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I don’t LTR in general but here’s a wild thought, don’t LTR a girl who is secretly going on dates with her “male friend.”
/r/askTRP23/12/19 11:21 AM
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I don’t take women very serious in general, but women who get drunk regularly are the low low end of the “I’m going to take this seriously” totem pole.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:29 PM
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A lot of redpill posts I see in r/asktrp are guys trying desperately to dial back the emotion of love because women won’t match them with it. Other than that, a significant amount young people have seen their grandparents, parents, aunts, and uncles go through nasty divorces. I think people of both sexes haven’t considered how this has effected their view of commitment. With that said I can’t really blame anyone for having avoidant attachment styles. I think it’s just a group of men who have cam…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:13 PM
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Lol I’d be willing to bet if they could find an attractive, high value partner they wouldn’t want to share. Because they can’t, might as well fuck as many people as possible to scratch that itch. Hell, I would. And at least in my experience this is a trend. I think a few comedians have bits about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:01 PM
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Muscle. Or being real toned. Girls deny this one up and down until you get them in front of a guy who is in really good shape. Have you ever seen a guy that is good shape do bad with ladies? I’ve only seen the exact opposite. I do understand that it’s slightly more complex than JUST MUSCLE, but I don’t know a single guy who takes care of themselves the way muscular men have to and have bad luck with women. Muscular men also have a very active “can do” personality by default. That trait alone mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:39 AM
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I never ask. They always tell. I never believe. In that order almost every time. I feel like they try to signal “hey what we did is rare, I’m normally not that type of girl.” The only way you might come close to knowing the truth is acting really sex positive, saying “hey, it’s 2019, slut shaming is BS” or something like that and see if they give you their real number but why even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:02 AM
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In my personal experience it’s been about 70/30 women out-cheating men. But I do think the guys would cheat more if they had the same access to sex that women do. I’ve had my friends wives try to hook up with me, some of them are Mormon. I also speculate that women are less likely to tell the truth about cheating on surveys because it’s less acceptable to be a slut, where I could see a guy bragging about it or just being more open about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 11:28 PM
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Most of these points are made by people that are commitment-phobic trying to covertly place the blame on the opposite sex as to why they are single or romantically unfulfilled. Both sexes do this. The younger generations have seen their fair share of divorce and I don’t think they realize how it has impacted their view of commitment and their ability to bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:18 PM
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I don’t think it’s much different from an employer wanting a detailed work history from prospective employees. Men don’t want to emotionally invest in someone thats compulsive and has a lack of consistency. By the time we are 25 we’ve at least had a friend or two who’s had a bad experience from dating someone with a high n count so being the logical creatures we are, we try to avoid it, or try not take them too seriously. Dating and being vulnerable is already hard enough. Men have feelings and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:24 AM
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All that really matters is that I like her. I don’t really care much about other guys opinions, it would be a little strange but nothing I would lose sleep over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:43 AM
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Also, I think some of the guys reading that advice confuse it and proceed to take themselves too seriously. Nobody likes to be around someone who is stiff and can’t laugh at themselves. Come to think of it, I hardly ever hear about humor on RP either. If I can make a girl laugh consistently, my odds of getting it in are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:44 PM
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Friend-zone myself in with a female who is a social butterfly. This could be a cousin or a friends girlfriend. Be the fun friend too, it shouldn’t feel like some sort of utilitarian friendship although it kinda is. Let her know my intent is to hook up with girls, some might be casual some might not be. If she is bothered by this, it’s not gonna work. This is why you’ve gotta be fun, you’re kinda a man slut but your also the one planning a lot of fun stuff to do. Have her point out prospects for …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 03:16 PM
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Statistically women cheat more than men in their early 20’s. My experience is that you can pretty much get any girl to cheat on their boyfriend or husband. All it takes is one bad fight and some alcohol. The biggest mistake you’ll ever make is taking girls seriously in your 20’s. These girls don’t slow down til their 30’s where their SMV starts to decline. Just work on yourself and don’t cum inside any of these lot lizards and you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:52 AM
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The trad wife/life is alive and well here in Utah. We have the lowest age of marriage in the US and it is possible to marry a virgin or someone with a low n count in your early 20’s. And lemme tell ya...these marriages are perfect. (Jk they’re terrible, people change so much from 20-30. You find yourself stuck with either staying married to someone you’re incompatible with or divorce and end up watching some other man raise your children. So you just white knuckle it and hope things get better b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:40 AM
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Prostitution is one of the oldest professions, I’m sure you’re in good company with opting out of relationships and banging hookers. This also kinda implies getting married means you are in good mental health which isn’t always true. Some of the craziest people I know are married, drug addicts marry, unhealthy people marry, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:05 AM
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Like my entire state (Utah) From my experience it doesn’t work out so well. Not saying they get divorced but the unhappiness in these marriages is very telling. People are desperate for love and to conform, some more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 10:12 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:48 PM
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Your moms house podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:48 AM
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Casual fwb so I can do my hobby shit and I can take mini road trips and vacations without someone being mad they couldn’t get the day off or couldn’t go. The freedom is worth the dry spells/sporadical loneliness imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:48 PM
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I’m whatever benefits me at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:21 AM
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Collect experiences. Henry Rollins has a kinda lifestyle that I would enjoy, he does “close to the ground” traveling across continents. Master a few skills/hobbies. Photography, a musical instrument, jujitsu, gardening, cooking meth, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:14 AM
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Many. Out of the incredible sex I’ve had with one partner a lot of it is just forgettable to me. Where as one night stands give me a sort of rush and hit that male affirmation button. Even if sex is mediocre with a new person it puts a smile on my face for weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:00 PM
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“I’m kind of a loser” You kinda just answered this for yourself, even if you aren’t a loser you feel like one and that’s all that what matters. Contrary to what some people think, you can tell if someone is insecure through their body language and mannerisms. You also might be subconsciously selecting the “pump and dump” types because that’s all you feel you are worthy of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:19 AM
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Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I had chosen a different lifestyle. I live in Utah and almost everyone I went to high school with was married with children by 23. But then I go over to their house and there are kids everywhere, their place is a mess. My friends have no money or time, and their marriages seem stressed. I think the grass is always greener no matter how good your life turned out. It’s not healthy live in those thoughts though, I avoid it if I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:21 AM
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One thing I don’t think is being brought up is that there seems to be, at least in my experience, a disproportionate amount of tall girls on dating apps. The average height in the US for a woman is 5’4. A lot of the girls I see on there are 5’8 and taller, if I open the app now I’ll find a few 5’10’s and some six footers. I think they use OLD more because they are insecure about their tallness, can’t find someone tall in their circle of friends, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:19 PM
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This is all anecdotal but here’s my experience.. Most of the women I know are working full time and have almost no money. There’s a lot of pressure to #justlivingmybestlife So they get a weekend out, make it a point to get a solid Instagram post and go back to the grind. I honestly don’t know many 20 year olds that aren’t depressed or disillusioned with the pressures of being a new adult. The few younger women I know that do have the money to have a glamorous lifestyle have a harder time finding…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:56 PM
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My guess would be that it is one of those things that is very taboo to hate on in real life so it happens on the internet. People praise single moms where I’m from like they can do no wrong. Sometimes it feels like we are rewarding reckless behavior and that behavior just gets repeated. Not all, but a significant amount of the single moms I know are a complete mess and should never have brought a kid into this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 10:46 PM
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Opposites attract is a romantic idea that can be fun in the short run. I just can’t imagine making that work in the long run. Birds of a feather describe the more successful couples in my circle. I think it’s fine to have minor opposite personality traits to your relationship, ones that complement each other. But major ones? Nah, it’s like that extrovert/introvert couple where one is always trying to get the other to do social things and the introvert is low key miserable the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:22 PM
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Making love with one person for the rest of your life is a beautiful idea but things get old and mechanical. Nothing beats sex in the honeymoon period.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 10:05 PM
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Not from my experience. When I was in my 20’s men in their 30’s would pick off girls in my age group all the time. Now that I’m in my 30’s 3/6 of my close friends are dating 25-26 year olds. The key factor here is staying in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 04:06 PM
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I really don’t mind a high n count too much unless it’s crazy numbers for her age...But...I know for a lot of guys it’s less about having dicks in her more about avoiding undesirable personality traits like compulsiveness, attachment issues, substance abuse, daddy issues, etc... By the time you’ve been burned by one of these girls in your early 20’s, if you have any brains you’ll avoid seeing them as LTR material. They might call girls like this a “slut” but that’s just shorthand for “she’s a to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:03 PM
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IME both sexes are flashy with things that are related to their SMV. For women it’s usually things involving their status/sexuality. Men get flashy with things related to their status/ability to provide. Also men were usually the hunters while women were the gatherers which might explain why they hold down more of the consumer market than men. Just a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:48 AM
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It’s not that they don’t care about their n count, it’s that men will also marry/relationship for status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:36 AM
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For women: Childbirth can destroy your body and they are more likely made the primary caregiver to the children. If you get a divorce being a single mom can be one of the most vulnerable periods you can experience. Probably just overall vulnerability for females. For men: Having most of your value based on what you earn. Its sort of a cheap experience to know that if you lose your ability to provide that most likely you’d lose your family. You can go from “a real stand up guy” to a “deadbeat fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:20 AM
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When oil prices plummeted so many jobs were lost in my area. Divorces went through the roof. The law enforcement in my area came out and said there was a “domestic violence crisis,” something like 30-40% of the people in my area were involved in a domestic violence dispute. This was one of the biggest lessons I learned as an adult as it was so baffling to me to see these once “wholesome couples” claw each other’s eyes out at the first sight of struggle. Why? I don’t know. Maybe the lack of a pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 05:39 PM
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There were 3 guys in particular I remember while I was in the military that got more pussy than an animal shelter. All under 5’7. I went to the gas station with one for some liquor and a girl approached him and said, “nice pants” not even two hours later they were fucking. Another guy got sent back from deployment a little earlier than the rest of us. By the time we got back a month later he had 5-6 different groups of women rounded up from going to bars he would introduce us with their friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:01 PM
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While I might have liked some aspects of being needed when I was younger I find it cringey now that I’m older. The worst part is sharing finances and making rational adult life choices with someone who is so weak they couldn’t bare to be on their own. To me, it’s is WAY easier to navigate life with someone that is also their own whole person. Could I feel loved by a woman that didn’t need me? Yes. I think it’s an ego thing for some guys that can be very unhealthy. Also I think it’s a purer kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:49 AM
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I’ve had women break up with me because of my N count. Honestly, I don’t blame them. My past is the best indication of my future. This whole “you can’t have a present with me if you can’t forget about my past” thing is kinda silly. If I was a bum my entire 20’s there’s a significant probability I will do the same in my 30’s. Sure, people change but most don’t. It’s perfectly rational to manage expectations and vet prospects based on someone’s lifestyle. At the end of the day, nobody is gonna tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:32 PM
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I think a lot of people on here don’t realize that if they were born as the opposite sex, they’d do the exact same shit they came on here to complain about. The mating game in nature was never meant to be “fair” or “nice.” If you actually go outside and hangout with humans, most of them have no clue what redpill, MGTOW, hypergamy, etc.. even is. They work 40 plus hours a week and have families. All these subs seem to have a significant amount of people desperately trying to confirm a bias as to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:55 AM
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Yes. It helps if you have a mutual female friend you’re close with but I’ve done it and it works. Even if the girl initially says no she might breakup with her boyfriend have a few glasses of wine and when she goes for that rebound you’ll be getting that callback.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:49 PM
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No BUT I will say some of the guys including myself who have been cheated on seem to not vet their partners and will be willfully ignorant to parade of red flags their girlfriends are putting on. People are desperate for love and human affection so much they will subconsciously put their blinders on to preserve it. You see this all the time in subs like r/relationshipadvice and IRL. People asking, “is it weird my girlfriend had a sleepover with her best guy friend.” I used to hate cheaters, I st…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 03:59 PM
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Probably for the most part. There are less people marrying and having kids and more single parents than ever before but I wouldn’t call any of them some sort of “epidemic that is bringing down the west,” like you hear in some of these subs of clickbait articles. It’s more socially acceptable to not have kids and to not marry. I think a lot of people don’t put much thought into what they do, they just do what others are doing around them. I live in Utah so I get to see this everyday with wonky re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:41 AM
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It’s pretty common. I was listening to dr. drew on a podcast recently and he said these “friendzone” relationships are actually considered stalkers or “passive stalkers.” It didn’t make sense at first but when you think about it these dudes kinda just hang around and keep track of a girl they eventually want to have sex with even though she’s in a relationship. The girl participates too by giving these guys enough rope to hang around but it’s still considered stalking. Anyway here’s a thing I re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:18 AM
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