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Red Pill Theoryfasthandssam/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 04:56 PM
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Sounds like it would be much simpler to just let nature take her course and fuck new women all the time :)
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:45 AM
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Right, but that is what I'm saying- simply by being in a relationship with a girl who likes you and who wants more than you are willing to give, there will be PLENTY of drama. If you are cancelling plans with her just because you want to add drama, and not because you're genuinely not as interested in catering to her as you are going out with the boys- well that is the domain of women. Women would cancel plans just to create drama. They will also tag along to something they don't want to do just…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:42 AM
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Adam Carolla had an insightful bit on fashion. His point was: pick a direction, and go for it. It's much more important to get into something and make it part of your identity than trying for any specific style. Girls like rockers. Girls like bikers with leather jackets. They like sharp-looking dudes with suits. They like men with tank tops and big muscles. They like guys who are really into tattoos, and they like guys that are into piercings. Some even like bearded hipsters. The only thing they…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:42 AM
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I don't think any man should be in the business of creating drama. In my experience, if she likes you and wants more from you than you are willing to give, she will create PLENTY of drama for the both of you. Dread is a little different, and even that is most effective when it is covert and implied rather than "in-her-face" or spelled out. All in all, I say leave drama to the women.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:32 AM
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I will go against the grain here and say: do not smash. Nothing in this post matters at all except: "my spidy sense is tingling"... I don't always feel gut instincts about something, but when I do, I always listen to them. Saved my ass more than once, and I advise you listen to yours.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:26 AM
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Also any explanation of value, or talking about value. Any such behavior is inherently low-value
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:49 PM
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Simple concept but so important. Need to let this sink in. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:33 PM
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It seems like you do a really good job of making it easy for her to sleep with you. Men often expect women to "move things along" but really once you know she is interested it is 100% the man's responsibility to make things happen and remove the obatacles. Looks like you did a great job.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 03:15 AM
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TRP is a paradigm, a way of viewing the world (specifically intergender interactions & relationships). Newtonian physics is another paradigm, but one about the material world and the underlying laws that govern physical bodies in space. Another paradigm is evolution and natural selection. Obviously, objects in space are much easier to describe than the complexities of human interaction, so Newtonian physics is comparably very robust. You can use the framework it provides to explain observed phen…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 07:42 AM
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It is very hard to avoid a fem-primary paradigm. Even in this post, I feel like too much time and effort is being put into the implications of TRP for women. Who cares if she's a slut, or can't enjoy a quality LTR any more? What is in it for MEN? We shouldn't be discouraging women from being sluts- only warning men that most women are. I feel like we are long past the point where we should be explaining anything about TRP to women, or showing them what insights they can gain from it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 03:34 PM
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You're assuming the fem-first perspective of elevating the wants and needs of a woman over those of yourself. Who cares how good it was for her?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:58 PM
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Ah shit man. I know we talk about this stuff all the time here, but reading this makes me feel so emotionally raw and brings back such memories. Trust me- you are not alone (actually you are 100% alone and always have been- I mean that countless other men have been humiliated and heartbroken by the person they trusted and loved the most in the world). Having the illusion ripped from our eyes can be absolutely devastating and so painful. Hang in there man! And thank you for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 06:47 AM
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Faulty premise. Women need men WAY more than men need women. They are just a lot better at hiding this fact than men are at realizing their position of power.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 09:13 PM
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Have you ever treated someone for automobile accidents? Gunshot wounds? Diabetes? Guess it's time to stop driving / shooting / eating anything with sugar. Life has risks, and few experiences are 100% safe. I don't think drugs should be taken lightly, but neither should mountain climbing. In the end, I'm glad I do both.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:01 PM
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Good advice. Except the part about drugs; some of the very best and most memorable experiences of my life have included drugs. I wouldn't recommend making a habit out of them, but if your one trip to vegas this year includes an extra $40 of mdma, and that camping trip with your boys costs an extra $20 for psilocybin mushrooms, your year will have been much more exciting and memorable I promise you!
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 01:51 AM
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Yea, but whose fault is that? We should be more proactive in our support as men. Why expect others to step up for a cause when it is men who should be stepping up
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 02:49 PM
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Most men are thirsty for sex.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:34 PM
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Good post! It is really quite jarring to see women fall in love once you've swallowed the pill. The thing is, it is not an act, or a superficial ploy to get commitment (although this may be the subconscious drive)- Women will truly and sincerely fall head over heels in love. When I was first swallowing the pill, it was shocking; here is this thing, which I have tried so desperately to achieve in the past. All the women with whom I would be available and attentive and loving towards in the past, …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 04:41 AM
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Im not attacking you, but why are you talking to your mom about this? Seems kind of weird... then again, there are other members here who also like to talk about TRP with their moms. I don't know... A good general rule to follow is: Do not talk about TRP with women.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 02:53 AM
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Holy shit... if this actually happened, I feel like I need to move to Texas yesterday!!
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 03:05 AM
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Here is a video of the great Christopher Hitchens on this very topic. Titled: Why Women Still Aren't Funny: https://youtu.be/I7izJggqCoA
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:54 AM
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Here's the thing- we don't care how it affects women. We need to move away from any justification with regards to how it "helps women" ... we need no justification, and even discussing things in those terms falls into the frame of female-primacy. We help men, we help ourselves. That is enough.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:22 AM
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Ugh, not at all. Think about what it would be like to bleed from your vagina and suffer painful cramping every month. To undergo wild swings in hormones (something we as men can not easily appreciate having to deal with). To have your whole world depend on your current feelings and emotions. To be innately and uncontrollably attracted to the men who treat you the worst and think the least of you. To feel threatened by the success, youth, and beauty of all the women around you. To crave social va…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:56 AM
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I don't know about this point. Being social and going up to say hi to everyone is a good thing. I've always found that the guys who are naturally good at game tend to be social butterflies... no one thinks you look sexy because you're brooding against the wall nursing your vodka redbull, too cool to go and talk to people. On the other hand, the most attractive men tend to be open and friendly to lots of people, including other guys and unattractive women. That means that from the perspective of …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 01:09 AM
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Well, it sounds like the guy is the emotional type, who probably enjoyed living with her. I don't think the reason so many men avoid marriage like the plague is because of the toilet paper or hairs in the drain... If I knew with certainty that a girl I loved would just pack up her stuff and leave when she gained weight and lost her libido, without the risk of me being arrested because she wanted to pick a fight and stir up drama, and without the risk of her holding my children hostage for paymen…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 12:25 AM
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That's a good point. It is different to close your eyes and fantasize about fucking a woman yourself. And it's different from looking at pictures of naked women. It is as you said, literally hours and hours masturbating to other men fucking women. Porn is absolutely degrading to men.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 12:12 AM
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I agree with this 100%. I don't know any billionaires or the types of rich people who own jets you see on tv. But I do know three men who are comfortably millionaires. One is a surgeon turned real estate investor, and the other two own small businesses which they built. They aren't at all what you'd expect rich people to be like. Very kind, down-to-Earth, and fun to hang out with. Granted, these aren't uber-rich, but if being worth 3 million plus isn't rich then what is the cut-off point? I can …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 12:05 AM
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Life is what you make of it. Treat something like a disadvantage and it will become one. Treat it like it's no big deal and no one will care.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 04:41 AM
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Maybe he doesn't mean degrading to women, but degrading to men. As in, maybe it is degrading to men to have their primary sexual relationship be with a digital screen. The same way it may be degrading to take a tiger out of the jungle and feed it pork chops in a cage. I don't know if that's what he meant though.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:20 PM
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You are 100% correct, but I don't really think your story is a good example of it. As far as I can see, your buddy got a win/win. He got some good years and now the old model (which has already grown fat and has stopped having sex) is literally trading herself in at the dealership. Meanwhile he is older, wiser, and more financially set than ever, with a comfortable set-up. It couldn't really have worked out any better. I'll bet your friend ends up with a younger, hotter girl and the old one trie…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:11 PM
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I think you are also looking at it from an angry and resentful perspective. Quite the contrary. I'm looking at it from a purely logical perspective. If you can make them stop feeling judged then they are happy to tell truths. The problem isn't (just) that women are liars. Women are largely incapable of understanding their own motivations and desires. This is what makes them such an unreliable source. I don't doubt a woman's sincerity when she says she's "looking for a nice guy"... what I doubt i…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 08:08 PM
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Even less reliable than anonymous strangers online is the word of a woman. What women do > what women say. Every. Single. Time. Now, if you are clarifying that when you said "I like talking to women about TRP concepts" you actually meant "I like talking to my mother about TRP concepts," I guess that is a different idea and I don't have anything to say about it, although I wouldn't do it myself. But newer readers may get the wrong idea, and (such as with the guy I replied to who likes to talk abo…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:31 PM
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Again, there is literally zero upside. hearing women openly admit this stuff destroys the pedestal Look at what women do, not what they say! Women are the last source I would listen to in regards to figuring out their true nature, even if they do admit many (or even most) TRP concepts in the right conversational setting. If your motivation for discussing TRP with women is to "de-pedestalize" them, you can do this much more efficiently and reliably by reading the content here and observing women'…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:02 PM
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Good job getting the number. But what did you learn? What would you do differently in your interaction?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:49 AM
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Happy to help, brother. Don't take it personally; we're all here to share and to learn and to grow.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:38 AM
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Don't talk about TRP with women. Don't talk about TRP with women. Don't talk about TRP with women. It does not give you any valuable insights and does not make you seem the least bit more attractive to them. If you are trying to bang this slutty roommate, don't mention anything about TRP or theory to her. If you are not trying to bang, DO NOT MENTION TRP TO HER. There is no benefit, and plenty of downside. But mostly no benefit. It does not make you seem sexy or charismatic or in on her secret o…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:47 AM
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There is no tool more powerful for changing / gaining perspective, introspection, or interrupting patterned thoughts and behaviors. If you ever take a high dose of mushrooms, you will be absolutely flabbergasted that society has been able to keep a lid on something so strange and powerful. I am not a religious person, but the experience can be so profound I am shocked that it doesn't get talked about. If you have courage, and you are even slightly interested in having eye-opening experiences, yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 02:59 AM
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I think understanding this is one of the primary burdens of the red pill. And it is an example of male solopsism how we are so invested in the idea of reciprocated unconditional love and have such a hard time understanding how women can love men so completely differently on a fundamental level.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 03:52 AM
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This is an interesting point that I hadn't considered until you guys pointed it out. Another way one can think of it is this: genes are information, and in a significant way the protection and replication of genes is a protection and replication of information. So perhaps a better way to pursue "immortality" would be to generate new information, new ideas. Create art or music or come up with an invention or write a book. This may even be a better way of pursuing the higher calling of a man's lif…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 06:37 PM
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Communication really IS key. It's just not what you express verbally. It is how you communicate with your attitude, your actions, and your reactions. Be a high status man who values himself. Do not say: "I am a high status man who values himself"- speaking this communicates the opposite. In this same way, communication at the nonverbal level should truly be considered the most important part of every man's game, relationships, and interactions.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 02:48 AM
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I don't know, I think you and her are both overthinking it. Sex is fun and we are hard wired for it. You dont need to explain yourself or even underatand it any more than you need to justify why you enjoy eating the food you like or listening to your favorite music. Just enjoy yourself and be safe and have some fun experiences.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 07:43 AM
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This is solid advice. However, I think that good experience trumps good data any day.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 05:19 PM
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I don't think it works that way though. If you are a dude in your early 20s and have trouble dating 20-year-olds now, then odds are it's not going to get any easier. Men's smv definitely increases with age, but it is relative to the women in their bracket. I think some guys use the age thing as an emotional salve to soothe their egos when they aren't succeeding with women the way they want. The harsh reality is, you need to be hot to hook up with hot chicks. And all things being equal, being 30 …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 05:10 PM
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Haha sounds like your unicorn got railed by some sloppy fat guy and you can't for the life of you figure out how. We understand- fat people are lazy and lack discipline. You should just enjoy how awesome it is to be lean and strong and disciplined, instead of all this vitriolic whining.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:02 PM
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When I was shown the realities of the smp, and the fact that all sex/ relationships are transactional (whether or not I want them to be) it had a profound impact on my opinion regarding prostitution.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 05:22 AM
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I don't feel at all ashamed to admit that I am overtly "nice" to the women I work with. You will figure this out (maybe you already know and just forgot), but being completely honest and forthcoming is something we do HERE (as opposed to at work). Again, you're making two mistakes: 1. talking about stuff that should be demonstrated in the first place. 2. sticking out in the wrong environment (and for the wrong reasons). I don't tell my coworkers what my opinions are on how feminism is destroying…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 08:06 AM
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Why would you talk about/ like that with female coworkers. You don't demonstrate dominant behaviors by talking about them, and coworkers are a no-go in the first place so what is the point? Do you also tell them that you only ltr girls with low n-counts? Did you explain to them how you like to be the one in charge during sex?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:36 AM
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WTF? Women hate being thought of as slutty and they hate it when their vanity is pointed out. There are certainly "tells," but if you don't know a girl well enough to have figured out if she's a slut or not, then it's the last thing she'll admit to. Even as they are actively slutting it up with you they will deny it, and insist that they "never act like this!"
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:35 AM
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The purpose of a relationship is not for everything to be fair for everyone. Spinning plates is a strategy that really improves the behavior and mindset of the man, and that's the reason it is so highly recomended here. It's not just about getting some on the side- it's about the overwhelmingly positive influence that spinning plates has on perspective, attitude, confidence, and ability to walk away. This actually does benefit the women (not that this is any kind of reason or attempt at a justif…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 04:12 PM
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I would probably have winced when you said it because what you said is not a fact and is in fact a poorly supported opinion. Let's skip over what trump said and discuss your assertion: If Trump hated women, it would certainly be "consequential" to him running the country. The executive does more than come up with laws (which as you pointed out would be shot down). What about foreign policy decisions? What about presidential appointments? What about law enforcement? What about the simple fact tha…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 02:15 AM
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Excellent post. If I have any constructive criticism, it would be regarding your third maxim. I don't really see how Bucket implemented it or how it affected his outcome. It also does not ring as enlightening as the first two, which are 100% spot on. What you "discovered" through introspection probably could be better explained as being "present and sexually comfortable in your role as leader during interactions with women." One manifestation of this is rewards/ punishment but I think it's more …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 04:23 AM
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Don't the male subjects of #wastehistime also have agency? If men are so unable to make rational decisions that they repeatedly fall for shit like this from women then they shouldn't be allowed to vote. Choose one bp. Right?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:07 AM
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The funny thing is, everything we do, every action we take, is still a thought. Action thoughts where you direct the muscles necessary to go running, for example, are still thoughts. We exist in a strange universe where people literally think themselves into different realities. Our bodies are a direct extension of our thoughts and the one tool most of us have to exert physical change, but it's still fundamentally thinking. Think hard (and effectively) enough, and you can change an incredible am…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:50 AM
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Agreed. Handled brilliantly.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 07:32 PM
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Of course women love their children. Wtf is this?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 06:19 AM
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This is a good example of everything being a nail to your redpill hammer. Yes, women are addicted to their phones. So are most guys. It's something I'm working on myself. Who doesn't want instant gratification, distraction, entertainment, and social validation all the time? It's not just chicks.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:35 AM
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Psychedelics are extraordinary tools for gaining perspective aND disolving boundaries. So is travelling!
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:12 AM
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