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The guy’s getting under your skin and you’re letting it affect you and that’s not good. They sound like really small micro aggressions, basically the guy’s giving you a little shit. Is it really worth it to say something? Does it really hurt you that badly that he makes some random little comments that may not even be directed at you? I don’t think it is. Maybe the guy’s jealous of you, or you offended him in some way, or he’s an annoying fuck but the reason doesn’t matter, just ignore him. Don’…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:31 PM
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I’m in my experience, being “red pilled” has made me a more genuine, caring, kind person. Because I’m looking out for myself and doing only what is best for me, any kind act I do towards others has no ulterior motive, so it’s more genuine and a lot better. I disagree with a lot of people on this sub that hold onto anger and mistrust and act as if they’re fighting against others to get what they want. I’m still fighting for what I want, but the only obstacles are myself and nature, so I don’t hav…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 05:06 PM
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Yeah, there’s a lot of naive people all over the world that believe in an invisible magic man that somehow affects our afterlife. I’m not trying to be insulting I’m just calling it for what it is.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 04:21 AM
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Fair enough, I guess I don’t see any difference between your experiences and the “miraculous” spiritual experiences people have with any other belief that isn’t Christian, and it’s hard to take Christianity (or any religion based on really old books and “miracles”) seriously at face value
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:01 AM
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You believe in a man that could walk on water, resurrect the dead, a literal son of God? I have no way of knowing what comes after death but you can’t convince me anyone else has a clue either
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:39 AM
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I have two very similar stories. Was at a Halloween party this last year, my friend had invited a friend of his I hadn’t met before, she was ok looking, like a 5.5/10 lol. We got fairly drunk, I was downstairs in the basement by myself with her and some other chick, had both of them kissing me and letting me touch their tits and stuff til the other chick got nervous and left. Friend’s friend and I kept making out, found a room there in the basement and I fucked her. Only problem is that it was t…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:25 PM
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The way I look at it, is that I’ll settle down once I find the right woman for me. Takes a lot of time and patience and there’s no point in rushing it, neither in giving up. The best part of finding the right one is that you get to have a lot of fun and sex while you find her.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:33 PM
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It takes practice. Start with girls you’re not too interested in or are already showing interest in you. Don’t worry about the stumbles and the fuck ups, you’ll definitely have some but get better and more confident the more you put yourself out there and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:31 PM
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Nah, just keep practicing until you get better. It gets easier the more you do it. The true core of RP and what works is very simple: have a purpose, love yourself, go for what you want. Everything else is just fluff and if you truly love yourself and work on being the best person you can be, your confidence will grow along with it. You don’t need anything memorized once it becomes natural like u/pleasenodrugs is saying.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:30 PM
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You are because you’re worried about the outcome. You’re hoping there’s a “correct” way to deal with it when there isn’t a formula or steps to follow. The “correct” way of handling it it’s to laugh it off, tease her back. Don’t think of the specifics
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:38 PM
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I fucking laugh. Lol, are you seriously overthinking a girl playfully touching you and teasing you? My god, man. Relax, stop overthinking shit, have fun and tease her back. If you don’t get anything done with this girl that’s initiating all this touching and teasing you fucking blew it.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:14 PM
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If you just want to hook up tell her that, be honest. What’s the point of leading her on? If you tell her that and she still chooses to meet with you, she’s made her choice and you have nothing to worry about. If she wants a relationship, get sex somewhere else. No point in hurting her feelings
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:05 PM
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Dude, honestly shut the fuck up and get out of here with that mindset. I’m 5’5, I need braces, I’m starting to lose my hair. I still get matches on Tinder. It’s a fucking numbers game and you might not get as many matches as pretty boy Chad over there but you will. But you fucked yourself over already with that mindset. If you’re not getting laid as a 6’4 dude who lifts weights or whatever I have no sympathy for you. Swipe on the chicks you like, appreciate the matches you get, meet them and fuc…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:57 PM
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A lot of great comments about recovery, injury prevention, etc. I wanted to point out that it’s not your fault you got injured, bro. Your body failed you and you’re working hard at recovery, so don’t feel down on yourself. If you’re truly working on recovery and doing things correctly have hope in yourself and be confident and happy in that you’re committed to recovery. You’re still showing drive and purpose and dedication and that’s the true meaning of being alpha, not just how big you look
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:42 AM
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You win some, you lose some. Your actions should reflect your beliefs and purpose, you shouldn’t snap a “fun” story to get a reaction from her or anyone, you should just have fun and if you feel like sharing it on social media, go for it.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:30 PM
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I stopped worrying about my height because a) there’s absolutely nothing I can do to change it. b) there’s nothing I can do to convince a woman to be attracted to me if my height is a turn-off. c) by not actively trying to overcompensate or let it bother me I actually end up attracting more girls anyways. I’ve attracted lots of girls taller than me and I’m sure a number of girls who initially wrote me off because “they don’t like short guys”. So much of it is in the mind, it’s like if I got writ…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:39 PM
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Ding ding ding. I’m 5’5 on a good day, fairly athletic and attractive but I’m not a model. I fuck a lot of girls, and whenever I go through dry spells or find myself having a hard time attracting and maintaining chicks around me, the biggest detriment is hands down my mindset. Once I’m back to having good frame and purpose I see chicks showing interest again. My looks and status have a lot less to do with it.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:01 AM
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People focus on school, work, get deep into a relationship, go through personal shit where they may want to be alone or not around you, maybe they got offended by something dumb, there are lots of reasons why. One thing I’ve learned the older I get is that it’s hard to make friends and stay involved in their lives. I notice this happen to almost everyone so it’s easier to swallow, plus puts things into perspective when you end up being the one to drift away.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:54 AM
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You’re not committed to either, you can fuck anyone you want
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:40 PM
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Could be, but there’s for example a lot of music like Lil Peep, $uicideboy$, etc, or books or movies that deal with suicide as a theme. What’s the context of her posts? Is it referencing suicide in a dark, melancholic artistic kind of way, or is she straight up referring to her own personal life? I listen to a lot of $uicideboy$ and as a writer myself I write some pretty dark shit sometimes, but in no way am I actually suicidal, it’s just that sometimes that’s where inspiration takes me to write…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:00 PM
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I did ask if she still interested in me She just texted me “are you still coming with me tomorrow or are you just not going to talk to me” She’s losing interest and catching on to the fact that you’re losing frame. You went from acting cool and natural, to needy and affectionate, back to overcompensating. At this point she knows you’re acting cold as a reaction to her, not because that’s your true mindset. Be cool and nice to her, but focus on you. Don’t spend so much time with her, limit your d…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:41 PM
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Walk away because it’s the right thing to do in this situation for you, not for her benefit only. Do you want to be with someone who hides things from you? Regardless of the reasons as to why she did it, the only move you should do is soft next her. Love yourself, stay on your purpose, be the prize. Most likely this will make her chase you but if you’re doing it just to create attention and attraction it’s not gonna work. Walk away with the mindset of “this girl is hiding stuff from me and I don…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:28 PM
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Oh it was 😏 Lol what do you want her to respond to that!? Agree again? Lol it’s been 3 days dude. She’s totally down to fuck again, just wait a few days until you’re free and text her to meet up.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:10 AM
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I really like what u/aegeaorgnqergerh said in another comment here, I’m posting my own comment rather than under him for more visibility and because this is another part of the puzzle, at least IMO. You’re trying too hard, and naturally anything they offer will seem inferior or less than what you’re giving. Ask yourself, do your friends try just as hard as you do? Like your example of rolling joints, do they even go out of their way like that not just for you, but for each other? I know it’s eas…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:03 AM
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If someone acts very disrespectful to me, something I do is just give them an amused, confused look, like arch an eyebrow and just look them up and down with a smirk like saying to yourself “seriously?”, then give a little laugh and walk away. If someone is rude or disrespectful, it’s completely beneath you. Treat them like an annoying child and just walk away. That’s enough action to tell them that they’re disrespectful, you’re above that and you don’t accept it or want it in your life. Any rea…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:51 PM
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I think that’s the wrong move. As I explained in another comment I always ask people to repeat or clarify themselves. Have literally never had a bad response to it. People won’t judge you for not hearing or understanding something if you admit to it and ask them to try again. They’ll appreciate the effort.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:13 PM
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So I get easily distracted, have a hard time concentrating, might even be a little deaf, idk. Anyways I have a hard time understanding people sometimes. It’s totally cool to ask people to repeat themselves. Sometimes I even have to ask them a couple times. It helps to make eye contact and go back and forth between staring at their eyes and mouths as they talk. If you feel a little self-conscious make a little joke out of it. “I’m deaf as fuck, can you repeat that?” With a little smile, something…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:09 PM
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Personally I don’t mind this is happening. For one, the competition is killing itself making me and any RP guy way more valuable. Secondly, it weeds out immature and manipulative chicks like this one. There’s a ton of women out there that will respond better and act accordingly. No one should want to be with a girl like this one anyways.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:36 PM
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Hey man, this girl sounds like a dumbass and there’s a lot of negativity in this sub (disagree with me if you want but just take a look at all these comments) and a lot of shitty girls, but lots of good girls too. This last couple of weeks I’ve been on a ton of dates with different girls and it made me realize while there are annoying chicks there are also a lot of cool ones, especially if you have an abundance mindset, are focused on your purpose and try not to care too much about the date. The…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:32 PM
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Yeah, imo it’s a risk of playing the game, like getting hurt playing a sport. That’s why it’s so important to wear a condom and screen the girl before you fuck, but the chances of you catching something are still there especially if you’re fucking a lot of girls which hopefully is the case if you’re into sex lol. I don’t consider myself a super Red Pill Mr. Chadman, but I’ve hooked up with an amount of girls and caught chlamydia once. It sucked and I had to take medication and from that moment o…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:23 AM
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You’re so right, thanks!
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:21 PM
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Yeah pretty much, but I didn’t exactly make a conscious decision, it’s more like looking back and seeing my mistakes it’s obvious I didn’t follow some fundamentals. Read the other comment I made going into detail, I lost frame and lost a bunch of shit tests. Some RP stuff I had an easier time doing while in the relationship, some I lost track off. It’s almost cringey to read what I wrote because my mistakes seem obvious, but at the time it’s not as obvious. Anyways, big lesson learned is that I …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:18 PM
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Sounds about right. Crazy how quickly it fell apart, easy come easy go. She was telling me she was in love with me after about the second week, breakup happened just as suddenly. Damn. I thought I was doing ok too. Holding frame is hard as hell!
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:17 AM
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Nice breakdown, thanks. Glad to get a perspective on it, like everyone else has said time to move on and get better.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:14 AM
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I swear I’m not adding or taking anything away from this, it’s as true and complete as it gets: She came over to hang out at my place, she was in a kinda bad mood, making a lot of negative comments while I tried to make conversation but I just ignored it or laughed it off. We hung out for a bit, had sex, then went out to hit up a bar she wanted to check out. On the way there she was again being negative, and while trying to find parking I pointed out some free street parking (she was driving) an…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:55 AM
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So I did go on a trip, ended up turning into a whole fiasco lol. Should have prepared way better. Got my car stuck on the way to the campsite, got lost, and I tore off a piece of rubber lining under the front bumper. Complete failure but I am gonna do it again!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 02:38 AM
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Thanks for this post, I’ve been unable to deal with some emotions lately and I didn’t think about disconnecting and letting the beast out. I love to go camping, but I always do it alone. This weekend I may go by myself just to fuck around, meditate and hopefully sort stuff out in my brain.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 01:01 PM
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Go back and read your post and realize what a badass you are. You’re a freaking catch, my dude. She was lucky to have you and other girls will he lining up to take her place.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:54 AM
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She’s a grown woman who made her decision consciously. She knew what she was doing. She felt no remorse until you broke up with her. Do you feel bad for criminals that got caught and are now in prison? Think of it that way, she fucked up, by choice, this is the consequence. She’s probably gonna regret it, she’s gonna come back when she does, and you gotta stay in frame and not let that regret fool you.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:50 AM
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I second this, OP. Time is the only thing that will make it hurt less. You are doing all the right things, you did all the right things. I know it’s hard right now but just try to rationalize it and you’ll understand you’re not the issue at all. You didn’t fuck up, she’s dumb and selfish and gave you up and now she’s gonna have to live with that her entire life. I promise you sooner or later you’ll see things as they really are and that’s when the pain will leave. As for her, seeing things as th…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:12 AM
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