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I don't think high N count men are criticizing high N count women. Promiscuous men and promiscuous women are generally on the same page. In my opinion, the issue comes from low n-count men who have little experience in dating and sexual experiences looking for a partner with a similar outlook on life and feeling misled when a high n-count woman pretends to have a low n-count for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:15 PM
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Men have done this for thousands of years with the church. Now that the church has lost power, we kind of forgot we were doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:46 PM
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Women often say they need to get together and stop letting guys get laid until they secure commitment - an idea as equally preposterous as men organizing to not simp. The bar of expectations for both genders is set by the lowest bidder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:25 PM
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The Red Pill often refers to women as crabs in a bucket regarding climbing over each other for a high value guy, but this is definitely something that applies to both genders equally. Men are just as much crabs in a bucket as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:23 PM
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You are consistent, I will give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:10 PM
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It's a prisoners dilemna.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:32 PM
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Above average men look their way when they are horny, then turn around and leave afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:13 PM
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I think it's a great idea but sadly I think too many people are going to be Ken this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:02 PM
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All they know is discontent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:55 PM
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Just like with women choosing men, when men choose women, there are multiple 'gates'. Being fat is the first gate. There are plenty of qualities or lack of besides being thin that may disqualify a partner, but being fat is a no at the first gate. On that note, food is a temporary effect on your mental health. Your body you live in for the other 23 1/2 hours out of the day. For me, it's far more important to be unhappy about not eating than unhappy about being heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:49 PM
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They were always there, you just didn't know it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:58 PM
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What is your body types likelihood of gaining weight after childbirth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:05 AM
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Owning a car is too much for them, so they want to make you miserable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:01 AM
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Less invasions, more being invaded, if you're into that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:25 AM
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That's an interesting way of admitting to being wrong but I'll accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:14 AM
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https://www.politico.com/story/2017/02/hillary-clinton-video-message-future-is-female-234723
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:28 PM
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If unattractive women are complaining, you are doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:09 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:51 AM
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Someone that wants a free lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:29 AM
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Babies popping out everywhere I'm not a doctor but I don't think that's right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:49 AM
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It's only hard in the beginning, then again if you get lazy and have to get back into it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:46 AM
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Work out until you vomit, then keep going
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:38 AM
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Relevant username I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:38 AM
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Dad bods aren't hot. They are a known quantity which puts wife's anxiety over their husband's cheating at ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:05 PM
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I didnt say you had to do anything, much less divorce your husband. Where did you get that from? I also don't think anyone said anything about being afraid to date anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:22 AM
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Not sure pales is the correct word to use here, but sure, 80% is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:38 PM
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20% is kind of a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:45 PM
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I think ppd has done a couple of anonymous pic posting events, and I was kind of surprised that most of the pictures weren't dumpster fires like I was expecting. That said, there was no verification so people could have just posted any old internet selfies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:44 PM
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Exactly. It's cringe to watch it, but whatever. Not my position to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:45 PM
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Sometimes I guess it could be resentment. Sometimes it's clearly attraction. Agree it can be awkward, but I gave up on judging long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:34 PM
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As a chad that doesn't cheat, Im not sure I'm the best to answer your question, but I'll give it a go. I don't think its all that common for women to full-on cheat on their boyfriends or husbands, even if you are chad. That said, there is a huge difference in the way that married or taken women act around me if they have a schlub of a husband. I see a ridiculous number of women actively talk down to their husbands in front of me that it almost makes my head spin. Then there is a lot of flirtatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:18 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:29 PM
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Sadly, I think you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:24 AM
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Sure if they are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:52 PM
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Eh, we will get bored quickly anyway so at least it won't be for very long
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:48 PM
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Go tell that to antiwork
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:45 PM
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That's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:44 PM
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If you want to think that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:58 PM
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It would probably make it even harder than it already is to purchase a new boat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:41 PM
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Verb
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:32 PM
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Pass
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:28 PM
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I do wonder if the proliferation of online simping is going to swing the pendulum the other way. Like when these guys realize they've spent a ton of money and gotten nothing for it? Obviously it's going to be a bitter pill to swallow, but they're going to have to swallow it at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:22 PM
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Yet you aren't refuting the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:09 PM
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I mean, the entire continent of Africa never developed a car either....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:56 PM
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That's about right, but with the proliferation of antidepressants that kill libido it's probably worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:23 PM
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Or your bored coworker or the newly single chick at the gym or some chick in town for spring break or....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:22 PM
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Or you just find someone new
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:17 PM
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We have a variety of suggestions for establishing evidence to make sure this behavior does not continue. If the answer you are hoping for is that we just take her word for it, then you are going to be disappointed because that's not what happens at my company or any other for that matter. "Just trust me bro" is worth nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:16 PM
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Both women and men can be impulsive and financially stupid. The difference is that women's financial impulsiveness comes in smaller chunks and is easier to pawn off onto potential suitors, like dinner, drinks, traveling, clothes, and the like, so men see the burden of it more. Mens impulsiveness results in a 9 year loan on a dodge challenger at 12% Apr while rolling negative equity. He sometimes can burden a partner with this, but it's a much higher bar to get a woman to sign for a car loan than…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:46 PM
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We dont have to prove anything, its not a courtroom. We just look at the evidence brought forward (in this specific case there wasnt any) and make a decision in the best interest of the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:13 AM
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You made the people in our hr department sound fun by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:30 AM
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As someone who works in HR I can believe it. People in HR have exactly zero fun, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:25 AM
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No. After investigating the incident (or incidents, if its happened more than once), if we find the claims to be baseless, we consider removing the person for being the type to make baseless claims and disrupt the office.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:16 PM
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Is that an actionable claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:03 PM
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I have heard of cases where women have reported men to HR for "being creepy" with no additional information or specifics to back it up. It's not quote calling to police, but the sentiment is there. To be fair, when people submit reports like that, we usually start looking for a reason to get rid of the person that complained before they become a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:31 PM
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The nuance to divorce rape is that the lawyers are raping both of them. Usually the leaving party has less to lose and everything to gain, so the more the lawyer stirs things up, the better. It can be used as a tactic to get the other side to cave. Regardless of the two parties feelings towards each other, the lawyers will recommend aggressive action. If you can peaceably split with minimal lawyering, then it will work out far better for both
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:28 PM
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I have no qualms gaslighting you, but in this case, I don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:19 PM
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You seem to be detached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:50 PM
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So when you don't know how to respond, you just go on a rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:31 PM
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Especially when God wants war, pillaging and famine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:58 PM
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Why do women want babies so much? Can't they just like, get a doll and not think about that stuff? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:56 PM
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Pass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:48 PM
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There was a whole movie called "he's just not that into you". I didn't watch it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:44 PM
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Where does it say that if you believe there is truth to ideas of trp that you have to keep women uneducated and subservient? Or that only men should have a career? I don't listen to rp Podcasters, so maybe they say this stuff, maybe they dont. The core of trp says to be a man women want to be with, rather than a man that's convenient for her to be with. To me, that's the opposite of having women be dependant on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:35 PM
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Yes, with some caveats. It depends on the group. Some young girls see me as too old, some are all about it. I never knew how many bored housewives wanted to cheat until I hit my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:45 AM
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What are you on about? I think you've confused me with another commenter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:18 AM
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Are yall still talking about gender? Reading the comment chain it could apply to a few demographic differentiators.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:05 PM
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Inefficient
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:02 PM
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That's disappointing, because that's the most effective kind of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:46 PM
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How can you give that advice to someone you have never seen a picture of? It was a hypothetical example showing how someone league might change based on actionable advice. Who needs someone to tell them they have nasty teeth? You'd be surprised. When you see the same thing every day, you become used to something that has always been there. Plenty of people have crooked teeth that didn't notice the getting bad, or large moles on their face, or or even something as simple as excessive near or nose…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:44 PM
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It may be an unpopular opinion, but staying in one's league could save a lot of people unnecessary dating woes. I agree this can play a part, but I'd also say that small differences can make big swings in 'league', and those differences are often not communicated for a variety of reasons. Dropping 20lbs, fixing your teeth with braces, and going from glasses to contacts could bring a guy from a 5 to an 8 (assuming other features are reasonable and he's not 5'6"). And yet, I've never heard women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:27 PM
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Average man on a college campus and an average man in the blue collar Midwest are two very different people. The environment matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:46 AM
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Just based on what you've posted, you should be having very few problems in college. When I was in college, I had the body and the aesthetics, but building a large social circle took awhile. The latter was the key to many opportunities. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:41 AM
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Wild. Can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:15 AM
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That seems strange to me. I have a suspicion that maybe these guys are really not into it, are super horny going in and then once they nut and the post nut clarity kicks in they suddenly lose their appetite and bail. I don't say that to be mean, it's just the only thing I can come up with to explain it. I've never had a partner I didn't want to please, but then again I've never taken home anyone I wouldn't want to be near the next morning either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:23 PM
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Also, guys not wanting to put in effort to at least try to make the girl cum is the most insane thing to me I thought the same, but I hear it so much I'm starting to get the idea that in a lot of these cases the guy nuts and the post nut clarity reveals he was dumpster diving with someone really ugly and he suddenly wants out. That's the only explanation I can come up with that makes sense to not even want to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:37 AM
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Your comments make me feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:31 AM
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The thing is, this kind of communication takes time and a build up as you get more comfortable with each other. Does it really? I've been with girls that are very shy and feel awkward about asking how to touch them, sure. I've also been with girls that are comfortable enough on the first time to say what they need to get them off. It's not impossible. Back to the ops premise, it's your responsibility to communicate, yes even on the first time, yes even if you think it's awkward. Otherwise, accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:29 AM
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guys just said “nah” Really? Like, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:19 AM
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Consider me surprised, though my eyebrow is raised at the accuracy of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:56 PM
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What I mean is that for a woman to be 200lbs, she has to be at least as tall as me and likely have more volume due to differences in muscle densities. It is very rare for me to see a woman that appears to be taller/larger than me (unless she is extremely obese), thus, it's rare for me to encounter women over 200lbs. This is not a scientific measurement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:44 PM
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I'm picturing the cleaning lady from family guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:01 PM
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None of these women will age well Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:59 PM
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2 is too big for her age and being a model. She's going to balloon the second she let's herself go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:56 PM
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You said it, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:55 PM
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Maybe if they are tall, but I am 6' and 200lbs and a woman my size is pretty rare. 200 is a pretty high bar to hit for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:53 PM
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These women look north of 175lbs depending on height
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:21 PM
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1 and 8 maybe, everything else no. Americans are too overweight as a whole, no argument there. That said, at my height a 'healthy' bmi would leave me with significantly less muscle mass and I'm not in favor of that. Bf% is a better number.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:19 PM
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Which one do you think would give you more of the lifestyle you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:14 PM
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That being said, the title is correct - his value doesn't increase if gets the high count. The high count confirms that he has value. I agree with you, but I still think that his value increases as he's with more women, to a point, due to experience, learning what works in bed, what's a turn off, what's a turn on, how to make women comfortable afterwards. The highest value man on paper that doesn't have any sexual experience will have difficulty sexually escalating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:34 PM
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I think it's odd that half of women watching porn are all "no faces" and the other half are all "I want to see faces". Anecdotally, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:31 PM
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She got the memo, she just refuses to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:16 PM
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Some people can't get over the obvious conclusion that maybe they are just not fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:16 PM
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I have no idea what a froshie is. Have I made out with girls at parties? Yes, like 99% of people that go to college. What planet are you from that this is not a normal, every-weekend occurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:01 PM
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Hey if you come onto my used car lot, what trick can I use to get you excited enough to buy now without thinking? Why won't you tell me?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:00 PM
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What if he is homeless but does have shoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:58 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:10 PM
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There are plenty of real reasons that ratios are skewed right now, but this staged clickbait short video isn't one of them. This is just outrage porn meant to get guys to high five and women to get all riled up over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:01 PM
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So tell me you never partied in college without telling me you never partied in college
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:32 AM
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When you're drunk at a party, make out with a guy. If he wants your number after that, you're good. If he disappears, no so much. Easy low effort litmus test.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:24 AM
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I do fine, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:34 PM
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It's almost as if personality matters Yes just as much as looks. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:00 PM
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Good point. We should mold women's opinions so they are happy being subservient housewives. Or, wait, is it only okay to change what men should want to be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:51 PM
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You ever hear the boomer joke about the husband store, and the 10th floor is empty and only goes to show that women are never satisfied? Its the 5001st floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:54 AM
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Ghosting is just rude regardless of gender. It's not a hate crime, it's not a felony, it's not a wrong that needs to be punished. It's just rude, that's it. People do rude things all the time. The "safety" card is beside the point. Women have been trying to use the safety card to excuse rude behavior since forever. Doesn't matter, because they're just trying to justify it. They'd do it anyway even if they didn't. It's pointless to argue it with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:41 AM
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You know how its meant, especially on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:59 PM
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>the average man doesn’t have a lot of friends throwing parties every weekend neither. Not with that attitude. It takes effort to put yourself out there, but it can be done. You have to force yourself to be social with everyone - not just hot girls, or people that you can immediately gain from. You need interesting and varied hobbies, key word being varied. Sometimes interesting hobbies are sausage fests, and sometimes balanced gender hobbies are the definition of basic, but you need both to bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:52 PM
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"rabble rabble rabble" gets clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:40 PM
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We need to model success differently. I mean, you can try. But you can't tell people what to desire in life any more than you can tell a child to want vegetables. You can describe the benefits until the cows come home, and people can make good decisions even if they don't feel good, but you'll never be able to change what people want in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:37 PM
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Go check out Wedding Subs. ew
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:33 PM
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Also telling them to go to therapy That's better advice than "become a misogynist". No, its not. Telling someone to 'go to therapy' is basically saying "There is something wrong with you, but its not my job to solve it" all wrapped up in pretend empathy. I'm not suggesting that following tate is the answer, I just think telling someone to go to therapy is a passive-aggressive 'fuck you'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:32 PM
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You can if you try to redefine 'success' as being wage slave to a wife and kids that show you zero affection and limit your free time and hobbies. "You have a wife that doesn't find you attractive, isnt that winning in the end?" /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:27 PM
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Testosterone + psych meds is my prediction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:39 PM
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Men aren't interested in that, so it's a moot point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:44 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:26 PM
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$5 says a bunch of psych medications
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:25 PM
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If you're heavy it does
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:13 PM
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What kind of party? I can't stand adult dinner parties but I will throw an outdoor or pool party any day l.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:48 PM
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