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| 74 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent? | General | fatuglybenny | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 02:17 AM |
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| 1 | 361 boys dead in 5 years from South African circumcision rites. Where's the outrage for male-specific cultural violence?Of course, deaths from FGM are also a big problem; many places know that, which you could say is the outrage against FGM MGM is something that is considered more acceptable than FGM, seeing as there’s a well-known name for it (circumcision) and is thought by some to have “health benefits”. Seeing as MGM can result in fatalities, that probably isn’t true. *P.S. Remember that the amount of documented cases may not be the same as the amount of actual cases. It’s entirely possible that there are mor… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/25 12:42 AM |
| 15 | Why do feminists pretend to care about men?The only problems feminists think men have are related to sex. I have seen some feminists say that they like men/claim to want to help men, but it’s only for personal validation, and when they realize that they can’t get it from men who actually respect themselves enough to stand up for their own rights and beliefs, they wind up becoming even more misandrist lol. Guess the joke’s on them (Edited because I’m stupid and keep making typos) | /r/MensRights | 02/08/25 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Why must men always change?…missing the point of what, exactly? “All lives matter” was used to divert attention/importance from “Black lives matter”. “Men’s rights” is just “men’s rights”. Spreading awareness of men’s rights isn’t the same as devaluing anyone else’s rights | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 10:44 PM |
| 14 | Why must men always change?This is neither a redpill/incel subreddit, wtf are people talking about? They see “mensrights” and that’s where their minds go? Explains a lot though (Edited because I’m stupid and made a typo) | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 03:34 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men are evil but every wrong a women does is a reactionExactly | /r/MensRights | 27/07/25 08:25 PM |
| 8 | The idea that men are evil but every wrong a women does is a reactionWhen it comes to comparing misogyny and misandry, the rhetoric is: “they’re not the same because misandry results from men traumatizing women while misogyny results from men lacking female sex partners” or something along those bullshit lines. I’m guessing that these buffoons just don’t consider the possibility that men who express “misogynistic” views have been hurt by women in the exact/similar ways that they believe men ALWAYS hurt women in? It sounds like everyone’s just predisposed to assum… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/25 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Serious question. So, we all know about the cheating scandal that took place at a Coldplay concert. Why is the man being dragged way more harshly on social media than the female cheater?She’s in her second marriage with another CEO | /r/MensRights | 21/07/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Serious question. So, we all know about the cheating scandal that took place at a Coldplay concert. Why is the man being dragged way more harshly on social media than the female cheater?I think she’s also married to a CEO now | /r/MensRights | 21/07/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | It amazes me why men choose womenThis made me lol | /r/MensRights | 18/07/25 09:20 PM |
| 33 | Wow, thanks for proving my point, Grammarly.That “Dismiss” button looks pretty good right now | /r/MensRights | 16/07/25 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Male loneliness…okay, what makes you think that men aren’t doing that? | /r/MensRights | 12/07/25 02:06 PM |
| -2 | It’s not your job to make someone feel safe. You are not obligated to make someone feel safe just because you are a man. If someone feels unsafe simply because you exist, that’s their problem, not yours.That sounds fair | /r/MensRights | 04/07/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Didn’t get the job cuz I’m a manIf you are truly anti-feminist, you should be glad that feminist business owners are shooting themselves in the foot by turning men away from positions. Well, there is a quote that states "never let the enemy know when they are making a mistake" so you're right about this lol | /r/MensRights | 04/07/25 01:52 AM |
| 14 | It’s not your job to make someone feel safe. You are not obligated to make someone feel safe just because you are a man. If someone feels unsafe simply because you exist, that’s their problem, not yours.Wait, so what counts as personal space in that scenario? If it’s a public area, it’s kind of a given that people of any gender or age will be there. I’d always listen if someone tells me that they’re aren’t comfortable in a situation, but I do want to ask you about possible instances where a boy/man wouldn’t feel safe around a girl/woman for their own reasons. I know men who’ve been hurt by women, so would it also be a woman’s responsibility to stay away from a man who feels triggered by her pre… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/25 01:43 AM |
| 16 | It’s not your job to make someone feel safe. You are not obligated to make someone feel safe just because you are a man. If someone feels unsafe simply because you exist, that’s their problem, not yours.If making someone feel safe includes not invading their personal space, harassing them, or not presenting myself in an intimidating manner (like wielding a weapon or wearing a scary mask in front of a kid like in your example) then yes, of course I would do those things. But if a man who happens to be in the same place as a woman is just there, what exactly would make her think that she’s in a life-or-death situation? She might feel a certain way, sure, but that’s probably more so because of her… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/25 01:30 AM |
| 16 | It’s not your job to make someone feel safe. You are not obligated to make someone feel safe just because you are a man. If someone feels unsafe simply because you exist, that’s their problem, not yours.I suggest you take another look into this subreddit. About a week ago a post was made criticizing the fact that women who prey on minors are often praised/perceived as desirable because of their gender, so we’re already doing that. Please don’t conflate men who excuse criminal acts with MRAs (Edit): Here is the post since I’m stupid and forgot to include it https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1ll7joz/its_sickening_on_how_people_will_instantly_go/ We’re not mad at women for feeling unsaf… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired of people making fun of the Male Loneliness EpidemicMakes sense. Yeah, being lonely isn’t fun, but if the alternative is spending time with those who really don’t understand or appreciate you then it’s probably better to be by yourself | /r/MensRights | 03/07/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | It's sickening on how people will instantly go from "Pedophiles deserve the wood chipper" to "where was she when I was a kid" simply because the pedophile is a woman.Well, yeah. And they’re really not helping, but the issue at hand is weirdos like that | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 12:09 PM |
| 1 | I am so tired...You’re right that OnlyFans women/influencer women shouldn’t really be listened to lol Sorry I’m late but dw, you won’t get booted from here for being a woman. Good on you for working hard and looking after your son. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/25 09:22 PM |
| 3 | They’re sounding worse than misogynists now.??? Don’t think I said anything about that. Men should be allowed to act like adults with their own needs and wants instead of a puppy who follows everyone around is all | /r/MensRights | 15/04/25 02:46 PM |
| 5 | They’re sounding worse than misogynists now.That’s worse | /r/MensRights | 15/04/25 01:16 AM |
| 13 | They’re sounding worse than misogynists now.I know that I’m a little late but I’ve noticed that sometimes women in feminist communities call men that they think are well-behaved “golden retriever types” and that does sound a bit weird - like, don’t you want your partner to act like an adult human instead of just a pet lol | /r/MensRights | 12/04/25 02:48 AM |
| 9 | Why do I see so many Western men marry Asian, Arab and Latino women?Yes, but in most cases the man is also expected to do the same thing. Unless they switch up and he becomes a stay-at-home (which is fine as long as everyone’s happy and functioning) (Edit:) The truth is, a lifestyle where one partner works and the other stays at home with the kids isn’t really as sustainable now than it was before, so people who are making about an average amount don’t always have an option other than both parents going to work and trying to balance that with parenting | /r/MensRights | 04/04/25 03:14 PM |
| 16 | Why do I see so many Western men marry Asian, Arab and Latino women?Well, being a “traditional man” means working to support an entire family rather than just yourself and spend your earnings on your wife and kids, but lots of people in general value “me time” and want to do what the please with their money. If both men and women are okay with adulting separately, why should there be an expectation for only men to stick to tradition? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/25 01:32 PM |
| 3 | I fucking love scienceRight! And why does everyone try to blame people like Andrew Tate or Sneako for boys misbehaving in school? It’s not like girls don’t misbehave in school. Where are the “bad female role models”? Maybe the “girls” themselves are just cunts on their own lol | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do we feel mad about the word patriarchy?I absolutely despise it. I do not want to compete against other men. I don't want to live like fking lions who can't view other men as anything but competition. I don't want to act tough just for women to like me and intimidate other men. More than 90% of men lose in this competition of status and resources automatically because of their family backgrounds. Preach sir | /r/MensRights | 09/03/25 02:21 AM |
| 2 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?I personally don’t even like talking bad about others. I’m just saying that if it happens, it happens, and that it’s best to shrug it off. Attributing meanness as a byproduct of the “patriarchy” doesn’t really make sense to me since being offensive to anyone isn’t illegal or oppressive and shouldn’t be treated as such, but when it IS treated as such, men specifically often get blamed even though I’ve heard everyone from all groups say slurs and be sexist and stuff like that. Maybe you just have … | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?Kindness can be appreciated, rudeness ought to be ignored. You too | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?Also, I wanna take a minute to appreciate the fact that you saw my username and didn’t call me fat and ugly even though I very much am, so ty for being respectful even though you didn’t owe it to me. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?You might have to scroll through this subreddit a little more. Most of the posts here do address men’s issues and offer solutions to help fix them. Posting this here out of all places was my best bet because the vast majority of reddit dismisses this sub as nothing more than an incel empire and I can’t really just walk up to other people and randomly bust out my frustrations lol Also, I’m not a grown manchild and neither are most of the ones who have discussions here. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?They’re not necessarily my friends I’d like to add that what you say doesn’t define you, what you DO does. Like, someone can act like the most polite person ever but still weasel their way in and wind up doing something horrible, and conversely, someone can act rude or unpleasant but can still be capable of doing good things. If the good outweighs the bad, and vice versa, isn’t that what matters the most? | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 11:16 PM |
| 8 | Abuse is AbuseTbh she probably would’ve come for his ass even if he was being super kind. Those kinds of people are just pieces of shit for no reason. Hope he’s ok | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?Thank you for acknowledging my point btw | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?True | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?I’m a straight female | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 10:54 PM |
| 2 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?Well, that’s kind of a rape threat. Those are never good. But if it’s just a threat, then it’s just a threat? People make murder and suicide threats casually, they don’t have to mean anything. That’s how I see it I’ve also heard some women say stuff like “if he f-words me I’m gonna say he raped me” and I’m hoping you take that kind of thing seriously too. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?Uh…you kinda just answered your own question there. Sexist, racist etc jokes aren’t really anything worth getting offended over because a lot of it is just banter between people who find humor in shock value. As for “one thing leads to another” maybe making one crude joke can contribute to an offensive joke bomb tirade, but it doesn’t directly defend the real bad stuff. I’ve overheard trash talk between guys who all engage in making sexist or racist remarks, but from what I’ve seen, they know th… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 02:17 PM |
| 2 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?Not really, but rape jokes and racist jokes aren’t on the same level as actual rape and racism. I guess the latter depends more on how you define racism. I wouldn’t encourage making a racist or rapey joke, but if someone did, then they did | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?What’s so disgusting about it? I think we just have different priorities. If someone saying “bitch” bothers you, that’s fine, but not everyone else cares that much | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 02:23 AM |
| 4 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?True. I also don’t think that “make me a sandwich” is a particularly offensive remark lol, it just points to traditional gender roles (which I don’t think are bad either as long as both sides are happy and get equal benefits) | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 02:36 PM |
| 2 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?True! | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 02:23 PM |
| 4 | So what really is the problem with men being irreverent?I’m female Where did I say that I didn’t care about people being raped or killed or beaten? I used those things as comparisons. Saying offensive stuff and actually being a rapist or a murderer are not comparable. Offensive jokes definitely aren’t the reason why rapists or murderers exist. I’ve seen plenty of guys say things that you might consider offensive, but out of all of them, I’ve never met a single one who actually thinks rape or murder is funny With the way things are going in the dating… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 02:21 PM |
| 4 | I didn't know it was this bad for menThanks for being here! | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 02:25 AM |
| 3 | What’s the hardest thing about being a man?Facts | /r/MensRights | 26/01/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What’s one question you’ve always wanted to ask a female?Definitely seems like some kind of collective indoctrination. Like you see all these female youtubers with female audiences spewing misandrist bull and just straight up lying, so the media influence isn't really helping | /r/MensRights | 24/01/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?True, women being taught "men bad" "fear all men" "men are this men are that" means that men and women are having a hard time simply getting along with each other, which sucks a lot | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 11:29 PM |
| 6 | I feel stuckJust wanna say that I'm glad you're here <3 | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?I guess it might make you look like you're asking for physical advances, so yeah I see where you're coming from I think that catcalling or making suggestive or inappropriate jokes is definitely less harmful than actually assaulting somebody, so I don't see a reason to be afraid if that's where harassment ends. Some probably fear that catcalling can escalate, which I understand, but if somebody's just saying stuff to you it's best that you just try not to let it bother you | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 11:11 PM |
| -1 | How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women?Well, dressing provocatively doesn't necessarily lead to being sexually assaulted. If a girl decides to walk around with her boobs out and expects to not get stared at, she's kind of an idiot, but that isn't really a justification for SA and stuff considering a lot of people who've had that happen to them didn't do anything to "provoke" it I'm not assuming that you're going to SA somebody though. I agree with your other points | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Horrific Misandric "Entertainment"The fact that people need to be rewarded to compel themselves to give a shit about men dying (or possibly dying thanks to these misandrist cults) is stupid and fucked up. I bet if a bunch of men made a video like this with a woman nobody would rest until they got them behind bars until hell froze over | /r/MensRights | 26/12/24 08:02 PM |
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