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| 1 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?You need to focus on your needs first. To me it seems like you’re focused too much on her, trying to please her. Make sure you’re enjoying it. She’ll pick up on it. I suggest reading “no more Mr. Nice guy”, it will help you. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Texting between setting up the date and the dateBro you already set the date No need to text her in between You can text her about the place you’re going to, like something special on the menu if meeting in a restaurant or an item if meeting in a museum. This is only to probe if she’s still down. That’s it, don’t complicate it | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Improving my make out gameHonestly speaking use this shyness to your advantage As a male, it’s great when we pull out something out of the bag that surprises the girls. I’d say own upto it, even consider telling him this occasionally. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 11:15 AM |
| 8 | How did you guys learn to dress better?Was talking a friend recently He mentioned following people/posts on insta n TikTok for ideas and getting items from local shops or Chinese sites for cheap | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you derive confidence around women from?Try to distant yourself mentally and emotionally I’m guessing you’re trying to build rapport instantly with them, hoping they’ll like you from that. This convinces your psyche you’re needy. Emotional connection is something build overtime. Also invest your time and money into some regular activities that you enjoy, it will lift your self esteem. Whether horse riding sessions, piano lessons or mma training. I do mma; it’s good for physical aspects but also having a non-work-related team around yo… | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl to spend the night at a hotel.Get Airbnb my friend, sounds much more romantic than booking a hotel. You can decorate it with some flowers, wouldn’t cost much (would be cheaper than a hotel). She’d be more likely to follow you there than in a hotel. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 07:57 AM |
| 1 | How to be good in bed as a woman?Make sexual advances more suggestive and subtle but pretending you didn’t mean to do that at all. For example, wear a tight sweater, a few sizes smaller to highlight your feminine upper body but when talking to people or being around them balance it out with being very innocent and unaware of what’s happening. Dm me I can explain further, these are just the things I find attractive and heard from female friends things they do to attract opposite gender. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 02:46 PM |
| 4 | How to be good in bed as a woman?Be naughty/ sexy but make it look like a mistake, and pretend to have child like innocence ..Like Marylyn Monroe | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 05:11 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girl at the office?Lmaoo This is hilarious Regarding approaching girls at work, it’s best to avoid it. There are many other ways places for that. Too much at stake there | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with trying to date if your inner game (and self esteem) is poor?I’d say start with the inner game first, and focus on practicing having fun and a good time around friends and women. Also, Check out Models by Mark Manson, it’s a good book for inner game. If you’re interacting with women on a regular basis, you won’t be in your head all that much. You can roll into cooking/ dancing classes to achieve that. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 12:49 PM |
| 0 | If you could summarize in a phrase the right mindset in dating success, what would it be?Always either a “fuck yea!! OR no” Once you have your answer, pursue or move on You have 1/3 of girls like you no matter what, 1/3 neutrals and 1/3 no. Focus on 1/3 and the success rate with neutrals improve over time, avoid no’s | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 12:28 PM |
| 1 | What Does Mean To Flirt? How To Become A Good Flirt. - The Fundementals Of Emotional Variance And Verbal Skills.what are the top books you suggest, for exploring the mindset and learning more about this and the game in general in today's time? | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps, what's the point?I suggest keep trying online and irl Things take time, could be weeks or months to see any results from dating apps. Remember it has nothing to do with you, that’s just how things are sometimes. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 03:24 PM |
| 17 | You guys helped me get laidPlease share some of your main obstacles and how did you overcome them OP | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 09:00 AM |
| 3 | The real reason I'm afraid to do cold-approaches.I’d suggest get some training in combat sports/ mma You build skills, meet new people and most importantly, you’re confident that no matter the situation you can take care of yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 05:55 AM |
| 2 | My biggest problem: eye contactTry looking into one eye and not both. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 03:05 AM |
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