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He's a closet homo, much like Clooney.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:44 PM
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When you're 35 she's going to be pushing 50. When you're 30-ish you should be looking for a younger woman to bear your children not wasting the best part of your life with a woman who should be a grandmother. You should get a lawyer and start divorce paperwork now. Get younger, hotter, tighter.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 02:15 PM
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Your wife is a whore and not worth keeping around. You are a weak man with no agency. Work on yourself, raise your value as a man for your children to look up to. Dump this useless raging cunt that brings frustration and anger and no value to your life. And next time, keep your goddamn mouth shut and punish behavior you don't like by removing your time and affection. Adopt a don't give a fuck attitude, woman is replaceable. JESUS FUCK
/r/askMRP11/02/16 03:32 PM
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You should focus on getting good grades, graduating and moving on to college. Not getting drunk and gaming some bitch who you won't even remember what she looks like 5 years from now. Poor dumb kid.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:12 PM
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Too bad, I was going to chime in and say there's nothing for it now but to go ahead and fuck his wife. But all kidding aside, I agree it's probably time you move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 07:46 PM
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Fucking damage control. It's a never ending siege against the blue pill engine and it never stops. Whenever my kids bring up some blue pill BS I just start asking them questions rather than tell them why their wrong. Once they start to doubt themselves you can see it in their eyes. That's when I tell them how it really is. You can never relax though.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:44 PM
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This post is going to get torn to shreds by our detractors, but I up-voted it because it actually does ring true. This post is accurate as fuck actually. It is never more apparent that AWALT when you have one and realize rather quickly that women are the way they are right out of the chute. There isn't too much a difference between a 15 year old girl or a 25 35 45 55 95 year old girl. Fixed.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 10:44 AM
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It's amazing when you internalize this red pill stuff. It really does become second nature. Caught myself today. I work in education, had to dial it back (game) with an english professor today. She was attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 11:46 PM
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From The Way of the Superior Man which I'm thinking you haven't read yet: Live As If Your Father Were Dead A man must love his father and yet be free of his father's expectations and criticisms in order to be a free man. Imagine that your father has died, or remember when he did die. Are there any feelings of relief associated with his death? Now that he is dead, is any part of you happy that you need not live up to his expectations or suffer his criticisms? How would you have lived your life di…
/r/askMRP06/11/15 11:24 AM
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My wife used to threaten divorce every now and then and dictate what visitation rights I would be getting. Like being all magnamimous about it. The last time she did this (about 1 year and a half ago) I laughed."Our son is a grown man, and our daughter is old enough to decide who she wants to live with, whenever and wherever she wants." She never brought it up again. I don't allow our disagreements come to a head like they used to but my point is, there will come a time when children a no longer…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 08:36 PM
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Not even going to bother trying to help with fixing this there is nothing to fix. To her you are a means to an end. You are an ATM. She is not your wife. Those are not your kids. You can, and should walk.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 08:26 PM
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You need to escalate to outright negging her until she quiets down or else gets mad. Then disengage and don't give a fuck. Leave the house without explanation if she starts yelling or shaming/accusing you. I'll look at my wife with one eyebrow raised, smirk and say "Goddamn, that is some really interesting shit! I want to hear more." I can let her know that she's being annoying and be fun about it without her getting all butthurt.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 08:14 PM
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You're right. Old guy, I tend to do that. I edited it. There are times, with some women where you'd think you were some sort of zen like game god, but really all you needed was a dick and the ability to convert oxygen to carbon dioxide. Right place, right time, right slut.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 07:41 PM
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This is a great post, in that it reminds me that while I have gotten exceedingly good at stoically handling her shit and the big stuff, I still have work to do. Like for example, when I absolutely lose my fucking shit if it takes more than five minutes to find my car keys. Gotta work on that stuff more.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 07:13 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. The funniest thing is that my "punishment" for all of this is that she'll "no longer confide in me about anything." Blessing in disguise. She is not your "friend" you are a means to an end. That's all. Curious why you "blew up" at her. You really should not have been surprised.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 06:36 PM
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Don't mean to be a wet blanket, but I'm going to give you a bit of a reality check. I'm sure you think this was all about your mad seduction skills but I assure you, it was not. Any chick that is going to bang out some strange dude who pulls in to a truck stop has serious, SERIOUS issues. I am sure you were not the first, nor will you be the last. I mean come on, you have got to recognize that. And seriously this FR sounds like an impending sex addiction waiting to happen. Anonymous sex at a tru…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 06:25 PM
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He is wrong about it getting old fast. Correct about all the bullshit that comes along with it. What I have seen from your original post and this one is that there are a lot of dudes out there that really get defensive (not saying Fromswitters is) when they have to confront that fact that they would and could get cheated on and probably never know.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 11:35 AM
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Anyone who believes otherwise is very foolish. Cad is pretty spot on correct. My wife is smart enough to cover her tracks if she were inclined to start any shenanigans. Snooping would be almost next to futile. If I were to find out I would immediately consider my marriage to be open and move on fairly quickly. Don't even know if I would say anything. Frank discussion, what about me? I'm still on the fence on whether or not it would be worth the trouble to get a side-piece. On the one hand, there…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 02:14 PM
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You did a much better job at batting those away this time. Just keep working on it. She's going to keep doing it, testing your frame, making sure you really mean it, trying to break you down. Look at it from an OI perspective, you're using her for practice. If it works out with her more the better.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 03:06 PM
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How the hell do you check this? This has got to be reversed somehow.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 01:35 PM
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Great job keeping your emotions in check. Broken record. Fog. Fog. Fog. Of course, me being me, I fuck up later that night and engage her hamster but I quickly abort that and we've had an okay couple of days. Thats OK. You are going to get better at this.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 01:34 PM
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I clicked on the picture. Why? Why did I do that? Where are the fucking men to storm that place and put a stop to the nonsense. Oh, my, fucking, god.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 05:55 PM
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My take. She went ape shit when you cancelled the Dr appointment because you blew up her attempt at trying to reestablish control of the marriage. Of course she doesn't like the "new you" because she can't control you. When you didn't back down even after the obvious empty threat of divorce, she eventually did. You got dinner, and you're getting a new floor. Unfortunately all the money you spend on the floor is going to be ruined by that dog. You should consider putting him down. If you're in yo…
/r/askMRP23/10/15 10:49 AM
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And yet you keep citing examples to the contrary. When you stop looking to her for "emotional support" and arguing like a woman the damage can reverse itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 02:27 PM
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If you were to have her make a list of all of her grievances and fix them all perfectly she will still find something to complain about. You must understand this, it will never be enough. This is the same for any woman. You deal with these things with an amused mastery attitude. She is the oldest child in the room. You are her father figure. You are her rock to crash against during the storm. You do not retaliate by attacking her abilities as a mother. This is the first child for both of you I g…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 01:46 PM
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Sweet Jesus you're a train wreck dude. Get your emotions under control! What is "emotional support" and why the fuck would you need it from her? Reach down and double check that you have indeed two testicles. Every single time she mentions divorce, tell her to file the papers or shut the fuck up about it. Stop. Reacting.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 01:30 PM
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There will always be people who are absolutely incapable of taking responsibility for their own life. No matter what it will always be someone else's fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 04:54 PM
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Love this post, I was 6 back in '77. Brings back some memories. You know what you and I would see if we could go back to our young bodies and look around at the supermarket, the mall, the park? That rare fat woman. Now it's the rare skinny woman.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 10:36 AM
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I could go through and highlight each and every example but frankly there are so many it would be pretty much every other sentence of your post. In a nutshell your marriage was over before it started because you were sucked so deeply in her frame there was no you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 03:17 AM
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It's an interesting phenomenon. About half the people I talk to are like, "Holy shit. You could be describing my wife, my girlfriend, or any woman I've ever dated. Word for word, that is exactly my story. My stupid cunt of a wife and my shitty marriage is exactly like this." Yes I have a post about it actually
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 06:34 PM
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It's like you're living my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 06:17 PM
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Maybe someone should PM this guy a link to this thread and tell him to get his ass over here. I mean, hell I'll do it if you think it will do any good.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 06:17 PM
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So perhaps she needs reassurance and understanding.. Meeting these conditions make her feel more comfortable? You're adorable. But this pre-sex conditions and demands game, it has been a constant in our marriage, except when she is really drunk. Maybe you should get her drunk more often? When sexy time is starting, wife throws a lot of conditions and arguments. You're not the masculine alpha yet. Keep reading, working out, working on yourself and your game.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 06:08 PM
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Isn't this the same woman that stuck her daughters butt in your face?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 05:19 PM
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If she thinks it was her idea thats all for the best and it definitely means you did it right. But how did you not bust out laughing?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 03:39 PM
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This shit right here.
/r/askMRP15/10/15 06:28 PM
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I do need to make myself scarce and a possible upcoming promotion that will have me working 50-60 hour weeks will have that effect. Wrong. Go out with your buds and have a good time. Go camping, fishing, shooting pool, whatever. Anything. More work is not having a life outside of the nut bar your wife.
/r/askMRP15/10/15 04:56 PM
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Why would you want to? Women make terrible friends.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 02:26 PM
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Your kids not appreciating anything you do for them is nothing new whether you're red pill or not. It's been this way since the beginning of time. It isn't until they are much older that they realize (hopefully, although some people never grow up) all you've done. Especially when they have kids of their own. Teenagers think they know everything. My son, who is 20 thinks he has all the answers. When he gets out on his own and has to start taking care of himself he'll realize all those pearls of w…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 01:36 PM
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Women my age (other than my wife who takes care of herself) are even worse. 1 in 50 are fit and worthy of a high value male. The rest are fat drunks who think they're entitled just because they have a pussy. You wouldn't believe the women that hit on me that I just want to say bitch, you are so far out of my league we aren't even playing the same sport. Men my age are worse. So many protruding guts, man boobs, or pasty soft skinny fat dudes. Watching these guys shovel garbage into their cake hol…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 12:31 PM
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You are not responsible for anyone's happiness but your own. I have much more empathy for someone who is trying and struggling than for someone who does nothing nothing to fix it. The chronic complainers, those who have unstable relationships, a turbulent past, have a tendency to tell you their unfortunate life story after just meeting you. These people you run from. For those who are trying, and ask for my help I will do what I can so far that it does not impact my life in a negative way. Avoid…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:55 PM
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For fucks sake. It's should HAVE, would HAVE. NOT "OF" JESUS FUCK!!!
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:36 PM
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Dread games from a woman get an automatic next. If you were dating I would say drop her like third period french. I agree with cholomite, and would go as far as to say whenever she mentions this fuck (who knows damn good and well you're married) not only do you STFU but you withdraw your attention and affection. How often are you having sex? What's your dread level?
/r/askMRP11/10/15 11:17 AM
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Why is making your own notes be a bad thing? Maybe if you don't understand what I'm writing you should take notes. Holy Fucking Christ. That's the entire premise of my post. You're an idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 07:38 PM
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Watching a post wall co-worker go through this right now. Her husband is fat, drunk, and his SMV is about 5 points lower than her. He doesn't make her haaaaapy any more so she's moving out next month. It's his problem though, he's got no game slid down to betadom and let her wear the pants. It's been like watching a Blue Pill train wreck happen in slow motion. She's actually a really beautiful woman, hell if I wasn't married and it wouldn't be shitting where I eat I'd plate that ass.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 07:34 PM
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I'm working my way through Book 4. It's chewy.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 07:23 PM
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I just thought the immediate knee-jerk reaction to call him names was out of line. That shit is not your problem. But, the complexity of the prose is not the point of WISNIFG and I disagree strongly that using an outline or cliff's notes as breadcrumbs is much of an issue at all or reduces ones ability to appreciate it. This entire discussion is entirely tangential to the information that is conveyed in WISNIFG. So would you disagree that reading the text yourself and then making your own notes …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 07:22 PM
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I think this may be it. I think in my case it may have went from a casual, recreational, occasional thing, to a "need." Perhaps I may be better off abstaining from porn for a while Perhaps it's less about the simple fun and enjoyment, and more of a crutch You'll know when you abstain and can't.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 06:28 PM
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As a man, you are your only judge. Sitting here applying a value judgement to another man, for the scantest of information is pretty weak, juvenile behavior. Yeah, I get it. Having said that, OP you speak of should fucking man up and learn to read. I couldn't agree more. Frankly this kind of thing interests me and I wanted to post about it. Maybe understand why it's difficult. Maybe, with the off chance that it would motivate some people to put in a little more effort. If it's a waste of time wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 06:16 PM
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I don't know why he'd pick those 2 as there are fucking hundreds for a Man to choose, whatever. Qualifying himself. My advice, read whatever the fuck you want to read and don't get cliff notes of anything. Hells yeah. That BOOM that he heard was the point, which broke the sound barrier when it sailed over his head. The point was, to give an explanation as to why it might be difficult and some help to those guys who would like to read, (but are having trouble with) WISNIFG and other more advanced…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:44 PM
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Well he reads Faulkner and Joyce, so...there you go.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:32 PM
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Sounds like your literature teachers have worked you over well. Literature, philosophy, history. All of these have had some impact on me. Meanwhile psychologists and educators know better. So, teachers are not educators. Only educators are.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:28 PM
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Nothing wrong with cliff-noting. Just as long as you're the one cliff-noting the text you're reading. This way you're learning and not just in affect, borrowing someone else's notes.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:05 PM
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Your wife might be here: Making Up for Missing Out You're BF % has nothing to do with taming her hypergamous monster. Start working the dread.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 12:55 PM
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I am calling out plays like Peyton Manning... Did you yell Oma-HAH!! Kidding. Sound like you're on the right track. Just make sure you don't go too hard too fast. Some guys on here have had shit blow up in their faces. Steady as she goes.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 12:49 PM
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Was going to pop in and say, read the damn book. But you got here before me. The book reads more like a fractured, stream of consciousness but still draws you in. Before you know it you're done.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:19 AM
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HA!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 07:07 PM
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This book is not something you're going to sit down and just read. You read some, reflect some, absorb then read some more. You are not going to sit down and read this thing in one sitting. That being said, it is very academic and one dry ass motherfucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 07:04 PM
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My dog (brittany spaniel) doesn't listen to my wife for anything either for the same reason. I'm dominant. She isn't. He knows it.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 03:02 PM
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Nothing to be depressed about. It's just a truth that has been around since forever. We have just forgotten it (the giant is currently sleeping) and must relearn it. You must be the one to satisfy the hypergamy. Be better than her (it's not that hard) in all things. Marry one younger than you, not older. Put yourself first above her and your children. It all works out.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:55 PM
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Try this. It will kick your ass. I'm on phase 3, and am quite satisfied with the result. My wife stares at me when I get out of the shower.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 02:40 PM
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However, THIS is not a troll job. This is a real effort: http://www.thecollegefix.com/post/24488/ Weak men, justifying their existence to other weak men.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 07:30 PM
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Evan William's Single Barrel Oh yeah, that's good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 01:38 AM
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Only if there's a woman in it Drinking Pendleton this evening. My new favorite whiskey.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 12:30 AM
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Unburdening yourself to her because you feel guilty will not make you feel better. It will just hurt her and now both of you feel bad. Take it to the grave.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 11:56 AM
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Although sex has mostly increased over these months, this is still an irksome pattern that I'd like to get over. What exactly should I be doing here instead of this? How is your dread level? How is your attraction from other women? She even teases me that my progress is too slow. Just keep working harder. Let it push you. Also A&A Laugh, smile and remind her that men age like wine, women age like milk. That will shut her smart mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 08:18 PM
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Keep on keeping the lawn-crappers out.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 04:26 PM
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I've ridden motorcycles of some form since I was 13. My wife said that she didn't want to have anything to do with my motorcycle. She would never get on it for any reason. Never ride with me. Doesn't think they're cool at all. Been married 20 years. She meant it. She fucking hates the thing and there is no power on this earth or the next that will change that. IDGAF of course. She has accepted it. I don't ride as much as I used to though. Getting caught in the rain just sucks. Tires are expensiv…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 07:25 PM
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For you to have an opinion is not valueless. For you to express that opinion to someone with whom you do not have a common frame of reference (i.e. raising and rearing children) would most likely be insulting. You don't know shit about shit because you haven't been there, basically. I agree that Acta, Non Verba would be your best course.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 03:29 PM
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My son is 20, in college on scholarship, math major. We did pretty good with him. I'm busy teaching him the finer points of manliness that I learned growing up from all of the men in my life. My grandfather and his brothers on my mothers side. Old world dudes who worked with their hands. My father, by example on what not to do to fuck up your life, but how to start over after you've lost everything. I never really gave it much thought until I swallowed the pill and now I'm playing catch up. It's…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 01:04 PM
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In what way would you think you would be involved at all? It's not your business, even if you had your own kids. Handle your own shit. You want red pill kids, get married and make some. Even though I don't have kids (and don't want them, much less now) Then who fucking cares what you think? Just like, if you don't vote, you don't get to complain.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 12:51 PM
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Sometimes you gotta Fuck Her Gently
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 11:02 AM
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What could go wrong?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 05:19 PM
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I outrank this guy, make more money than he does, I am way more charismatic and I am clearly more intelligent. Doesn't matter. If he gives her the tingles, she gets the tingles. However, I can admit that he has me on the looks being 6 years younger, and looks cause tingles more than anything Then just what in the fuck are you thinking letting the guy stay in your house? Seriously. Im not worried about her fucking another dude, but what can I learn from this? I'm waiting for the inevitable "I let…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 04:43 PM
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I went through this a while ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 12:53 PM
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Get this man a copy of the Sex God Method! (the link is dead int he side bar by the way). When my wife has an orgasm I can always tell because her face will scrunch up (it's kind of hilarious) and her pussy will clench down on my dick like a hydraulic vise. This doesn't get me off the hook though, I still have to put in the seduction etc and all that stuff we talk about here. Can't give me the funny O face if the pussy is dried up. Have you guys, tried staycations where you drop the kids off wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 12:43 PM
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Shut the fuck up. Lift. Read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 10:19 PM
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Stop wasting your time trying to control another human being. You are in an LTR and have options. Either stop being a weak beta or exercise those options now.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 02:30 PM
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that mustache tho
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 08:47 PM
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So its been about a week since I've decided to fight my betaness. Looking at your post history, I'm going to agree with /u/I_trip_over_hurdles You might want to think about a therapist. If you are seriously not trolling this sub, which I'm still not sure about. You really need to work on some issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 10:38 AM
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I can relate sort of. I work at a school for grownups (college). It's filled with SWPL's, Far-Lefty loon bags, BETA men, old ladies and feminists. It's a monumental exercise in self control not to just start randomly slapping the shit out of them. One of the things I'll do, every once in a while I'll go to a pub by myself (I have a favorite one) sit at the bar and just stare at the TV. I'll strike up a convo with the bartender when it's slow and eventually some dude will chime in on whatever we'…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 08:40 PM
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Worry about improving yourself and just keep your mouth shut. Lift, STFU, DGAF. Never talk about fight club. Lead by example. Acta Non Verba. But, you will do as you will.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 08:09 PM
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Upvoted, because some pussy down voted.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:35 PM
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With oneitis you tend to ignore red flags, like the possibility of how much of a nutbar she might be. Didn't she text your wife? Not cool. Do you really want to mess with a woman that could do this? Who knows what she's capable of. Start recognizing the flaws in this person you've managed to somehow put on a pedestal. Get the pussy off the pedestal man. That's blue pill thinkin'.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:50 PM
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You're fucking plenty old enough then. Get your shit together emotionally. You were not in "full stern mode" you were in pouty bitch mode. Lots of resources on stoicism that can help you. Two good books you should take a look at. A guide to the Good Life The Obstacle is the Way Right now she's being childish and emotional because you're being childish and emotional. Start thinking of your wife as your oldest child that you need to be more fatherly with. Oldest teenager in the room, remember that…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 01:02 PM
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That and if you look at his post history, he may want to lay off the porn or he's a troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 12:49 PM
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You need to get a handle on your emotions. She's the one who does the emotions, throws the tantrums and gets pissy not you. How old are you if you don't mind my asking.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 10:08 AM
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Get your T levels checked.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 10:02 AM
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There was this chick at work (hot, youngish) who I would have to assist with some technical things occasionally over the phone. She was always a rude entitled cunt, bitchy, reluctant to follow instructions. I have the patience of a saint One day I said after multiple attempts to get something accomplished, I said...this just isn't working out. Why I don't I come over to your desk and see if we can get this figured out. Upon my arrival, almost immediately, she went from headstrong-bitchy-twat to …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 03:02 PM
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It's true. Life is awesome when you're good looking. You can say things that would get ugly people fired. You get faster service at clothing shops. Women smile and are more friendly. I was at J. Crew trying on shirts and my wife was with me. I came out of the dressing room where she was waiting and said what do you think? The girl working the area stared and as she walked away I heard a "Woooooo!" When I was 16 I had no idea the power that I had or how to use it. I visited my mother once at work…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:02 PM
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The longer she waits the better chance she has a giving you a clutch of window lickers. There is a reason women have kids when they're young. I had my first at 25, that was fairly easy. My next at 30, that fucking sucked. The older you get.... Dude, you're pushing 40. 3 years goes by fast. How much more time are you going to give her?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 06:26 PM
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Banging a emotionally unstable co-worker would have been a horrible idea. Getting her riled up and shitting where you eat was a pretty dumb idea too. Hindsight is 20/20. I made a ton of mistakes, but this isn't one of em'. Yeah, it totally was. You'll figure it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:22 PM
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Over the past three months I've transformed from a true AFC into someone who can hold frame, make his wife dripping wet with a single look, and has female co-workers fawning. Wow! I am impressed. 3 months! You are cured. There's a hot co-worker I couldn't help but game. Pickup, NLP, psychological tests, Kino. I've pulled all the stops, but I never escalated beyond basic kino. No holding hands, no kissing, etc. I figured if I didn't escalate I would be OK. Aaaaaaaand then you go full retard. Eith…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 11:18 AM
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Yeah, sounds like she's already checked out. That and OP, you're still not doing any of this for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 08:16 PM
9

If she says she's going shopping and goes to the bar instead, that's lying. Women shopping are easily distracted by shiny objects. Next time she goes shopping and says she'll be back in an hour laugh and say, see you next Tuesday!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 05:12 PM
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I broke up with this chick (before my wife of course) because that's all she wanted. Whenever I went to piss I'd be like, the fuck is that smell? It was me! I had this chicks ass smell on my dick like like a fucking tattoo. So I dropped her. It's over rated.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 02:59 AM
5

The two ideas I'm running with right now are to either continue to ignore it and keep running the MAP, or attempt to lead her towards being sympathetic to the idea of "emotional affairs" being inherently wrong and then follow up with what I know. Go with the first one, you know this already. Stop worrying about her bullshit and focus on your own. She is not the center of your universe. You are. Become selfish. Make your goal to get to DREAD LEVEL 3 STFU. DGAF. Lift like a mother fucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/15 11:33 AM
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Cry in a pillow alone if you must. Then shoot the pillow so it can never tell anyone. Just dropping in to say, that was epic.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/15 01:49 AM
1

really?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:50 AM
3

I'm thinking there may be bit of projection here too. Your wife knows she was a slut, and knows deep down that you're right about sluts. She's probably thinking, if he feels that way about sluts and I am/was a slut how must he feel about me. Because it's always about "me". Hence the whole Facebook freakout. I deleted my FB (all social media but twitter actually) account 2 years ago and do not miss it one bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 12:21 PM
4

Here's where I get myself into trouble. I have a very difficult time pushing down my true feelings of disapproval for the way she is dismissing me. I don't know how to ignore it and move on to do something with my time. Does anyone have a strategy for dealing with their true feelings of rage when they're being shit tested like this? When you are being dismissed, look at it as an opportunity to find things that "set you apart in terms of hobbies and interesting skills". STFU. DGAF. Channel that r…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 11:51 PM
3

Striving to never take my eye off the ball again.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 11:18 PM
1

I let her go and just went back to what I was doing. After the kids were in bed, I was reading and she came and lay down, muttering something about being soooo tired. I got out of bed, went downstairs and rubbed one out, then went to sleep. Swing and a miss. I'm thinking that she was DTF here. You missed a couple comfort tests in that dialogue that you could have capitalized on. Might want to just lay off the whole butt sex thing for a bit and give it to her good in the vag. Agree with the gener…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 03:33 PM
4

How did the alcoholism end up? Has she changed that as well? As far as I can tell yes. Time will tell if she has a full blown problem where she's sneaking it, hiding it etc. I haven't seen any evidence of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 02:39 PM
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Projection, great word to use. See, your story is a teachable moment that provides an example of how you improved yourself and the impact it has had on other peoples lives. Not only that, how someone you admire and respect not only noticed and approved but validated your choices. I got it. Not only did I get it, but I was able to see commonalities and relate it to my own life. For the new guys. Read. STFU. Reflect on what it is that's being posted. Pick something out and ask yourself. Does it he…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/15 12:35 PM
1

Geesh. This thread took a turn... My grandfather was a man I always wanted to live up to. Worked hard. Always had a project going. Didn't take crap from my grandmother. Was the leader. Everyone loved and respected him. He died much too young, but everything he did had an impact on my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 03:42 PM
1

She says what's worse is that I seem to be getting happier with my SMV going up, but hers is going down. How did this conversation go down? She actually made this statement or is this a super condensed version or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 10:27 AM
3

My wife went from threatening divorce as her go to manipulation ploy to fuck, I'm going to lose this guy if I don't stop being a cunt. She's even said so out loud to me. I don't explain to her why or how this happened I just smile inwardly to myself. So, keep going. Don't be discouraged, be encouraged. SorcererKing is on the money, she sees the power dynamic changing and she's scared. It's going to be up to you to prove to her that you can handle your shit.
/r/askMRP14/08/15 07:43 PM
3

My employer has been struggling and I've had fears of them closing shop. I have interviewed a lot, some very successful interviews with good feedback, however no offers. Its taken a toll on my and caused a lot of stress and mild depression... and of course I have taken this home with me. My frame and attitude has not been a position of power, its been mopey and downtrodden. Not only have all alpha traits diminished, I’ve even let beta traits slip away as I’ve become depressed and lazy. Snap out …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 05:19 PM
3

My wife will mate guard to the extreme when it comes to other women. If I mention a coworker that she's never heard of: Who's Julie? What does she look like? Is she fat? How old is she? If we're at a bar and I go out for a smoke and if a woman follows me out (it happens, I'm not trying I swear) she'll see it from across the room and hustle her ass out there. If some guy is flirting with her I have an IDGAF attitude, drives her crazy. Then she left with her three six packs of IPA. I hate IPA. We …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 03:42 PM
1

I would never and will never get a vasectomy as I feel there certainly is a piece of your masculinity lost in that process. I agree completely and whole heartedly. I will be able to make babies until I draw my last breath.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 08:34 PM
3

More value in improving yourself. Understand: taking this MRP course of action will either improve your marriage or bring it to its much needed conclusion. When you become the man you should be, you will be OK with either one. Save your money on your improvement.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 03:52 PM
4

Who among us isn't turned on by girl-on-girl stuff? Me. It does absolutely nothing for me. Part of me wants to be supportive of her because I am a sex-positive person and I know how hard it is for LGBT people to come out. I have the worlds smallest violin and it's playing "My Heart Bleeds". Part of me wants to give her the benefit of the doubt and try to be understanding, and that she just wanted to explore this part of her sexuality but went about it the wrong way. Uh...no son, fuck her. Grow a…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 03:54 PM
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Crap, you have a kid. admitted that she got wet with the other woman whereas when we have sex we have to use lube I'm thinking "bi" means gay. Lurk more. Read the sidebar stuff. Start improving yourself. Prepare for, but do not bring up just yet, divorce. In the meantime, (and this is speaking for myself and probably bad advice) I would say enjoy your open marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 03:30 PM
2

Is/Was she having sex with you during this whole affair?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 03:12 PM
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At this point, I might consider a direct Come To Jesus confrontation about her behavior. You extend your trust to people who are trustworthy, and her lame-ass attempts at concealment and obfuscation are evidence of her untrustworthiness. Her willingness to flirt seriously with someone outside the marriage crosses a line. I'll just add - when she's sober. Arguing with a woman is pointless, but arguing with a drunk woman is worse. Speaking from experience. You both may want to consider cutting dow…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 03:34 PM
1

I could really use some help with this one. Currently struggling with reigning in spending to work on home improvements. Wife does not understand the concept of money. She's like a three year old sometimes. I have a plan but I am unable to articulate that to the hamster in an effective way. Right now as captain I'm like Jack Sparrow in the opening scene of Pirates of the Caribbean where he's pulling in to harbor, looking all captain like and as the camera pulls away you can see that boat is sink…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/15 04:59 PM
2

slow clap Never read Sun Tzu but it is on my list now. Do not interfere with an army that is returning home. Once it's working, don't pick at it. That's what I've learned.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/15 12:18 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 12:15 PM
1

She has a planet fitness membership but hasn't been using it. She will be.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 12:14 PM
1

Thank you. Went over the /r/keto diet concept with her and made a shopping list. This is probably the best plan as she has a fructose allergy. It lines up with what she's supposed to eat anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 12:11 PM
1

Disclaimer: I don't know a thing about Cara Delevigne Cara who? *google image search.... Mother of God.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:30 PM
3

Lots of great advice in this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 03:19 PM
4

Seven years? Feel free to down vote me, but tell me if you disagree....I am the only one here who thinks seven years in an LTR is excessive? I know there's more to this post then that, but that's what stuck in my head. Seven fucking years. In an LTR. Flushed down the shitter. At least you weren't married with kids I guess. Move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/15 08:11 PM
2

She wanted me to stop and pick up a box of produce from a local farmer and was giving me directions. Now, there are 2 ways to get there, I was thinking she was saying coming in from a different direction. She starts getting pissy and I tell her to calm down. When my wife starts to try to control the situation like this example. I just say "I got shit handled babe, thanks." If she keeps going..."It's all good, this is one thing you don't have to worry about." Calm. Confident. When I finally get t…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 12:37 PM
2

Also, I suggest reading. Gates of Fire: An Epic Novel of the Battle of Thermopylae by Steven Pressfield if you haven't already. So many lessons in masculinity that book it's impossible to know where to start. Compared to men these days, Spartans may as well have been from the moon.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 01:05 PM
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You are playing a game that you've already lost with rules you don't understand. Mine has two modes when she drinks. Happy or belligerent. We had it out a couple weeks ago. She admitted that it is a problem and is working on it. She has some other issues that we're addressing and this is going to take time. Your situation isn't about dominance. You have no control over it what-so-ever. You could be the top alpha in the world you'll still lose. You can't not allow her to drink. Shit ain't gonna w…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 12:34 PM
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Damn brother you got my blood up with this post. I'm reliving things in my head like PTSD! It's all way in the past but if I knew 20 years ago what I know now... Glad you're here. Just keep hanging out and reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 02:42 AM
4

When I first read it that is exactly what I thought. Total feminist fan fiction.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 08:02 PM
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Since then I thought things had improved but just this morning she told me that she hasn't been sleeping because of the "stress in our marriage" and we're supposed to go to her parents for a couple of weeks, she is now telling me to leave a week early and have a week to myself in order to have some down time and we have some time apart. Truly I'm a bit excited about it. But I feel like this is possibly emotional manipulation. Sounds like she's trying to dread you. Like you're supposed to be in a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 01:58 PM
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Basically, I'm looking for some advice - I must have over-dreaded this poor girl without really meaning to. Nope. It happens. I'm shocked she hasn't accused you of cheating on her yet. Others with more wisdom than I will be able to tell how to deal with this.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 02:56 PM
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True that. got carried away... I edited.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 07:44 PM
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From your DB post: she sometimes (I would say half of the time) feels pain with vaginal penetration. If you do this right, you will be astounded at how this malady will magically without any medical intervention what-so-ever mysteriously clear itself up. Like it never happened. Lurk. Read. Ask questions. Soon, you will be giving that woman the pounding of a life time. She will look at you like a god, and kneel at your feet. Because she's going to eagerly blow you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 07:03 PM
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I will be able to make babies until I draw my last breath. I refuse to ruin myself as a man. Make myself half a man. Just because...bitches. FUCK. THAT.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 05:35 PM
2

Was at a seminar for work and this BP speaker starts going on about "happy wife, happy life" and I smirk. Some other BP saps start cheering and clapping. It was all I could do to not stand up and ask what he was doing to take care of his own happiness. Like I wanted to start ranting about how they're all BP robots. It completely ruined the whole seminar for me. All I could think of was me having my Heston moment where no one would believe me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 12:46 PM
2

When did I miss "sperg" becoming the catch-phrase du jour? All of a sudden it's everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 10:23 AM
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Damn this woman needs a leader. I inconvenienced her momentarily and now everything I've done for her this week (Including: concerts,dinners,parties,sex,cleaning the house, doing the dishes...even though they are her motherfucking dishes!) is out the window. Stop with the covert contracts. Read the sidebar. I ain't reading daily updates brother. Keep it weekly or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 09:11 PM
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I will say that this sub will either help save your marriage or bring it to its much needed conclusion. Who's to say which direction my marriage is going, but I know which direction i'm going. So your marriage is coming to a close? You are 31 there is no wall for you. Keep working on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 12:09 PM
1

I'll take a serious look. I never did put much stock in these drugs. Every one she's taken has fucked with her in a negative way.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 02:09 AM
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I have brought this up to her. She has a track record of learning things the hard way and then saying I was right all along. Part of her anxiety problem is me. Well not me, I'm not antagonizing her or anything but as I got my shit together and paradoxically became a man she can admire, respect and brag about to her friends she also became more frightened and paranoid of losing me. Dread works with her. Really well. Almost too well.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 07:33 PM
1

All I can do is own my own shit brother. And hey, if she fucks up that just means I can go out and get some strange.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 07:29 PM
1

Her sister is in a hospital bed with cancer pretty much exploding everywhere in her body so she has bigger fish to fry. Besides, she's with her father.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:45 PM
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She was on a med that made it hard for her to finish. I can go as long as I need to, and I'm in great shape but even that was tiring. That lasted about a week before she had the doc switch, she wasn't having any of that. She can be overly dependent on me. She gets anxious when I'm gone for any stretch of time. For example if I go over to my friends to hang out her mind races. She gets worried, she thinks I'm seeing a girlfriend, or I'm dead etc. This is a weight which I do not want to carry. I a…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:44 PM
1

This is how to do it right.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:03 PM
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We moved to another town when my son was 7 during the middle of the school year. When my wife took him to his first class she walked in with him and his new teacher. When the teacher introduced him to the class he said "Nobody better mess with me." My wife of course, was mortified. I laughed my ass off when she told me. Thing is, nobody messed with him. From that day on he was that guy that got along with everyone. Made lots of friends and had a great time up until he graduated. Helluva thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 05:07 PM
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That’s not to be defeatist, or an endorsement of a MGTOW course of action, but it is to say that if a man has neither the sex appeal to be a short term sexual prospect nor the provisioning appeal to be a long term investment, women feel entirely justified in acting in the best interests of Hypergamy and controlling his capacity for commitment as well. Any man who has his shit together is most definitely the gatekeeper to commitment. And yes, that’s pretty fucked up if you, again, find yourself o…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 04:49 PM
1

From /u/redpillforever Most BP thinkers have a half view of the obligations of monogamy. Monogamy is not, as BP thinkers assume, an agreement to have sex with one person and only one person, regardless of how they behave or how often they put out. That is an incredibly unbalanced, unhealthy relationship, which affords one partner (usually the woman) massive power over the other by becoming the gatekeeper to their partner's entire sex life. Monogamy is an agreement to sexual exclusivity, in excha…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 02:50 PM
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Each one of us lives only now, this brief instant. The rest has been lived already, or is impossible to see. Coping with existence. Complacency, monotony, comfort, routine, shitty friends. What if this is as good as it gets? All of those aforementioned things will lead to a soul crushing despair. I have Meditations on my book reader and frequently just open it to a random page and read. There is always something there that will drive me to ask what it is I want from life. It's a blueprint for th…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:54 PM
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The light should be coming on after reading the Rational Male regarding hypergamy and her slutting it up on girls night. This is just my opinion but Put No More Mister Nice Guy at the top of your list. Dealing with her horse shit and being able to assert yourself without fear (of pissing her off) and guilt keeping you down (remember, you're the captain) needs to be the priority.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 02:13 PM
2

You have some sidebar reading to do. Get a handle on this shit now. She wants you to, she just doesn't realize it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 01:15 PM
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I want to compare her behavior to mine to show how lopsided her judgment is Yeah, don't bother. She's being exactly what she's labeling me as in my opinion. You're expecting her to use logic and reason. She won't. You're going to have to call a moratorium on this whole going out at night separate thing. It's getting out of control. Especially if she's dressing like a whore. How old are you guys anyway?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 12:32 PM
1

This shit should be obvious 101. When you lead a woman in a dance she is in your frame. You generate the tingles. You make her look good. Your status goes up in her eyes, as well as all the other girls standing around with their Charlie-Brown-Dad-Bod husbands and meek boyfriends get to see her with a man who can spin her around like he knows what he's doing, if you know what I mean and I think you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 02:55 PM
1

It's been years since I've had to deal with that nightmare. That and my wife has never been able to handle birth control pills. Her tubes are cauterized, so no way are my dudes getting to any eggs ever. I would agree on the dread but, say keep it at dread level 3 if she is pregnant. It's easy to go beta when her belly is full, fight that shit and stay masculine. Do what ever level you have to if she's on the pill, no diff. Frankly I thought the pill was supposed to help level off that shit. If y…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 02:25 PM
1

I am confused, why is she on birth control if she's pregnant?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 01:11 PM
2

Interesting, how about a link to a couple of your favs?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 01:05 PM
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Why don't you take them with her? You guys might have fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 11:24 AM
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Owning your own shit requires a gut level honesty that a lot of people have a very hard time coming to terms with. It's much easier to blame others rather than fearlessly exploring your flaws and fixing them. And I believe you meant a 180. A 360 would be flipping all the way around and going in the same direction your were going. Just sayin'.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:45 PM
1

Have you tried Al-Anon? Oh yes, I know all about it. It's all been coming back to me recently. Dealt with an alcoholic father for years before he finally sobered up. Had to eventually just let him be homeless until he finally got his shit together.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 05:00 PM
1

edit: an update
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:50 PM
2

No problem, Some Context. She's on anti-anxiety medication. Her heart races, she gets heartburn, racing thoughts, can't sleep etc. After multiple EEG's, CAT scans, stomach scans etc. we figured this out. However, this drinking excessively is a new thing. I've tried pretty much everything and last night it came to a head. But, she's combining booze with pills and gaining weight and her behavior and attitude sucks. And frankly, I'm finding her repulsive right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:22 PM
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Nah. It's just a thing right now. Been married 20 years, the drinking too much just started ramping up over the last six months or so. It's at a bottle of wine a night almost. She knows she is developing a problem but isn't wanting to face the truth. A bottle every night is a bit ridiculous for a 130 pound female. She was argumentative about it at first but when I told her it was making her fat...holy god you would have thought I ate a kitten in front of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 05:38 AM
2

Welcome! Glad to have you here.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 05:06 AM
1

Last week I told the wife that we're going out on a date night. I had planned to go to a free outdoor music concert with a fireworks show at the end of the evening. I didn't tell her where we were going or what was going on. We went, we laughed, we danced, we had a great time. She didn't let on, but she really dug the fact that I kept it mysterious and fun leading up to the evening. She is still mentioning how much fun she had, all for the cost of nothing. Women love a mystery.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 01:31 PM
2

I think ours was over dog food, if I remember correctly. She isn't done, the accusations will keep coming but eventually taper off as you learn to brush them off like a comfort test. Get to the point where leaving you is an actual negative and then you'll stop being so goddamn paranoid at every turn. ~ whinemoreplease This right here. Become her only option, to where the work she would have to put in to do better than you is too much trouble.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 12:46 PM
2

Huh, it looks like I'm not the only one going through this right now. My wife loves getting fucked by me, but I'm just sort of meh about it all right now. I have to force myself to get into it. What am I doing to fix it? Still working on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 12:42 PM
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It seems that this social circle you're in is going to fuck up your life eventually. I would dump them and find new people to chill out with. There is just way too much social pressure there for things to happen with your wife that you will not be pleased with.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 11:59 AM
1

On my list, find some friggin' friends that aren't attached to their wives at the hip.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 06:03 PM
1

She will often ask me what she can do to spice things up because she wants to please me. I know enough to know that I don't know what I want. So I agree, I need to spend some time figuring out what I want. Maybe I'm afraid to find the answer, because it may not include her. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for approval from anyone to cheat on my wife. And I certainly have not checked out of the marriage. But this feeling or thing that I'm going through, that I thought was just a phase has not…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 02:06 PM
2

Have you read Sex God Method? Have you tried bondage? Rape fantasies? Have you stared into her eyes the entire time you are having sex? I have read it, it's very helpful to have better sex. Not necessarily with your wife though. Methinks this is about more than sex and we are not getting the full story. There is a lot of resentment that I'm still struggling with. There was a time, early on in our marriage where I stayed for the kids. Now my kids are grown for the most part and now there are time…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 12:39 PM
5

Because you're fucking your wife for her sake and not your sake. Sex for you is an obligation/chore. I know right? WTF it's like role reversal from hell. She's not fat, but she's putting weight on. She exercises like crazy, but she has a bad habit called alcohol. One of the things that is really killing my attraction. I drink so I'm no teetotaler but not every damn day. She'll swear that this week she's not going to be drinking until next weekend. But then traffic will be bad on Tuesday or somet…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 12:23 PM
2

Was it an unintended consequence or did it just expose what was already latently there? Like when people say the internet has lowered civil discourse. I believe it just exposed the reality of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 12:02 PM
14

Be a skittles man
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 11:36 AM
3

it just came out and she looked like someone had punched her in the brain. Funny thing is, if she didn't think it had some truth she would have laughed at you or simply blew it off. What she was doing was trying to reassert herself at the top of the SMV pecking order with words and not one leg to stand on thinking you (or the old BP you) would give in and take your rightful place at the bottom. Instead you slapped her down hard with the truth. So now she's trying to escalate the psychological wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 11:23 AM
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You are not alone. I kept giving her an out. She never would take it. Stubborn. She never will. My wife plays this (what I call) psychological warfare comfort test. A&A doesn't work. Upping the dread, doesn't work. Saying "baby there's never gonna be anyone but you" beta crap...doesn't shut it down. Trying to use logic and reason LOL! She will keep going and going. It's relentless. The only way to win is to not play. Typical situation and how I handle it: *she starts in with the crap Baby, sssss…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 03:19 PM
2

What do women want? Who cares.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 12:24 PM
1

Remember, she is female. There will be no reasoning with her as to why you are not "psycho". Just be stoic maintain that she will not be bartending period.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 12:58 PM
2

Well, you know what to do as per the advice in this thread. Talk to your sponsor. Talk to her. Talk to your lawyer.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 05:20 PM
1

Hell, she's gonna do what she's gonna do. She also knows that I can replace her with two, half her age and nicer.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 05:18 PM
1

It was brought up once though in her mind it was her having sex with the other girl, and me having sex with her. To which my response was I would be fucking them both. She wasn't going to be having any of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 02:19 PM
2

I'm a recovering alcoholic been sober 3 years. A few years back she was totally against alcohol because of what it did to me and now out of the blue she wants to be a bartender? What does your sponsor say?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 01:47 PM
2

Option 1. I can get away with murder. She was in a place where she was certain she was going to lose me and all I said in reply was, don't worry about it. Which put her in even more of a state. So, I think I broke her, heh. That's why I dailed it down and sprinkled some beta in.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 12:19 PM
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This made my jaw hit the floor: "If you're going to fuck someone, just make sure you wear a condom." This came out of my wife's mouth before I went on a business trip. I dialed down the dread just a bit after that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 10:40 AM
2

I normally shake hands with my hand either vertical or my hand twisted ever so slightly palm down, so that the other person is shaking palm up. It's a subconscious dominance thing that I was never aware of until someone brought it to my attention. An example I've told before, but it bears repeating. I met this guy, unassuming guy, mild mannered, probably in his 70's, worth a couple billion dollars. Went to shake his hand with my hand palm down, wasn't even thinking about it until he took my hand…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:39 PM
2

I will say this though. Last month I spent a week in downtown Chicago, I had never been there before. I was somewhat surprise at how many attractive women there were. I was thinking that day game would be a blast, if I were single...and my wife wasn't with me. (heh, I kid, I kid)
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 07:36 PM
9

It's a epidemic man. I feel bad for you young single guys. The pickings are getting slim. Over the weekend wife and I were at a night time spot, having a beverage out in the beer garden people watching. Even my wife notices this; every one of the SWF that walked in the place was a fatty. When I was a kid, in the neighborhood a big fat woman was something to be pointed out. It wasn't that common. Now, it's almost the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 07:10 PM
2

They would do stuff like put their finger in your bottom. The only person who gets to put their finger up my ass is my doctor once a year. The older kids here will understand.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:48 PM
1

The Quiet Man should be required reading/watching on how to deal with a woman who is a complete pain in the ass. One of the best movies ever made.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 04:56 PM
0

Early on in our marriage my wife thought it was ok to get physical, punch throwing, slapping, kicking etc. After many chances and warnings, I matched her intensity. I'll never forget the look of sudden realization that, golly, men are strong and can seriously hurt you but don't because they have a large amount of self restraint and I was really playing with fire here... She hasn't gone there since.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 10:31 AM
3

I'm not afraid of a divorce. I just didn't want it to happen if it didn't need to. What's your bottom line? One strange dick in your wife? Two? Because I can tell you I first thought this was a troll post. But your not jealous or needy if you insist that strange dick not enter your wife's bodily cavities during the duration of your marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 04:07 PM
4

Basically all of this "pushback" your getting means you're doing it right. Be prepared to deal with the eventual affair accusation. It's coming.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 04:01 PM
6

There is nothing new here. There were at least two female teachers that I know about for sure that fucked my classmates when I was in school (early 80's). Back then, they just quietly went away. No nationwide news stories, no law suits. Just high fives all around and a teacher that was suddenly on paid leave and a sub until they found a replacement.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 03:09 PM
3

Or he folded like a cheap suit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 12:29 PM
1

Sweet. If she gets to be too big of a headache you don't have to pay out your ass to shitcan the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 12:27 PM
1

This forum is populated by young men. All young men go through a period in their lives when they realize that their father is not superman and doesn't know everything. Part of becoming your own man, is coming to the realization that your father is just a man. The "my beta dad" posts are a manifestation of that.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 01:36 PM
1

This is you waiting for you wife to initiate sex: https://imgflip.com/readImage?iid=15215449 You lead.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:24 PM
2

Watching TV with my wife a while back and some blurb on the local news comes on about stay at home dads and how cool it is... I made a "FEH" sound with a smirk. She wants to know what my problem is. ME: "That story coming up, give me a break." HER: "What's wrong with being a stay at home dad? If the wife makes the money there's nothing wrong with it." ME: "Please. You look me in the eye, picture you working all day supporting me and the kids. Tell me you wouldn't have anything but contempt for m…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:22 PM
2

PMS fights always conclude with great sex when you hold your frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/15 08:48 PM
1

There is a price for everything and abuse of any kind of drug will eventually catch up with you.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 12:32 PM
3

Affair accusations are typical when starting out with MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 12:25 PM
7

When amused mastery doesn't work, just stare at the dumb bitch until she looks away.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:15 PM
3

He did wrong going to that show. I disagree. It's good to engage your opponents. It sharpens your wits and enables you to defend and articulate your ideas. Everyone can sit here and make a list of what Roosh should have done or said. Fact is he failed. He'll do better next time, if there is one.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:49 PM
1

Man I have been where you are. It's rough. It was our main event. She was accusing me of having an affair, it was always like I'd rather be somewhere else etc. Textbook stuff. She kept pressing me, wanting to know exactly what my problem was, why was a acting that way I was blah blah. What I said was to a word "you are just generally unpleasant to be around" in a matter of fact way. Like, it looks like it might rain today tone of voice. Holy fuck, the shitstorm that ensued was biblical. It was j…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 07:44 PM
2

I've told her on multiple occasions what I need and what she can do to meet those needs, but she makes an effort for maybe 1-2 months before she slips back into her lazy relationship behavior (reminder to self, attraction cannot be negotiated). I'm going to take a guess that when this happens you've let up on what you were doing to get her to the place where she was meeting your needs? You thought, ah now she's doing what I want I can finally relax with the dread and the shit test passing etc. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 07:13 PM
1

What could happen is you leave her and live the life you want, it will be amazing and all of the stuff you think you missed out you'll get to do and your life will be fulfilled and awesome. What would probably happen is you leave her and all the stuff you think you missed out on you desperately try to find only to discover that you had it pretty good and you pretty much blew it and now you're just chasing the dragon. FOMO is a helluva drug. Is everyone else really having a better time than you?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 06:35 PM
2

You have a way of explaining things so I can understand them *forrest gump voice. Seriously. Mind is blown at the words. Brilliant. ...and I don't do that. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:09 PM
7

High school academics absolutely matter. There are times when you have to think about the long game. There are times when you have to play someone else's game to get something. High school is both of these things. In your short young life you're going to find out there are shitload of things you don't want to do but you have to do anyway. This is one of them. Do the best you can. Get good grades. Get scholarships. Get an education that will make you money. Play the game. Eventually, if you're sm…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:39 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OUJRJAXolk4 Fuckin. A.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:26 PM
10

"So you've got more than one!? I will have to sniff you when you get home" You should have just slapped her ass, winked and went on your walk here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 12:32 PM
4

This is true. I have never given my looks much thought. But I have been told by..fuck..pretty much every woman ever that I'm (pick an adjective for hot). Being one charming motherfucker helps. All my life, I get away with so much more shit than other guys do. A quote from one of my ugly friends one time: "Dude, the shit that comes out of your mouth sometimes. I would have been slapped! Or fired. Or killed!" I'm married now and have been for years so I don't turn on the charm full blast unless I …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:43 PM
45

Miserable people are like crabs in a bucket. They would rather see others just as miserable as themselves and will rationalize all kinds of excuses to do so. People are ego invested in their own way of life so the fact that the guy employed TRP principles and his marriage, wife and life are in a better place.... It must be something else.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:30 PM
2

Well, I'm sure she will make a great friend out of him. Heartbreaking.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:20 PM
5

The game doesn't end with the LTR, the rules just change. You are the oak. You are the rock that her emotions can crash against. You will need to let the sweet, caring, nurturer out sometimes. When those comfort tests come, you will learn to shut them down quickly by combining those three traits otherwise she will keep coming at you. Shit test: Oak, Rock, Amused master. Comfort test: Oak, Rock, Caring nurturer. Yes, women are a pain in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:56 PM
5

If you win do you get a mop haired pirate hooker? I'm in.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:18 PM
4

I really need to get out and do more for myself. I'm really starting to slack on that and my wife is going to start taking it for granted. Time to break the monotony.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 11:05 AM
5

I went down stairs and the wife told me that I shouldn't have taken that laptop from him because he "paid" for it. She was given me that condescending talking to and being disrespectful. Needless to say, the laptop was given back to him. Who pays for the internet connection? You? Unplug the fucking thing. My son (20) lives at home and though he is an "adult" he is still under my roof and is subject to my rules. Keep at it, eventually when she recognizes you as leader things will get easier and b…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 02:20 PM
1

That sucks but one of the things that goes along with swallowing TRP and improving yourself in regards to your marriage: It will either improve it and benefit both of you or bring it to a much needed close. I would keep the lawyer info to yourself (I'm sure you know this) to mitigate any shenanigans on her part. Keep at it. You'll be a better man and the prize for the next woman to come along, or for her when/if she decides to leave CrazyTown.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 02:08 PM
11

Cheating is a level unto itself. You don't owe her your patience or understanding. Start recording the crazy shit she does for your future lawyer.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/15 07:27 PM
1

Well you can complain about shit tests or learn to pass them. Option one means you'll never get laid. Option two means your a fucking man and that's how it is.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 04:01 PM
2

I noticed that the ROK link on the sidebar is no longer there. I know that some of the articles are complete shit and they could use a good editor, but I'm curious if there is a reason why it's gone.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:52 PM
4

Blow jobs, anal sex, and sex with other women don't count! *he said sarcastically
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:58 PM
6

Shit, only 11? She's damn near been cloistered in a nunnery by today's standards. You don't just fuck their body, you fuck their mind. Sex God Method has great advice on this. I'd just focus on your own pleasure. Use her body as your own personal playground.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 10:29 AM
6

Now? We have more sex for a few weeks of the month. And none for a good 1-2 weeks. I can pretty much set my watch to it now. If the wife is not 80-100% in the mood- its hard to work the married life game and get busy with it. It used to be if she wasn't 100% in the mood. So progress. Still working on how to get the tingles at full tilt all month long. Getting there. Dread. My dread is solid and just a bit ruthless. She needs it that way. I know how far I can go, and when I need to back off. She …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:11 PM
2

I don't know what it is but my gut feeling just goes one step further. Fuck him. You don't know that guy, for all you know he'd fuck your woman if he had the chance. Your gut is putting you in the victimized category rather than the one who victimizes. You're putting yourself in the position of the guy who's girlfriend is getting fucked not the girlfriend fucker. Another example would be if you see a video on youtube of a guy getting his ass kicked. Is your reaction "Oh god that's horrible"? Thi…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 04:25 PM
2

I have only been on this subreddit for a small amount of time but I have yet to see where the 'red pill community' stands on scoring taken women? I'll tell you how I see it. Never fuck your brothers woman. Never fuck your brothers ex (without permission, even then it's a Bad Idea), regardless of sexual strategy being amoral or not this is dishonorable. If it's just some chick with a "bf" and you really don't know them, she's fair game if she's jumping on the branch. Just watch your ass.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:12 PM
6

My wife gets sad and insecure if we don't have sex. I'm serious.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 01:00 PM
11

My wife is one of those "don't touch me when I'm on my period" kind of gals. She's also that way when she's sick. So what does a guy do when, for example, she's on her period one week, and then the day before she's off of it, she gets sick? This might seem like a radical idea, but you could just try leaving her the fuck alone. Look at it this way, this is the time you get to spend on you. Work on your hobbies. Get together with your bros. Read the goddamn books in the sidebar. Stop getting mad o…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 12:55 PM
1

I am starting to discover, sad as it is, that I am a worthy man, that I have value and that my needs do matter. I hope by this you mean that it is sad that it took you this long to discover that about yourself and not sad that you are indeed a worthy man. Because there is nothing sad about that. I love your action plan!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 05:45 PM
5

I went in to this thread thinking what the fuck is a blow job job?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:06 PM
10

Wouldn't say it if I didn't live it brother. Start internalizing those books you're reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 08:25 PM
18

Next time she implies or states that you only use her for sex tell her that is absolutely not true, you enjoy a good blow job from time to time as well and walk the fuck away. Ignore the cunt until she starts showing you some goddamn respect and appreciation. Also, cut her funding. She gets shit. You provide for yourself and your children if she's showing no gratitude for you being the sole provider. She can go out and earn her own goddamn money if she wants shit. Sweet Jesus, grow some fucking …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 07:27 PM
2

I had no idea what to make of this until now. Thank you for doing the math here.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:05 PM
70

This kind of reminds me of a conversation I had with my daughter the other day. My daughter is turning 15 this spring. She's not allowed to date until she's 16. Period. No exceptions. I am sure I'll be shit tested on that one this coming summer. This conversation was about boys. I don't remember how the topic came up, probably she was telling me about some boy that was flirting with her at school. So, since I was curious I asked her what kind of boyfriend she's looking for someday. She thought a…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:46 PM
3

During my formative years my dad, grandpa, and his brothers were all guys who were always doing shit. Building stuff, fixing things...manly stuff. On the weekends when the family would get together the women were inside doing girly shit and cooking while the men were outside bullshitting and drinking beer. Not getting sloppy drunk, just hanging around being men. There were two men who were sort of looked down at by the others. One, my grandmothers brother who would stay inside and hang around th…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 12:31 PM
3

Well it's not about about motorcycle safety, the fact that motorcycles are dangerous is certain. He spent 40 years not living for himself. 40 years on Fridays not riding but wishing. And when he was finally allowed to live, he died.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:29 AM
47

I don't think you're out of the woods yet. Next step will be bargaining. What if I promise this? What if we never do that? Or did you guys break up.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 08:31 PM
2

Jesus Christ. Part of me wants to unload about your mom, but she's still your mom. I second, third, and fourth the posts recommending you go nuclear on her though. Stick with your dad, and give him all the support you can.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:15 PM
2

For the record, I thought your post was stellar. Apparently some people don't get my sense of humor (hence my previous post getting downvoted to oblivion) no problem I have a thick skin. But to explain, game needs to be strong whether you're picking up a new girl or have had the same one for 20 years. Have your shit together, know what you want and be the guy she wants to fuck. Over time, it just becomes a part of you. So, well done my man.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:02 PM
-21

I just had sex with this super hot chick. I was like, you wanna do it? And she said "totally!" I was like, Shit yes! It was easy. I've known her for like 20 years though.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:56 AM
1

Marriage to me now sounds like such an absurd idea for a man. You will have to work your ass every single day to not lose your status and financial stability. And this is only so that your wife will stay with you. If you want to fuck her you will have to play another game, you will have another work on it's own, to make her attracted to you. Well, to be fair you still have to play by similar set of rules to get laid by a new girl too. Not hat I disagreed with you, I'm just saying.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 11:30 PM
12

Ever go to a wedding where they read their own vows and the woman talks about how she's marrying her best friend? Pity that poor goofy bastard, he's doomed.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 05:09 PM
2

College buddy - Avoid the unhappy and unlucky. Sooner or later his their shit will fuck up your shit. The girl - Why are you nattering on and on over the phone? You want to fuck her, fuck her. If it's a situation where you're shitting where you're eating watch out it doesn't come back and bite you in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 02:10 PM
8

Losing your temper and getting angry at your wife for say...losing the car keys or forgetting to feed the dog or saying something that ticks you off like nagging etc. or something else equally silly is misplaced anger. There are better ways of controlling your emotions and dealing with your frustration. That being said, there is a difference between feeling dread, and feeling Righteous Anger. There is a difference between flirting; and flirting, getting your dinner paid for and not coming home u…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 07:30 PM
-2

Some weird psychological issue has popped up. Yeah, like PMS.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/15 04:25 PM
2

Sounds like your wife is a typical entitled pain in the ass. Once, when we were very young my wife threw her wedding ring at me. I picked it up and put it in my pocket. When things cooled down she asked where the ring was. I told her it's in a safe place until she can respect it. Every day for a month she asked where it was. When I finally gave it back to her I told her if she ever threw it at me again in anger it will get pawned and she will never get it back. She never threw it at me again, no…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/15 04:21 PM
9

45 year old chiming in. Everything in here dead on accurate. Even the young guys can adopt a lot of this in their lives now. You are not young forever and it goes by fast. Younger girls are often impulsive, vacuous, incredibly boring, mercurial, and often just plain stupid. Holy shit this. I have a five minute threshold before I'm ready to take a nail gun to my forehead when dealing with any female under the age of 28 excluding my daughter of course. Mostly because she's a miniature female versi…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 03:06 PM
11

This post was a great read. Set the tone early on. It doesn't matter if she's the hottest woman on earth or has an arm growing out of her forehead. Lead by example. Set expectations before you commit and boldly ask for what you want. Don't walk on eggshells. Don't be afraid to piss her off. She'd rather be pissed, than think you're a pussy. 20 years of marriage and my wife still likes to have sex. A lot. With me.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:47 AM
1

I wonder if you were suddenly "busy" elsewhere and unavailable what kind of an impact that would have on her attitude. If she needs you to do something say "can't, busy". Tell her you're going to go run an errand and you'll be back in an hour, take 3-4 and if she asks where you were just say it took longer than expected.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/15 06:08 PM
9

These are often passive tests. She doesn’t know why she’s having a knock down drag out three hour fight over you spilling your water on the counter. A part of her may even recognize that this is stupid. But she can’t help herself. She needs to fight you and doesn’t quite get why. So she figures it’s because you’re a lazy, selfish, fuckup who never does anything right and that this is just one of an entire history of events she’s been saving up in her mind to lay into you about for the next three…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:35 PM
1

There is a subtext of "You cheated on me so many times with porn and [her affair] is just one instance". Basically she has said I've done as bad, many times. Which comes across as justification for her actions and a deep misunderstanding that if they're equally bad, anyone using porn would rather the real thing, but instead they use porn as a compromise between a form infidelity and ultimate cheating. This is basically her disgust at your inability to control your compulsion to jerk off to porn,…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/15 09:44 PM
1

The misconception by women is that we don't express our emotions. Men feel emotions just as strongly if not more intensely. And, it's not that we don't express them, we just aren't ruled by them or think with them.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 09:40 PM
2

Love 'em. I read them when they're posted. He certainly doesn't seem to be getting bored with hypergamy any time soon though.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 09:31 PM
44

This law always makes me think of that Bruce Lee quote about water. “You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend.”
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 06:57 PM
4

Hard to pick a starting point but I think you're going to have to start from the ground up.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:56 AM
8

Sweet Jesus Holy Christ. I was married 10 FUCKING YEARS before I bought a house. You'd better nip that shit in the bud now.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:38 AM
2

Look at her with your best, I'm-going-to-fuck-you-in-half-eyes and say "No, now." Get up and turn the goddamn TV off.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 08:58 PM
-17

Save that shit for when/if you're married.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 02:16 PM
22

People see what they want to see. Fantasy is easy to control, the truth is not. In the case of women, take for example all of the marketing done during the Holidays. "He went to Jared" that sickening quote with those insipid commercials that play on men's fantasies that somehow if they go to Jared it's going to open the magical door to love and if your man didn't go to fucking Jared he's an asshole who just doesn't love you enough. God those commercials make me sick...
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:27 PM
9

Harsh, but true - mostly. RP reinforces the concepts, but I've been dread gaming my wife before I knew there was a term for it. There was a time, when I let myself go and cringe thinking about all the bullshit she put me through just to get laid. Nowadays it's three times a week unless she's on her period. She knows, knows that I can replace her with two, half her age and nicer.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:20 PM
6

Yeah, I don't get it either. You are sticking your dick where SHIT comes out. I had one girl who was into it and I dumped her because my dick wouldn't stop smelling like shit. My very first experience prior to that neither one of us had done it before and she crapped all over me. To each their own I guess.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:45 PM
3

OK after several weeks of observation, please help me understand the obsession with anal on this board.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:33 PM
6

Stop smoking weed and find out who your real friends are.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:07 PM
7

Bob in this case depicts a behaviour that we would call alpha. He uses the button to reward his wife/women for actions that please him. If he would have a tendency of acting like a beta he would hit the button as often as possible to please his wife to do the things for him. Dreamhappy pointed it out for you already but I'll just chime in to say that wooshing sound you heard was the point sailing over your head. ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:51 PM
4

I would say the best shot you have is with a girl with the same history or lower as you.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 03:07 PM
8

2-Veeery slight turning of hand so the back of your hand is facing upward. Communicates dominance. Be careful who you use it with, you might want to appear submissive in some situations. I do this without thinking. I met a guy worth a couple billion dollars through a friend and went to shake his hand. I noticed as he shook it he turned his palm down and mine up. I let that go ahead and happen.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 03:03 PM
11

My son's LTR had beautiful brown naturally curly hair. She cut it all off. My son broke up with her shortly after due to this and various other shit tests he was growing weary of. They eventually got back together however, one of the conditions was that she grow her hair back and never do that again. It's steadily getting longer by the week.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:41 PM
29

Holy shit bro. I'm 26 and currently new to the outskirts of Houston. I've never been to a biker bar before so I decided to check it out. This is what is generally considered to be a Bad Idea. Here's the thing about biker hangouts... they all know each other. You were an outsider and they were trying to figure out who the fuck you are. Biker bars are not like clubs where you go to get laid. All of the hot women are taken. Just automatically assume it. All of the "rules" you think you know do not …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 02:22 PM
3

I get it, I'll just take your word for it though.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 10:10 PM
4

•Men specifically will actually test you more than when you were beta, you will find they feel threatened/insecure by your masculinity that they lack, so they will throw more shit at you. Usually they do this passive aggressively. In a way, they are much like women. Funny how similar beta/omega men can be to women. They all characterise feminine behaviours. Got a couple guys like this where I work. False alphas. Normally I will just ignore but when I give it back it always shuts them down.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 09:53 PM
3

45 year old checking in and up-voting. I work my ass off to stay in a size L (190, slim muscular) and not have to buy XL or XXL like most men my age, and wear it well. Most men my age and even 10 years younger look like shit so it's nice to stand out. 10 years ago, when my wife and I would walk in to a bar or restaurant groups of men would stop and look. Now, when we walk in groups of women stop and look. Don't get me wrong the wife is still beautiful but you know..The Wall. Do you ever see anot…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 06:36 PM
3

This is where it helps to engage the opposition on a regular basis, and learn to defend your position(s).
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 09:39 PM
6

When you're dating, you're still (hopefully correctly) vetting the other person. When dating around or in a committed LTR you are still two separate individuals. Marriage changes that and amps it up to a new level. You're still two separate lives, but together. It's mutually assured destruction. Or, mutually assured construction. Cheesy, but true. If there is not a clear leader - destruction Athol Kay, before he went all new-agey weird pretty much nailed it with the whole captain/first mate anal…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:00 PM
7

My wife used to pull that shit early on to try to get me to back down, or if she felt she was "losing" an argument. I finally said GOOD! This conversation is finally over, have the papers drawn up and I'll sign them. and I meant it. Back in those days I was always good with women, I just sucked at marriage. I thought that it would be the same thing as any LTR with the exception that you live together. It's not.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 01:41 PM
1

That explains why my wife cums like a banshee.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:42 AM
-1

Fuckin' A. BOOM Fist bump. Upvote. Should be rule #1.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:58 PM
14

If after 10, which all steps until then seem pretty solid you're still not having success it's time to start planning an exit strategy. If you have to 'go there' (11&12) it is just not worth it to be married to this woman any way.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/14 02:11 PM
54

What a stark contrast between this democrat and the current state of the party.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 09:16 PM
87

And make it look even more racist. Hysterical. Director: This is what happens when a woman walks down the street in New York! See the harrassment??!!1 Internet: Hm, there sure are a lot of black folks in this video...seems kinda racist. Director: But wait, we cut out all of the white people. Internet: So, what you're saying is, by cutting out all of the white men it's less racist? Director: Well, yeah. Internet: Ok, then....
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 03:18 PM
198

"He added: "We got a fair amount of white guys, but for whatever reason, a lot of what they said was in passing, or off camera. So their scenes were a lot shorter, but the numbers themselves are relatively even." Riiiiight.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:43 PM
4

Every woman I've ever been with has had this need to run their fingers through it during the pillow talk after the sexy time. It's like a visceral primal thing they can't help themselves.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:01 PM
5

I've never really been one to shave my torso, mainly because it's a losing battle in a lifetime war, but also I'd rather be with someone who enjoys it rather than deal with accommodating girls who don't like it. I know how it is, I tried shaving it off once and looked like a dog who just had surgery. I will get my back hair waxed off, mainly because I can't stand it and partly because the girl I go to is hot as fuck. She commented on my chest hair once and I said I have no desire to get that rem…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 06:36 PM
7

What do women tell their friends? Everything. Especially if she has a sister. That sister knows every single thing you do, have done, will do. Ever. About everything.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:18 PM
7

You can be impeached and not be thrown out of office. To impeach a leader or judge all you're doing is questioning their integrity etc in an official manner. To actually throw them out is a different matter entirely. Impeachment is just the first step.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:45 PM
1

Just popping in to express my approval and admiration. God bless ya, brother.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:58 PM
8

I never fucked a ten, but one night I fucked five two's. - George Carlin
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 06:57 PM
7

LOL I played this and my wife and daughter overheard it. They started chanting along with the seagulls! OMG if they only knew..
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 06:50 PM
29

You need to embrace more of the finer things in life: sophistication, being worldly, having life experience, having a career that's seen some respectable progress, not being overly excited to talk to a hot girl, maintaining frame, and dressing like a respectable man of your age. No, the same thing that might look good on an early 20s "bro" type isn't going to pan out as well for you. The word you're best describing is distinguished. Think Harrison Ford, Sean Connery, Aaron Eckhart and the like. …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:25 PM
14

Holy shit I want to kick somebody's ass after reading this. Great read, upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 10:20 PM
10

I’m not a sex addict, I’m not looking for love (my husband gives me both >regularly). For me, it’s a form of self-medicating a traumatic childhood. >Yet it does not work, as it only leaves me feeling angry, empty, and filled with more self-loathing. And yet, she's describing the hallmarks of exactly what a "sex addict" is. The Hamster is strong with this one.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:21 PM
18

And it doesn't matter if it's a 6 month LTR or married for 20 years. But! After that long its cake. Your frame is a part of you and it's a part of her psyche. My father instilled this shit into me in about three sentences one day when I was acting like a bitch. I was probably 13 Each word punctuated with his finger poking me in my chest. Every day you prove that you're a man. Every day of my life I prove to your mother that I'm a man. Quit acting like a fucking pussy and start acting like a man.…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:27 AM
3

He definitely understood the concept. Jake Ryan from 16 candles, lets his hot GF go because she's a shallow cunt. Doesn't chase Sam or put her on a pedestal he just gets her. Bender from The Breakfast Club. The bad boy that the popular girl wants. Pretty much every movie he's got the RP guy that has the charisma and shit that everyone secretly wants. He was very good at hiding it though, unless you know what you're looking for. -edit: Actually if you think about it, Ferris is pretty RP. He doesn…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:22 PM
2

Other studies over the years always made me reluctant to get it done. Meanwhile getting your tubes tied if your a woman actually decreases your risk of getting ovarian cancer. Men. We get the short end every damn time.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:37 PM
5

"Look, I don't take my barbecue meat for hikes or nightclubs. If you're feeling that way, it's not your fault that fucking you feels so goddamn good". That statement right there is a guaranteed vagingle tingle that will moisten a vigina faster than a buttered bullet.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:25 PM
0

In no way does it benefit either of you for you to let him know. Your options are to continue to bang, or move on and extract yourself from the drama that is their lives. Either way, take it to your grave. If she ends up telling him it's not your problem.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:16 PM
7

That's cool if that works for you. My question is this just for the sake of argument: a couple months down the road, the doorbell rings. You open it and it's Big Jim Slade, he smiles and says I'm here to pick up you're wifes name don't wait up. You gonna be OK with that?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:20 PM
36

Out of all of that, that's what you picked up on? Hell, I'll be the first to admit that marriage isn't all sunshine and rainbows. I'm in for 20 pretty soon myself so we're speaking the same language. 20 years won't amount to a hill of beans though when you've changed the rules. It may not be tomorrow, or next week, or a month from now but this will come back on you. Just be ready for anything. For all you know, she may have cheated already. And I'm serious about that. You can decline to answer, …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:57 PM
121

no, wife won't be having an affair. Bet you lunch she will be. Dread is an implication that you can leave at any time. Not straight up telling your wife that your fucking someone else. What you're doing isn't dread, it's adultery. If an open marriage is what works for you (at least on your end for now) then good. Just keep in mind that she now knows and can use that against you for all kinds of things. Plus she's basically been given a green light to go out an get other dicks. I can understand t…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:38 PM
-5

I stopped initiating sex, and the first time in a long time, my gf initiated sex. I didn't feel like it so I declined What kind of an idiot turns down pussy offered on a silver platter? I tell her that I call her beautiful everyday. That shit needs to stop. Dole out the compliments when she earns it. She kept going nuts, so then I told her "You are beautiful on the exterior, but the way you're acting right now does not make you beautiful on the interior" If it were me I would have said "I catego…
/r/askTRP08/07/14 04:04 AM
6

Jesus there are a lot of fucking insecure dads out there. I have a 14 year old daughter. When you have a daughter the one thing you learn if you didn't know it already is that women are born the way they are. They are AWALT right out of the chute. All you can do is bring them up as best you can, teach them about life and to make good decisions and hope for the best.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 12:53 PM
4

From: The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida Live As If Your Father Were Dead A man must love his father and yet be free of his father’s expectations and criticisms in order to be a free man. Imagine that your father has died, or remember when he did die. Are there any feelings of relief associated with his death? Now that he is dead, is any part of you happy that you need not live up to his expectations or suffer his criticisms? How would you have lived your life differently if you had never…
/r/askTRP19/06/14 04:42 PM
4

Me saying don't worry about it could have meant: Don't worry about it, I'll use a condom. Or, don't worry about it, I would never cheat on you. Either way, I think she wanted to rub her scent all over me because we pretty much had sex up until she dropped me off at the airport. heh Dread. It's a heluva drug.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:53 PM
14

Men age like wine, women age like milk. That fucking wall. I'm five years older than my wife and I'm in great shape. I look good, I feel good etc. Other men my age are pathetic, very few have my respect when it comes to giving a shit about their appearance. I have never given my wife any reason to think that I would step out on her. Last month was the first time she ever said anything that left me speechless. A couple days before I went on a business trip out of town she said "if you fuck anyone…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 12:27 PM
3

I love that show.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 02:17 PM
8

Just like big dicks and little dicks, there are big pussies and little pussies. I have a seven incher and am girthy, so I'm no slouch. I've had women where I swear to god I damn near fell in (it was like playing the triangle) and couldn't finish because I couldn't feel a thing. Others, same age and roughly the same experience and had to lube it up just to get it in. So remember to keep that in mind. Your dick is your dick, you can't change it. Learn to use it, fuck with emotion and passion. If y…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 01:29 PM
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