturally if they’re interested. I think asking for directions is good because you can take the conversation elsewhere. You could ask things like “Btw, do you know any … shops here as well?”
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:25 PM
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Just tell them you’re only looking for something casual. If they’re not down for it there are many other girls that would be.
/r/seduction31/12/21 01:38 AM
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No such thing as friendzone bro. Friendzone means the girl can’t see you in a sexual way cuz you aren’t sexy enough. (But you are nice and kind so there’s friendship) If you’re handsome and start escalating…there will always be some attraction. Gotta be subtle though. Maybe start flirting and teasing. Being drunk can definitely help.
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:22 AM
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haha was just messing with ya
/r/seduction17/07/21 06:24 AM
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Are you really good looking? Show us a selfie.
/r/seduction16/07/21 06:01 PM
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He’s having a bad day. He’s just letting it out like we all do sometimes.
/r/seduction13/12/20 05:10 AM
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Well commiting a higher amount of crimes indicates an increased likelihood of being a jerk. Basically an unusually high amount of testosterone could cause one to become a jerk by today's standards.
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:23 PM
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I never called you an incel. I simply described your attitude as being reminiscent of that of an incel: having a general sense of negativity towards women and a certain belief that you must be a "jerk" to attract them.
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:17 PM
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Fair point. But we don’t have the statistics to prove it. That sounds more like a Netflix show. In fact, higher testosterone usually correlates to committing more crimes and sexually assaulting women. That’s a proven statistic.
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:02 PM
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How is making an observation being entitled?
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:00 PM
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Your last paragraph is kind of like advocating hedonism and psychopathy...
/r/seduction25/11/20 01:04 PM
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I'm not entitled to anything. These are just my microscopic observations in a huge diverse world.
/r/seduction25/11/20 01:00 PM
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You're saying stuff like "being a jerk will get you laid" and "as long as you don't get them pregnant it's fine". It implies that you don't respect people's boundaries and only look at your own needs. So I'm saying you've got to be considerate and make sure you get proper consent as well. And Jerks are more likely to be rapists because they have less moral conscience.
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:57 PM
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Actually I know one friend that kills it with women and is porn addicted...actually 3 friends when I think of it. But I get the gist of what you're saying
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:53 PM
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That's a bit of an incel attitude right there... I believe in consent bro. Nice guys don't finish last. Unconfident guys finish last. It just happens that insecurity often corresponds to fake niceness that is just used solely to suck up to others. Confidence in your own skin can lead to assholery. But I've noticed that assholes tend to pick on weak insecure targets. They never get 10s. They only get 7s and 8s. On the other hand, most 10s end up with some nice guy who is generally nice, not just …
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:11 PM
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What are you like then?
/r/seduction25/11/20 10:56 AM
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You are very right indeed
/r/seduction25/11/20 10:46 AM
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Well that's the technical definition based on prefix and suffixes, but culture has turned it into something much more. It's more than just not finding a gf, but a certain attitude - a certain lifestyle and subculture.
/r/seduction25/11/20 10:34 AM
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STDs, my bro, STDs..
/r/seduction25/11/20 09:42 AM
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I try to, but it's hard if you are single. How else can you let it out?
/r/seduction25/11/20 07:42 AM
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Actually I wouldn't mind either, but prefer relationship.
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:53 AM
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What’s an incel thought or attitude? Are you having thoughts wherein you blame life or other people for your lack of others’ affection? Are you becoming angry at other people? Or are you just depressed and frustrated with life in general? What I would define as an incel thought or attitude would be finding external evidence to justify my own failures. For example, blaming the nature of society for one's lack of success with women. For me in particular, I tend to read a lot of articles about psyc…
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:44 AM
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I'm almost 20 and never had a girlfriend. Hope to become like you one day!
/r/seduction17/11/20 06:53 AM
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WTF am I even reading
/r/seduction17/11/20 06:23 AM
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And no thicc one-legged milfs for me :(
/r/seduction17/11/20 06:10 AM
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Ironically I've never been rejected by a girl because I can usually tell whether she's gonna reject me or not. If I sense a 50% chance I'll be rejected, I don't make a move. Tryna stop this mindset.
/r/seduction03/09/20 02:52 PM
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Nah, a real over thinker would try to understand everything there is about women before approaching - and they would consequently find this sub and find some good advice. But still, they would be able to think of possibilities for how such advice could go wrong and they wouldn’t approach women. A simp, on the other hand, would just go around pleasing women without hesitation or prior research. Speaking from personal experience.
/r/seduction18/08/20 02:35 PM
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https://footwearnews.com/feature/best-elevator-shoes-442164/ Nike AirMax’s also give around two inches of height, or even Nike Air-Force Ones, but if the climate’s cold, then might as well make the best out of it and get a good pair of boots.
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:13 PM
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I guess they aren’t really necessary, but you could use them to give yourself an extra inch or two on special occasions. Nobody will notice, but you will definitely notice and feel more confident. Experiment with them and see how you feel. But definitely consider how much height increase you get when buying new shoes. Avoid those super flat converses if possible I’d say. There are plenty of comfortable shoes that add two inches of height. At 5’8, you’d be around average height.
/r/seduction30/07/20 05:13 AM
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I didn't mean to blindly convince yourself of a false fact, but just to think positively. If one thinks something will happen to them, it is more likely to happen. However if it doesn't you shouldn't take it personally either.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:12 PM
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Why not?
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:59 PM
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Lemme help you out with specifics as I went from people thinking I was 15 to people asking me what I did for a living over the span of a year. I think what we have is the “Justin Beiber face” - soft eyes, pointy chin, not much facial hair - almost androgenous. Girls around 13-17 dig you, but other than that you might have to do some work... Here’s some tips: Dress well: don’t wear clothes with emojis and cartoons; they make you look like a teenager. Stick with plain colors and try to keep the co…
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:54 PM
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I’m have this problem as well... I think things that help would be dressing well, taking care of your skin, gaining some muscle, or even possibly growing longer hair.
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:58 AM
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Let me give you a tip: always assume the girl is attracted to you. It will make you more confident that way.
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:54 AM
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Is he married?
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:52 AM
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Well we all have to start somewhere...
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:23 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction21/07/20 03:04 PM
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Thanks, that was real positive!
/r/seduction21/07/20 03:04 PM
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I’m super confident meditating at home since the lockdown. Haven’t found a relationship. What exactly went wrong?
/r/seduction21/07/20 12:35 PM
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What if I’m not shy, but simply don’t feel like talking about boring stuff, and consequently keep my mouth shut?
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:22 AM
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Being a fucking prick
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:20 AM
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I’m trying to come up with false explanations for myself so I don’t hate people, but you’re definitely right. People should be taught some fucking manners!
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:17 AM
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Herd immunity is not scientifically proven
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:36 PM
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Wow! this is so interesting! I never thought of any of this “shit test” stuff... It explains why some girls seem like they are interested in me, but when I talk to them, they’re kinda unresponsive. I thought they hated me, but no, it’s actually, “the shit test”. Nice.
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:31 PM
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Lmao it’s the opposite when you are good looking and have no personality...
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:13 PM
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But I read on wiki how to that you shouldn’t do this...
/r/seduction13/07/20 01:52 PM
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I understand being attracted to physical qualities that resemble an alpha male. Of course, a person who looks good and takes good care of themselves is going to be healthier, but these “Alpha behaviors” are just cults that are harmful to society as a whole. There are already enough wars going on in the world and what we need is peace-makers and intellectuals, not these aggressive, authoritative “alpha” madmen.
/r/seduction24/04/20 01:32 AM
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I looked like shit and had big nerdy glasses in school. Now I look much better and people are complimenting me and that and I can tell a lot are attracted to me. The only problem is I never had any flirtatious experience before, so I'm awkward af and afraid of making a fool of myself. IDK if many people have this problem lol.
/r/seduction17/01/20 03:23 PM
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It will be awkward It will be cringy Nobody likes you anyways, so why bother
/r/seduction17/01/20 02:27 AM
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Is it possible to learn this power?
/r/seduction01/12/19 07:38 AM
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I want a physically attractive girl that has the personality of a physically unattractive girl. Best of both worlds lol. Good looking people just feel like they’re entitled to everything(because people treat them well) and it comes off as not very humble.
/r/seduction30/11/19 12:10 PM
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I'm a cringe-freak with low-key OCD, so everything is awkward for me.
/r/seduction18/11/19 01:10 PM
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I feel like it would be awkward if you met at the gym again lol.
/r/seduction18/11/19 01:06 PM
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I mean I've tried this. I take no notice of girls and ignore them and all that shit. Guess what? They ignore me as well and no interaction happens.
/r/seduction25/10/19 05:34 AM
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Different majors lol
/r/seduction07/10/19 06:16 AM
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