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| 5 | Caught date ex husband begging outside her apartment door.A good woman would know how to shut that shit down one way or another before it reached this point. This was a display of her power to OP as much as a display of weakness by the ex. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Stupid argument -37m with 25f LTR of 8 months.From what you have told us, it sounds like you know your relationship is over. Don't plate or ghost, even if that is what she deserves. It isn't about what she deserves, develop your own moral code and follow it, it will be better for you. My advice is to ask to have a meeting with her in a public place. Calmly explain that she crossed an implied boundary in your relationship, that you care for her and wish her the best, and that for the good of both of you it is time to move on. Never go into a… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm stuck and don't know what to doAwesome! You're welcome, and thank you! Mediate on it, seek other's wise counsel, and find people who keep you in check and balance you that love and respect you. And you'll be surprised by how even your former enemies will respect you. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 03:38 AM |
| 1 | I'm stuck and don't know what to doEverything is bullshit in its own way. But astrology can help some people, for a comp sci guy, I just thought it would be one method for him to rethink things in a way he might be receptive to. Sometimes it helps to learn from something that you know isn't the full answer or scientifically rational. It is a humility that others have types of intelligence we don't have. A way to step into the minds of other's subjective world in a very small way to look at our own in a new view. It is a good poin… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm stuck and don't know what to doYou really need to reprogram your mind with neuro linguistic programming. But like everything, balance and moderation in all things. You are a survivor, and bad feelings can be a type of protection and a useful tool. If you felt good about running naked in the streets you wouldn't last as long as you have. You may be the best to answer why you did what you did, but you may not realize the way you were protecting yourself and operating perfectly until much later. Self sabotage can be a great surv… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm stuck and don't know what to doIt is that feeling of helplessness that you must conquer first. It is a choice you make, it is entirely within your power to change how you feel about your situation. The learned helplessness is something someone else taught you, and you have all the power to change how you feel. Whatever you tell yourself is the narrative you will choose to follow. Start telling yourself positive things, start doing positive things, remind yourself of the positive things you do. You don't sound that pathetic, y… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 12:36 AM |
| 15 | I'm stuck and don't know what to doThere is something going on with your relationship with your parents you have not yet figured out. Pick up skills and learning to control others is not going to make you happy. You need to learn to love yourself first, and deeply understand the tools most likely of narcissistic abuse in your life. Call it the white pill. Self love is the key, and nobody in the world is going to be able to teach you how to do that. But you cannot love yourself until you understand yourself. And it sounds like you… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Do any romance movies with an alpha guy type exist?Gone with the wind shows some positive examples of outcome independence. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Ended things with LTR. Now she's threatening meNot for everyone but playing it super beta is a power some consider... unnatural. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Ended things with LTR. Now she's threatening meI wouldn't say anything in that situation, and don't worry so much as all you can control is your emotional reaction. My guess is she's bluffing because actually going nuclear on you doesn't get her what she wants. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 02:04 AM |
| 5 | Holy Crap! Some bitch I work with reported me for sexual harassment for something I said to another girl while we were at a bar together.They will have no problem making this a written warning. Legal grounds? You are in Lala land if you think a company needs legal grounds to write an ass covering memo. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/17 06:13 AM |
| 2 | my 'main' plate & i got caught fucking by her bfNobody gives a shit about him or her. This is about how stupid you are. It's fine if you aren't worried about his beta rage. But for you to call the people pointing out the risk as defenders is beyond stupid and continually missing the point. At what point will you get this has nothing to do with judgement and just common sense? If he takes you out it will improve the gene pool. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 01:32 AM |
| 12 | my 'main' plate & i got caught fucking by her bfIt has been explained you are incapable of reading comprehension. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Date double booked with frenemy.Self awareness is a horrible thing. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Date double booked with frenemy.Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Tifu and may have got involved with a crazy womanTrees | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Tifu and may have got involved with a crazy womanShe made a creepy joke but I am probably overthinking it. Thanks. Just questioning the dynamic of how much to say. My instinct to explain is the wrong one. And I do have others I'm pursuing, which have been complicated by this development. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 06:01 PM |
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