fathappyhousewife Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Husband pushed me away in public	LTR/MARRIAGE	fathappyhousewife	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/18 09:25 PM

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1	Husband pushed me away in public Ok. I'm so glad you feel that way about someone you've never seen, spoken to or met. But something tells me most people aren't quite as judgemental as you. Try again sweetie. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/18 09:56 PM
6	How do you LET / GET a man to take care of you? I find this to be a common misconception. Yes, my husband takes care of me, but I work just as hard taking care of him. He works 50 hours a week, takes out the trash, and does the more physical housework like moving furniture hanging pictures and mowing the grass. I keep our house clean, I do all the grocery shopping, i make sure dinner is on the table every day when he gets home, i get up and take the dog out in the middle of the night so he can sleep, i give him massages when he's tired or has…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/18 05:46 PM
3	Husband pushed me away in public Doubtful. I always go with him, and it's never been an issue before. Also, all the hairdressers I've seen working there look to be 200+lbs and over 40. He's slim, attractive, and 28, I doubt they'd be his type. I asked him about it after we got home, and he said there was a child there (we've agreed pda in front of kids is inappropriate) though I never saw the child.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/18 07:47 AM
3	How do you communicate your needs and encourage captain behavior when husband's beta traits are killing the marriage? You're welcome. I know it sounds like a lot of work, That's because it is. But the reward is priceless. :) Good luck on your journey!	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/18 05:33 AM
3	How do you communicate your needs and encourage captain behavior when husband's beta traits are killing the marriage? To create change, you have to change. That's the attitude I take in my marriage and it works pretty well most of the time. Think of the behaviors you want him to show and try to inspire those things in him. If you want him to take on more of a leadership role, start asking his advice more, ask for his direction in your daily interaction. If you want him to start doing more of the "man work" around the house, make sure your domestic womanly work is done well. If you want him to be more ambitious,…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/18 05:24 AM
5	Husband pushed me away in public He gave me a light but firm push on the shoulder. That's the only reason it was embarrassing, just having him physically shove me in public. I mentioned it, in a way that kind of played it off. He said it was just because there was a child in the room, who I didn't see. No fight luckily. But I'll take your advice about being less needy.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/18 10:22 PM
1	College and dating advice for 18 year old! No no. Ypu didn't give that vibe off at all!!! I just meant it can be difficult for anyone, and sometimes more difficult for people who have been sheltered. I went to private school, and certainly had a more difficult time than my friends who went to public schools. Not to say it won't be easy for you. And good, I'm glad you already know that! I just wanted to make sure. Again something a majority of people learn the hard way. I'm sorry to have come across wrong, like I was criticizing you or tr…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/18 12:57 AM
5	College and dating advice for 18 year old! Be careful since you're so sheltered. An ex of mine was that way, from a very affluent political family, well traveled, and very sheltered. He ended up not doing very well and even leaving college because he was unwilling to accept things not going his way. For example he didn't think there should be writing involved in a math class, so he dropped the class. Not saying you're that way, but often those who grow up being told they're wonderful at everything and essentially better than others can d…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/18 12:21 AM
1	How do you show gratitude to your man? As most of the ladies here have said, compliments! Men don't get them nearly often enough. A simple "You take such good care of me," "You're so smart! I never would have figured out how to make that work!" or even "You look so sexy today baby!" if you're feeling cheeky and frisky. Also, find out his favorite meal, and learn how to make it well. My husband lights up immediately when he smells my lemon pepper chicken in the oven!	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/18 05:08 PM
27	Does Love exists for an unattractive woman? Natural looks do not matter nearly as much as you'd think. I think what's more important is the way you keep yourself. If you dress nicely, make sure your face is made (but not too much!), have your hair done, etc., you'll find yourself getting a lot more attention, especially from high quality men. You should also focus more on your attitude. This is something I struggle with a bit, try to be intuitive to his needs, open and honest in all conversations, and most importantly stay positive. I've …	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/18 04:47 PM
2	Monthly Goals Myself: My goal for this month is to try and lose at least 5 lbs, and do it by tracking my calories. Home: I need to do a deep clean of my whole house, baseboards and all (yuck!) Relationship: To work on being more passive and agreeable with my husband. I've been selfish lately in wanting him to spend time with me when he's off work, even though I know he's tired.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/18 04:23 PM