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Whats weird to me when men talk about how much divorce hurt them, is that witnessing my own parents divorce and my friends parents divorce, the husband almost always is the asshole in the situation. For example, my father cheated on my mother and then initiated a divorce, all while trying to win custody of me just to get back at my mother and not have to pay child support. A good friend of mine growing up, her mother divorced her father because of his porn addiction, another friend because their…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:06 AM
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Men have some weird issue with women teaching them things, I've had way too many instances where I've corrected someone and they either start correcting me by explaining what I just said back to me, or arguing to death. Not to mention the many instances I've had my own jokes stolen by men...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:01 AM
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The idea that women can't/shouldn't have high standards for looks anyway is infuriating, so what if some women like buff guys? The fattest and greasiest of men still salivate over women's youth and beauty, will cheat at the drop of a hat with a beautiful woman, and have high standards for women overall. I used to know a male stripper who was the chad of chads (I can't lol) and he said that older less attractive women would go into strip clubs all the time to look at hotter younger men, women be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:53 AM
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Women should keep writing shit like this to trigger men, fuck their double standards "all women should remain virgins till marriage in the hopes that one day an extremely ungrateful piece of shit cheats on her regardless".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:52 AM
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We need to stop shaming and making fun of women with mental illness, men do this all the time while benefiting from their own mental issues being empathized with. So what if a woman has BPD? So she's automatically worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:49 AM
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There are some nice guys out there, they just don't advertise themselves as "nice guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 05:03 PM
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There is a lack of women's voices in nearly every facet of society. I also feel that we have a very sex-negative culture, in which sex is tied to power, and so women are preyed on instead of treated as equal sexual partners (porn is a good example). Corporations are run by and even all branches of our government are mostly men, so reproductive rights and women's rights in general are never top priority. So all in all, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 05:02 PM
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Sex is not so much a priority for most women as it is men. Women are just as attracted to men (straight women that is), as men are to women, we just don't have a drive to fuck every man we meet. Women don't want to be hit on or creeped on all the time, if you can't understand that than you will never understand women. If you can't respect women's spaces, desire to be left alone, or general boundaries than that is probably the reason you are complaining about this, women don't want anything to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 04:58 PM
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Most men are abusive, its just the ugly truth. I've never dated a man (except my most recent relationship) that wasn't emotionally or physically abusive. I've never known any women to not have dated an emotionally/verbally/physically abusive man. The majority of the time, the men fake being nice until they're comfortable enough in the relationship to show their true selves. Incels call themselves nice guys and never get picked by women, but they sure as hell are abusive psychos, the only differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 04:41 PM
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...and yet women are considered "crazy" (because if you're a woman with mental illness, its totally ok to mock you) if they carry over past trauma into current relationships.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/17 12:02 AM
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The idea that an entire sex is bad is outrageous to me, its an attitude that should have died with the whole "girls have cooties" grade school phase. Granted, there are some behaviors more common in one sex than another (primarily violence in men), but it doesn't make an entire sex worth punishing or looking at someone and assessing them by their sex. Whats sad is how popular this redpill stuff is, I even meet some feminist men who've internalized some really bad attitudes towards women (whether…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/17 11:57 PM
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The RP answer is hypergamy. Women are all chasing the higher eschalon of men and would rather share them as plates and mistresses or be alone than settle Depends on the man. I would rather share or be single if my two choices came down to.. A.) A confident man with a fleshed out personality, talent or skills, good grooming B.) An insecure man with no personality, no interests, no ability to communicate, bad grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 11:45 PM
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Because the men that naturally want families and relationships aren't attractive to you You don't get to decide whats attractive to me or other women As for that "much lower partner count," I don't believe you. There's your problem, porn and sororities on tv don't reflect real life decisions made by real women. The actual amount of women who have constant one night stands and hundreds of partners is incredibly low outside of porn and prostitution. You not believing me reflects both your possessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 11:39 PM
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This weird belief that women are screwing a bunch of dudes and the response to this is that men should just drop out or "stop caring" makes no actual sense applied to whats actually happening in the real world. Most women aren't "hypergamous" (this isn't even a word), most are just serial monogamists with a much lower partner count than the "manosphere" assumes. I really don't get the anger anyway, in my experience, its usually men that try to screw as many women out of their league as possible …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 10:12 PM
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It depends on what kind of lens you view your relationship through. You can view it one of two ways.. 1.) I love this person, I want to spend the rest of my life with this person 2.) This person comes from good stock/can provide for me and my child Most people choose to see things through the lens of #1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:48 PM
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Its scary how much of the redpill ideology on marriage/divorce mimics my deadbeat dad's own "philosophy". They're pretty much promoting creating more broken homes like mine, really sick people over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:43 PM
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Women can be friends with men, but men are usually less willing to be friends with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:38 PM
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"it must be because so many women opt not to have relationships. If they all decided to have one, all men would get a woman." In my experience dating, and my girl friends experiences dating...you are very wrong. Almost all the women that I've known pursue relationships and usually only turn to casual sex when relationships are unavailable. Men generally don't stick around for a relationship or end them early, probably because they have 'redpill' views on women. The hookup culture cc bs is false,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:34 PM
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There's a range between skinny and fat you know...you can have a thick butt or big tits and not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:47 PM
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This sucks for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:45 PM
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Depends on what you mean by degrading, filthy and abusive sex is fine if both parties are enjoying it, it becomes a problem when the enjoyment is not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:40 PM
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It's not rape unless she says no/stop, pushes you off her, or is seriously intoxicated (aka passed out or regularly passes out). I don't consider regret sex rape, and most rape cases are serious and not regret sex like redpill likes to claim. Basically, you can keep going until she shows resistance or looks uncomfortable (its better to stop though its not necessarily rape if she doesn't ask to stop).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:36 PM
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Honestly, some women do encourage bad behavior in men. I'm not one of them, but many of my friends (one in particular) would specifically ditch nice guys to fuck muscly Finnish hockey players lol, and later complain about being single. I think redpill and mgtow overestimate the amount of women who do this, and while I believe these women have the right to fuck as many hott guys as they want, I do find it annoying that some women specifically seek out shitty men. I find it more annoying when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:34 PM
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Marry: Any one of those three professions, selfless, I guess good Fuck: Same as above Kill: Everything not of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:22 PM
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"Once a cheater, always a cheater" I think this usually applies more to men than to women, just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:19 PM
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I hate mentally weak people. Psychical weakness is not something I really care about though. I'm a tough person to deal with because my values are strong and I stand up for myself, I don't shy away from taking risks and facing challenges. Weak people of any gender are disgusting to me. Don't be a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:12 PM
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Most programmers I've met aren't sexist in the least bit, my husbands a programmer and so are most of his friends. However, tech can sometimes attract autistic people, primarily men who can have negative views on women. I had a C# professor for example, who seemed a bit autistic and would pick on me a bit. I don't think engineering is full of sexism. The sexism has nothing to do with education or lack of, its that there are people who hate women and you can find them almost anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:09 PM
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They can directly leverage their attractiveness to move into a higher social/income class, without doing any work. Even without prostitution. LOL, no, they get used for their looks and preyed on by pieces of shit and end up prostituting or stripping (if they're lucky, this is where the bulk of their best years and more are used up lol). You are an idiot if you think simply being attractive makes you money, to be a model or actress and escape poverty you have to have connections or extremely perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:20 PM
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Whats weird to me is I've experienced men getting coddled by women no matter how unattractive they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:14 PM
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Having kids right now is stupid, I don't see a point the way the future is heading. Secure a better future, start fixing shit and then you can have kids. Most people don't care though. Anyway, I think its a selfless act to forego procreation, its especially selfless to adopt. You're sacrificing the continuation of your gene pool to benefit society. I don't want to pass on MS and Schizophrenia to any kids I could have and I don't feel comfortable with these theoretical children interacting with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 06:17 PM
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I also didn't like dating people like that, they're gross. Masterbating is better and safer than getting off with different people and spreading disease. I also found that the type of men that were impulsive and obsessed with sex would tend to be more...stupid. Maybe not stupid in a technical book smart way, just less empathetic and less spiritual and to also be honest, less book smart a lot of the time. I've always been more attracted to more feminine/self-loathing or critical men who pursued f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 02:54 PM
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I'm a feminist but I do believe in biological differences, however, I accept trans people and anyone that doesn't adhere to gender roles and I hate discrimination or hatred of anyone (anyone that doesn't deliberately hurt people i.e. pedophiles). Women aren't slaves to their biology and forcing them into a role by harassing and shaming them for exploring other options is barbaric. Most women are inclined towards more nurturing types of jobs like nursing and homemaking and that's great, some wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 02:29 PM
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I have above average looks, when I was 16-24 I was a knockout. I had a hard time dating, the men who dated me didn't care for a serious relationship and often broke up with me or cheated. The men I crushed on or pursued almost never liked me back. I struggled with depression and suicidal thoughts, which is why I hate mgtow and incels so much, I didn't lash out at men for rejecting me I lashed out at myself, they should try some more self-loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 03:08 PM
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Lol, the market created corporate monopolies, artificial scarcity, and all of the countries resources in the pockets of a handful of people who now have complete control. Wow, so much freedom!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 07:01 PM
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You only see casual sex as a bad thing if women do it, so something is only bad in your eyes if you can't control said thing. Its equally as good or as bad for either gender to have more casual sex. Jesus christ, you make one post celebrating cheating on a woman and the next you freak out that women have any options at all. You might as well kill yourself if the thought of having to actually have value to get a woman to commit scares you so much, yes women have options, deal with it. Women aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:53 PM
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I think the internet has given more of a voice to narcissists, I'm not exactly sure if its increased the amount of narcissists. I'm kind of disgusted of some aspects of modern culture pertaining to narcissism and general selfishness, there is much more focus on the self and materialistic and superficial interests more now than ever before. There is less focus on family or close relationships/friendships and more focus on how to improve yourself on an artificial level so you can collect the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:46 PM
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The idea that women can't be bitches is ridiculous. There are horrible women out there in the same amount as there are horrible men. Yes, they do thrive, especially in the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:41 PM
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Yes, we need smaller communities of people that are born to loving parents and genetically engineered to thrive both in their social and natural environment. People afraid of eugenics and Hitler, forget that Hitler didn't base his ideas around actual science but just a personal bias. I have a bias of my own but not a racial one, I think sociopaths need to bred out, I'd like people to be raised in a comfortable environment without the vulnerability and death warrant of poverty, and I think anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:39 PM
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The problem is primarily with men, they send dick pics or use dating websites primarily to hook up fast and easy with women out of their league. I mean look at the reasons women complain about the dating market, its the men basically treating dating websites like a vagina buffet. Its impossible for women to even date outside of the internet because men put no effort into approaching women or asking women to date is fruitless for them if it doesn't mean having sex the same night. Sure, "not all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:58 PM
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I think you're right, most men who struggle with dating also struggle with having realistic standards. They pretend that women that are overweight or average/below average in looks have all these options but the truth is they just don't want to be with any woman not young and attractive enough. Maybe if they stopped expecting sex from beautiful women or trained themselves to be attracted to women in their league they might not be so lonely. We have an obesity epidemic in the west, so being reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:56 PM
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I find the contrast between posts here to be funny. One post will say "men are desperate and have low standards" and then another post will be like "I like my women skinny, low partner count, no mental illness, exclusively blonde or exclusively brunette, at least a 7 (that 7 is really a 9 or 10), and she has to be ok with my addiction to porn and sleeping around". LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:49 PM
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I find extroverts annoying personally because I find socializing constantly with different people each time unfulfilling and close friendships healthier. Loyalty is important to me, and prefer to be hanging out with closer friends the majority of the time (people who have a lot of friends, more than like 5 good friends and more than 20 they hang out with regularly scare me a little bit). I had a couple extroverted best friends growing up and they had no idea how annoying that was that they alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:40 PM
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I also feel the same way. I can't have a relationship where I'm not the full recipient of my partners intimacy excluding familial closeness. I respect other people who want to either share their partners or have close friends of the opposite sex (or sex they're attracted to) but I'd never stand for it in my marriage. We have strict as fuck standards, and we've both failed in the past but we're doing better than ever. We're boring married fuddie duddies compared to the rest of reddit but we're ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:30 PM
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I actually enjoy being put on a pedestal, I can't be happy unless I'm worshiped. I've literally broken up with men because they didn't give me enough attention and praise that I need. Some women love it, some women hate it. I like having control and being worshiped, and I like a man to want to be with me because he can't live without me and do whatever it takes to please me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:18 PM
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Most people who hate TRP don't hate the fact that they promote sex without commitment, people who hate TRP hate the fact that it encourages manipulation, lying, cheating, withholding communication, and sometimes even rape (go on thebluepill to find those posts). TRP is a place where men who hate women congregate, not just men simply critical of some feminist ideology or helping other men score a date, its a toxic and hateful subreddit that promotes the continuation of abusive behavior that men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:11 PM
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Most men generally pride themselves of being incapable of monogamy so why shouldn't women pride themselves on their options? In my experience both by observing men online (not creeping on them but reading comments/articles) and in real life is that most men aren't concerned with whether women have options because men feel they have the power to leave or cheat. Luckily, women have plenty of options thanks to the internet and that is really healthy for women's self-esteem. I'm honestly unconcerned…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:08 PM
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They are frustrated with their loneliness so they think because women are repulsed by their attitude and looks that women as a whole are evil and incapable of "loving". What they don't reveal is that they usually have conditions for women to meet and generally approve of cheating and treating women like shit, so they are in reality only projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:03 PM
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The average man expects more than they have to offer and generally don't even try. Most men go on dating sites to find easy sex from beautiful women but are rarely good looking themselves and rarely have anything to offer to a woman. So, no. I think a man of naturally average looks who at least tries to improve his social skills, appearance, and develops interests or skills should have an easy time securing a woman if he is realistic with his standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:00 PM
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Male dominance is not every woman's fantasy, even if its popular among women who watch porn that only literally accounts for a majority of women who watch porn and discounting the thousands of women who don't watch it. Also, the abundance of violence in porn is a problem and its unhealthy that women and men are exposed to it. Porn needs heavy regulation because no matter what people consent to on video, those videos affect and influence other people negatively and many pornstars interviewed reve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 01:57 PM
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I think modern feminism hurts the majority of mothers, women of lower income, and women of color. Modern feminism is just a bunch of rich white women whining about not having enough power. Feminists who often act in favor of women from all creeds are overshadowed by neoliberal feminism that the modern day media cashes in on. Most women are single moms overworked to death, and I don't think they care if their bosses are female or male, they just want to put food on the table and their kids want a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 12:35 AM
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Being "angry" is no excuse, if you say you want to rape someone you should be on a watchlist and every woman within a few miles radius of you informed and armed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 02:57 PM
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I think its more foolish to just accept violent crime instead of doing everything you can to eliminate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 02:55 PM
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Entitlement is the biggest issue I see, rape and sexism angers me a lot, its just such a drain on society and something we should have corrected by now. I think enforcing greater punishments for rape and taking rape more seriously (stop throwing rape kits away, educate people on consent in sex education class, stop raising boys to think losing virginity is important) would also help. Our culture as of right now sort of rewards sadism to a certain extent, and a lot of porn right now is sadistic. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 02:52 PM
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Nofap takes it too far. Masturbating every once in a while is fine. even using nudes. I think its perfectly healthy for straight men to masturbate to attractive naked women. Just not all the time and not against the wishes of a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:46 PM
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Stop listening to losers who say you have to put up with their perverted addictions because "all men do it", that's an excuse they use to not respect you. If it bothers you, you should leave and look for someone better. Women need to keep their standards high, its detrimental to humanity to reward losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:44 PM
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TRP and MGTOW and Incels and the rest of the entitled toddler mentality communities need to let go of their need to control women and society around them. When and if these men learn to let go of their expectations and entitlements, their hatred and bitterness will go too and they might just find getting along with women and finding relationships will come more naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:34 PM
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Women (and people in general) will avoid you if you give off vibes of being an aggressive or impatient twerp. If women can tell you're desperate to get laid, the thought of being your next victim and wasting 5 minutes having shitty sex with someone that is bitter towards women and society in general because of his/her entitlement is less than appealing. Work on making yourself a better person in general, work on making people feel more comfortable around you. You're more likely to get attention …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:30 PM
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The only unconditional love there exists is between a mother and child. Men and women love each other conditionally in a sexual relationship, however marriage and a long lasting love can exist, but it quickly dies in countries that are extremely individualistic and materialistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:51 PM
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Men are individualistic. I think I'm going to be sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:42 PM
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Anger, violence, obsession with dominating or being better than others, a sense of being cheated out of something (related to entitlement and temper tantrums), distrust or fear of other races, uneducated and susceptible to propaganda and deceptive "sources", inability to rationalize, conflates any positive emotions or feelings of sympathy with being a "fag", has shitty enabling or absent parents, and a boatload of other factors that make up shitty human beings including sociopathy. I think there…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:39 PM
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We need a power exchange in the sex industry, pimps should be outlawed, all middle men should be outlawed. Women in porn shouldn't feel pressure to do things they're not comfertable with, and we need more regulations in the sex industry to protect women. Nobody shames or punishes men, in fact, our society rewards men and excuses their actions and sex crimes. Men are driving the porn industry in a more abusive and corrupt territory and regulations and more say from women will change that for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:27 PM
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Thanks for that, I am a heavy believer that God or karma or some sort of force in the universe, always sorts stuff out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 03:53 PM
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Own your height, height really doesn't make a man as attractive as other things. Pay attention to your weight, grooming, facial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 08:22 AM
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No, they're repulsive and out of touch with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 08:20 AM
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To sexually submit is to pretend you're a corpse when having sex so that your male partner feels less shitty about being unable to bring you any sexual pleasure or perform adequately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 08:19 AM
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I don't care what anyone says, size matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 08:18 AM
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I remember watching a documentary on some type of primate in a high-school biology class. This group of male primates would hog all the food/resources and rape the female primates. At some point they got into some disease ridden meat and all died. I felt a tinge of revenge karma deep inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 08:17 AM
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Depressing situations like the redpill community existing make people depressed. Its scary that I could one day have to raise a son and navigate him around destructive ideologies like this one in order to raise a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 05:10 PM
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When I was a teenager I just wanted to lose my virginity and have a bf. I ended up dating a nerdy guy at my work who was overweight and balding but I was attracted to him because he made me laugh and had a cute face. He would constantly compare me to other girls and tease me about my insecurities, he broke up with me twice just to see my reaction and to make me feel like shit. The second "beta" I dated told me he wasn't "monogamous" and also would constantly compare me to other girls, he ended u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:18 PM
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Of course women want a good looking guy (or alpha in your world), why fuck a less attractive guy who is going to be an asshole anyway? In my experience its best to be as selfish as possible if you're a woman, because less attractive guys are just as shitty in terms of personality and ethics as attractive guys. Why should a woman settle for a fat bald guy whose going to cheat on her anyway or treat her like she's disposable if she can fuck a hott young guy with sixpack abs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:13 PM
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You're not rapey if you hit on a woman, rapey-ness is that feeling you get when a person oversteps clear boundaries or makes allusions to sex/rape after a clear rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 10:42 PM
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Dicks are the equivalent of boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 10:32 PM
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edit * Woah there, why did I write that in big blocky letters? I must have been high or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 10:26 PM
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I want to, but I have too many personal problems to ever make a good mother. I haven't made up my mind yet, if I were to have kids I'd probably wait until my mid to late 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 10:24 PM
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When I was younger, I was really nice to people I felt sympathetic to, especially people who had no friends or were down on their luck. I let them into my friend group and genuinely thought that was the normal thing to do. When I lost my friends and went through some pretty dark times, no one really cared to talk to me. In times of loneliness no one ever reached out to me, or asked me if I was ok. So...the answer to your question is yes and no. I think a small amount of people genuinely feel str…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 07:00 PM
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I think a lot of it is kind of the fault of guys mostly, just from experience. They have high expectations with nothing to offer, they expect you to look your best just for a one night stand. They're aggressive and boring, they never want to let loose and have fun. Guys that aren't super successful glossy jock types are 4chan types, nerdy and ugly with a shitty attitude. When I was a little girl I dreamed of having my first boyfriend, and movies taught me that handsome men would sweep me off my …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 06:52 PM
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I like when I'm treated like a flighty bimbo for some reason, is that sort of like what you described? I can't help it, I like when men correct me or teach me something, its so hott when a guy is smarter than me. I know, not very feminist but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 07:54 PM
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I think unattractive people are only unhappy when they desire to be attractive, if they accept their ugliness they'll be happier. Most fat people can lose weight if they try, but in the west its unlikely that the obesity epidemic will end anytime soon. Point is, ugly people must accept their fate to be happy, and must lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 07:51 PM
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I think other women helped, women haven't always been the nicest to one another, especially to competitive and attractive women. Women were looked at as snakes because people didn't understand sex through any other lens but a religious one. People thought demons gave them the urge to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 07:48 PM
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No, I think men and women will always crave real sex and companionship over sex toys, even the men/women who use sex toys prefer the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 07:46 PM
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Even if I used tinder I live in a small town full of bums, most people here look inbred :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 07:35 PM
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I'm sure men don't care about women's woes so it goes both ways, and please stop assuming dating is automatically easy for a woman. I dated before the days of tinder, and it was awful and lonely for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 04:08 PM
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I feel bad for anyone that feels alone, I only get angry when men start blaming all women and assuming what women want. The dating scene has always sucked for most people, especially monogamous people or people who just want a partner to settle down with. Its hard out there I'm sure, but don't start hating people because of it, most people are suffering along with you even if you don't notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 04:07 PM
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They should be sued for encouraging the risks for heart disease and diabetes, that's really fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 12:03 PM
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Why is it always a fantasy that women subject themselves to constantly pleasing and degrading themselves for men? Your fantasy of having multiple women compete for you should be left as just that. Also this idea that women don't pursue is bullshit. I know for a fact that if I never pursued men first, I'd be a virgin living with my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 10:47 PM
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These are terms that apply to some men, there are men that are manbabies and demand praise/worship for simply existing. Do I think these terms describe most men? Nah, but they're certainly applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 10:42 PM
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I think that even if you want a dominant/submissive relationship, having respect for your partner is something redpill severely lacks. I think no matter the dynamic, its important to be communicative and selfless, if you're only looking to satisfy your ego and manipulate others, the relationship will fail irregardless of what roles you play.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 10:37 PM
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I think early 30's is that perfect middle line, where maturity and biology synch up for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 10:32 PM
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I think that its fair for parents to set house rules for their children, especially if the children aren't paying rent. Its concerning for anyone of any gender to have multiple partners in my opinion, because having multiple partners is a risk for STD's and if you get pregnant, paternity will be difficult to know. Having good sex doesn't require multiple partners, and the cons outweigh the pro's. The father rather than calling his daughter a prostitute, should sit her down and talk to her, ask h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 10:30 PM
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"fat but fit" is not a popular concept outside of tumblr, and doctors always recommend weight loss if you're even a lb overweight. Most mainstream health/nutritional guides always recommend eating healthy and exercising.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 10:20 PM
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Why is it that redpillers complain of obesity only in relation to women and their looks? Why aren't they concerned about male obesity or its affect on health?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 10:19 PM
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I have always wanted to cuck a woman (mostly because I don't like other women), she can slide her bf's digits over, I'll sit my ass right down on her face and suck her bf's cock.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/05/17 07:52 PM
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I want her to die just because of her face, it makes me uncomfortable that a human can be so hideous. Yeah, the guy presenting this video isn't so grand either, but he looks more human. She just has this special sort of stupid look to her face...it make me even angrier knowing there are men that will fuck that and make more wide-faced children. Science and education award? Unbelievable.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/17 02:02 AM
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I think so, getting active and getting outside and socializing would both fix a lot. If the internet would be used more for information and less for socializing like it used to be in the 90's, that would help. Also if Americans incorporated more veggies in their diet + light exercise (keeping in mind diet is like 80% of weight loss). As long as people have the option of driving everywhere, eating fast food, and holing up in their rooms though, most people will choose the most comfortable option.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:50 AM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 10:46 PM
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" I know in my family, a lot of money in our bank accounts stems from a well off great grandfather I have who set up ATT lines back in the fucking 30s and 40s. Black people have no such wealthy grandfather." Um...poor white people and recent immigrants (some of which are white) also lose out on generational wealth, and honestly we lose out in the same ways as blacks do. We're more likely to be searched by cops (generational whites have connections and more respect and protection) and in general,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 10:45 PM
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Men are more likely to go through with suicide, but that doesn't mean that women don't go through similar emotions, but what I'm saying is that men tend to blame women and take their frustrations out on women more often than women take their frustrations out on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:57 PM
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Men who have experianced negative interactions with women or a lack of interaction with women, blame women. They also deduce everything women do down to instinct in order to dehumanize them. Women generally feel sadness when rejected, men usually feel rage/anger. This is dangerous, just a week or so ago a young woman was murdered (at a college campus and holy shit this happens way too often) by a vengeful stalker who hated her just because she didn't belong to him. I think if more men were raise…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:59 PM
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The girl I posted (she is kind of annoying) looks like the average American white girl, could be a little prettier with makeup but otherwise plain, plain but leaning towards attractive rather than ugly. I would say a 6 or 6.5 with "adjustments". Also, maybe you're right (mgtow, redpill, incel, not necessarily you in particular) that a lot of women (I need to stop saying girls) are stupid and shallow when they're young (want more than they have to offer) but so are most men is my point. If both j…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:45 PM
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I feel like most guys here (because most here are American) think any girl without makeup and plastic surgery is average...I've seen guys post pics of very pretty girls as average. Idk...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:43 PM
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The majority of men here are single because their standards are too high, they harbor resentment against women, and they never approach women. When a woman who looks like this is below the standards of most men here--> https://i.ytimg.com/vi/EsEYWGn3Ig0/maxresdefault.jpg Most men here who are 5-7 think they are too attractive for that (what most men consider a 6-7 is probably more along 8-9) and demand more attractive women, on top of never socializing. Talk to more women and lower your standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:27 PM
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Sort of, I've had a guy that didn't want to have a real relationship but went ballistic when I broke up with him claiming I was using them for sex and was leaving him for a bigger dick (yes, men are actually this insecure that they think women judge them exclusively on penis size and never on behavior and treatment). I told him that I wasn't going to meet up with him once a week for sex when the sex is bland and we're barely hanging out or doing anything, he told me that he was going to plan a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 01:53 PM
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No. However, if one of two people is unemployed, the unemployed should at least do the majority if not all of the housework. If both work than they both split up the household chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 01:45 PM
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Wanting something in theory isn't the same as working towards a goal in real life. In my experience while single, and hearing the same complaints from a range of women is that men almost never commit, and when they do their level of commitment is questionable. The biggest reasons women hookup is because there is either no point in committing (men treat them like shit) or that simply no man wants to commit. Men and women may want similar things, but maybe their expectations are a little high (i.e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 01:43 PM
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She's pretty compared to what is average in maybe the U.K. but not only is she annoying and boring but she's not even close to a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:29 PM
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Most people probably think Emma Watson is a 10 What the hell...no, fuck no. Doutzen Kroes is a 10. Emma Watson is a 6.5 at best, she has almost no feminine features (thick lips, doe eyes, thick long hair)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:09 PM
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Many of them have wives they've left in the ME to pursue white women to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:55 PM
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Up until I met my husband, most men didn't show any kind of affection or neediness for me. I'm a 7/8 naturally, and 8/9 done up. Men still treated me like a disposable piece of trash and these men were not even close to "chad" level of attractiveness, one guy was even prematurely balding and chubby and still put me down and told me that he should be dating other girls. Orbiters aren't all that common, and if they are, they're orbiting a very small amount of perfect women. Funny story about the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:33 PM
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In my experience, even at peak attractiveness, men never showed any obsessiveness and even guys I dated that were 10 times uglier than me couldn't care less whether we were dating or fucking or whatever. Men are only desperate for 10's, 7 - 9's are whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:30 PM
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You know the stereotype of the hot bitchy popular girl or the stuck-up supermodel, you know that generally highly attractive women tend to be (at least perceived) as bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:39 PM
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Its definitely true that RP men and women are awful and bitter people in general, I don't like any type of ideology that promotes manipulation of other people or dehumanizes people, especially in a cult-like fashion. The type of people drawn to something like that don't seem like nice normal people you can have an easy conversation with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:35 PM
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I've met misogynist men years before RP became popular that I would just know would love RP. I think men with control issues are drawn to it, or men who don't respect women or have any female friends and see women as rewards would be drawn to it. Basically if I meet someone awful, I can tell they'd post on RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:32 PM
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An example of not so creepy and in my mind acceptable stalking finding that person on facebook and adding them/sending them a quick message (and not continuously messaging them after that/accepting rejection) Not acceptable stalking following them home sending messages or texts especially after being rejected or ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:30 PM
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I'm a bit narcissistic so I benefit from neediness. I need to be needed basically. I get bored if I feel like the person I'm with doesn't have strong feelings for me and doesn't enjoy being around me most of the time. I hate controlling needy men, but I love sensitive needy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:26 PM
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While I think many behaviors and perspectives are shared across large groups of men, I understand men are individuals and exist as more than just one dimensional characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:23 PM
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Fathers do not have the kind of love that mothers have for their children, I'm sure many fathers love their children with all the ability that they have but the mothers love is stronger, more intuitive, and just natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:21 PM
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We should raise men to be neither dominant or submissive, but raise them with the same ability to compete in the world as women. We shouldn't have to bring women down to raise men up. I think immaturity and laziness in men is mostly an American thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:19 PM
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I can tell you what women find creepy that men sometimes do (in their minds it might seem romantic). 1.) Staring women down 2.) Professing love when you don't know the person well 3.) Being overtly sexual even when the sexual interest is not reciprocated 4.) Hitting on a woman right away Basically having the intention of having sex with a woman right away or not valuing the woman in question as a person or respecting boundaries/ignoring boundaries makes you a creep. If you don't want to be creep…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:16 PM
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Most of the time its men who say things like "He's so lucky" or "He probably enjoyed it, its not rape". Its always rape when a minor and an adult are involved, minus the Romeo+Juliet law of course. A surprising amount of people on reddit support relations between teenagers and adults, not understanding the sickness in fetishizing a child in between the stages of childhood and adulthood. We can't have double standards for it either, in fact its worse in my opinion when an older woman rapes a teen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:09 PM
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Feminine women tend to be the bitchiest, so I would think subconsciously men are drawn to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:03 PM
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A lot of men (like my father and many other fathers I knew) only fight for custody to prove something to the mother or get revenge on the mother. Deep down fathers understand that the love between a mother and child is an unbroken and precious bond that all normal people understand. Of course in some circumstances primary custody should be given to the father but most of the time it is beneficial for everyone involved for the child to live with the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:00 PM
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Or if I wouldn't turn a 32 year old man down because he was too old if I was 32...I'm just not shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 08:05 PM
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That's true, eastern European women aren't always slender but they never get severely overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:38 PM
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My mom at age 60 gets hit on more than I do at age 25
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:22 PM
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i like nice vein-y hands and a nice hairline that gives the appearance of balding, can't get turned on without both
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:40 PM
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Men love travel too, people who like to travel are usually more educated and cultured, i find the idea of never wanting to leave your city/town very strange
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:37 PM
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because unlike most men, we are turned on by not by what society tells us is attractive, but by average to slightly above average looking men with intelligence or personality. Men however, universally, are usually attracted to above average women (even when settling for lower than that), no redeeming qualifies required to turn men on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:33 PM
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The same things that make women weak, lack of integrity or a backbone, slave mentality, easily triggered, insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 10:57 AM
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Yes, I also think most people look their best in their early 20's but I think Angelina Jolie at 50 (or w/e) looks better than 90% of 20 year olds out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:11 PM
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There is nothing in a woman's biology preventing a woman from being promiscuous, otherwise where would redpill get this idea of hypergamy from? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:53 PM
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maybe those things are that pronounced when you're 60 but 30? Jesus..if you can't find a 30-50 year old attractive (that takes care of themselves and has some amount of natural beauty) your standards are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:52 PM
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I thought by casual sex you mean multiple partners/flings, I hate that some people think intimacy or emotional satisfaction can only come through marriage or monogamy. The same endorphin's are released that make you feel positive emotions when you're fucking a stranger then when you're fucking a partner. Also, I don't think women instantly bond through sex, it takes a lot more for that to happen for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:49 PM
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I feel like I can't talk about gender relations and discuss problematic things without men freaking out and acting like I'm blaming the entire male gender or accusing them. I feel like conversations about gender/race/etc are more strained and muddled than ever before, people are bitter and wont listen to the other person. I'm far from pc but I'm not completely blind to social ills and behaviors either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:47 PM
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I don't get it, even in my most attractive years men never fought over me and I wasn't overweight and was decently attractive, probably an 8 for a while. So maybe you think women have so many options because you hang around women who sell sex for a living? The most attention I'd get from guys is being honked at occasionally. I don't think women have as many options as you think they do, men fight over prostitutes and average girls because they want instant sex and they know they can get it easie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:32 PM
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Sex is emotional (via dopamine rush, oxytocin, w/e) whether or not its casual, there's just not always a bond or strong attachment feeling there. I'm really tired of people suggesting that sex is some cold calculated thing when its not monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:29 PM
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I don't get how having a few wrinkles or crows feet makes someone that much less attractive. Maybe our standards are too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:26 PM
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Although its universally excepted that you look your best in your young adult years, women can still be beautiful even in late adulthood, its just that our culture specifically fetishizes youth more than ever. I think women who are naturally beautiful will retain some of their beauty until they're well into their 60's (and maybe even beyond). My mom is 63 now and although her looks are degenerating fast (sorry mom) she was a stunner well into her mid-50's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:24 PM
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Yet redpill in general always supports male promiscuity and condemns female promiscuity. Every time anyone discusses female promiscuity, redpill acts like its the fall of human civilization but pat each other on the back for "spinning plates". You know the double standard is getting old and dishonest by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 10:10 PM
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If promiscuity in women angers you, you should also be angered by male promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 07:12 PM
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I have a weird thing about looks, I'm obsessed with the way people look (I used to sketch exclusively human faces for a while) and when I'm in love I definitely obsess over certain features. But...I don't have high standards for what I find attractive in a man. I can still be extremely enticed by someone relatively normal looking, they take on a sort of uniqueness if I like them enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 07:11 PM
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That is true for most men, not all men luckily :), good men at least bring up the possibility of an open relationship and express their desires honestly to their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 07:07 PM
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I don't think you need a purpose in a relationship other than loving someone and being loved back. If the only thought in your head when you marry or settle down is "what can I offer them in material worth so they will pop out a kid for me" you shouldn't marry that person. Your purpose is whatever you want your purpose in life to be, but build relationships out of love and mutual respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 07:03 PM
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"Brewer and Hendrie (2010) that women may vocalize in order to end the sexual act for a number of reasons, some of which include discomfort, pain, boredom, fatigue and convenience. Secondly, (here it comes) from an evolutionary perspective, women may be attempting to advertise and/or secure future sexual partners in order to ensure uncertain paternity, a greater chance of off-spring survival, or recruit the most attractive set of genes" http://www.labspaces.net/blog/1186/Why_the_Ladies_moan__and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:51 PM
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Some scientists theorize that the female moan evolved to attract nearby males, also, only the strongest of the strongest sperm make it through the egg. I'll link articles a little later. Interesting stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:00 PM
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You should be dating women your own age, I don't feel any sympathy for someone that obsessed with youth and beauty, especially when 30-35 is still fairly young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:19 PM
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I think women tend to be polyandrous, most girls I knew cheated on their bf's not always because the cheating partner was "better" but because they liked having sex with attractive men, and most women (and people in general) are serial monogamists. Polyandry and polygyny are both natural and trust me, women think about fucking other men just as often as men thinking about fucking other women. Look up sperm competition and the evolution of the female moan, its essentially advantageous to get gang…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:13 PM
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"Since women's attraction is to the person not to the body" No. We are attracted to men's bodies (well, I am VERY visual when it comes to men) but we just don't need to have sex with them. We can still get physically aroused (sometimes against our own will) but we don't tend to act on that arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:11 PM
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Blaming society or women/men for not fucking you is lame. Maybe lower your standards or be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:28 AM
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I always internalize my frustration and depression rather than externalize it (i.e. violence) and I think its better if more people did that. The ego tells you that you deserve sex/love and that its everyone else's fault, but when you conquer your ego, you will understand that sex/love from another person is not a obligation but a favor. You deserve nothing, you have to earn it. I've felt a lot of loneliness in my life, but its not the fault of anyone else but myself. Adapt to your environment a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:25 PM
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I think its fine to want that sort of quality but to not base a relationship around it. Men feel all sorts of pressure to be a provider and although calling you a golddigger is childish, I think its fair that some men don't want to carry all the financial burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:03 AM
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Idk, I have the ability to look stunning (a good 8.5/9 with the right hair and makeup) but normally I'm barely a 7 (I have nice eyes, lips, face shape, body isn't great but I'm avg weight 130 lbs 5'4) sometimes on bad days I'm a 6. My peak years were 17 through 22. I'm a narcissist though, so who knows I might objectively be a 4 and not even know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 02:56 AM
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Idk, I've been picked on by other girls for being weird/quiet/emotionless, and the stereotype of women always being open about their emotions is a thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:35 PM
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Yeah, I have no issue telling people private things but I'm either monotone about it or I find something to laugh about the situation. Women are expected to cry easily or show emotion, but its not always easy for some of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:23 PM
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I like when people open up to me, and I'm always willing to share private details nobody needs or cares to know, but in terms of expressing emotion I'm not all that good at it. I'm good at helping others open up and I think I do a pretty good job at listening and giving shitty advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:20 PM
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Frida Kahlo, Kurt Cobain, Shakespeare, etc. I don't know how they get personality test results on dead people but I'm part of the cool club so I'll pretend its factual in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:43 PM
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50 out of 80, sounds like an INFP which is a contradictory personality, both empathetic yet blunt and antisocial at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 08:42 PM
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Just because women/men desire to fuck other people doesn't mean they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 11:36 AM
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I like getting as close as possible to people but I tend to be a flake, fwb's were suited for me because as much as I could enjoy aspects of relationships I just didn't really have time to focus on someone else that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:23 AM
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"Women find men who are sad and depressed to be weak" No. Stop equating being emotional with being weak, you're weak if you don't stand up for yourself or your values or if you let people walk all over you. Being depressed and having emotional/mental issues doesn't make you "weak" or less of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:19 AM
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"And average men are cucks. Women don't really love average men. They settle for them while fantasizing about alphas." No, I hate men that act like fratboys or workout or do any of that shit. I find chunkers and skinny beta cucks way sexier, they're also better conversationalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:14 AM
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"A lot of mothers chase away the father" That's not an excuse, there's never an excuse to abandon the family. Also, yes some women knowingly get themselves pregnant but they're the minority. Society doesn't really coddle single moms, and so what if people empathize with them? Being a single mom sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:14 PM
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I used to have a lot of sensitivity to caffeine, now I drink a redbull and 2 cups of coffee (or 5 cups of coffee) almost every day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:46 PM
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Nah, I just have a high tolerance. I've never made resin, I've just bought capsule and powder packs, never had closed eye visuals from it the best I ever got out of it was staving off some opiate withdrawal symptoms and before I got into opiates kratom gave me a mild body high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:45 PM
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I'm not really a feminist, I just find womens history/studies interesting. I got into feminism heavily in middle school (Susan B. Anthony) and then more into radical feminism (I.E. Germaine Greer, Valerie Solanas lol) but I'm not an activist nor do I think women are especially oppressed in the first world. However, I find gender relations important and I find some behaviors and attitudes that are commonplace towards women very toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:20 PM
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Kratom does nothing for me at this point, that's good that kratom helped you though I can't believe they almost made that shit illegal. Its so weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:17 PM
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glasses can be cute, I know its cliche and retarded but they make you look smarter, like being able to see what you're reading is important to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:15 PM
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I've learned that a lot of men are too bitter and stubborn to sympathize with the female perspective on dating/relationships, and believe that only their beliefs and experiences are important. I never thought that it was possible for so many people to be so selfish and stubborn, but apparently I was wrong lol. I'm sure these men aren't the majority but they're pretty vocal. I was a bit surprised at how men can feel insecure about their looks and compare themselves to "chad" and I'm empathetic to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:32 PM
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What about men, should men also have sex or do sexual things they sometimes don't want to do to keep their woman happy? I think if you're going through something tough in your life that has decreased your libido that your partner should respect that. However, if you almost never express any interest in sex with your partner, your partner has the right to be concerned and possibly seek outside satisfaction or end the relationship (after consulting their partner about it of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:22 PM
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"If your girl ever interacts with another man, you're a beta. Alpha is the man she interacts with, cause errbody knows she's fantasizing about him from the moment he walks in the room." Uh..no. Having guy friends doesn't mean you want to bang them, being insecure about the guys your girl talks to is immature and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:18 PM
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Poppy seed/poppy pod resin? Have you ever had poppy tea?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:00 AM
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I like your username
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:17 AM
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Nothing wrong with a daddy fetish but it can't be used against someone as a coercion/manipulation tactic. I think men with control issues enjoy women who are manipulated easily, but deep down understand that is unfulfilling long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:23 PM
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There are things you do in the area of "submissiveness" because you love someone (i.e. cook + clean) and it shouldn't be an act of submitting but rather an act of love and certainly not the only kind of way to show love. Teaching women to be nurturing is to some extent beneficial for men because men generally get colder treatment from everyone else. It is a negative thing however to tell women their only job is to please a man and to never speak up or express their own desires/needs. Generally t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:47 PM
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Women can be just as shallow. "Unconditional Love From A Woman Is Impossible", RP men complaining about this ties into the whole shallow thing. I've had many arguments where RP men claim that women have impossible standards and act like angels and victims when they know they have crazy standards for women and jerk it to porn every night (and porn isn't exactly dominated by fat pale women covered with zits now is it?).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:23 PM
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Which only further proves my point that men are guilty of the same exact shit. Both genders are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:07 PM
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-Age: 25 -Pill color: Pink -Femininity score: 75 -MBTI type: INFP-T (is this the right thing?) -How you think your femininity has affected your love life. Do you think you'd have an easier time if you were more/less feminine? Um...I don't really think I'm that feminine, I...I don't know how my femininity or lack thereof affects anything. -Which aspects of your personality are most feminine? Least feminine? I love gossip I guess (so do men though you just wont admit it), I like talking about feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:00 PM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:05 PM
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If you love a crack whore, you love a crack whore. Even social deviants and drug addicts need love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:08 PM
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Men are happy as long as they have a woman that isn't completely hideous or severely overweight (though they still jerk it to hot thin pornstars), compatibility and other factors aren't so important when it comes to men. Women are different, I think women are visual but that simply looks alone aren't stimulating enough or rather...we are stimulated by the look of a person but much more so when other traits about them also turn us on. A lot of women want men who have developed a particular skill …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:04 PM
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You should marry a woman because you love her, why does anything else matter? You don't marry somebody because they tick off every box on your checklist, you marry them because you love them and want to spend the rest of your life with them. She could be a crack whore or a fat programmer or a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:59 PM
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Yeah, nobody is really ever going to love you unconditionally but your parents. However, pretending that men are these selfless creatures that always love women for "who they are" is ridiculous when half the time on redpill and in general women are condensed to their biological function and looks. I have a hard time believing these men would love a woman that was ugly, fat, and never put out. This assertion that women can't love are just the ramblings of a lonely teenager or a 40 year old divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:55 PM
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Past tense, was a stripper. I got hit on at a job where I was half naked...the rest of the time guys never approached me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:05 AM
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Idk, the problem is probably that both the avg. guy/girl aren't that social or maybe when you have aspergers or other social problems its harder to date not because you're ugly or not good enough, but because you don't have any social skills. I guarantee that most guys out there can get a girlfriend, there are girls that will want to be with you even if you're skinny or out of shape, or poor, or whatever. My first priority when I used to be single was finding a guy with similar interests, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:04 AM
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As a girl with gigantic cheekbones I prefer the first girl. Also, I think the first girl looks more like a young woman (18 to 25) and the second girl looks 15/16 so maybe its more that men feel challenged/scared by a woman but feel comfortable around an awkward teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:05 PM
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https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/t51.2885-15/s320x320/e35/12357722_1666997856889472_1644660798_n.jpg Ethan Klein's bod (not face) + the following faces http://www.singledad.com/singlewp/wp-content/uploads//assets/images/article-images2009/May/joelschwartzberg_208.jpg http://infotel.ca/news/medialibrary/image/hd-mediaitemid28294-4816.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/ef/00/01/ef0001508197a885653b9cfb12ea63a6.jpg The most attractive men of all time will always be Steve Buscemi or Brad…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:16 PM
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I've even seen blue pillers making similar claims (more in the tone of "every woman has to deal with unwanted attention, turning down male friends for romance, etc") and it kinda makes me wonder if I'm even grosser than I thought since I don't typically experience these things. Yeah, I'm above average in looks (just being honest, but I'm certainly no supermodel or even close) and guys have never hit on me (apart from my job stripping but its a stripclub). I've had maybe 1 or 2 guys ever approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:07 PM
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"Men aren't the selectors. Men display, women pick. All of the males in this planet compete for women, many even risk their lives to look pretty enough to be chosen as a mate." I've never used tinder or anything like that so all I have to go on is the 4 years or so that I was single in the past, and all I can tell you is women can have it hard in the dating world, especially in smaller towns. In my experience when I looked my best guys only wanted to have sex with me and nothing else, the rest o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:39 PM
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"obsessed with the pretty boys talked about here, but those women are very few and in between, and there's a lot of guys competing for them anyway." In the town I grew up in, if you weren't a socialite type of girl with 100's of pictures on facebook/instagram, men generally didn't think of you as hott or care to compete for you. Say what you will, but in a lot of ways men have the upper hand selection wise. "lol. Why would a woman sleep with a short man." Because he's cute? Or she likes him? "Av…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:24 PM
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I hate that the responsibility is placed solely on the mother, a lot of fathers abandon the home but none of that is considered when people criticize single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:19 PM
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"It's clear that most feminists/women don't care whether men have sexual or romantic difficulties in society." Do you care about the romantic difficulties of women? Probably not. "For instance, Let's say that gender gaps grow in America. And statistically, there just aren't enough women for men. Men would obviously complain, but women wouldn't really care." Pretty sure there's a higher ratio of women to men in America, and its been that way for a while. "My question is, are men justified in look…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:11 PM
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Idk, but I've dated guys that most of my girlfriends thought were gross and were as far away from conventional as possible and I thought they were hott. I also see couples from time to time where the guy is short/chubby/weird looking (I mean compared to what the media thinks is attractive for men). I can't say I see too many ugly/average women with hott guys either, I don't know where you get the idea that average women are just swimming in chads because I haven't witnessed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:05 PM
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He's certainly right that attractive women seek out attractive men (generally) but there's plenty of cases where women are physically attracted to men that don't have perfectly sculpted bodies/faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:57 PM
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The majority of women do find the same men attractive. Since fucking is a numbers game for men who aren't Brad Pitt, it would be a blessing for guys to look like what most women are down to fucking casually(super male models). Cool, well I'm not into that. I have 0 physical attraction to conventionally attractive men of perfect proportions. Dad bods are hott, I love a hairy chubby belly (to a degree), Idk what your "very attractive" looks like but pink hair is a no and tattoos are meh. Also, nig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:51 PM
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Women need plausible deniability. They know that they will never be able to handle and lock down a man like that, so instead they tell themselves that he isn't attractive and tell themselves that males like the ones in the original thread are who they really want. No, I'm just not physically attracted to that. Also, I dated guys that weren't typically attractive and I couldn't lock them down but I was still attracted to them. Please don't tell women what they like or are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:48 PM
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Nah. As a Chad groupie(but no butt sex, thanks) I see how these guys are. And how women react to them. A man's attractiveness to women is 100% based on his looks. Not all women find the same men attractive though, I don't like guys with perfect faces and muscles. A lot of women are like me and like guys with dad bods or unconventional looks. Typical model looking guys are not attractive to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:45 PM
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. Their perspective, often blinded by hurt from the past, is too blinkered to see the obvious truth about attraction. Yes. This. They are also too blind to recognize their own high standards for women and they use a rating system to constantly rate women's looks (which is fine but lets not pretend you're not shallow if you do it). Also, what they think of as a normal cute girl is often times unattainable for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:43 PM
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Most women enjoy sex to the same degree as men, but men have more of a drive I think (how much of that is pressure from other men is debatable).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 06:36 PM
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Abstinence education is horrid because STD's and pregnancy are a very real thing, and preventing both is crucial. Also, women can be enthusiastic about sex, but not to the animated levels of porn, and are much pickier about their partners and generally choose masturbation over sex with random strangers (when not in a relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:13 PM
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yeah, in porn not so much in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 01:55 AM
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since women deem them below average, and thus, invisible. I rarely see women date above their league, its extremely rare. Fat women date fat men, weird anime girls date weird anime guys. I've know a lot of nerdy girls (not hott girl on twitch nerds) and they end up dating guys that are also nerdy and awkward. I'm sorry but I never see these types of girls with "chads". "And I hope more ERs happen" I'm not going to continue this, you need to seek therapy and step away from redpill. You are delusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 02:37 PM
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once again thats Womens domain of being ridiculously shallow and picky. blah blah blah "women are evil and shallow". Read what redpill has to say and get back to me on that. " we just want someone who isnt boring or ugly" Young women and young men aren't going to settle down or find the idea of having a relationship or sex all that enticing with someone that is boring and ugly. You're not fooling anyone pretending that men and women equally aren't shallow to some extent, especially in youth. I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 01:28 PM
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Whats wrong with wanting a hot guy, most "nice guys" have super high standards and think women post 25 are ugly and old. Women have every right to be shallow. Most young women don't want the same type of guy, they just want a guy that isn't boring or ugly. Even when women are ready to settle down they will still have standards, we're going to have to get used to women settling down later and that not every guy is going to get the hot young girl he fantasizes about. Seriously though, most plain l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:05 PM
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Makes sense that when you're young you want someone compatible with you when it comes to having fun, that's just something you're going to have to get used to. There are plenty of girls ready to settle down post highschool that will never want a "bad boy" so whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:28 PM
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Everyone has certain traits they like, what makes a guy a chad though? I don't like the name chad, it sounds dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:25 PM
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I don't know what chad is, but if by chad you mean a typical jock or meathead bro I've never fucked or dated one. I came close to it with one guy, but the lack of anything to talk about bored me and I lost any interest. I crushed on a wrestler in highschool but he was skinny and liked video games, and was in no way at the top popularity wise or in the way of conventional looks. The same traits I like are just slight to moderate attractiveness and weird or bizarre behaviors interests. Every guy I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:44 PM
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Yeah that is controlling, like..super controlling. Men need to have their freedom and be allowed to dress however they want. I think to some degree controlling what they eat is understandable if they eat too much and are getting fat or have a health issue but that's something you need to trust them to take care of. It is important however that your so does their share of chores unless they work long hours, its understandable in the situation that if he works and you don't that you do most if not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:02 PM
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What do you do to control your so and if you're aware of it why do it in the first place? Nagging about what? Does he do his share of responsibilities because it shouldn't even have to get to the point of nagging and if it does, either get used to doing everything or leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:41 PM
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If a guy tells you that you need to shape up or he's going to fuck other girls, you tell him to go right on ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:23 PM
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I've been attracted to men before and was able to turn off my attraction when I realized they were assholes and didn't care about me. Attraction starts off naturally but you can most definitely control your level of attraction and stop liking a person. What does that have to do with communication or "dread game"? Is that when you constantly remind girls you have other options? Why the fuck would I want to date someone that is constantly trying to get under my skin? Why would any woman want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:22 PM
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I think women and men both have flaws that are based both in biological difference and the culture they were raised in. Men tend to be more physically destructive and generally less respectful of women than women are of men, I think in general women empathize more with men than men do with women. However, women are not so great to each other and I've had to deal with many instances in my life where girls were absolutely cruel to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:17 PM
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I've fucked less than 10 people, but I'm incredibly open about sex (it just doesn't register with me to be ashamed about something that's natural and everyone does or wants), I've certainly done drugs but that hasn't affected the number of partners I've had, aaand my family definitely has issues with fidelity and sex. Check, check, and check.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:14 PM
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I don't like dominant men or pushover men, I like dominance in some sexual situations (and not to an abusive degree) but I can't have someone controlling every step of my life or treating me any less than an equal. Also, wtf is a shit test, is that when you stand up for yourself after daily negging by your redpilled so, or is that when you say anything period?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:07 PM
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Ah, the old saint and whore dichotomy. You will have to change that pattern of thinking, its pure garbage. Your wife and the mother of your children is also your lover if you can't see it that way you have no relationship anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:01 PM
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Yes, redpill thinks all women have participated in gangbangs and secretly want to fuck black guys (they're obsessed with black guys for some weird reason). Most of my girlfriends have had normal monogamous relationships in their college years (how redpill imagines college is insane, I barely even talk to people I go to school with much less screw them) , I've known maybe one girl ever that has had sex with more than 10 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:57 PM
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What redpill defines as a "badboy" is different from how I and probably a lot of women see badboys. A badboy is attractive because he's fearless and maybe a little rough around the edges, not an asshole but doesn't completely bend to your will. Its not the same thing as redpill's version of a complete brute that beats women, cheats on them, and calls them names. Most "badboys" I've liked were just drug addicts or guys in bands. They weren't brutish tough guys but they had cool hobbies and were g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:54 PM
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I don't have any interest in a person just because of how much attention they get from people, confidence is a plus but why would that be the sole reason I or anyone else should be interested in someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:49 PM
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What I don't get about all of this is why you break down everything women do and think in order to prove that women are shallow when you know damn well by now that men have their own patterns of behavior that you could analyze down to instinct. It annoys women when you don't take them at their word the same way it would annoy a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 03:51 PM
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Because a lot of those men are guilty of coercion, which is the grey area of rape. You're absolutely right about that last part, if one of two people is intoxicated (not just tipsy or buzzed but flat out wasted) the person who is sober in that situation holds power over the intoxicated person. It all comes down to the question of what can we do to start getting people to respect others instead of looking for ways to take advantage of them like an animal (this counts for both genders).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 03:48 PM
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But how many have empathy for men tho? Question that due to how much women reinforce male gender roles on males. I have empathy for men who get screwed over by women, but not enough that I'll sacrifice my wellbeing so they can take it out on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 03:10 PM
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What makes you think attractive men are always abusive? "Ugly" men aren't always sweet and attractive men aren't always abusive. In fact, what I've experienced is that the more stereotypical of nerd a guy is the more issues he has with women and the more he treats them like shit. Attractive guys can have issues with cheating, but because they've had so many positive experiences with women they tend treat women fairly well. Women are often sought out and used for their youth and beauty, there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:53 PM
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I absolutely neglect the house if I see my husbands not doing his part. I only have equal partnerships, I will not be anyones maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:24 PM
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I may as well treat them the same way they treated me Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:22 PM
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"Nope, women just view most men as unattractive. And only Chad and his ilk actually have options" Yes, a lot of men are unattractive because most people are unattractive, but even some not so attractive men that aren't "Chad" will look for any option to cheat. I've dated betas my whole life, they're not any nicer and are just the same piece of shit cheating "Chad" but with less to offer. Women don't want the most handsome/buff/rich guy life has to offer, they just want an equal partner who is at…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:17 PM
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Dragoness is right on the ball, Men routinely call out women for their sexual freedom whilst being sexually uninhibited themselves. They complain that you're air-headed if you have a moment of flightiness, they complain that there's no point in you studying because women are stupid, they complain if you're prudish and manipulate you into sex. They want to use you in any and every possible way while ruining your self-esteem and leaving you with nothing. I don't know a single woman yet that hasn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:06 PM
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I've dated butt ugly guys that treated me like shit, I don't know about other women but I've had a guy that looked like this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dennis_Moran_(computer_criminal) and actually this tell me they weren't monogamous, so no, stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:18 AM
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If you would expect a woman to ignore your past it would be shitty of you not to let go of hers. Stop obsessing over everything, and stop setting impossible standards for others if you can't meet them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:11 AM
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I don't care so much about MGTOW but their "I'm taking my toys and going home" attitude is toddler-ish and annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:09 AM
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...because the majority of feminist men I've met would ask for nudes or ask to be my paypig. I like when I'm flattered but not when someone lies to get something out of me. Most men aren't feminists, why would they be when 3rd wave feminism is a mess of stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:04 AM
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I am personally afraid of redpill men, I've dated them before and they treat you like shit. I have way too much trauma from dealing with actual abuse and have known other women that have been beaten and even stabbed (eastern European women mostly), and all of the men involved were always these victim complex men with a need for vengeance against women. Its taught me to never trust men who blame their inadequacies on women. I remember the guys I dated would complain about their "baby mamas" while…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 05:21 PM
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My dad used to complain about "divorce rape" and having to pay child support (a measly $100 check a month to fucking feed me), so I know not to take a lot of men seriously when they whine about unfairness in court. I don't think women are entitled to alimony (it makes no sense if you're both dual income) but if you had a kid together you are 50% responsible for that childs well-being. What makes me sad is these men don't realize that women get a bad deal sometimes as well, not to mention the hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 05:19 PM
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I've had sex a lot (not with a lot of partners) but if I go over a week without sex my vagina tightens up so much I can't have sex without taking magnesium supplements and getting juiced up. I've been this way since I lost my virginity almost 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 05:12 PM
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