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Letting whisky duck effect you will do more damage than the actual whisky dick. It's common. She knows what it is. Don't think about it and continue like nothing happened
/r/seduction10/04/13 03:44 AM
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Look, he's not quite over it and feels the need to "lower your status" Just don't give a fuck. Nobody cares but him, show him that. A comeback just puts you in his game
/r/seduction07/04/13 09:47 PM
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"I've got it all except the ability to get over my own barriers and I'm tired of it." Then get over your barriers. Many of us don't have it all and have to get over them.
/r/seduction31/03/13 04:49 AM
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At this point the number is likely worth little, aim for a kiss I say that because if you find kissing a girl awkward, you probably don't need her number yet. If you want it as a confidence building tool, cool. Just aim higher
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:01 PM
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It's whatever you want it to be. Could just as easily be a nice guy or cocky funny All depends on the person that sent it. Which really is perfect if you don't think about it
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:53 AM
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No prob. Something you might find useful is RSD's the blueprint decoded. There's a lot of it you might not like, but there's definitely some damn good information about.. well a lot of junk. Life, alpha vs beta behavior and why, psychology, evolution and why we act these ways. Yeah, it's worth watching. Just don't be too picky there is some dumb parts. You could prob find it free online easily. Cough ahem
/r/seduction24/03/13 03:09 AM
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Is this listable for those without video?
/r/seduction23/03/13 11:06 PM
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You seem very petty. Talk to the guy don't be a pussy and passive agressive him into unemployment.Guys generally do this to each other, most self assured people don't get offended. It's the male equivalent of shit tests. Let it bother you and you fail. staying silent with your body language likely tells the story to the whole room Seriously, it's your issue. saying a certain quip won't change anything. Also, being liked by everyone can often be because beta behavior. I used to have this problem.…
/r/seduction23/03/13 10:54 PM
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Dude. You're way too into like.. bar pickup theory. Look at this video. The two had a real conversation, he kept calm with his body language, whispered in her ear without weirdness, shared laughs.. All this stuff. and had the balls to kiss her. Come on Confidence and genuineness without neediness will always beat out routines w/ a touch of neediness, especially in this type of scene.
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:22 PM
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"maintain perspective: always tell experiences from your point of view, try and avoid phrases like "a friend of mine" because then the people you are talking to would probably be more interested in your interesting friend. Avoid talking as another person in the story if you can and instead use emotive words. So instead of saying "then she said girly voice 'I've already got a dress like that'" say "it turned out the reason she was so upset was because she already had a dress like it"." But if you…
/r/seduction20/03/13 09:54 PM
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BUT MAGIC MIKE I NEVER DO ANYTHING
/r/seduction15/03/13 01:29 AM
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I'm the funny guy as well, I've found teasing came naturally to me. If your style of being funny is teasing, perfect. Just kino more. It's an easy shift if not. Honestly, I have zero game. Probably negative game. I didn't ever try to get girls. Yet over the years I've had ton's of girls hanging off me. Teasing man.
/r/seduction09/03/13 12:10 AM
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That's a very "beta" view as they say. Letting a woman get under your skin that fucking much. Jesus
/r/seduction07/03/13 09:33 PM
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Yes style matters. You probably pull off the pajama pants. Style doesn't just mean nice clothes, it's the whole of everything that puts your image together. Clothes, attitude, hygiene, confidence. You could rock the pj's and be considered more stylish than a man who feels awkward in his nice jeans and boots.
/r/seduction07/03/13 08:53 AM
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this guy knows what's up
/r/seduction03/03/13 12:57 AM
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Yep, she's losing interest. Don't be the first to text her, don't seek her validation AT ALL, try to get interested in other girls as much as possible. Eventually she'll start coming around and want to begin the fun again. This time, don't start thinking you love her or whatever (or if you do, don't change). She has to work for you, she doesn't have you. If you're an awesome dude she'll want to spend time with you. Basically, just meet other girls. Ignore her for now. Don't be hateful by any mea…
/r/seduction01/03/13 12:32 AM
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He's talking about approach anxiety. The difference between there and a club is their probably going to have sex with you for sure. That doesn't make it easier for someone with AA
/r/seduction28/02/13 08:11 PM
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It shows balls. Girls dont like a guy that sits around and waits. and either should you
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:48 PM
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Ohhhh, shit. I thought I read she was a girl from your class you liked, I didn't notice anything history Carry on
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:46 AM
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This seems like a horrible idea. Telling a girl she's special without building any sort of comfort or connection? Edit: As for getting rejected, it's not a big deal. Lets say it did spread, if you didn't do it awkwardly that's just a man being ballsy enough to attempt to get a woman. As natural and normal as anything else you could imagine
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:39 AM
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Yes yes, but I just don't want EVERY person to think I'm a creep haha. I just want to know what the socially acceptable process is. I tend to do not normal things at times Doing it right and having a few people think I'm creepy doesn't bother me at all. Being creepy does
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:32 AM
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The theory says in the day time it's fine, seems more.. Ballsy then at a club or whatever.
/r/seduction27/02/13 05:59 AM
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When they make eye contact, smile then say hi? It seems like you're saying to creep them out by your post haha I don't have a problem maintaining eye contact in a conversation anymore, but I sure as hell do walking down the street. I tend to watch the horizon until fairly close than stare until eye contact and smile. I don't know if it's awkward or not, I'm awkward.
/r/seduction27/02/13 05:58 AM
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It could be, I suppose. She's pretty hot and has experience. It's just.. They live together and have a dog and saying he hopes there's a bunch more. I can't see him being that desperate for sex.
/r/seduction27/02/13 05:53 AM
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That's going to make getting good so much sweeter
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:23 AM
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Hahah yeah I'm better now. Little outdoors time got my mind out of the gutter. Or whatever. Spending too much time indoors really gets to me
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:28 AM
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One of my friends is dating a girl that's just like that. I tried to tell him so many times that it's not a good idea after I realized they're getting serious. Just from the shit talking she constantly does to anyone that gets a bit of praise. 3 months in, they move in together. 5 months, they get a dog. They're still together a year and some later and we never see or talk to him. She's the biggest piece of shit ever, even talks about him to us come on. Her best friend is ugly, all the other gir…
/r/seduction26/02/13 12:40 AM
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Work on not becoming so desperate rather than appearing like you're not. Inner game shit, abundance mentality
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:48 PM
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You'd know if you approached her. Don't sit back and analyze waiting for someone to show signs of maybe liking you.
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:29 PM
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Hey man, it's time to work on your mistakes. Work on your frame, were you slouching? Not making eye contact? Speaking quietly? Not showing any energy? Fake smiling? Not smiling at all? There's lots of things to work on. You're a bit better by doing any approaches, good on ya. Better than most. Don't give up because one dumb night. And don't let it bother you so much you don't notice your mistakes and blame your ugliness. Come on now Hell, for a long while when I was depressed and WITH MY FRIENDS…
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:25 AM
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What the fuck did I just read. Feels like a pitch from someone fucked up on something
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:21 AM
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If you're getting this upset over a couple flakes there's a bigger problem that has to be addressed. You seem to be trying to fill it with women. Work on your "inner game"
/r/seduction24/02/13 02:56 AM
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I'm not talking shitfaced haha. Still well under control just not inside my head
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:12 PM
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Huh. When I drink I'm a lot more interesting. My personality comes out. It's a shame, I know. But I'm a pussy.
/r/seduction19/02/13 05:53 AM
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Get up there start dancing with friends, eventually a girl latches on and we grind. I don't have a problem escalating whenever we're grinding so it's much easier for me to fuck off and kiss her
/r/seduction19/02/13 04:05 AM
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As someone with absolutely no game and problems initiating kino: dancing is the easiest way to make out with a girl
/r/seduction18/02/13 09:18 PM
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Don't think so much. Just do it and continue improving. Those feelings or whatever will sort themselves out. Thinking about them just adds fuel to the fire. You're better off than a lot of guys here, including me. At least you're getting off your ass and doing something
/r/seduction18/02/13 05:29 AM
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It's sad that he's so against therapy yet has such a huge issue going on that could likely easily be fixed with a professional. Letting your ego get in the way of shit is a sure fire way to stay fucked up.
/r/seduction25/12/12 04:01 PM
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Men like sex. women like sex. It's a great way to spend time for both parties. Seeing it as criminal to want to have sex isn't right at all. I think your problem is that you think hooking up with someone you just met means that's all the person wants. In every case me and my friends have been in, the girl almost always wants to continue the "relationship" in some way. Now guys, correct me if I'm wrong, but it's fairly rare for a girl to just want to fuck you and leave you. The less attractive yo…
/r/seduction24/12/12 09:31 PM
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How many girls have you have sex with that didn't want it to go further? I've had very few casual hookups but they all seemed to want to get to know me better. Maybe they're not that attracted to you in that way. I have a good friend that builds a strong attraction and can have sex semi often, but he's looking for a girlfriend and turns into a wiener scaring them off. He went on a date last week and told me she could be his new girlfriend. She didn't get back to him. Not saying that's you, of co…
/r/seduction24/12/12 09:15 PM
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Start by getting off your high horse. Your mindset of this being below your standards has to go. I can bet your intellectual conversations aren't interesting whatsoever to me because I've already thought and talked about all of it. But you know what I'd do? Talk to you anyways and have a good conversation. Conversation is more about the people you're talking to than the topics. This is key. It also really helps to be happy to do this. Meeting new people when I'm not feeling good is never good
/r/seduction20/12/12 07:38 PM
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You're 17 dude.
/r/seduction16/12/12 07:06 PM
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Posture has helped an incredible amount for me. Stand tall. Clothing also helped a lot Also, everybody works. You're making excuses. Go to the gym. Starting strength is 3 times a week for less than 1 hour. You'll make impressive strength gains and good size. Later if you want to switch to bodybuilding you can, a strong body will make this a lot easier.
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:05 PM
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Uhh. If you really have "literally everything" in common this shouldn't be a problem. Have you tried discussing these common interests? Seems like the place to start.
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:27 PM
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Do you not see an improvement in yourself socially? If you do, success. If you don't.. Something's not right. Plenty of guys didn't talk to a girl in 6 months. Improving is success.
/r/seduction19/11/12 12:44 AM
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I made the mistake of shaving my chest a few years back because 2 bros and their girlfriends thought it was the way. They were the only people I got opinions from. I got made fun of by literally every other girl that saw my chest. It was only 3, but ya know. I didn't like it either, it made me look like a fucking baby.
/r/seduction17/11/12 08:30 PM
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The world has a problem with v necks? Fuck, I live in the biggest hick zone in Canada and v necks are completely normal. I can't imagine it being different in other areas
/r/seduction13/11/12 06:25 PM
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Moving your body to the music is exactly what dancing is. You don't need to throw out any moves.
/r/seduction13/11/12 06:14 PM
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I'd consider it at $50 with a lot of hesitation. $97 is insane.
/r/seduction10/11/12 05:46 PM
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"Mindfullness in Plain Ebglish" is a beginners how to guide. "The Power of Now" is really good for getting in the mindset.
/r/seduction08/11/12 07:15 PM
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People can say they don't suffer, actually. It's a small number, but rising quite a bit. I can almost guarantee the Dalai Lama is in this boat. When someone becomes "enlightened" for lack of a better word, there's no such thing as suffering. The loss of ego is another way to put it. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle tries to teach this shift in consciousness through theory and "Mindfulness in Plain English" tries with practical teachings of meditation. If you're curious about what I'm talking ab…
/r/seduction03/11/12 04:44 PM
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Seems like a long time to be talking. I definitely couldn't do it.
/r/seduction31/10/12 11:56 PM
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May I ask why? Do you and your girlfriends withhold sex as punishment for.. Not being cool enough? I dunno what else it would be. I'm legit interested in this.
/r/seduction27/10/12 05:32 PM
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Ah, I see. This is just an odd thing to me. Girls over a certain weight or height or whatever is an attraction thing I get for sure. I suppose what it really comes down to is stereotyping these gym girls or book reading girls or whatever. Humans are so incredibly diverse the thought of putting a person in a group because of one interest irks me haha
/r/seduction24/10/12 05:39 PM
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Girls that go to the gym are a no go? What the fuck does that even mean. You see everyone that goes to the gym as one type of person that you couldn't bother with? If you can handle reading and putting in some effort you should look into mindfulness. Being an adult that can't handle a bit of time without mental stimulation is a bit sad.
/r/seduction24/10/12 05:23 PM
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She said it as a joke. Look at the context it's obvious she wanted him to hear.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:00 PM
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I didn't even try in 2 months. I gained no practical skills and got no more comfortable with rejection. You're way better off than me. Keep at it. Maybe you need to work on body language or eye contact? It's easy to fuck that up
/r/seduction21/10/12 02:04 AM
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Haha winners at what exactly? Plenty of guys get women and are assertive and confident and aren't douchebags. I'm sure that's what you're referring too.
/r/seduction22/09/12 02:26 AM
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Damn, you sound like a douche. It's a bit sad that his response evoked an emotion from you at all.
/r/seduction22/09/12 01:05 AM
1

So I see that guy doing the Jedi mind trick when they were asking about going to hooters. He didn't seem to have any awkward body language did he? Other than the nerdy Jedi mind trick thing was there anything that made him seem awkward? Was it just the company? Or am I just not noticing something. I just imagine I could say something nerdy and not make it look that bad
/r/seduction19/09/12 08:55 PM
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I was totally lost, thanks for this! I just watched the power stance video and realized that was part of what happened to me. This year for a good three months I was feeling awesome and confident and a lot more attractive. Turns out it had part to do with relaxing my shoulders and kind of exposing my chest. I just walked around for a bit like that and can already notice a little difference. I look a lot better. What other little body movement things is there? Shoulders back chest out, take up ro…
/r/seduction19/09/12 06:53 PM
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If you're not going to lead the conversation in a more interesting route you'll have to deal with it. People don't typically open up to strangers they just met. And really you can't expect them to. You're being just as "boring" as them. Though I don't find that kind of stuff boring. If I'm talking to someone I generally have an interest in them.
/r/seduction08/09/12 01:38 PM
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I'd say something or give him a shove but I wouldn't stare him down and hold a childish grudge over an accident. Just like my post says.
/r/seduction05/09/12 03:13 PM
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That seems douchey to me. If that was me I'd give him a fuck off or a push back then continue doing whatever I was doing. What's the point of getting angry over an obviously accidental push? And I'm the first person to get in someone's face if they're being an asshole. This here is just plain doucheyness/wanting to show off.
/r/seduction05/09/12 12:28 AM
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The way I see it is you have a better chance at finding someone you connect with the more you try. This type of community is for meeting girls and having them attracted to you. What you do after that is up to you. Your complaints seem a little dumb.
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:54 AM
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I'm new here too. Haven't had any real attempts yet (making a bit of progress though!) "move on to the next one" Seriously. Don't let it bother you. They were busy and had plans. Something came up. Maybe one didn't like you. Who cares anyways? Move on to the next one. I didn't even get there. That would be a success in my eyes.
/r/seduction03/09/12 12:21 AM
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I have a habit of getting drunk and tipping way too much. I got a rickshaw drive and gave a $52 tip. He ran me to the bank so I could get more. Then last weekend I tipped $40 to some pizza guys. I'd say it was worth it if I wasn't so poor. I met the rickshaw dude and he said he'd take me wherever I wanted for free any night I was out. Pretty cool
/r/seduction31/08/12 10:05 PM
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Lolol holy fuck I feel stupid Edit:: nahh guess I was being a pussy. Looking for a smaller stepping stone. I'll just start saying hi to people at first.
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:52 PM
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