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The issue with the dating view in this sub is that it’s based almost exclusively on the early dating phase: because a lot of the men here have never been in a relationship at all that lasted more than a few dates. Slept with over 40 women. Had over a dozen LTRs, some lasting 2 years. Married for 7. Three kids. Not the neckbeard basement dweller you'd make all men posting here out to be. That’s why you can’t just go get another person if you really like someone: another person won’t be them. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:31 PM
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I'm not married to that person. Why should I average my paycheck with her? When the child is with me, I use my resources. When the child is with her, she uses her resources. I thought women were strong, independent, and didn't men now, so why would a woman need some of a man's money to be a good parent? If she wants more resources for her kid(s), then simple. Earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:15 AM
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One marriage. One divorce. One and done. Married life was by far the worst years of my life. Any "family memories" (which are nice) are greatly overshadowed by stress, conflict and just being miserable the entire time. I see pictures in the albums, but the memories behind those shots are far from pleasant. Our cameras show people what we want them to see. Now I can't even imagine having a girlfriend, or even attempting to start a relationship. Red Pill for life. I'd rather spend time in nature w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:23 AM
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Let's just say I won't enact the unpaid emotional labor. ;-) Lots of posts about the poor, tired housewife who's lost her libido. Lots of posts about why it's the man causing the sexless marriage in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:01 PM
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No. Men have no innate value. They must "become something" to be wanted, and valued, and even then, they can be met with scorn and derision. A man can become a pillar of the community, and support his family and others, but if he's 5'9" and bald he still must know his place. Another man can be a career loser, but he earns a place in society simply because he's desired for his genetics. But, be it providing of resources and being socially revered, or have genetic resources that women want, he has…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:14 PM
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You are 100% valid if you feel you’re not getting a reasonable amount of physical intimacy from your spouse at all over months at a time Not according to what I am reading in this thread in general. What I am reading is that her reasons are her own, he's probably cause, and he's a bastard for even dare mention it less complain about it. These are all blue pill problems with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:59 PM
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We know we know. There's always a reason and it's almost always his fault. Many men will confess the reason they got married was for the regular sex. That's the last reason why a man should get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:58 PM
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Yes, let's do that shall we: "Ok, now lets get to the intimacy and sex portion of the pre-nup. I have laid out the basic framework for identifying the needs of each person and what remedies one person has if the type and amount of intimacy is deemed to be lacking..." Yeah, women be signing that. LOL. And men too: "If you get fat, or I'm mad at you, or I just don't find you attractive anymore, I get to shut down the bedroom or just fuck other dudes." If you are thinking these sorts of things need…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:21 PM
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They don't need a reason. Anyone who even suggests a reason might be required for not consenting to sex is a rapist or, at least, a rape apologist. C'mon you're talking to a feminist here. Use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:15 PM
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It's wealth redistribution to control the number of single mothers on welfare. The children absolutely do NOT need the same level of "lifestyle" in each home. They should get the lifestyle each parent affords them after their basic needs are met.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:53 PM
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Excuses for celibacy doesn't eliminate the celibacy. You're proving the point. Women come up with "reason" for sexless marriages. Okay, she doesn't like sex anymore and that's fine. I think he should cheat. Divorce is too expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:49 PM
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No sex = celibacy. It has nothing to do with who is doing what chores. These marriages where the woman does everything and the man does nothing are really only common situations for the select few women who post here...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:39 AM
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If you can’t imagine tolerating a person when they are not interested in sex for a while because of issues they can’t immediately control, don’t marry them. Well, sometimes "for a while" is "for the rest of our lives". I agree with your last paragraph. Honestly, I just think the entire concept of marriage is dumb. A relationship with laws, scripture, courts, governments, churches, lawyers... LOLOL. How about no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:39 AM
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Sounds like you'd be okay with one partner saying: "Whelp, I really don't need or want sex anymore, but you'd better keep them vows bucko."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:05 AM
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Men generally are okay with MONOGAMY right until the point it becomes CELIBACY. Monogamy should only be expected when both people have their sexual needs met. If she doesn't want sex, no problem. She doesn't have to have it. But, forcing her husband to become a born-again virgin is bullshit, and he should cheat. In a perfect world, that would invalidate the marriage vows anyways and put the marriage into default.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:45 PM
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I’d say if knowing you’re cheating would hurt your wife, you’re doing something that you know would be painful. This is a person who is not even remotely considering that another person in the relationship has sexual needs. A person like this absolutely deserves to get the same ignorant treatment in return. "Gee, I don't want sex and he has to not want it either because too bad we're married." Yeah. He should just cheat. The interesting part is that women ALWAYS only see one person being ignoran…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:41 PM
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Right because women who think turning monogamy into celibacy because they want to and "oh well fuck the other person" will never go sideways. Eyeroll.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:39 PM
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Deciding that a person wants to be asexual and turning monogamy into celibacy for the other person I think justifies cheating 110%. The choices for men: a) Become a monk b) Get ruined in divorce. oh wait (c) get a side piece and let the wife play candy crush in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:37 PM
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And if they get 50/50 there is no child support. Not exactly. In Canada child support is based on type of custody and relative incomes of each parent. I have 50% custody and pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:34 PM
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It's called cost-benefit and risk-management analysis. Sadly, something men have to do and do carefully when dealing with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:32 PM
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...says the gender who doesn't lose everything but instead gets cash and prizes for blowing up the family and leaving... LOLOLOLOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:32 PM
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Project manager chiming in - this sounds more of what we'd call a supply chain issue. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:22 PM
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They eat hot chip too apparently...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:01 PM
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These days, about two minutes into my shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:00 PM
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I'm older now. I'm in my early 50's. Well put together, decent shape, dress nice, good career, house paid off, average/decent face. Lots of great things going for me 10 years after the big divorce. And I'm starting to get occasional (and increasing) interest from women my age and in their forties (more the latter actually). There seems to be a lot of newly divorced 40-something women, often single mothers with older kids, looking for "decent, nice stable men". And I can't run from these women fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:57 PM
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Western women are going to bitch and moan about anything that might interfere with their cornered market. I remember the outrage I caused when I let people know at one point I didn't prefer Caucasian women (being one Caucasian myself) and preferred dating Asian and East Indian women. And the more outrage it caused, the more fun it was. Karens make me laugh. And laaaaaugh and laaaaaugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:51 PM
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Following a feeling to a specific end is not irrational or illogical. Ignoring specific things, denying facts, denying reality or doing things which have very limited or no chance of success is irrational or illogical. "It is, because I feel it" is part of the reason we have such an influx of political views that are strongly based in "feelings over facts".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:46 PM
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Your eyes do not a statistic make. People generally fall within certain SMV and RMV categories. Havin a good RMV qualities (status, material wealth, social participation, personality) can add a point or so, but most people date within their SMV. When there are large disparities and "one can do better" there is usually a reason the perceived higher value person is dating down, or there are unseen qualities that allow the perceived lower status partner to date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:38 PM
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There is only one reason why men are smart to avoid women too high up the social ladder. He is simply too easily replaced. RMV disparity is very very dangerous for relationship outcomes. When people can do better, they often go out and do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:35 AM
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How does this relate to dating? People spend more money when they’re single. Woa woa hold on now. Single and looking? Single and desperate? MAYBE. Single and LOVING IT? They say married men "earn more than I do". I say married men spend 10X what I do. My "impress the ladies" budget or "keep one around expenses" are zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:17 AM
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So, you just wrote four painfully long paragraphs outlining your keen sense of money management and fiscal accountability and how much relationships can cost... But you don't care about how much she makes. Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:26 AM
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Beta Bux means he leveraged provisioning against his relatively lower RMV in a transactional relationship. Him using provisioning as leverage is like a woman using promiscuity as leverage. It gives the other party too much power in the dynamic. It's a very very bad strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:21 AM
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I don't care if you made mud pies before you got the medical degree. Most people who have dinky degrees don't go on to get a MBA or become doctors. You're an outlier, and you offering this as some kind of reassurance for a man to take on a gender studies grad with 100K in student loan debt is, well, intellectually dishonest, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:06 PM
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Believe no victims. Collect evidence and follow due process. #womenarehuman #humanslie #fuckfeminism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:46 PM
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Agree that it's bad. Don't beta bux Brad, you'll regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:43 PM
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They both believe that women are selfish, fickle, hypergamous children. No, toddlers. Children I can train with enough patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:42 PM
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Soft, simping, supplicating "nice guys" are wimpy and they feel threatened in the presence of real masculinity, so they just call the guy an asshole. They are also parroting what women say about the same men. Her: He's an asshole! (because he won't do what she wants and can't be manipulated.) Brad: Yeah, he's an asshole! (because he intimidates poor Brad and gets all the girls) Also Brad: I'll never be an asshole and be super nice to you and never say no to you! Her: Brad, you'll make a great gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:38 PM
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None. The number of men who are going to get a surrogate, inseminate her, and raise a kid alone are so far and few between they're practically a mathematical rounding error. If you want a real game changer, get a proper birth control measure for men that does not require self-mutilation or abstinence, which is not really birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:34 PM
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Because Cypher would rather eat fake yummy steak than the beige goop on the creaky space ship before being eaten by a huge metallic octopus?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:29 PM
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As long as she can support herself, then I don't care how much she makes. Which is to say, you care about how much she makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:22 PM
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Fuck yes. Date no. Relationship, hell no. This would also go for women with humanities degrees (gender studies, etc.) and $100K in student loan debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:20 PM
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Oh no you're not one of these vagina connoisseurs who thinks that the only "pretty" vagina looks like that of a Japanese school girl in size and shape resulting in young women with normal parts getting labia reduction surgery because of what is commonly idealized in modern-day porn? And if you are, how do you feel about not being a real man because you're not wielding a BBC? Playing Devil's advocate here. 😏 Interesting. Women don't send us men labia pics... Maybe they should start.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:20 PM
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Most bar-room sob stories sound like "She's nagging the shit out of me, everything I do is wrong, and I get her back in the bedroom." That's where I say "Dude, that's how many relationships go." And when I get home I jerk off and sleep like a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:48 PM
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My longest relationship was 12 years and i still had sex 2-4 times per month in the last year, which as just about as much as i wanted in that relationship Weekly sex? Not bad for an LTR. Some nice "Saturday night after the BBQ slappa slappa after the kids go to bed..." Twice a month? Getting slim for a lot of guys. Monthly obligation/ovulation sex? Mmmm.... most guys might dislike that. In fact, once you get to once per month or less many sources online start to call that a sexless marriage. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:47 PM
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If you're basing your view of "libidos change" on the narrow range of change you gave as an example then yes that makes sense. But most people are talking about going from sex 1-2 times a week dropping to a handful of times of month to then a handful of times a year. This is the bright red that makes you purple. 😏 Maybe you're just going over to the dark side. 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:45 PM
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Virgin? (I'm setting up a joke here - honest...)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:43 PM
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I'm in an older cohort. Trust me. Her interest in sex will wane. If you friends are pre-kids it's an entirely different discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:46 PM
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If that guy was me, I'd tell them that we were the last 101 people alive, and that it was up to us to repopulate the earth. Please, form a line and no pushing okay? 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:09 AM
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I don't hate women, but to me they're just like men (who I am not sexually interested in) with a pretty glaring sense of entitlement and a basic lack of accountability. Strong and independent one minute, and completely lacking agency the next, depending on the situation and which speaking point they are addressing. Lots of hypocrisy. But as for me disliking women, I generally do not. I don't want anything to do with women in a romantic context. I had a mother. I have daughter. I have a couple fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:02 AM
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I know - I have to make my own sandwiches now. It's fucking depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:55 AM
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BUYING WOMEN? Oh Lord no. If it flies, floats or fucks, it's much better to rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:50 AM
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Dayam, Brah you should have just negged her hard and been all like stoic and shit. Dayam.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:49 AM
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I don't call murder of women and children on one side genocide and "oh well" when it happens to the other, like you do. Blind loyalty? Perhaps not. Blind ignorance? Oh yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:39 AM
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No but anti-Semites are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:38 AM
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I'm so hot I can't read this because my monitor melted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:37 AM
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If men came to this world just to fuck hot bitches why the hell we build rockets to travel to other planets? To see if there is bitches out there? Yes. Didn't read the rest. The answer is Yes. Horny nymphomaniac blind bitches that get wet for the smell of neckbeards and IT guys in running shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:02 AM
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Hey no fucking until two hours after eating!! Oh wait. That's SWIMMING. I think a lot of people are dead because of me...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:01 AM
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Oh please. They wrote a book about a narcissistic super-kinky rich business guy named Christian Grey which is nothing more than mind porn for women and it sold 150 million copies. Each gender has something they get hot for. For men, it's a skunky mucous-lined hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:00 AM
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If a pussy was just by itself crawling around you'd shoot it then light it on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:58 AM
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Jeremy Meeks, is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:57 AM
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Funny thing. I actually identify as an asexual/autosexual. You can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:48 AM
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Seems to me a lot of people other than Palestinians are being "genocided" right now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:47 AM
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Who's stirring up the shit right now. Just saying. Was someone holding a sickle to Putin's head? How about Iran and Iraq funding the Hamas? What's China doing in all of this? Nobody would defend US Foreign policy - nobody with a brain - but c'mon. Watch the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:36 AM
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A few months of minor inconveniences heh? I'll let the fry cooks and gamers of the world run with that. When you're all growed up, I'll explain what the supply chain crisis alone did to peoples lives and health.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:35 AM
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I meant straight passport bro not gay passport bro. So I guess that means when I was trying to imagine myself as a gay dude I was really imagining myself as a RACIST gay dude. Fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:10 AM
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This sounds so 80's. Women don't give ugly guys chances anymore. They don't need to. Even average looking dudes who don't have "all that to offer" feel largely invisible. Men need to be in good physical shape now, especially if they are using OLD. Women on OLD just provide head shots when they're overweight. Or they use a couple "older full body shots of how thin I COULD be" and newer pics that are face shots only. Or they crop it so it cuts out 2/3rds of each bingo wing. Very clever. Use the Ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:07 AM
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WW3. This ain't the old Manosphere Decline. This decline is much faster, and much nastier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:02 PM
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How about health-selective abortion. Screen for genetic / hereditary disease or defect and flush the bad ones. Eugenics or good parenting? I mean gender-selective is bad but I've heard feminists tell friends at gender reveal parties to abort it because it's male. So yeah, protesting what amounts to prenatal infanticide isn't really my thing. (I'm just one of those privileged rapey asshole men nobody needs anymore.) A lof of feminists say that uborn babies are just "clumps of cells" which amount …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:59 PM
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Well, I was thinking of becoming a "passport bro" and going over there. It would be nice to have a BWC for a while...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:56 PM
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I made you six sandwiches and there is a booger in one of them. I call it "Neckbeard Roulette".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:55 PM
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Ok, I don't mind the shock collar but that fucking mask makes it hard to breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:54 PM
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I have no libido and I am not sharing my food. Or ammunition. Or water. Trading might be possible... if all goes well. Then again, people think I'm nuts for having some food, water and ammo at the ready. I don't know why. Lots of my buddies are doing this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:53 PM
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That there are bad actors in the world right now joining forces behind the scenes and making plans to expand their power base globally while idiot children shitpost on Reddit and worry about Tik Toks? Yeah, it's all just mentally ill fantasy. Maybe watch the news... China. Russia. Middle east. People making friends and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:51 PM
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You mean ACTUAL rape culture and not less-attractive men asking women out for coffee, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:49 PM
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If shit goes down, my career path is suddenly going to be "war criminal".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:48 PM
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Do you have data on how prevalent those dog treat relationships are? There is no way of getting reliable data because like House MD says, everybody lies. All couples are happy, getting along and fucking like rabbits. So, yeah. Any data I would not trust anyways. If you meet a guy who's in a relationship and stressing about it, there is a 98% chance one of the problems (or side effects) of the underlying problem is that his sex life is now something he shares with his stronger hand in the shower.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:46 PM
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You mean like lying to people and saying "injections stop spread" when they don't? While they allowed international travel and temporary foreign workers to come and go while OPENLY evading hotel quarantine stays and exams when they returned? And how every last outbreak (here anyways) was a direct result of returning travelers? This while they arrest people in isolated communities for attending mass together? You mean like saying "we're all in this together" while I can't visit my parents across …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:42 PM
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Meh. Reddit and Redditors can take "ThE sCiEnCe" and shove it up their leftist authoritarian assholes. Their science is political science and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:26 PM
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I can make any woman come. It's getting her to GO... that's the trick. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:24 PM
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If things go the way they might go, it's not "exploiting thirsty men" that will be on women's minds. It will be survival, food, shelter, and not getting raped or killed. But hey, I'd rather have your fantasy than what actually might happen. But, having no libido I won't be cooking any meals. Might develop a taste for cat stew though... You'd be surprised what people have eaten to survive in wartime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:30 PM
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Whelp, many people believe we're watching the rise of another WW2 era "axis powers" with Russia, China, Iraq, Iran and other bad actors getting fired up in the presence of senile (Biden) and weak (Trudeau) leaders in the West. WW3 could soon be upon us. Might not be the panacea for "gender relations" though, since we'll be facing drones and robotic killing machines, and AI trying to access missile silos containing nukes. Imagine "Terminator" being a prophetic warning as opposed to just a scary s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:28 PM
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Soldier? LOL. He'll be programming drone bombs to fly through people's living room windows and flying them with VR goggles. From a computer in Beijing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:25 PM
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We'll bring them all to North America with mass immigration. Indian and Chinese dudes clean up on OLD. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:18 PM
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Women don't want these men anyways. Relax. Some dude in a rice field or loading chips into a machine that will weld them onto circuit boards... they're not in demand anyways. These guys live in a 200 square foot concrete box and ride a bicycle to the factory for a 12 hour workday. Not exactly a woman's first choice in a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:16 PM
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Feminists: ABORTION IS GOOD. Okay, but we're going to abort more girls than boys... Feminists. WAIT WHAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:14 PM
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Well, given that most feminists are dyed-in-the wool leftists who align with communism, socialism and even Marxism, maybe China is where they belong...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:14 PM
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Naw. This is the effects of communism and totalitarianism. The misogyny is just icing on that particular cake. Well, it's a big cake of shit, but you get my drift.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:13 PM
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Or just whip something up in a lab that, I dunno, only kills mostly old people. Good thing THAT can never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:10 PM
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Drone bombs won't discriminate based on gender or age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:08 PM
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Wait I thought 2 was poo and 3 was pee... Okay, I think I've revised it correctly. Thank you for your attention to this matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:06 PM
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I was more referring the Catholic church, but hey, Sharia Law has it's points.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:46 PM
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Pretend you have one and I'll shake a paw...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:45 PM
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Men want love and a committed romantic relationship, and a lot of them want to have lots of casual sex as well. Really? I think a lot of guys would be happy to have a committed romantic relationship with open sexual intimacy - but not where sex is used by her as some fucking dog treat for "appropriate behavior". Good boy! Here's your monthly treat! Fuck. That. Shit. I don't blame men at all today for thinking casual sex is a good alternative. The hoops Average Brad needs to jump through for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:13 PM
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Be attractive Don't be unattractive Everything else is a bonus Being an asshole works when you're good looking because it's very hard to differentiate between "confidence bordering on arrogance" and "just an asshole". Why do women get repelled by nice guys? Because nice guys are being nice to compensate for the fact they have nothing else going on. "Well, I don't do anything that women find attractive so maybe I can just be really nice." Yeah don't do that. That won't work. It actually has the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:11 PM
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Then think of it as a release like going to the washroom. You have #1 and #2 just make masturbation this #3. I think "I need a #3" and get it done. Enjoy the post-nut clarity and a better nights sleep. It's also way better on weed because weed is a vasodilator - the same effect it has on the veins in your eyes it has on the main vein. Having a balanced life is key. Hobbies, interests, exercise, being in nature - hell - even having a good dog and going on little adventures. Figuring out how to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:03 PM
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I stopped going to church when feminism and rainbow flags crept under the door. Being part of a church community used to be of benefit to men. If you want to hear blue-pill 'kiss-womens-asses' sermons telling men to "man up and listen to their wives" and watch women elbow their husbands with a sneering grin... Yeah I don't have time for that shit. Even priests are simps now. And if you're against whoring, infidelity, and sexual freedom don't be a friend with feminism or any church that aligns wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:56 PM
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The "church" is going to differentiate between a penis, a finger and a turkey baster? Some church.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:34 PM
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It's always been that way. They bitch and complain that "men" treat them like shit but it's really high-value men with options who do that. Men who would be more reasonable are not attractive to them, and attraction is not negotiable. And so, it goes. And what do they say? "Lesser men would treat us just as bad." Sounds like a type of rationalization Red Pill calls mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:30 PM
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Actually... If she has no V she's gotta take it in the A. Sorry, little fella's gotta go somewhere - else what's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:13 AM
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Okay I really want to google this now. THANKS for yet another thing I won't be able to unsee.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:12 AM
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OP said no penis. They didn't say he couldn't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:11 AM
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No, the equipment is only for your pleasure. The necessary equipment is functional testes and viable sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:10 AM
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Women are biologically wired to reject 90% of men. Without these men, the consequences for them are interesting. If only "10% men" existed, then most women would be underqualified for these men and get worse treatment then they already do. I wonder how low women would go when sharing high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:15 AM
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Well, nobody technically deserves to get cheated on, so that's besides the point. This "made up position of a traditional / Red Pill" woman is just that. A big dry combustible straw man. If a woman stays at home and is a homemaker, that has incredible value. Just ask any "strong independent woman" who is moaning about child care costs what basic value it has. A man and woman should give themselves freely to their partners, sexually. Today's view of sex is that it's something women have, and some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:56 PM
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YES. Only because leaving makes men destitute while we give women cash and prizes for it. DUH. It doesn't mean men are "bad" it means their choice suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:28 PM
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Redpill is no cult. There is no playbook to follow. There are no steps. ^This. If anything it's best described as a collection of men's lived experiences and a guide as to what works and what does NOT WORK when it comes to dating, mating, sex love and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:03 PM
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First off all, BULLSHIT. Women cheat on their partners and stay all the time. Second, men only stay because of the threat of divorce and severe financial outcomes and risks to seeing their own kids. Women ARE NOT MORE NOBLE than men are when it comes to infidelity. Society just makes it EASIER for women to cheat and not look like cheating whores when they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:01 PM
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It's a collection of truths. Mens lived experiences. Allow me - Red Pill agrees: - Don't stick your dick in crazy. - Don't be a "nice guy". - Don't be too sloppy approaching women at work. - Know the repercussions of approaching women in public. - Know that campus is a #metoo hell-hole and conduct yourself accordingly. - Realize that all men are not born equal and women see men differently (AF/BB). - Know the ways relationships are transactional. - Know what she truly finds attractive and why. -…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:55 PM
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Many men who end up in a sexless marriage are in a state of crisis and if they can't afford to leave (most can't) many probably just cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:31 PM
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Red pill only works on women with low self-esteem. It's why the first step is trying to cause low self-esteem by negging. You know the "Steps of Red Pill"? Like it's a twelve step program or something?! LOL. There are no steps. Red Pill doesn't promote negging - you're thinking of PUA which is a subset of the manosphere. Newbs to Red Pill / Red Pill subs think Red Pill = PUA, and there is no point debating further until that person figures out what Red Pill is actually saying. As for Red Pill, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:31 AM
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Yeah #metoo. That's what has me down in the dumps today. Guys with oddly shaped dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:43 AM
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RP is not trying to get elected LOL. I think all RP wants is for ONE WOMAN to say: "Yeah, you got points. Lots of men are having these lived experiences." We know they won't. But trying is just so much fun. What matters is that men are thinking, given the New Rules of the game and asking themselves if they want relationships at all, and if not, whether a life of drinking, video games and masturbation going to be fulfilling and doing what women want. The choices blue pill gives men are "have purp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:35 PM
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I hope you feel better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:28 PM
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Well yeah. Men see relationships as a necessary pain in the ass to get regular sex. Whether they'll admit it or not. "Dude you're bitter - I'm in it for the companionship and someone to confide in and share my life with." I'm like "And... you'd be there if you got ALL THAT but sex was off the table..." "Sure." Interestingly, lots of guys doing "all that" for "regular sex" are getting obligation/period sex one per month. Tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:27 PM
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Sure it will. She's growing up to ask questions, trust her judgement, and call people out on their shit. She swears a bit, but I am more concerned with her speaking the truth than speaking in flowery words. She comes to me when she's in trouble (except that one time) and that's all I care about. Her trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:16 PM
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be the kind of man that those women do choose. That's what you said.And many men can and will take that bullshit blue-pill advice of yours knowing FULL WELL women vet on physical things you are lucky enough to be born with or not. Here's one. "Hey, statistically women don't go for the Asian or Indian men as much - even Asian and Indian women. Better work on that whole being Asian or Indian thing..."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:25 PM
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When I was a kid (sorry, gotta use a bad word here) the "mean kids" called everybody FAG. Hey, Brad YOU FAG. Hey, Chris, YOU BIG FAG. Hey everybody John is a BIG FAG. And "woman". They called guys woman. "Stop being such a woman." We had the best misogyny back then. We could even be misogynistic when calling GUYS bad names. I mean, being called a "woman" was worse than being called an "ass" or even "gay". Mom they're calling me names again! "Fag?" "No - WOMAN!!!" Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:21 PM
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So, you mean get taller, get a better looking face, make serious bank and stretch your dick. Working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:18 PM
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multidating. Red Pill called it "spinning plates". But multidating sound so much more 2024. Well done. WELL DONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:17 PM
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Women are happier in relationships. They complain like hell about their partners, endlessly. But when they are single and there are "no good men left" (lol) it hurts the fucking ears. I think this whole "married men are better off" comes with some wicked-ass fine print. Married men who are in functional marriages with few problems and little drama might be better off, and that's if she's a career woman and not spending him into oblivion. How many marriages end up like that? Half end in divorce. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:16 PM
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Maybe the term "woman child" is simply implied...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:13 PM
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For women? Them being fucking weird or just straight up crazy. "Oh, I am Wiccan and need to keep my posture like this...See?" Holy fuck. "My ex-husband is going to live with me until my new house is built. Is that okay?" Wow. "I want to adopt multiple troubled teens - and the government gives subsidies for this. We'll need to get a lock for our bedroom and a safe for our expensive stuff.." Holy double fuck. She later said "Why didn't you call me back?" Um. Gee. I dunno. "I was honest about my ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:09 PM
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"Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." – Al Bundy r/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:01 PM
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Love, except maybe from mommy, is conditional. It is also transactional, if you count doing nice things, emotional labor and investment of non-tangible things that people still value. If she makes his favorite meal, gives him back rubs, buys him nice gifts, does nice things for his birthday... and he does none of that, this is not a synergistic relationship. Where effort is a commodity, all relationships are innately transactional and therefor conditional. And yeah, becoming a drug addict who li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:01 PM
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deliberate dehumanising terms That's a subjective appraisal of the word usage in this case. We talk about "human female mating strategies" all the time. Read up on Parental Investment Theory and Dual Mating Strategy/Conundrum. These are things. Then again, some people don't want to talk about the fact humans are a mammalian species. Females do these things. Not all women do, because not all women are female. If anything, women today should be happy people still think that in some cases, only the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:56 PM
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Ever hear of monkey-branching? Vine swinging? People - women especially - tend to have Mr. Next in the works long before Mr. About to be Fired is actually fired. Married women can take 12 to even 18 months of planning her Relationship Next and having her "security" in place before getting rid of her current partner. So much for the Strong And Independent Woman. Sounds pretty dependent to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:43 PM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:30 PM
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Hey now. Don't be so shapist. There are short/fat ones out there. And long skinny pencil ones too. Not every guy has a perfectly proportioned porn dick!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:30 PM
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Yes. Yes they are. Feminists applaud women for being sexually liberated and embracing the entrepreneurial spirit and exploiting a system that would otherwise exploit them. Of course, the men who PATRONIZE O.F. are still cast as losers who are exploiting women. My own daughter just had a run in with "what you put online stays there forever" and it was a huge wakeup call for her. She said: "This could affect my future - my career even!" And I said: "Yeah, that's what your daddy was TRYING TO FUCKI…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:28 PM
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As a male of the species, I find the females ones to be over-sensitive. I think men that refer to woman as “females” shouldn’t be in relationships BTW. Men are not thats. Please don't use the wrong relative pronouns when speaking about men, because it dehumanizes us. How's that for a little Thursday morning irony! 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:12 PM
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There's still time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:53 AM
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We're speaking of the length of the apparatus in question, not width, my good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:17 AM
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Aw you're adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:36 PM
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When you’re with a white Amazon chick for a while you’ll start noticing petite Latina girls. Are we talking "fit in a suitcase" petite here? This conversation needs to end very right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:35 PM
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It did happen. There's a whore on every corner. My cousins bride was fucking the best man. His "best friend". Odd, he was in a lot of the camping pics in their slideshow! Every one, in fact! COINCIDENCE? I think not! You don't believe women can be cheating, lying whores, do you Mr. Blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:05 PM
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Yeah everybody always sucked. But serial cheaters =/= serial monogamists. We're ALL pretty much serial monogamists are we not? Who here is going to DIE IN AN OLD AGE HOME with the person they got tingles from in their 20's? Like zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:48 PM
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I used to be crazy about spinners. Now I find taller women with some meat on their bones catch my eye, and women from certain ethnic groups - but not Asians like before. Very odd. Then again, I'm pretty much an ace now, so it's all for not. Still fun to window shop and play the "would bang" game. Maybe flirt a little to see if I'm still recognizable as a human being. 🤣 Tay Tay. Va va voom baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:38 PM
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Give it more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:31 PM
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I don't want to hear men crying about not having rights that all women don't have too. Okay, and I don't want to hear about women who try to force men to be parents then end up alone and fighting for every dime of child support, if they get any at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:27 PM
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He had a say and he chose to share his DNA unless he was raped. She didn't consent to pregnancy any more or less than he did. Consent to sex =/= consent to have a child for women. Consent to sex = consent to have a child for men. She should have the right to keep/abort. She has 100% choice to keep or abort. He has 100% choice to stay or walk. And that includes financially. It's called abstaining from sexual activity that leads to children until you're ready for them. Ah, like women do right? LOL…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:18 PM
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Women are not the sexually assertive gender though. So, they get to sit around and wait for male attention to come to them, and then call all the unattractive guys creepy. There are other words for women when they behave badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:16 PM
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Should be "his DNA - he gets a say in reproduction. Consenting to sex is not consent to reproduce." We need a way to make sperm non-viable with non-surgical means that is enabled by the man. The world will be a better place when both parties consent to becoming parents. Women will deny this, duh. Oh, and if conception and conceiving is HER CHOICE so should he choice to parent alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:08 PM
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Oh, so a man's only choice it to mutilate his body because his partner is a liar. Gotcha. She can change his mind on a dime. He can't. Female privilege much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:01 PM
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Nobody does this. People say "male and female" or "men and women. Women call us males all the time and we DGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:00 PM
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That's a big thing around here and I don't know why. I use male/men and female/women interchangeably. Why is it so offensive. I mean, I get why Rainbow Flag Warriors find it offensive because their idiotic hill to die on is the definition of a woman or the idea you should never make such a definition in the first place. So, you'll take offense to calling a woman "a female". Are you offended by a dude with a dick calling himself a woman and beating the shit out of a woman in a boxing ring? I sugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:59 PM
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Doctor to Blonde: You're pregnant. Blonde: I wonder if it's mine...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:57 PM
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Man: I never want kids. Woman. #metoo Ten MoNtHs LaTeUr... Woman. I'm pregnant. Man: Okay, so abortion then? Woman. I'm keeping it. Yeah, lots of choice there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:56 PM
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Oh please. Like people will "always be good" or "always be crappy". Like, everyone who gets cheated on says: "Gee, it's my fault for getting with a crappy person." I'm no feminist, but I think they would call that victim blaming. If it happens to a woman, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:54 PM
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Ok ok FINE. We won't include cheaters in the convo then. We'll say for the sake of argument it's mono vs. poly. But my point kind of stands. Serial cheaters are not really mono, and serial monogamists are not really committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:50 PM
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Oh, so everybody you know mates for life like Orcas and elephants. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:49 PM
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I can hit a cervix. If's she 4-11". And man, that made me feel like a god. A teeny tiny little god.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:48 PM
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Check your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:38 PM
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What if it's common and we don't have to pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:09 PM
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My password is penis. The password is too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:07 PM
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Well, if dick pics NEVER EVER WORK and are just disgusting then why do so many men still do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:06 PM
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I think once a woman is rekt by a huge hog or a BBC there is no going back. The regular dills just don't cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:04 PM
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I think your perspective’s a little skewed here. Yep. I'm pretty much skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:19 PM
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Serial monogamy isn't really commitment. This "I'll stick around while the going is good" isn't commitment. It's something else. So, smart men just think "She's not yours, it's just your turn." Neighbors' common law (brought kid into relationship and then they had two more) - she ran off with a tattooed steroid monkey. So, yeah. They had a commitment. I knew the second I saw her she would be kicking him out of his house one day. I was wrong. He got a good lawyer. It's her car gone from the drive…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:12 PM
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I only call women those things when they are those things. Woman who fucks everyone - SLUT. Sexually Liberated Woman Women who fucks everyone but me - BITCH. Sexually Liberated Woman with standards. Woman who does sexual shit on OF and sells it to horny boys - WHORE. Empowered. Very simple definitions. Use the nice words if you want. I like words with some grit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:00 PM
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Fine, I really don't call anyone that. But, my point is that calling a man a "creep" or "socially inept" for the "crime" of being unattractive is no better than using those other words. We either call each-other hurtful words or we don't. Just because hurtful words are used against men, especially men we deem "sexually unfit", doesn't make it okay. For example, I fat shame all genders equally. Put down the fucking donuts. That goes for me as well. Sometimes, shame is what the doctor ordered. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:54 PM
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Body language. Eye fixation, movements. Pupil dilation. Saying yes when I said "We should do coffee sometime." I've never had a "we should do coffee sometime" end badly. And it gives her the chance to say "I have a BF" or "I'm not dating right now" or "I'm not into guys lol". Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:45 PM
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I call (some of) them thots, pick-me's and sluts. I guess that makes me socially inept. Ha. Ha. Ha. But in reality - "socially inept" is just a new way of saying creepy which is a new way of saying unattractive. C'mon people. Nothing new to see here. We all know how socially inept (or plain dangerous) the hawt guys can be and still have success. This has not changed, but only gotten worse, and now - they double down on the shaming of the men they reject. It's all projections and defense mechanis…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:40 PM
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I think if a man is digging in the weeds looking for subtle signs he's already lost the game. I'm pretty much as average as average gets and I can tell in a second the difference between "customer service smile" and "hey this guy is kind of interesting" smile. And there is NO DOUBT AT ALL when you (very occasionally) get the "oh yes I would" smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:54 AM
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Well, we have to duke it out now or we both look bad. Ok, you go first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:57 PM
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Nope. Red Pill points out 80% of men are practically invisible to women and 80% of women believe they are "all that" for men in the top 20%. That's why when women say "men are assholes" they are referring to 20% of the male population that they're all competing for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:48 PM
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I would never lie to you. Honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:59 PM
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Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:59 PM
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Well, I'm the most unhinged person in this thread. So that might explain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:57 PM
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Well, both sexes can suck but I am Red Pill, so women, wah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:56 PM
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I think reproductive success might not be very helpful with our younger cohort of disgruntled guys. Most of these young guys want sex. Not the part that comes after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:54 PM
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That's a good question. It depends on the definition of "sex service". If it means "accessing a woman's body directly" then no. If it's a "paid for sex service" because she's another form of "sex worker" then I suppose yes. Sorry, why does it matter. And what does the man being a virgin have to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:17 PM
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Blue Pill World doesn't like hard truths shoved in people's faces. She's fat has a nice personality. He's a nice guy nerd with zero sex appeal. She's a gal with fine taste gold digging bitch. We have no problem shaming the shit out of odd ducks like incels or MGTOW guys... ( men complaining about dating or women in general). But we're still not there yet where we can be 100% honest and open about male and female behavior. Look at how feminists have pushed women into thinking it's necessary to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:15 PM
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Reboot your AI please. Why is my pien in virginia.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:09 PM
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It's an assault on a frail ego. A man angry when he's victim to a gold digger is about him being a low-value man with money. (It's like a woman's anger when he politely says she's not his type and that type happens to be fat.) The anger is the tension between reality and his cognitive dissonance. Whenever I call out my brother on his shit, for example, he looks away and makes this really angry face. I fucking love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:07 PM
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You mean, SHE IS THE TABLE?!??! Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like Like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:05 PM
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Probably. Whether it's insecurity or narcissism it's the same. Narcissism is really maladaptation generally caused by insecurity at a very deep level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:02 PM
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Men often try to use resources as leverage in the mating arena. Yes, resources help, but when you use them to "cheat" (hit above your weight) in the mating arena, you've made the arrangement 100% transactional. And that transaction is: HE gets to be seen with her in public (and she needs to be seen with him). And, SHE takes all of his money. The man believes he's getting the short end of that stick, but then again we don't know how old, fat, balding or disgusting he is. Myself, I think they dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:00 PM
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All men pay for sex actually. (Even virgins - ask me how.) With the sex worker, it's just a much more specific contract. And when the sex is done, the payments stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:58 PM
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It's when you develop feelings, have no CLUE about reading a person, thrust your new idea onto them, and act surprised when it goes badly. If things heat up usually people start to sense it. And as a guy, I could always tell when she was interested. Curling up against someone on a couch and putting her cheek on your shoulder - yeah, my gal pals don't do that shit. The single and only time it happened, I knew right away. And it was a hard fucking no for me. I tried to be nice about it, but the fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:54 PM
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WHAT? This place is a beautiful tire fire with a wonderful orange glow and thick black plumes of toxic black smoke billowing up into the formerly blue sky. Oh wait, I'm jerking a circle here or something. Nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:48 PM
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Yes. Only because you said "can't be alone". I love being alone. The idea of someone being pissy about my habits, or always hounding me to do shit I'd rather not do, or all these compromises I'd have to make just to keep a partner around. Not to mention a partner who is assuredly not as miserly/frugal as I am - god the stress of THAT shit - and those horrible kitchen-table finance discussions with Mrs. Spendy Pants... That odd "I'm offended" look on the face of the person creating the problem...…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:38 PM
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I'd agree with you 10 or so years ago. But with Red Pill mainstream now (my sons in HS are totally pilled) there is no excuse for men who don't figure out how to play the game. It's a game. Play it. Getting attention, affection and love from a woman is going to take a shit-ton of work, more work than ever, for a lesser product than ever. Higher chance of being ghosted, cheated on, left, divorced or given a nice STD for Christmas. If you want to play, play well and play to win. Or, if you think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:36 PM
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Ah, I like this. This is honest. The "find a handsome bad boy and domesticate him" routine... that's a real thing. Then when it backfires, "men are such assholes". So, ALL MEN get the heat for the actions of the bad boys. Red Pill has this correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:18 PM
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Most guys here know trying to pick women up in bars is a big waste of time, money and energy. Picking up women in bars (for average men) took some work 30 years ago. That's when I was doing it. Now, I wouldn't waste my time. I don't know what young men should do now, actually, if they are not at least a Chadlite with a good mugshot for a dating site. Blue pill says "have friends, dress nice, be interesting" aka "be attractive and don't be unattractive". My sons are like "The game is rigged, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:11 PM
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Objectively yes since statistically men in relationships have a better average mental well being than single men. Fascinating. Begs the question: Are men mentally healthier because they're in relationships, or in relationships because they were mentally healthier in the first place. Also, with career success and finances. Same question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:08 PM
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My mother was a feelings nuclear reactor. A damaged one. My father tries to be stoic and use humor to deflect with near disastrous results. This clearly had an impact on me. I'm pretty Type A / OCD so my mental health is probably a matter of being a hypochondriac. But, I've been in therapy on and off for most of my adult life. So, that said, I'm pretty in touch with my emotions but one thing I can with absolute confidence. It's good for a man to have emotional intelligence, especially about hims…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:06 PM
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Like when men target younger women and succeed? Oh wait, that seems to be EVERYBODY's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:00 PM
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We did because it's an irrelevant anecdote. When RP here says "Women date and mate up and across social dominance hierarchies" BP says: "Women always date within their socioeconomic range." When RP says average dudes struggle to get a date with average women today BP says: "My basement dwelling cousin is dating a female neurosurgeon." So, yeah, there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:00 PM
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And her male counterpart Elon Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:57 PM
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I can't handle stimulants at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:20 AM
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Officially, when a woman gets into a relationship she's done man shopping for the time being. Unofficially, she is not. This is where many men fall into the "got me a woman" trap. No, no you don't. And like a computer, if you get too slow, she's going to upgrade that bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:06 AM
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Drugs and alcohol (for me anyways) just makes holing myself away from people all the more pleasurable. They make me LESS sociable, if that's even possible. When I drink, I drink alone and I LOVE IT. Dry for the past year, but let's see what the future holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:04 AM
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Right so why offer it as explanation as to why female STD rates are on the RISE. For something to rise, you need a change. What changed. Female promiscuity and less condom use. That's what changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:21 PM
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Agree. Bar =/= rave, concert, festival, or beach. Bars are shit holes where owners get wealthy selling alcohol at 5x what it's worth to lazy men who think sitting in a dimly lit place and getting drunk is a way to meet women. 70% or more are men and of the 30% of women there, 90% are taken, have boyfriends "who are at work", or are just not interested in any guy who is probably a career lounge lizard. I've spend a lot of time in bars and meeting women there is possible but if you do it randomly …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:19 PM
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So, in your infinite blue pill wisdom, women's bodies must have gotten somehow MORE SUCCEPTIBLE to STDs explaining the increase. Well that's one way to completely avoid the actual cause which is increased promiscuity and decreased use of condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:40 PM
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No, not largely. It's secondary and a symptom of the greater problem. Men are now seen as useless, irrelevant oppressor/predators who "had their turn", as if success in life is a zero sum game. This has men simply opting out of higher education, family life and what amounts to having a purpose. Men without a purpose are extremely unattractive to women who like "not money" but the indicators of success including ambition, purpose, drive, direction and all of the benefits of those things (socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:28 PM
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I've learned that some people are always going to be happy living out the script that society and their parents hands to them and no matter how big of a shit sandwich it turns out to be they can just say "Que Sera Sera, that's the way it goes." I've learned that some people are always going to have this instinctive knee-jerk reaction to anyone questioning the engrained and in-place social structures and institutions. The Blue Pill is strong here. And I've learned that some things are just better…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:14 AM
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So wait, children are a man's legacy, but for the woman, they're just a burden? Yes, this is what they teach young women these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:53 AM
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Some pretty weak man bashing you have going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:51 AM
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r/dustydryvagina
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:10 PM
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Actually, daycare (a good one) is good for children to build social skills, develop mentally and become more resilient. A working mom rocking a car seat under her desk while she pretends she can be CEO and mom at the same time is an over-rated mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:09 PM
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Well, there are two reasons men make more money. We work at harder/more dangerous jobs that pay better. We work more hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:08 PM
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Well, if he's doing that and not working at deadlines, or on site, or on his company, then she picked a deadbeat didn't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:06 PM
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Everything is a choice today and if you can't be the demisexual purple dinosaur you know you are then that's because society has not progressed as quickly as you have and you're stuck living in cave-man times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:11 PM
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The entire thing is wrapped in "Let me use words that hide my true nature from me. My nature is wonderful and benevolent and yours is creepy and predatory..." It's just another form of female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:01 PM
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What about women with kids who only want childless men? They're out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:55 AM
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Yes, if has money she'll stick around for all those other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:04 PM
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Women don't consciously think they view men as success objects. It's all about love and feelings - until it's not. Perfect example: Guy goes off to work in remote location for more money because she was unhappy with his previous income. She's now divorcing him because he was "not there for her". Yes, he was SOMEPLACE ELSE making more money for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:02 PM
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Meh. Women only value men for what they provide. I've seen it here right on PPD a thousand times. If he doesn't make her life better materially and socially then why have him around? Seen it in real life too - a man who was rejected by his own wife and daughters because he lost his high paying management job in the energy sector. Their reaction was one of the most disgusting things I ever heard. I recall thinking: "What a bunch of ungrateful little cunts..." But, I bit my lip.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:55 PM
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Basically I've said nothing of the sort. You're arguing against a strawman you've erected here. Whether the man wants a LTR, ONS, FWB or forever girlfriend (great option by the way) he'll do a lot better if he's confident, doesn't give a fuck, and knows he can have another "her" in a minute. And if she knows she's one or two major fuck ups from being punted, she might actually be half-assed reasonable. Never be trapped in a relationship where you've found some kind of "one" - who can do whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:15 PM
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You don't know how you're being viewed though, not by a man with any kind of game. OP said that men who think this way likely don't have a certain nervousness about any seriousness of the situation. It's not a job interview. It's not a court case. Half the people on the planet are female. Why would a confident man give a single fuck what one of these women think? 10? 100? You get rejected, you move to the next. It's not even personal, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:07 PM
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If the end-game of Red Pill is "men good women bad" then I'm glad I'm not that. Red Pill does realize that females winning the gender war and conquering the mating arena is good for human reproductive imperatives right? The incels are withering in their mother's basements writing angry screed about jaw angle while "Chad and Stacy" are making babies just like mother nature intended. Women's AF/BB dual mating strategy and sexual autonomy are all realized and men are now reduced to simping little b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:52 AM
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She should be happy she's so annoying that guys don't even want to fuck her? She's happy that's she's SO ANNOYING that guys would rather just rub one out. Do you have any idea just how annoying a woman has to be to result in this situation? DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA?? No, I do not believe you have any idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:31 AM
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Sticking one's dick in crazy is a mating strategy. The man gets to have sex with a woman he finds physically attractive who he probably wouldn't "qualify" to be with if she were less mentally ill. Think of it as "butterbrain" instead of "butterface".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:02 PM
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Yes, but Red Pill gives other options than simping. That's kind of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:01 PM
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I dunno. Are you going to shame her for it? Sounds like it. What if she wants to be a FWB? She can call it "complicated" or "situationship" to deal with any shame she experiences but at the end of the day the shame isn't necessary, despite it going on. Probably comes from other women. Men typically love sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:57 PM
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All of the "bad behavior" women complain that men do is ultimately rewarded with sex. If the behavior was NOT rewarded and women could actually be "sisters of solidarity" these men would never see a vagina that wasn't on a web page. Men do what works - men are pragmatic that way. "Stop being a brute and domineering and getting sex that way! We don't like it!" Successful Men: "Sorry, were you saying something? I'm too busy winning at the game of life here..." Just the simple method of saying no t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:17 PM
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People generally don't like hypocrites. Men only tolerate hypocritical women because they want to fuck them. So, it's good for women to be generally liked and not "pretend liked" just because they have a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:44 AM
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Mine was a critique. Nowhere do I dare suggest how a woman should act. She's going to do whatever the fuck she wants anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:41 AM
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Okay I'll bite. Do you believe their claim about jaw geometry is just some conspiracy theory? True or false. Women GENERALLY prefer a man with a defined jawline vs. a neckless wonder. Why Strong Jawlines Are Attractive To Both Men And Women | Justinboey Spoiler Alert Men prefer women with strong jawlines too. Like Olivia Wilde strong. Celebrate the JAW. https://evoke.ie/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/jeremy-meeks.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:37 AM
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To argue or to gawk at incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:22 AM
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Not sure. I'll let you know when I meet one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:19 AM
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Men with female-wired brains are very very unattractive to women. Women think this would be the ideal man... but in fact, he is the exact opposite. He's very agreeable and emotional, and very "lovey" but he folds like an accordion as soon as she starts with the fitness tests early on in the relationship. Bedroom goes dead soon thereafter, and our "modern day man" has no clue at all why it's happening - again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:18 AM
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You mean... women seeking out medical and STEM majors in university? Meh. Maybe. Women moreso wait at the finish line - they don't worry much about a man's potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:15 AM
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Women don't chase guys with a lot of money. They chase guys with purpose, drive, ambition, direction, confidence, social acumen, and a strong work ethic. It's just by pure coincidence that men who have all of those traits are guys with a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:07 AM
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Red Pill isn't saying women should stop being attracted to bad boys. Red Pill is saying women should just admit it and stop being hypocrites. And maybe less of conflating the shit behavior of bad boys with the behavior of all men. Women tend to love getting shit on by handsome men then oddly project that behavior onto the less attractive men they have contempt for. It's like narcissistic projection on steroids. Truly enlightened men just find the entire thing comical. Oh noes. Another woman post…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:05 AM
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If you're not looking and actively seeking out a partner, as a man, you'll die alone. If you ranked the worst blue pill slogans in order, this would be #2 right under "just be yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:58 AM
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On the subjectification of people: Women are sex objects? Okay, then men are success objects. I think the idea that other people are a means to an end is more of a female trait projected onto the other gender. Women collect people (relationships) to get things done. This is exploitative by nature. All of the accusations that men are only exploitative seems to be a subconscious projection by the exploiters themselves. "Women have strong social networks to get them through life's challenges. Men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:18 PM
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BE MORE ATTRACTIVE! DON'T BE UNATTRACTIVE! BE ENTERTAINING AND ENTERTAIN HER! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 Blue pills - might cause nausea. Do not drive after taking this medication. May cause dizziness and severe stomach upset. This medication can cause mood and personality changes and in some patients has shown to increase suicidality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:14 PM
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I don't disagree. In my own case, I've decided to not play that game under "play stupid games win stupid prizes" rule...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:12 AM
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Or maybe we just see love as the concept that it is, and that like anything else in life, the cost benefit analysis still should be done. Love is grand, but it's also a colossal pain in the ass to have another adult in your home and 10x worse when it's a fidgety woman who's never happy and can't sit still.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:49 AM
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He was testing to see if you could be a FWB who wasn't annoying and you failed the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:59 AM
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I have a few theories here. Young women with daddy issues. They didn't have a relationship with daddy, or one that was "not good". Following #2, the possibility of incestual abuse. Sometimes women are very mature for their age, old souls, and relate to older men better. Sometimes women are saphiophiles and find an older man's intelligence and experience highly attractive. Sometimes women just find a certain man attractive despite him being older. Sometimes it's somewhat healthy, and other times …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:10 PM
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They're lived experiences. How long have you distrusted men? Do you trust yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:45 PM
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Are you denying the lived experiences of other men? Must be some internalized misandry at work there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:22 PM
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Abandon ridiculous assumptions? Do you even Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:34 PM
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Q: Why do men die before their wives do? A: Because they want to...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:27 PM
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I suppose. My general experience with lounges and dive bars is a single guy can spend a shit-ton of time (and money) there and not have any luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:26 PM
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I am in a unicorn relationship with a wealthy man who intends to marry me and I also have a stable job and a prestigious Master degree. Nothing can touch me. Well, him cheating, or one of you getting hooked on cocaine or alcohol, or... cancer. Just saying. There are more ways to become miserable than just divorce... I do find it ironic that men who claim to support families, and marriage, and kids are going to revel in some kind of decline because that sounds more like a revenge fantasy than any…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:22 PM
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I agree about the forces you identity that shape personality. I disagree to the extent you believe a person's "locus of control" is external.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:25 PM
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Nope. They're probably AVERAGE. Average men struggle today. Below average men, they have no hope. Average women today get above average men. A man today needs to be the best at everything just to "qualify" for an ordinary woman. She has a degree. She has a "job that she loves". LOL. So fucking what? That's all she brings to the table? In most cases, yes. That's all she brings. Oh, and there are lots of social circles that are completely devoid of single women. And more yet that DO have single wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:23 PM
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Almost all shelters are women's shelters. Women leave men all the time whether he wants her to leave or not. Women also go BACK to abusive men even after family helps them move across town or even to a new city. My own cousin: Well, I only called him to tell him that I was in a new city and that I was done with him and didn't need him anymore. Two months later, he's punching her in the face again and we kind of gave up on her at that point. She got wet panties for abusive, dominant dangerous men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:18 PM
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Well, as a demi-sexual purple dinosaur, I think you're a total bigot. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:32 AM
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What is there to debate here? I've met women IRL then seen their profile online and then I had the "ah hah" moment. She thinks that image of her online taken from 8 feet above, with all manner of filters, is what she actually looks like. Of course, she does not - but only thinks she does. And nowhere in that online profile is any indication she weighs 165 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:42 PM
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So that is my question: do men "use" ugly women for a quick smash and properly date the pretty women going much slower with them? I think they do. Often. And this should be punished with fines and imprisonment!! LOL. The men women accept meals and entertainment from are not always the men they will sleep with. The women men will sleep with are not always the women they will date and have relationships with. People out there getting what they want from other people. It sucks, but it's how people …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:35 PM
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Therapy for average men who's approaches are largely unwelcome... We'll let them know they're doing it wrong. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:30 PM
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Making this personal won't help this discussion. I can count my friends on one hand, we visit less than ever, and I identify as an ace/aromantic. I'm just going by what I've seen single (straight) men in my peer group / workplace go through. And it's not pretty - I don't envy them one bit. If I was single and looking, I don't know what I'd do but with an "average at best" face like mine, apps are a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:29 PM
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Well, that may be true but we live in a feelings = facts or feelings > facts world now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:42 PM
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There is an entire wiki page dedicated to Japan's "grass eaters" - the Herbivore men. Not interested in corporate competition, the glorification of capitalism, and the quest for relationship and material success that is used as bait to get people working 80 hours a week to make CEO's and corporations rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:41 PM
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Go to a bar, have some drinks with your friends, chat up the people at the neighboring table. ...where the odds of there being a person you are attracted to being open to such interactions are about 1 in 10 million. I've been in these situations. People in small groups in "social houses" are there to be with each-other as a group activity. Mingling and meeting new people seems to be very rare these days. Pool tables in certain lounges can get people playing "doubles" but even that seems to be ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:38 PM
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In short, because 90% of chemistry just happens once a person decides the other is good looking or just passes the "would bang" test. I've watched people on first dates, in certain spots where these people tend to show up. (Specific coffee shops and mini golf for some damned reason). You can tell when she thinks he's handsome because she's hooked on his every word, hand in chin. The bullshit he's babbling would be boring her to tears if the physical attraction was not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:34 PM
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Many women today: "I don't want to be your bangmaid, mother or even forever girlfriend. I want an equal partner. We both work full time, we should split housekeeping and child raising tasks equally. If you're not mature or motivated enough for that, I'll happily remain single". Any guy calling himself a sensible man, Red Pill or not, will have no issue with this. If a man is bringing home $200K a year and wants a stay at home mom and she wants to be one, that's fine. And it's the exception to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:31 PM
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Could have been a foodie call...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:09 PM
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So, we have both pre-selection bias and DE-selection bias. Yep that adds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:09 PM
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I think Neo-Liberalism (bad) has metastasized into Neo-Marxism (terrible). And governments are using the Fundamentalist Church of Woke to trick people into thinking their policies are about "equity and fairness" when really they DGAF about that rather just get more power and line the pockets of themselves and their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:45 PM
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Canadian CITIZENS might be waking up. Justin Trudeau is still bringing 1M people here every year (most from India) and probably as many students with student Visas. Canada will not be turning away from record immigration numbers until Trudeau is finally de-throned in October 2025. What a long 600 days that is going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:43 PM
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Um, yes many groups are dismissing these issues and saying that men are just salty because they are "former oppressors with all of the wealth who are adjusting to a loss of unearned privilege". That surely will make disengaged men give more of a fuck about society. LOL. I've adapted 100% social disengagement myself. All the places I used to do volunteer work or contribute to I just send their e-mails to junk. After all, society needs no men now, and I am a man. Society can go fuck itself. My son…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:05 PM
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If women lead men in drug addiction, alcohol addiction, suicide rate and workplace death rate, there would be pussy-hat wearing women marching in every street. Talk to me about drama then. Of course the entitled, pampered gender makes light of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:57 PM
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I don't fear abuse when it comes to a domineering woman controlling my freedom. I fear loss of my freedom. I don't rely on a woman for resources, so I don't have to risk the downsides of having one around. In any case, women are "strong and independent" now and "need no man". It's a mute point. She's abused? She can leave. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:56 PM
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Sure, if you only look at their pay cheques and not net income including child support and social welfare benefits. I thought women >>>> men now? And don't need men? So why are strong-independent-need-no-man single mothers so broke-ass? Maybe they should take STEM majors instead of gender studies? Who can say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:53 PM
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You think 50% of infrastructure design, construction and maintenance people are women today? Do you know what those words mean, or what those jobs entail? It might be 5%, not 50%. That's what is hilarious here. C'mon ladies. Let's start filling up the "real jobs gap". Hilarious = society can run without men and women and AI can handle it. Better start building some AI equipped robots fast, ladies. Oh wait, you need men for that too. Whups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:50 PM
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Well, yes. The Carbon Panic and Draconian tax attacks on oil and gas is going to disproportionately impact the poor and those in developing countries. So if that's what you mean by climate refugees, then I guess I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:48 PM
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All of the young newcomers to our office are highly educated, motivated, hard working and every bit as capable and dedicated as I was as a Gen X. But, these young men face new challenges. They have to be as "beautiful" as women are physically, and the cost of things like home ownership has gone through the roof. Some guys, like guys from India and China, are not exactly the first picks when it comes to online dating either. It's really to put young men down today and put young women on a pedesta…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:47 PM
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Well, for now anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:09 PM
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Maybe. For a lot of men, they seem to think their partners clitoris is an on switch and her body is a warm sack they can masturbate into. As a self-proclaimed asexual / volcel, I find the thought of the sex act to be rather alien, and quite repulsive really. I would not sleep with anyone without a full STD panel disclosure condoms or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:08 PM
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I don't get why men are so hung up on this. Those guys were there for her fun days. Beta men are not those guys. The Beta men think her just talking them makes them "on par" with her former Alpha fuck boys. IT does not. The men qualifying for fuck time are simply not the same men qualifying to compete for a relationship position. It's the male ego causes this distortion of thought. Women have different men for different reasons. Some are for playing, others are for paying. Red Pill says: Don't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:45 PM
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Prostitutes? ICK. I perused a few local listings and I would not fuck 98% of these overweight diseased pus bags even if someone paid ME. I don't know why more men don't just rub one out and think of the itch as an urge similar to the need to urinate or defecate. Get it done, satiate the need, clean up, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:43 PM
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Well they should be. Anyone who tells me they can't afford a down payment on a house who just spend $50K on a one-night party needs their head examined.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:41 PM
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The Red Pill "don't stick it in crazy" really applies more today than ever. She wanted me to commit, but knowing that she gave away sex so freely in her past, but with me she’s demanding commitment for it, for an older, less sexual, more traumatized version of her, I just couldn’t commit. Yes, the old "jump through hoops for the lower value version of me because I know what I'm worth." Yeah, the guys handing out the commitment decide what she's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:09 PM
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No, not really. Women seem have this "resume" of life experiences they feel are somehow critical to human existence that are lost on me. The entire travel thing - being a tourist in foreign tourist traps and BnBs... - makes no sense. You ask about the historical significance or real meat-and-potatoes aspects of the places culture and it's lost on them. They're posting those terrible perspective selfie-shots of their legs and photos of their lavish meals. How cultured of them. To most women, I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:06 PM
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Well, women lack the desire to work with "things" rather than "people". So, the idea women will just up and take on the automation of our largely false reality called society is pretty unlikely. So long as there are thirsty men keeping lights on and interwebs online women will be entitled and feeling they "don't need no man". Men make it possible for women to need no man. They'll never acknowledge that, because male thirst makes that possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:46 PM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:44 PM
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Yes, we all know that 80% of divorces are initiated by women and 100% of those are the man's fault. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:44 PM
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What about men who can get laid but have more going on in life than spending all manner of time, money and energy just to get their penis inside of some unholy muck hole...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:41 PM
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I know exactly zero men my age (middle age) who are at home playing video games and wacking off today. Many young men are skipping the "get a career, get married, get kids, get divorced" game and I applaud Red Pill making this "play stupid games win stupid prizes" reality mainstream for young men. If my boys skip the whole mess and do what they want in life, I'm pretty happy if they're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:33 PM
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How about working 70 hours a week in a factory, manufacturing job, oil rig, mine or in the utilities industries? Working outside when it's -30 outside. Driving on insanely treacherous roads, and insanely dangerous working conditions. And as for war... "Women are the primary victims of war" - Hilary Clinton. That's right Hilary, if you step over all the bodies of the dead men, women are the primary victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:31 PM
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Hey, women are turning to alcohol more, getting heart disease more, and dying earlier. I think it's wonderful women are leaning in, doing the stressful shit and reducing the cancer gap, heart disease gap, and life expectancy gap. Gaps are bad, m'kay? LOLOLOLOL. Keep smashing that patriarchy ladies - that you're perpetrating more than men ever could BTW...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:28 PM
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Women are not keeping the systems running. They are using the systems and taking the people who keep them working for granted. The idea that women keep society running now is complete laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:23 PM
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... and then just divorce rape the guy, kick him out, and keep his income rolling in. Yeah, great deal for men THAT is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:22 PM
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Governments are not going to rely on the 1 in 1 million men who get a surrogate partner. Governments are going with mass immigration. Western people are breeding themselves out of existence. Quite honestly, this is probably a natural selection thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:21 PM
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Women today are told they are demigods deserving the absolute best of everything and everyone. Of course patently ordinary women believe they are "settling".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:20 PM
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Feminists, operating robots apparently. (Complete automation anyone?) Feminists don't science.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:18 PM
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LOL. Right, we have robots for paving roads, putting up electrical poles and towers, IT infrastructure, sanitation and drainage, energy/oil/gas extraction and distribution - the entire false word of convenience and comfort that is given to people BY MEN every single day is now carried out by feminists operating robots. I laugh at women's strikes. If men went on strike, the lights would go out and your phone would stop working.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:17 PM
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Answer to all of the above: male thirst. Men with clearly put up with any level of bullshit imaginable for relationships easier access to regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:15 PM
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When women (and feminists) stop complaining about how oppressed they are, then maybe men will follow their lead and be silent on men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:13 PM
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Exactly. Bust a nut in the shower and get on with life. Women's demands are laughable and insane. If you can set up a FWB or forever-girlfriend deal, then great. Just don't get her pregnant and don't put a ring on it. It's not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:13 PM
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I am not using logic here, just fact. The government is importing citizens to keep up their dwindling voters base. They need numbers to justify their spending as well. Of course, this drives down wages for entry level positions and also puts additional strain on services already over-loaded. I don't deny the problems with mass immigration with no restraints. I am just pointing out that the leftist governments who promote these policies do not bear the negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:11 PM
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Psychology today is a comic book.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:07 PM
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Wait, I thought you blue pillers were all about "strong and independent" women who "don't need no man". So Red Pill was right then. You don't want the man, you just want his money. Thanks for clearing that up. You know, most men today don't want a financially dependent woman around spending all of his money and then proceed to complain about the privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:05 PM
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Well, if Not All Women Are Like That, then it should stand to reason that Not All Men Are Like That, but for some reason there is NAWALT but not NAMALT. Could be sexism I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:49 AM
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Literally most relationships today seem to start with hookups and literally everything I say isn't literally more true just because I preface it with the word literally. And I mean that literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:46 AM
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Yes. This. Facts, when it comes to women, can very often be 100% based on feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:44 AM
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I'm sorry I raised my voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:40 AM
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Women's wealth is largely irrelevant to men. You need to get the "men and women are the same and want the same things" idea out of your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:39 PM
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Yeah... maybe. A little. A cute gal from the trailer park does not have high social status just because lots of guys in the trailer park want to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:37 PM
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that just proves women prefer partners with more money. doesn’t show any type of evidence that men are going for women completely outside of their socioeconomic range for marriage. LOLOLOL. Women don't marry outside their "socioeconomic range". They just get wet for guys with more money. Thanks for clearing that up with such an impressive display of mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:34 PM
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I said EXCEPT promiscuity shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:32 PM
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Gonna need a source for that fantastic claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:31 PM
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so men are anti-community and anti helping helpless children? lol for what reason would men not want to help children? Ah, so there is the socialist in every living woman. Just crank out the babies with who-the-fuck-ever and it's up to "ALL THE GOOD MEN" and "THE VILLAGE" to GAF about "helpless children". What about their "strong and independent" mothers? LOL. Wow. This is EXACTLY why men need Red Pill. This sort of jaw-dropping entitlement. i've known many men who have loved helping children by…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:29 PM
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I don't know where such stats would be available but there are numerous studies, this being one of them. https://news.ubc.ca/2016/10/28/marrying-up-despite-more-education-women-still-choose-husbands-with-higher-incomes/#:\~:text=Surprisingly%2C%20even%20when%20couples%20have,less%20education%20than%20the%20husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:44 PM
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Nope. It's the male side of the "parental investment theory" coin for men. We don't want to invest in other men's offspring at all, typically. However, some men use this as leverage to get access to higher value women. I.e., a higher value women (typically better looking or thinner) will be more able to bring multiple kids along than a lower value woman will. So yes, the cost of kids is associated with this, but not the main factor. It's his disinterest in other men's kids / parental investment …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:43 PM
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False. Women are the choosier sex for a number of reasons other than the social constructs you have laid out. They carry babies to term and are largely responsible for child rearing especially in the first years of the child's life. This is where the dual mating conundrum actually comes from, and is the source of the AF/BB dichotomy. They, unlike men, seem to have impetus to be "genetically hypergamous" which is likely to compensate for what is typically their own genetic mediocracy. One good ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:47 PM
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Immigration has nothing to do with workers or the labor market. It has to do with western populations with lower-than-replacement birth rates. The governments need population growth to deal with economic inflation and a dwindling voter base. People who are not having kids because they are priced out of the "family" market will start voting more conservative, while newcomers who love social programs offered by liberal governments (selling votes) will vote accordingly. You're speaking about curing…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:42 PM
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Men do what? Hate being slut shamed? No, we hate being creep shamed. Or status shamed. Or potency shamed. Or height shamed. Basically, all other forms of shamed except promiscuity shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:31 PM
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It's about exploitative/opportunistic mating. If I'm willing to over-look things such as criminality just to improve my odds of getting someone I find physically attractive, then hey. I might do that. That's why Red Pill made the "Don't stick your dick in crazy." Why do men stick their dick in crazy? Because she's physically attractive to him to the extent he'll try to tolerate crazy. Then his dick (happy with crazy) and his mind (not happy with crazy) get into a confused state.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:30 PM
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I shadowed an alpha once (circumstantial friendship) and he easily fucked 30+ women in the year and a half I hung with him and half of them were in relationships. This shit is really real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:26 PM
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No, the lie is that it's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:24 PM
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Plus, no one likes to be slut shamed. No, women hate to be slut shamed. You can't slut shame a man, because it's a compliment. And, since women HATE being slut shamed, and still GET slut shamed, of COURSE women are going to massively under-report their involvement in casual sex. Asking a woman how much casual sex she has is like asking married men how happy they are. These people have a social incentive to lie their asses off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:23 PM
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Correct. But 90% of sex women have outside relationship or FWB arrangements is not considered by them to be casual sex. It's considered to be situationships with pretend boyfriends who are really just fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:21 PM
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MGTOW men said "The system has failed and society may well collapse". They were called "losers with some revenge fantasy". Now, more mainstream opinions are coming in from a vast number of other groups and sources which claim that if we're not going down quickly, then there are some major big cracks forming. Feminism is not the downfall of western civilization. Feminism really is just a bad side effect. Neo-Liberalism turned Neo-Marxism is what is going to cause the west to implode. Mass immigra…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:17 PM
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Well, sorting is only one aspect of hypergamy. There are two more aspects that make it a mostly female phenomenon Sorting Seeking higher status * Continuing to shop after establishing a relationship. * Men generally date across and down social dominance hierarchies and women generally date across and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:11 PM
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It has nothing to do with economic status and everything to do with having another man's kids running around. Women care about financial status of their partners and saying that men do is yet another example of female projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:58 PM
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Then you don't know the definition of hypergamy. Male version of hypergamy would be getting a new and better cow every month just because he can, even if the milk from the existing cow is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:57 PM
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WHAT? Men do not sort women into "beta provider / alpha lover" boxes. Men do not care about how much money a woman they are attracted to makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:20 PM
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It comes down to "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?" Most men, if being honest, would probably prefer a nice FWB who has her own apartment. Most men, if being honest, would admit the only reason they don't do this is they believe there is less competition with other men once she moves in. That, unfortunately, is not the case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:18 PM
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And they want to have babies but not be mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:15 PM
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Women today seem to still love the idea of a wedding, the idea of that "super special day that's all about her" and 2+ years of planning what amounts to a massive party for a narcissist staring in her very own" me show". Whether said woman will enjoy being a wife is another matter. In fact, calling a woman a wife might be hate speech now. So be careful. If I was dating a woman now, not wanting more kids myself, and she said she wanted to marry me (which changes nothing) and spend $50K to $75K to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:13 PM
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All in all, my big point is red pill ideology logically leads back to the support of traditionalism and patriarchy. That's a common leftist take. Anything criticizing anything, especially persons from Special Group Identity, is immediately going to be labelled "right wing" at least and more commonly these days "far right" or "alt-right". Some Red Pillers pine for the 1950's Stepford Wives scenario but most men today do not. The horses are out of the barn. Only a fringe minority of Red Pillers pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:09 PM
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We'll probably see all kinds of wars as men realize the only thing you can do when your social worth is zero is to fight back against those who have devalued you and simply die well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:50 PM
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