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| 6 | been on a few dates in the past couple of months and a lot of men praise me for simply not being a Western woman? i wonder what's up with that? I don't mind it but it puzzles me (MEN only pls, but women are also welcome to contribute) | Question For Men | farrahamelia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:14 PM |
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| 1 | Alphaan alpha male is a leader, a dominant man. that's all i know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?I think that yes, marriage will eventually die out but only in the Western world, because despite that phenomenon that will eventually become a norm that women outearn men, there's also a million other reasons like "women's liberation", radical feminism, sexual positivity culture, and hookup culture. Women outearning men will only make those things worse. I think the non western world will be alright though they will still of course feel the effects because what happens in America eventually pou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 06:43 PM |
| 7 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSmy best advice in general is just to get off dating apps. it's a toxic, non healthy environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:03 AM |
| 1 | If you had a son and he asked you how he can become a man, what advice would you give him ?i'd say ask your father. no woman has any clue what men go through or will go through when they grow up to be one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:01 AM |
| – | Why do some women hate harmless kind men so much?see my tagline? that's how. feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?Whoever asked the other out on the date should pay for it. Most of the time it's the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 06:53 AM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"this isn't a debate or controversial tbh, most young men are single. most young women are in relationships. something's wrong there. a lot of women are "dating" the same guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Modern men offer nothing to relationshipsYep. If a man is moderately attractive and willing to drop his standards, he can get laid. this makes me wonder and doubt the existence of real "incels". honestly atp that word is meaningless and it's just used to insult men who disagree with a popular female opinion. also many times i've seen men who consider themselves incels, are "incels" because they can't get relationships with women. sleeping around to them is easy but they want the comfort and warmth of being in a relationship. And it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for meni don't understand why this is such a complicated thing for men to understand. for both genders, the more people you sleep with, the harder it is for you to pair bond and maintain a relationship / marriage (especially). it's not good when we do it and it's not suddenly good when they do it either. also, i don't understand the appeal of it, never have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:25 AM |
| 1 | A woman being promiscuous benefits men more than herselfhahahaha, fair enough. for me that's the reason why i hate feminism, none of the things young girls are influenced to do today because it's "empowering" are actually empowering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Modern men offer nothing to relationshipsthis isn't the case for my home country, actually a lot of the things in this forum aren't but i'm studying in America so i'll talk about my experiences here rather than the ones at home. Women control access to sex. and here in America men can get sex very easily from like over 50 percent of women because of hook up culture. depending on the location, men don't even have to try to get a hook up and a one night stand. relationships is a different thing though. to put it simply, men basically hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:18 AM |
| – | been on a few dates in the past couple of months and a lot of men praise me for simply not being a Western woman? i wonder what's up with that? I don't mind it but it puzzles me (MEN only pls, but women are also welcome to contribute)that is definitely the ideal outcome for sure! but sometimes unfortunately things don't work out for a variety of reasons... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:06 PM |
| – | Would you at least agree that the majority of women like confidence a lot?definitely. but it's not really a deal breaker if they lack it. there are other factors that matter more for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:02 PM |
| – | been on a few dates in the past couple of months and a lot of men praise me for simply not being a Western woman? i wonder what's up with that? I don't mind it but it puzzles me (MEN only pls, but women are also welcome to contribute)tbh some men have tried to take advantage of my personality. some hypocrites who don't like it when a girl gets around then they try to convince me to sleep with them on the third date. things like that. the dating pool's not perfect for both genders. i've had pleasant dates and great experiences and when it doesn't work out i break it off and make it clear there are no hard feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Newbie Question: Why did Roosh V and Andrew Tate only got popular after saying "Shocking" and "Controversial" statements is that a reflection as to what it takes to be "popular" in American Culture?Andrew Tate is popular because a lot of young (mostly Western though) men relate to him due to their own experiences with women their age group or the women around them. he isn't popular for no reason. i'm not a fan of Tate btw before anyone says anything. but many young boys see him as some sort of voice of empowerment and guidance because the women around them have demoralized them or because they themselves are demoralized for whatever reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:05 PM |
| – | Is the red pill mostly an American thing more so?i'm a foreign citizen who goes back to my home country once in a while and yes I can confirm that it is mostly an American thing, mainly because it fits the American dating landscape and the personality and reality of American women and ideologies that surround them like feminism, "hoe = empowerment culture" and misandry. back home "red pill" is unnecessary because we take care of ourselves, we don't play games, we don't expect too much of our partners and we don't ask for too much from our othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Which man would you pick?Tom. I don't want someone who's been with someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?a very close friend of mine is a real catch. she has the cutest personality ever, she's a total hopeless romantic, she's a homebody and knows how to cook, she knows how to think for herself, she's smart, but she hasn't found a boyfriend at 25. which is pretty bizarre because even if she's shy, usually it's guys that go up and approach girls 90 percent of the time. many of our fellow friends (which i heavily disagree with their idea beacuse imo it's like they want her to change) have asked her to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 06:13 PM |
| 0 | How much does muscle/good body factor into your dating choices and how much muscle do you like?i don't really care about physique that much as long as he's not unhealthily obese or unhealthily skinny. what matters most to me is character, personality, and how much we click | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:31 AM |
| 6 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.honestly same here. i've been on 5 dates in the past year and none have really led to anything more than that because there's too many red flags. i wont name the guys but i'll describe them anonymously. Guy 1: financially capable, handsome and very well dressed. we had a nice date and he was a gentleman all around but then all of a sudden on the second date he tried to pressure me into drinking because he wanted a crack. i'm not that kind of girl Guy 2: the date was HORRIBLE. he was this sup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:08 AM |
| 4 | What do women first think of when trying to obtain a man?generally more men here are getting more "red pilled", aka theyre more informed of "female nature", they're more wary and cautious, they are always on their toes because of the nature of the modern woman. i just hope my partner, because of living in that environment, doesn't include me in that generalization although it may be a hard thing to do which i understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of same sex cheating, compared to opposite sex?cheating is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 08:12 PM |
| 5 | What do women first think of when trying to obtain a man?nowadays, me personally - will he be able to take care of me? - does our energy match? - will the mainstream perception of women ruin his view of me? - does he want a relationship and is he really interested or is does he just want to hit and quit? - is he ambitious? - and most IMPORTANTLY, is he interested in marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men?right wing men are more attractive to me. they're also usually more principally aligned to my beliefs, independent, traditional and of course responsible. the traditional part is the biggest concern. i work and stay in a very liberal city, and the dating scene is absolute HELL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 11:35 AM |
| 2 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?yeah got a little bit too political there srry lol. thing is we're all gonna die if WW3 happens anyways. all the superpowers have nukes and I live in one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 04:59 AM |
| 1 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?the country I live in? I hope they don't fight. America doesn't care about its people and its military only serves to fight Israel's enemies. my home country? it depends what side they are on I guess. but we're neutral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 03:37 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?i'll be honest an fwb is what i'll go for if it wasn't forbidden in my religion and i needed to get married with someone to get my desires fulfilled. relationships nowadays are so scary, especially here in America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 01:43 PM |
| 18 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.this right here are the society destroying problems rampant in current society, that hookup culture could potentially lead us / accelerate us to. i saw it all when i studied in the US as a foreign student. i wont name them obv but ive seen roommates cry because they destroyed a years long relationship in order to pursue another just to get played in the end because the guy only wanted to get his d wet, ive seen my friends cry and literally descend into depression because they felt used and felt … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 09:18 AM |
| 2 | AI is generating "hotties" at a rapid pace. Will there be a hottie renaissance or oversaturation?i think as humans in general we need to learn to put a limit on our quest to make AI "limitless". it could bite us back in the ass hard in the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 01:55 AM |
| 1 | AI is generating "hotties" at a rapid pace. Will there be a hottie renaissance or oversaturation?how on earth would AI generated images change the dating market? nobody is going to date a picture. i can see some positives though like maybe OnlyFans losing popularity which would result in less women being manipulated into it because it's "empowering" and can make you a living, when that narrative isn't true at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?western women will start taking the role of "passport bros" and unfortunately export everything that they promoted which collapsed their society back home here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps matches even legit overseas?if you're American you get a lot of matches overseas because of your status. in the US you're just another regular guy. regardless i just wouldn't recommend dating apps, it stinks and honestly it's not good for your psyche. go out and meet people. don't go to clubs, go to places like libraries, or places where you can find people regardless of gender of your common interest. losing hope because you get no matches on dating apps is silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a man who is left wing economically but socially conservative or date a man who's right wing economically but left wing on social issues?Sam. i cannot be with someone with progressive values knowing what progressive means in 2023. it would be mean i support women being shoved out in favor biological men, it would mean i support taking pregnancy away from women, it would mean i support men in women's bathrooms. i'm not a socialist, i actually hate socialism, but social values mean way more to me than economic values. we can work around you believing that property should be collectivized and i would disagree. we can't work around m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 04:52 AM |
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