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| 8 | I just talked to a hot girl for the first time in my life and got her number! | fatal1tyltf | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 03:14 PM |
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| 1 | Are there any podcasts related to game people like?The Todd V Show | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?Looks doesn't mean shit. It's the self limiting beliefs that are surrounding looks that's holding guys back. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 03:28 AM |
| 0 | An annoying thing other guys do in clubs/bars with regards to competitionLift | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 03:43 AM |
| 0 | I think I don't get flirtingYou can tease everybody, it doesn't have to be sexual necessarily. Flirting is something you do with a girl you are interested in. Think of flirting like foreplay before sex. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 09:23 PM |
| 4 | What’s up with dating apps?In my experience when dating apps start to get me less results i find more success irl and when irl gets me less results dating apps goes up like some weird market dynamic | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Frame vs SetupStrong frame + weak setup > Strong setup + weak frame | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/24 11:15 PM |
| 5 | How to overcome redpill rage after learning the truth about female nature ?Anger is a healthy feeling towards pride and courage, as long as you don't dwell on your anger. TRP is just a signpost towards a way of living in alignment with our nature. Accept the truth and avoid judging it. Accept that's the way it is and will be. It is not in your control to change this universal truth. You don't get angry at a baby for crying, you don't get angry at a dog for barking, so don't get angry at women for being women. What you can change is your own perspective of looking at th… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/24 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Should I have approached?I just read the title and the answer to that question is always yes. Anytime that thought pops up in your mind you approach then and there. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Just 1 | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭Online dating is hard in that it requires a bit of prep work. Taking good photos of you with mixed friends, showing you in a 'leader' position, taking risks, partying etc. Try to change things up in your profile every once in a while and see what works and what doesn't. Look at your dates / texts and try to identify the point you're struggling. Your sticking point is either that or one step before. I'm making generalizations, it's hard to give advice before knowing all the facts. And don't get m… | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | What to do if she doesnt share the same "flirt language"Have you ever considered that they might be shy, self conscious etc because you come off as high value? If they are laughing and asking you questions that means they are attracted and hooked on some level. They don't need to be all over you to show they are interested. Maybe with those type of girls try and ease on the flirt pedal and focus a little more on qualifying and comfort. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 06:30 AM |
| 2 | When approaching a woman within a group of women…You can open the girl or the group first, depending on your assessment of the situation. The important thing is you need to engage the group quickly if you opened the girl or vice versa. When in doubt just open the group. You want the group to like you because otherwise the group can drag her away which means you're done. Whichever way you open, you need to make an emotional spike type of polarizing comment to your target, ideally within the first 30 seconds. Open next to your target if possible… | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭$200 on a date?? lol. should've just paid a hooker at that point. First of all, find a job. Become a server, flip burgers, barista etc. just do something. Don't tell me you don't have time. If you can go on reddit you have time. On the other hand, when you're broke meeting and dating is the one thing you CAN do. Just don't go out looking for a wife or you'll be disappointed. Go on simple dates like walks in the park or some shit. Stop the excuses and do the best you can with what you have. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 05:25 AM |
| 1 | The reason why you run out of things to say (and how to fix it)Mindset part is true, you should have elaborated on that more. Anything else is garbage advice. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 04:26 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys respond to "I have a bf" in a playful way"Awesome, I'm married and have 3 kids" "Relax, who said i was hitting on you?" "Really? That's surprising" "I have a boyfriend too but he doesn't know I'm straight so this will have to be our secret" "Cool" "I'll bring you back home in time for him to tuck you in" "I don't care" "He's gonna be pretty sad when you dump him for me" "Don't get ahead of yourself, this is only the first time we have met" "I guess my place it is then" "Tell him to quit cockblocking" "Only one?" "What's that have to do… | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:08 AM |
| 1 | LPT: If ur talking to a girl and some other dude approaches to hit on her just interrupt and say “I’m sorry, is this a friend of yours? Hi nice to meet you”The best thing to do in this scenario is to ignore the guy completely. Act like he doesn't exist, turn your back on him, take the girl away etc. If you acknowledge him and turns out he has really good game, you can easily lose the girl. By ignoring him, you give him nothing to work with. If he actually is her friend then you greet him. | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 12:43 AM |
| 17 | I think I found out why my social skills suckI had the same situation in my college years. I think it was tied to anxiety and 'feeling on spot'. You dont think what you say is important, or you don't feel comfortable being the center of attention, so you just wanna say what you had to say and be done with it. You walk fast because you feel at 'danger' and your destination is your 'safe house'. I dunno, i might remember it wrong. But ultimately, what you want to do is be conscious of yourself all the time. Slow down everything, slower than … | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on the ideas that 'How to win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie presents?Applying just the first 3 rules helped me tremendously. 13/10 would recommend. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating sites give the women the control over you???I think its more about average guys than women. To make guys feel like they have options and keep them hooked so they use it more, spend money etc | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Pros and cons of kissing and touching after isolating her outside of the barIn my experience if you kiss a girl who has a bf you actually make it harder for you to smash because she will feel it's sluty | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls cold even though they find you attractive?Why are less attractive girls more bold?Go to main sub, sort by top/all time, read how to get laid like a warlord. It will answer your questions. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 12:26 PM |
| 3 | I need help with regards to cold approachYour problem is going too indirect thus not being able to steer conversation to more man to woman topics. Asking for directions is like asking her to tell you to go away, never do that unless you're a hardcase. You should be more direct. "Hey you look cute I wanted to meet you". This will solve your problem at the start and force you to deal with it and not hide behind platonic convos that go nowhere. Don't overdue it tho "if I didn't talked to you I would regret it" etc, it will make you look m… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 05:00 PM |
| 2 | What helped you approach easier?Approach anxiety is a fight or flight response of your lizard brain that is trying to protect you from some danger that could've happened millions of years ago but not in this day and age. There is literally no long-term bad consequence of it. Realize that majority of men don't have the balls to approach women. You doing cold approaches gives you tremendous amount of advantage over majority. It's normal to be a bit scared. But what if you're scared of wrong things? You should be scared of never … | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 07:09 PM |
| 4 | My not so difficult plan to approach 250 hot women.You may suffer from approach anxiety because your definition of a successful approach is too ambitious for you. If you define a successful approach as getting the girl to go home with you, you’re probably going to feel like a failure pretty damn often. That constant disappointment will actually INCREASE your approach anxiety. If instead, your criteria for a good approach is walking up to a girl and uttering a sound, that's much easier. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 12:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you know you’re confident?There is no such thing as “confidence” as a general term. Confidence is context-specific. A highly-skilled heart surgeon can do surgery with his eyes closed because he's confident in that area but he might suck at doing public speaking. To get confident you need skill set and experience. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when someone tells me that I should talk moreJust make sure you don't alienate yourself so people think you're weird or don't respect you, step over you. Yeah, fuck what someone thinks but if everyone thinks the same about you, there is something wrong with you. I have been there. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Flakey girl, need opinionsYou don't need opinions, you need options. I can count thousand reason why she's acting like that but none of that would matter. Tho the main reason seems like you're too available, needy. The best thing you can do is go radio silent, don't contact unless she does. In the meantime game other girls and expand your harem. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I spend too much time thinking about redpill stuff. I can't unsee it. Any advice to help me stop or at least slow down?To me TRP is like music theory. You learn all that stuff at Berklee and then they tell you "OK, now forget everything you've learned and go out and play." All the different teachers you study with and all the different things you learn, you try to internalize that and hopefully it seeps into your sub-conscious. You can't always be thinking about theory, sitting down like "OK, I'm gonna write in this particular mode." or whatever. So when you close the site forget everything, go out and play. Ana… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Text gameKeep it to minimum, mostly for logistics. Exception for me however is new girls I haven't been on a date with. With a new girl I text back and forth talking about whatever relevant to us to test the waters. If she's a yes girl I invite her out. If she's a maybe girl I text a little more then invite her out. If she's a no girl, you guest it, next. Getting a girl that you have spent little time IRL who's not head over heels for you out on a date is much harder than a girl you've gamed for an hour.… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Getting rid of video gamesIt's ok as long as it doesn't keep you from your goals. But that doesn't mean you should play it all day. Set a time limit. I used to play minimum 5 hours of games every day, I would literally play games from start to finish non-stop. Now after 1.5 - 2 hours I get bored. Lots of good games like RDR 2, Cyberpunk 2077 coming out, I'll probably bump that up to 5 hours again :P | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Sliding in the DMsYeah solid move. You're doing good, always agree & amplify. For girls you're not interested, I would not answer at all, ya know how a message is a request at first, let it stay that way. No need to play stupid games. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Would you still come to r/asktrp now that TRP is RIP?There is also askTRP section on https://www.forums.red/i/AskTRP/ but as long as this sub stands we will be here | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 03:47 PM |
| 22 | The RED PILL has been QUARANTINED...After you manually visit /r/TheRedPill from your browser (use desktop mode if on mobile) you should be able to view it using a Reddit app. Don't forget to bookmark https://www.trp.red and register! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/18 09:28 PM |
| 6 | I spend about 9 hours a day on my phone. WTF can I do about this.Listen here you little shit. People are trying to help you but you just come up with stupid excuses. Just put your phone away and do something else. Isn't that clear? And you say you'll start uni in two weeks so why even bother trying to fit in new hobbies which you'll not have time to do later anyway? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Self DefenseKrav maga | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Hitting on a two set solo is challenging as it is but what about during the day ?You need to engage both of them but everything that's sexual, shows intent etc is reserved for the girl you're interested in. What I like to do is talk to her friend about the girl I'm interested. "You look so friendly but I'm not sure about her, she looks like trouble. Do you vouch for her?" kinda shit. Often times her friend will help you. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 03:30 PM |
| 39 | Any redpill advice specifically for school?Focus on school, that's your mission. Build your social circle. Hoes are last priority. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How to not make chicks nervous?It's the same thing guys feel when they talk to hot women. You don't have to game those women hard, keep doing what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Any more books or guides like Sex God Method?How To Fuck Women Properly by Will Freemen. It's short and to the point. Writer is pretty RP too. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 01:50 PM |
| 2 | How to actually breathe and speak from the diaphragm to get a deeper voice?Any lead you can give me to look further into this? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Women don't want their partner to be more physically attractive then herI think it comes down to SMV gap between partners. If you're an 8 and you date a 5 she damn well knows you can do better, will think you're going to use and dump her, even break up with you because she doesn't "feel" it. Never date down. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Bulking question for beginnerAbout 3000-3300. Keep in mind I work 10 hours on foot. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Bulking question for beginnerFrom my personal experience when I started lifting I was 60kg and now 5 months into lifting 3x week I'm about to hit 67kg. I'm 23 yo. First 2 months I didn't gain any weight but my muscles were visibly getting bigger. I started to calculate my macros and turns out I wasn't eating enough. But even if I have eaten my daily macros and calorie intake I didn't gained weight any faster. I think it's due to me having fast metabolism and working in a high activity line of work. But now I'm happy with th… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Tips for guys who aren't that funny when approaching?Making a joke, a funny statement etc are good things to break the ice but if you force it, it's probably gonna be shit. I think your problem is leading the conversation, making it sexual, showing intent. You can make the conversation sexual at any moment. "Bla bla boring fucking conversation bla bla hey you know what I'm starting to like you". Don't try to make smooth transition from friendly conversation to sexual one. Just do it, she wants you to. Also it's a good thing to have some canned ope… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Girls out of your leagueYou can't answer that question without approaching. Sure she can reject you, you'll remember it for the next 2 days maybe then forget it. The real problem here is you're not even giving her chance to reject you, you're rejecting yourself. Wtf bro? How are you gonna live with that? If you think you can, that's right. If you think you can't, that's right. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 08:03 PM |
| 9 | Help on fucking my sexy neighbour.Dude how do you even get laid? Just introduce yourself "Hi, sorry for not introducing myself. I'm Pezotecom". Make small talk, throw in some tease then bail. I would suggest not escalating fast, take your time, she is not going anywhere soon. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Its either I LTR this girl or ghost her. Where to proceed?Read "HumanSockPuppet's Guide To Managing Your Bitches" | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in isolated places without scaring them?If that happens very often there is something very wrong. I would be completely honest myself and address that first. | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Catching feelings for a plateand she wants to introduce me to her family. Are you sure she is your plate, where you don't participate in anything besides sex? | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 09:19 PM |
| 3 | How do I lower my physical standards?I feel exactly the same. I see a girl that has perfect curves just in the right places but if her face does not complement it my dick grows inwards. I'm fine with that tbh. I would rather fuck 2-3 HB8-9-10 a month than fuck 10 butterface. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 09:04 PM |
| 5 | I don’t know what to do about my nipplesCheck for gynecomastia. Does your nipples have rubbery or firm feel? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | I know it's the dumbest post you'll ever see but I don't know how to speak properlyEven from the title of the post I can tell you have low self-esteem, social anxiety. You mumble, you speak fast too probably because you don't want to be the center of attention. You think so much about what people think of you, so you just want to let it all out as fast as you can. First of all stop caring what people think of you, it doesn't concern you. If you want respect respect yourself first. If you want your ideas to be taken seriously take it seriously first. Always remember that whatev… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy who keeps poking fun at me in front of girls?Just ignore him completely, don't see don't hear. A&A will work yeah but he'll be back wanting more. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Alternative ways of escalatingNext time you see her just go up to her and say "it's very rude to look at people and not say hi, I'm tomic888" with a smile on your face. I don't care if you're at a library or under captivity of ISIS. This is my go to if a chick is giving me IOI. As another fellow said if she's giving IOI it doesn't really matter what you say. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 01:18 PM |
| 5 | Decided to approach a girl after reading the 'fuck it' post.Snapchat/IG is the new number. Perfect for daygame IMO, as it's easier to get. Let your profile speak for you. You can still instant message and with the stories feature on both apps you can passively game your followers all at once by showing cool things you do. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 03:04 PM |
| 3 | “What are you thinking about?”"I'm thinking about you. Naked." | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 06:02 AM |
| 35 | How to respond to this kind of shit test?"Just two guys? I expected better from you." | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 03:10 PM |
| 2 | How did you beat your Approach Anxiety?Yeah, try to get rejected and you will see it's actually fucking hard to get rejected | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Game After Getting Number Or InstagramDespite what most guys here say if I haven't met the girl after number close at least 1 time I don't just go "let's grab drinks x place y hour". I always send low investment messages first, don't expect her to reply. If she does good if she doesn't that's good too. Remember that even if she felt like giving you her number and agreed to meet you later she doesn't feel the same now, unless she is highly attracted. Send a low investment message about whatever. Chat for a bit, see how she responds a… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 01:14 PM |
| 3 | How to make the conversation more interesting with getting laid as the end goal? This is for social circles, day time, not night game.You don't have to have cool hobbies and all that. Yes it will help but I don't think it's a must. You can talk about complete nonsense and still fuck the girl. Again its not what you say but how you say it. Having a flowing conversation is not enough. You have to kino escalate. Touch her and don't be awkward about it. Make a joke about her and punch her arm gently, if you are walking with push her away to parked cars, city lights, trash cans etc in a playful way, grab her hand and say" let's go … | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | February 02 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadSo I've been trying ways to escalate immediately with girls I've just met, be it cold approach or social circle. One thing i do is instead of going for a traditional handshake i go for a soft kiss on hand while looking deep in their eyes. It seems to be working well for me but there is this thought in back of my mind if this gives off boyfriend/provider vibe. What do you think? Have you done this gesture before? If not would you consider trying? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I improve my voice?You need to keep your vocal cords warmed up. To do that you can try humming exercises. Basically take a deep breath from your diaphragm, keep your mouth closed and make monotone "hmmm" noise. The path of the vibrations will shift from the throat up and out through the nostrils. Notice the tiny, rapid vibrations in your nose and the roof of your mouth. You may feel a tickling or buzzing sensation. If you want to take this a step further and make your voice sound deeper you can try what i do: With… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Any tips on restarting conversationaay grill u wan sum fuk?? or a simple "hey, it's been a long time..." | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 09:32 AM |
| 54 | Overthinking: It's What's Holding You Back.This is why girls date assholes. Assholes don't overthink! | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 09:54 PM |
| – | I just talked to a hot girl for the first time in my life and got her number!Thanks man. I felt like an asshole buy hey, i got the girl :D | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 07:25 PM |
| – | I just talked to a hot girl for the first time in my life and got her number!should i meet tomorrow than. I was going to wait for a day | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 03:32 PM |
| – | I just talked to a hot girl for the first time in my life and got her number!thanks man. i actually post it by accident without adding story about it. tell me what you think now :D | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 03:29 PM |
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