farfarwizard Archive

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1	Why do women blame men for their own shitty actions When people say that about her album cover they’re not blaming men, they’re upset at her for pandering to the male gaze and seeing women as only sexual. I’m not sure if you know what the male gaze is but it’s simply how men view women, so because there are many (not every) misogynistic men out there, her album cover only perpetuates ideas of women being submissive or overtly sexual. Yes there are many other music artists who are also just as or more provocative, but these people are speaking on …	/r/MensRights	16/06/25 02:31 PM
1	Modern dating + 50/50 mentality Have you ever thought that the dominant culture could be simply wrong? So conforming, whether that leaves you alone, is just lessening yourself. It would be better to be alone and true to yourself then to be with someone and accept what goes because it’s normal their. Lowering standards < intergrity.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/25 01:00 AM
1	Not sure if I’m being too picky and analytical after having low standards previously Ok, but to be fair, even if he left himself in such an intoxicated state, he could’ve very well been like that for numerous reasons: hidden struggles and numbing pain with alcohol, something getting out in his drink, or even just the fact that he could be a lightweight, if he’s a lightweight then of course he’d keep drinking and get to that point.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/25 12:57 AM
1	Should I forgive my man for being addicted to porn? No one is ever too old or too young to learn from anyone, and let that first part sink in. Being young doesn’t mean someone doesn’t know how certain things work, you should be humble and acknowledge that no one knows everything, and that it’s very possible for ANYONE to know more then you and give you knowledge/advice that you never would’ve thought you needed, but was actually good. I do not have a failure attitude about relationships, simply because if a man doesn’t meet my standards then I wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/25 12:54 AM
1	Should I forgive my man for being addicted to porn? Sure, two times a month is low, let’s go with that. Even then, sex isn’t something that should be given just because your partner says they wanna do it. If YOU are not in the mood but they are, man or woman, it doesn’t matter, NO ONE is entitled to give sex at any point in time to ANYONE. Because then it turns into only one party truly enjoying it while the other is just giving into the other wants. If you or anyone finds sex as a NEED I think you need help, whatever would help you, because that…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/25 08:01 PM
1	Not sure if I’m being too picky and analytical after having low standards previously Him throwing up in a bush is not a red flag, he was drunk, people do stupid things when drunk, anyone does. And as for mooching around, I’m not exactly sure what he meant by that so I don’t know how to help there.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/25 05:29 PM
1	Should I forgive my man for being addicted to porn? He putting in the work to change, sure that’s great, but you saying that you weren’t aware of the importance of mens sexual needs? Men, whether you’re together or not, are not entitled to have sex with you whenever THEY want. It should be a mutual thing, when you both want to. You are not “supposed” to give him anything. Because by that standard, he would leave if you had some sort of condition where sex would be super painful, just so he can “fulfill his needs”. NO ONE is entitled to have sex w…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/25 05:25 PM
–	How can you inspire a man to commit? To want to be in a relationship? You should not be trying to inspire anyone to commit to a relationship with you, a true genuine relationship will come about only if he actually wants to be with you, without external influence. You can be around him more or flirt if you want, no problem there, but trying to get him to be with you is just you chasing after him or subliminally pushing him to, which isn’t actual love. He’s right for wanting to wait till he loves someone, is right with himself. If he’s not ready, then why try to in…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/25 05:11 PM
1	Modern dating + 50/50 mentality A man is not more important than a persons own already set up standards/expections, unless a flaw is seen in them, then there is no reason to change it. Settling for less then what your satisfied with will only make anyone unhappy. She can express how things are done in her culture, while also respecting a man if he says he doesn’t want to be with a partner like that.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/25 05:05 PM