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Where was this posted? I want to go there and defend her and upvote the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:14 PM
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I'm in the middle of eating breakfast and just lost my appetite. Thanks to med school, I've been able to eat through fucking anything. I have eaten meals while studying videos of surgeries, powerpoints with photos of dissected cadavers, pictures of pus infected wounds. But this is so fucking revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:24 PM
7

Meanwhile for women the worst rejections include criminal stalking where the police get involved, or just straight up murder. But talking about this is misandry amirite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:19 PM
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I am fascinated by true crime. It's not out of disrespect. Please don't lump all true crime fans in with the disrespectful fans you've witnessed. I'll go through phases where I will binge watch true crime because it's just so goddam fascinating, but I have to take breaks after a day or so because it gets too depressing. For me, the fascination comes from the feeling that there's just one detail or key piece of evidence that was overlooked, and that if someone can just figure it out and alert the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:01 PM
279

He wanted a teenager because teenagers aren’t evil just yet. He wanted a teenager because they're too naive to know better. He interprets agency + standing up for oneself as evil. These men just want to suck free empathy, compassion, and sex out of women. They feel so entitled to it that if they are refused it by a woman, they label her evil. That's why they HATE older women who know that women don't owe men jack shit. Teenagers are still basically children who don't know any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:48 PM
5

Nuts that they still want to be with him after seeing that he's still hung up over an ex from 11 years ago....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:37 PM
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I'm glad you found this sub too. Dating shitty men out out of pity emboldens them. See: all the stories of women who dated UGLY men who then went on to feel entitled to having a woman regardless of how shitty they are as partners. If you still feel the need to be charitable, don't waste it on men who will use it to mistreat innocent women. Give it to women or children who need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:37 PM
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He called me a narc without empathy Classic narc move. DARVO: "Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender." That, or projection (or maybe both.) I don't think you hoovered. You were hurt and you asked for closure which is perfectly natural and sane. A narc hoovers knowing they fucked up. They hoover to get the validation and attention/comfort/forgiveness they need to feel good about themselves. They don't hoover to truly repair the harm they did, nor do they hoover to learn from the person an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:27 PM
11

Being a WGTOW would help. Because you might have saved a man from going to prison for domestic violence/rape/murder. Wowee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:06 PM
15

Shay is wrong. We ARE taught. If we behave the way they want us to behave, we get used, taken advantage of, yelled at, assaulted, and sometimes killed. We're taught "boys will be boys." We're taught to just let them run wild and destroy human beings (usually women, often other men) or destroy society/the world (most CEOs whose corporations are destroying the environment are men, and most politicians who start wars are men.) Life teaches us that when we treat them kindly and give them the benefit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:58 PM
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I'm sad your friend got fucked up. But I hope she can realize that hte man she pines after emotionally CHEATED on his new bride the day of their wedding. He is NO prize. I hope your friend learns to love herself instead of trying to fill that void with men who just want a bandmaid-therapist-fleshlight in one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:04 PM
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For people who left (or were dumped) by narcissistic exes, these exes will reach back out to you and apologize for taking you for granted, tell you that you’re the love of their life, tell you they realized they were in the wrong, etc. But the second you get hoovered back in, they’ll start flipping their stance. And then they’ll go back to the same old abuse and begging. Seriously if you just go over to the narcissistic abuse subreddit you’ll see so many women post about this every day. Just don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:25 PM
1

You're right. Just another sign of classic male projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:00 AM
5

Interestingly enough I think this is the premise for books like “why men love b****es” and some of the books recommended by this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:54 AM
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Hah. This was 100% my ex, too. It's fucking nuts. The more nicely you treat them, the worse they treat you because they become MORE disgusted that you haven't already abandoned and dumped them, the way THEY would abandon someone who isn't useful to them. It's so fucking telling. It's so fucking disgusting. Each time you give them the benefit of the doubt, each time you go out of your way to help bring them up despite them never doing anything for you, the more they lose respect for you. It's fuc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:34 AM
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It's because men are able to date and stay with women they don't respect. It happens all. the. time. He probably resents her for making more than he does. He probably resents her for still loving him even though he doesn't love himself. He probably resents her for being able to STILL be considerate and accommodating even in the face of someone she doesn't stand to gain everything HE wants to extract out of or use other people for. It's misdirected resentment at himself. It always is with people …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:14 PM
1

"You're too emotional."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:05 PM
72

Oh look, a male golddigger, and a delusional woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:15 PM
2

Over on the askwomen subreddit, one of the specific examples they provide for the type of comment that counts as derailing is "Responding to comments to tell us how your dick feels. No one cares." Just think about how many times the mods had to read something like that before they decided "yeah we're going to specifically call that out for braindead people."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:50 AM
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If I put things too bluntly I’ll be dismissed outright as judging her rather than the man. I try to take very good care to not come off as judging my girlfriends. When I warn girlfriends about bad men, I usually blame the man. For example, "he's being a creep." or "it's completely inappropriate for him to be DMing you these things" or "if he really felt you were top priority, he would stop siding with his mother for one fucking second in his life." Or just straight up saying what the man SHOULD …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:18 PM
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It's not about others knowing you're right. It's about having the best interests of your friends in mind. When I realized my friends were in shitty relationships I felt I couldn't stay silent because do I want them to end up miserable for decades chained down to a shitty man they're madly in love with? No. My concern would be that in the same way a woman who has settled for a relationship robs herself of the opportunity of meeting a HVM, spending time with people you don't feel you can be comple…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:08 PM
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Even if they do take offense, that just goes to show how deeply they were indoctrinated. At least you tried. You're putting YOUR neck on the line to help THEM when you speak up. So they can get offended all they want. Know that you have everyone on this subreddit (and more) behind you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:59 PM
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Don’t take it as a sign of your self worth just because he didn’t know how to treat you properly. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:45 PM
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If a guy thinks of me less for asking him out - who cares We should - but not for the reasons you think. I understand your sentiment, but a lot of the comments here are recommending that we never ask a guy out because it can turn out badly for us. Some men will say yes when you ask them out and then proceed to think less of you, use your emotional investment as free therapy, string you along for sex, use you as a placeholder girlfriend, waste your time and future fake until something better come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:40 PM
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They're aware they aren't a catch. I'm not saying celebrities are HVM - there are plenty of scumbag celebrities that are abusive or misogynists. But do you think a famous, good looking, loaded and fit male celebrity would find a woman desperate for asking him out? No. But the average man who doesn't even shower every day - even if a gorgeous woman asked him out, yes, he'd find her desperate. Makes sense. Why would you go for that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:31 PM
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Probably thinks she has a thing for him because she treats him nicely and is considerate/respectful. Guessing he doesn't treat women nicely unless he's interested in them sexually. Just another way men tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:27 PM
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If only there was a way to not become a father if a man didn’t want to. Oh wait there is! Not nutting in girls! It’s SO easy, it only requires basic knowledge of sex ed that one learns in grade school! Most girls don’t cum from sex anyway so just live like the other side does for a while! It’s not like men get raped and end up being forced into parenthood on the same order of magnitude this happens to women worldwide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:51 PM
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Is part two out yet??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:51 PM
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Yeah this is physical abuse or assault. Time to file a police report. Then he’d be less likely to do it again to the next woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:42 PM
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Meanwhile my male friends who love their girlfriends are like “I hope I can make enough so that my girlfriend never has to work a day in her life”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:32 AM
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“Oh so you have dignity and a sense of self worth? No wonder you act different from the other women I meet who are still mind fucked and oppressed by years of misogyny!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:32 AM
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Trash friends took themselves out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:50 AM
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The "more logical/rational" sex, ladies and gentlemen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:07 PM
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Submissive, cooperative, and happy for whatever you throw at them? Ah so you're looking for either a broken dog, a person who doesn't think for themselves possibly out of prior trauma, or a person who has low self esteem and/or is desperate. A moment of silence for whatever girl he ends up marrying. Your friend handled it well, but I wish she would've laughed at him instead then blocked. In my experience, the type of man who follows Red Pill theory like this is deeply insecure inside, and often …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:20 PM
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What's wrong with it is that most men can't achieve it. When's the last time you met a man who does half the parenting and household duties? Unicorns are more common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:09 AM
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Classic projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:36 PM
10

An ounce of effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:52 PM
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Men: try to be stingy in their pursuit of sex by taking women on walk dates Women: go on walks alone and voluntarily clean up their community, making the world a better place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:21 AM
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Lmao. Well if that's the case, good thing men in general tend to hold more positions of power, because they're the more rational sex. Surely since the world has been in their capable hands for the past several thousand years, humanity wont slowly be slipping into dystopian society and environmental destruc - oh wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:45 PM
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Amazing! Men just stopped liking pubic hair in a matter of a single generation. Wondered what caused that, then. Maybe something in the global water supply?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:33 PM
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The "more rational" sex, ladies and gentlemen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:21 PM
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Men will fuck a couch. But yeah I guess children who refuse to get in a stranger's van are so fucking vain, thinking men want to fuck them? Get over yourself, toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:01 PM
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Oh yeah only beautiful models get harassed by men. Eyeroll. So it seems to me that whoever wrote that review basically admitted to: Being so dumb that they’re unaware that men have sexually assaulted and raped babies, children, elderly women, animals, AND corpses. Or They are aware of this, but still think that men only sexually “pursue” what looks good, sexually, meaning they agree that babies, children, dogs, and corpses look good sexually. Imagine being so stupid you either out your ignorance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:36 PM
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I guess all the old men who continued to love their wives as they both aged stopped being men because they’re no longer ViSuAl. Well if they’re not real men I’ll take whatever the hell gender they are. Upgrade! Also if they’re so visual it should only be a matter of time before they go extinct, right? As long as we keep our standards high, they should naturally just go after flawless sex dolls with no personality, warmth, or sentience because that satisfies their ViSuAl needs. And as long as the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:21 PM
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Only took 12 years for him to accept settling for that relationship! She settled years ago, it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:16 PM
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If by weird you mean toxic as hell and probably sociopathic, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:43 PM
18

Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:28 AM
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Wondering if they’re faking their incompetence. Men have taught each other to pretend to be incompetent at household chores until their wife gets fed up, and takes over doing it. Leaving the man free of the responsibility or expectation to contribute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:55 PM
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Please don’t tell guys they’re displaying red flags. They’ll just try harder to hide it from the next woman. They won’t do the right thing and actually better themselves by fixing the root causes of the red flags because that requires empathy, morality, and effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:35 PM
6

Goddamn male gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:17 AM
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And yet he’d prob lose his mind if we said “why bi guys? - generally better emotional intelligence - more open minded (no homophobes) - you know how when you fuck another dude in front of your guy and his ego is crushed, sending him into a violent and sometimes murderous rage even though he’s the more rational sex? Yeah doesn’t happen with a bi guy, he’s waiting to eat you out afterwards.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:11 AM
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Can I just say that your witty retort to his neg attempt was fucking amazing. Wish I could have been there to witness that in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:15 PM
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Let’s see how fast dudes will backpedal on forcing their kinks when their girl says she’s got a kink for CBT (cock and ball torture.) Oh, and that she’s interested in findom (financial domination).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:40 PM
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Is it something that bothers you and wouldn't cost him anything to fix? Yes. And yet, he just refuses to? RED FLAG. Do you REALLY want to be with somebody like that?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:02 PM
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Yeah if I were a parent I would encourage every girl to ask each other immediately just as a placeholder so that they can just say "Sorry, someone asked me already."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:43 PM
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I love bringing up this study that found that single, unmarried women are the happiest women. And that married women reported being less happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:23 PM
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“Criminal” is a good word. Because that’s what he did. Broke the law. Rape is a crime. He’s a criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:04 PM
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Same reasons corporations do it to workers. To keep them willing to put up with terrible treatment while extracting as much effort, time, and work as legally possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:17 AM
15

He’s not sorry. He’s just looking to blame others. Sounds like the typical person who doesn’t take responsibility. He SHOULD be fired. Patient confidentiality is important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:43 PM
17

And yet, pickmes exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:08 AM
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"most of you women don't even make 6 figures yourselves!" Glad you realized that the gender pay gap is a problem! So now that you're complaining about it, what are you going to do to fix it, men? Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:57 AM
15

If a landlord or employer doesn’t want you, what makes you think a vulnerable woman wants to risk her youth with you? Or risk being saddled with your baby?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:36 PM
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Huh, it’s almost like people (including men) don’t respect those who don’t respect themselves. Could it be that acting like you expect respect and don’t take bullshit actually causes people to...gasp...respect you?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:32 PM
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And yet when they don’t get hired immediately as a CEO for having a pulse and no other qualifications, they don’t cry about how THAT is systemic oppression or unfair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:12 AM
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Ah, projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:59 AM
7

Wow, that's a good point about the dog walking around freely. Yikes. Luckily my dog is so anxious about strangers that she wont even take high value treats from us if a delivery person is at the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:51 PM
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I understand. I don't mind asking people I know for help even if they're just acquaintances. I'll gladly ask employees to help me, too. But I am wary of asking strangers for help because even if they're women, they might be a ill-intended. Plenty of male criminals have used evil women or pick-mes as their accomplices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:48 PM
2

Thanks! Love heelers. They're beautiful dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:19 PM
1

Didn't know these existed... I'll look into this, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:19 PM
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So fucking absurd that even though men have an easier time gaining employment and are paid more than women, don't have to face sexism during the interview process or during employment, these useless pieces of shit would rather train a dog to take part in a scam than to just get a fucking job and contribute to society. I was about to post this then realized they might not have been highway thieves. They might have been rapists. Learning a shred of social skills and being a halfway decent human be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:44 PM
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Honest question because I often feel like having a dog with me is my best defense if I have to go anywhere alone. What kind of dog was it? I prefer the convenience of small to medium sized dogs, but I feel they wouldn't be a deterrent to dangerous men at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:41 PM
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Imagine having such a fragile ego even when life is easier for your entire sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:40 PM
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Yeah, you're torn, but I feel the only way we'll move forward into a world without misogyny is if every woman and man is aware of how prevalent violence and general mistreatment against women are. So that guy either knows (maybe because he's a HVM, or has daughters/sisters/etc, or just spends time informing himself of social injustices) and wont hold it against you. OR he doesn't know, and in that case, he's almost contributing to the problem. Remember this post yesterday? A male teacher on TikT…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:36 PM
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Every week it seems, there's an ask reddit thread about the scariest thing that happened to you. A recurring post is people driving along a desolate road and encountering either what looks like an accident (with people laying on the road seemingly knocked out, car doors open) or a driver in need (stuck on the side of the road.) Often the redditor will mention they had a bad gut feeling, so they'd keep driving. Then in their rear view mirror, see the "injured" people get up, sometimes jump into t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:21 PM
9

Crabs in a bucket mentality. When one crab gets too close to climbing out, the other crabs pull it back down out of stupidity. They don’t want to see him be a good husband because then they’ll have to face their own shitty behavior as a spouse. So they try to sabotage him instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:19 PM
7

Oh lord lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:13 AM
6

This is so terrible. I know you can't leave now, but I hope you'll be able to leave eventually. Saving up and planning might take years but this man doesn't deserve you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:03 AM
33

This is excellent. Either sexy friend Dave, or someone with a bigger penis than he has. Or someone who lasts longer. Or someone who is better at oral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:59 AM
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I offer to do anal on them first since usually both he and I don't want anything in our butts but he has the benefit of having a prostate, and I don't. They stop asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:59 AM
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Disgusting. I usually tell them, sure, but let's do you in the butt first. It's only fair. You don't want anything in your butt, and neither do I. But you have a prostate in there, and I have no pleasure center in there. So it's only fair we start with you first. That shuts it down real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:58 AM
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Two were self described red pills and called themselves alpha. Doesn't surprise me at all. Pretty sure the only men who follow red pill are super insecure inside and either hate themselves or have no self confidence. Never met a man who followed red pill who actually had true self confidence. They were all just hollow shells with severe insecurity or abandonment issues. Every time, they were men who struggled to get attention from women because of how shitty their personality and/or social skill…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:54 AM
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Lol @ feeling like 1 month is too long to wait to get what he wants. So pathetic it's laughable. Nearly every woman here has been waiting for over a decade for JUST ONE considerate dude to treat her with the same respect and consideration most girlfriends treat each other with naturally. Some have waited numerous decades. Yet this guy, after 1 month, gets frustrated to the point where he's observably resentful towards a woman for not wanting to drop her standards and have what would probably be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:07 PM
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And biologically females usually mate with a lot of males. But women get murdered for cheating. So what is it going to be? Either you say we’re all too dumb to disobey impulse and you give both sexes a free pass to cheat. Or you admit that only men get that free pass because they’re shit at controlling violent harmful impulses and are therefore the less rational sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:53 AM
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Oh dear. Sounds like they don’t know what projection is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:50 AM
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Did you know in a lion pride, it’s usually the lionesses that take down kills. But the make gets to eat first because he’s bigger? Solo males muscle their way into being the male of a pride (usually by violently driving off the existing male and killing all of the existing cubs to force the lionesses into estress.) NoT aLl MaLe LiOnS tHoUgH - yeah because the ones that never manage to take over a pride won’t be killing any cubs because they died alone. Even in the animal world, dick is abundant …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:57 AM
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Oh I see. Thanks! Happy it worked out for you but sad that it invited harassment. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:24 AM
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What’s CICO?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:50 AM
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Oh I guess old ladies who get raped are attractive. I guess men who get raped in prison are attractive. I guess whoever wrote this thinks that boys and girls, and infants who get molested are attractive (hey, their words, not mine! Whoever wrote this just outed themselves. Congratulations! I guess animals who get sexually assaulted are attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:10 PM
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Only so she doesn’t have to respond to idiots telling her that she’s sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:42 PM
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Same reason they see a woman way out of their league and talk about how she’s not good enough. You ever see men bashing the physical appearance of celebrities? You know, nitpicking at a woman wealthy enough to pay people to manage her money. Actresses who practice skin care. Who have probably paid more for hair care in her life than he’s paid in rent. Who actually clip their toe nails. Who bathe regularly. Who has spent more time in the gym in the last year than he ever will in his entire lifeti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:39 PM
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Gaslighting herself into thinking settling is ok cuz nobody else is going to tell her this shit. So she has to write it out herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:34 PM
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I hope she’s not lonely. She sounds like such a sweet generous person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:11 AM
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She should read all the names of men killed by men too. Then the reasons for the killings. Which sex is the more emotional one again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:02 PM
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Maybe when she’s 50 and a mother married to a terrible husband worrying about the world her daughter had to grow up in, she’ll think back to this and regret it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:59 PM
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Damn she must think racists and homophobes are correct as hell. They get criticized all the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:58 PM
8

I just realized I learned this at such a young age. Even as a teen I wasn’t into ripped dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:05 PM
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So are they going to follow up with an article about how the pick up artist community and red pill community are super misogynistic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:35 AM
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Guy tries to be controlling and see how far he can push her before she pushes back, probably in hopes she'll just submit like some kind of doormat pick-me. But it didn't work this time! Now he's back on the prowl for the next victim with low confidence that he can capture with easy meaningless attention/validation. Maybe if he can whittle down her spirit after a few years of love bombing, negging, and unfair demands, he can eventually tie her down with kids for that sweet sweet free therapy + ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:34 PM
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As if people love testicles which also naturally sag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:44 PM
2

Oh so when you give a cat a string immediately it’s somehow a happier cat? Oh so if heartbreak was what you had in store women should just give it up on the first date cuz heartbreak is inevitable? Does this guy realize how little sense his arguments make?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:58 PM
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Taking pick-meism to the extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:13 PM
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Yeah if a man asked me that I'd ask them "isn't it time for you to live up to the masculine ideals of the past and own a home, a car, and have a career that makes enough to support a whole family?" in hopes they'd realize how fucking stupid their question is. You want me to be like women in the 50s? Then set the example and live like you're a man in the 50s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:26 PM
8

When a parent is so incapable as an adult, they just let a child completely assume adult responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:01 PM
16

“Sounds like YOU don’t have time management skills, dude.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:11 AM
45

Bill him back and say "well my going rate for men is that they usually reimburse me for the time I spend with them, in the form of dates. Generally the men of my caliber who take me out spend about $50 a meal on me. Since you would like us to be fair, I'll gladly reimburse you $35 all the dates but will have to bill you at my usual rate of $50/meeting. If you're a reasonable man with a solid, steady income, I expect that this will be no issue and that you'll reimburse me. I think it's just fair,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:08 PM
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Lmao can’t help it cuz he’s taller. Damn I guess if you don’t have the mental or physical capacity to walk slower then uh, not sure you are developed enough to be dating. Usually really young minors (like babies learning how to walk) aren’t able to control their walking pace. I’m looking for a man who can at least do that, barring a good reason he truly can’t help like being disabled. I don’t want my future child being dragged across the ground when holding hands with her father because dad “cAn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:22 PM
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I've witnessed this a lot. Have had many male roommates who didn't wash their hands after peeing. These were my classmates in medical school, who are now currently doctors, so it's not like they didn't understand germ theory. EXCEPT it seems they didn't, because what bothered me about it even then wasn't that their dick/pee isn't clean, it's also that they have to touch the toilet handle (which everybody touches after they wipe after #2) to flush their pee. So touching the toilet handle without …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:37 AM
64

Yeah it's gotten to the point where I'm beginning to wonder if some of these posts are even real, or if it's just trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:25 AM
216

It's ridiculous how many relationship subs have weekly/regular posts about this, where women will post about how to talk to their man about his lack of toilet hygiene. It's really nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:43 AM
7

You say she’s strong and dominant but it sounds like she’s just abusive towards people regardless of their sex. She may not have been very obviously abusive to EVERYONE. Often, abusers can tell who will accept outright, domineering abuse, and who will need to be more delicately manipulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:50 PM
71

Because it’s not hard to treat people right. But if you’re a sociopathic moron with no empathy or basic people skills like this guy, the type of feedback you get from people (you know, general disgust, disdain, or just plain being ignored) will leave you unsure of yourself and unconfident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:56 PM
49

“Treat your SO like shit to destroy their self esteem!” What would this guy say if he heard a woman giving the advice to tell a guy that his penis is kinda small. Or to get better in bed. Or that he’s a little too weak so he’s gotta hit the gym. Or to say around him “hey your friends are hot”? You know. Just “knock him off his pedestal. Deflate his ego.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:54 PM
109

It’s hard to explain He’s right. It’s hard to explain without admitting to having sociopathic traits. Like sadism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:33 PM
6

I just usually tell them sorry, “I’m not into sucking baby sized dicks. Better luck next time finding a gal with no standards!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:41 AM
6

What an idiot. That’s like saying “oh, you hate being broke? Why not go mow lawns for 2 cents an hour and sell your kidney for $10? Someone will DEFINITELY take you up on those offers and you won’t technically be broke anymore!!!!! It’s that easy!!!” Someone should say to this dude “stop complaint that you’re touch deprived!! There are people out there who starved to death or drowned today! Don’t complain about being touch deprived cuz you’re not food and oxygen deprived! You complain about touc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:06 PM
56

“I’m full of myself and that’s why I’m single!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:44 PM
8

Have you heard of the gray rock method of dealing with people? I think it might help you here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:40 PM
354

Wait she forgot to include personal therapist and/or supportive motivational coach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:38 PM
9

Wait til this person sees the red pill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:11 PM
7

Says he hates them. One sentence later, admits he's passionate about them. Maybe get your feelings sorted out, buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:38 PM
62

Yes, I can cook. Can you breadwin solo? Can you fix my car?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:37 PM
37

think about you as one of the few women I've known who is actually worth something. Idk why I think that but I do Maybe it's because women of a higher caliber or who have been through some shit can now recognize a dumpster fire when they see one, and they stay the fuck away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:39 PM
11

Yeah if a woman did this everyone would say she's permanently damaged goods. Even though it's usually women who need emotional intimacy to have sex. Most men will fuck a couch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:34 PM
2

If I tell a friend something innocuous but private, and they mention it to someone else or vice versa, if a friend's tells me a mutual friends secret - that's a test of character, I now know whether or not their trust worthy. Sorry to derail but I was struck by how clever this is. I've never done this. I just stay private for years until I feel like the person has my best interest, then I open up. Would you be willing to provide an example of an innocuous secret that's private? How would you fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:49 AM
20

Just maddening that they don't see a problem with straight up using good natured people. They're so okay with it they're willing to essentially brag and put DOWN their victims and insult them. As if THEY aren't the bad guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:37 AM
2

that book by the Millionaire Matchmaker Just wanna make sure: you're talking about "Become Your Own Matchmaker," right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:35 AM
9

Oh dear, looks like dean and his wife are super fucking insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:22 PM
9

I'm betting he lost most of any remaining shred of respect he had for her once the tattoo was done. Wonder if he even respects her at all anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:59 PM
29

They’re right. Single moms shouldn’t raise kids alone. So where the hell are the dads? News flash. Women don’t need to orgasm or even be aroused to be knocked up. They don’t even need to fucking consent to sex. You’re gonna tell me the dude was raped to orgasm and that’s how he became a father? It happens, sure, but way less fucking common than women being raped. Just more idiocy coming from the supposedly less “emotional” gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:42 PM
15

Oh, good. If the idiocy is genetic, maybe this particular lineage of misfortune will end here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:11 AM
202

Yeah seriously like what is this, $50 worth of shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:35 PM
125

Men ask for sex without providing any other benefits. But if I were to make a profile and seek a sugar daddy to spoil me but without me having to put out, men would get their boxers in a bunch. Why the fuck would I have sex with you during a pandemic when a vibrator can do it better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:21 PM
3

Yeah no. I'd just be like no thanks. I don't think it's right to lie to people. You clearly do. We're incompatible. I'll go pack my things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:01 AM
19

Nowadays I just call it out for what it is. "This is some high school level manipulation. I'm really not into dating people with a high school aged mentality, because I'm not a pedophile, so teenagers and their habits are a turnoff. Sorry. Better luck next time finding a woman who's into children."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 11:59 PM
32

Lol. "Don't do this to me." Do what to you? Trust you and believe what you say? Oh, okay. I can't be with someone I can't trust. Well, your words, not mine... but I think I better go. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 11:58 PM
130

“You deserve better than me.” This is me testing to see if you’ll take the bait and gaslight yourself in order to comfort me AND validate me by saying “oh honey don’t say that. You’re a great guy.” After that if I say no, maybe you’ll start listing my good qualities. That way I can lean back and cry crocodile tears while you sell yourself on getting back with me. This is a great test for LVM like me because it screens out women who have boundaries and standards, without me ever having to admit t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:42 PM
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It’s cuz they can’t see their own asshole. You know how most toddlers gain object permanence at a young age? Seems not everyone hits basic developmental milestones for intelligence. What a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:16 PM
157

“Serious question. Why don’t a whole bunch of black people work for free and not vote anymore like they used to?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:12 PM
7

Crabs in the bucket mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:08 PM
11

Yeah it’s about as much a turn on as people saying “LOVE free money and resources.” Yeah no shit. Do you lack all self awareness? Pretty sure it’s because they keep watching pork where 20 year old actresses desperately pretend to enjoy it for their paycheck. So they think wow all girls just orgasm if you jackhammer them with no foreplay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:09 PM
7

Lmao wow. “Oh no!! Guess I’m just mystical and not real then, thanks!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:47 PM
6

Wow guess every romance before like the 80s wasn’t really. Literally just billions of them were all fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:12 PM
77

Have you ever considered a lawsuit? Fuck those doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:48 AM
7

Yeah and men tend to let health issues proliferate until it’s too late, and the die young. Is that what you’d rather have happen? Fucking asshole doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:47 AM
21

Please tell me you dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:37 PM
3

Then after the divorce the dude will be all like “I didn’t think she was serious!!” Did...you think...at all? Because it looks like you have never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:45 AM
15

Lmao @ change being a negative trait. Damn I didn’t realize I should’ve strived to stay a zygote. Shit, guess we all fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:40 AM
73

B-b-b-b-b-but that's what all the other cheeto basement dwelling incels said I deserve! Waaaaaah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:27 PM
136

This is brilliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:49 PM
5

They're so oblivious. It'd be almost maddening if it weren't so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:32 PM
24

They're told their sexual value goes up because they'll become more financially stable. Oh wait, looks like women can attain that now too, so we don't need you. Sucks realizing the only thing you got handed to you for being your sex was actual oppression, doesn't it? Almost like that's why in nearly every other animal species, the male courts the female, and the female gets her pick. Because her body and the time she invests in her offspring is the key to the survival of the entire fucking speci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:31 PM
23

Lol @ women being too emotional. Let's see which sex is responsible for the majority of violent crimes of passion. Oh wait, that's men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:25 PM
35

Cheaters are often the most paranoid about their partners cheating, too. In Japan, they have these boyfriends for hire. No sex, just a night of the lady being treated like the center of attention by a man, usually in the bar that the hired "boyfriend" works in. Sometimes I wonder how upset pornsick men would be if their girlfriends hired these men. It's nothing sexual. It's just a dude paying them emotional attention. Would they cry about how it's considered emotional cheating when they're hypoc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:24 PM
13

"The rate I charge for custom life coaching is $2,000 an hour. On top of that, I'm not sure you can afford my retainer fee." Then when he throws a fit, just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:19 PM
14

My ex was big into red pill theory and kept talking about how women hit the wall at age 30. Guess who hit turned 30 years ago but still couldn't get that same ex to fuck off? The delusion and idiocy would almost be funny, if it weren't so inconvenient and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:11 PM
4

Bet his daughters rent or live rent-free. Guess that's a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:06 PM
27

“Whoa, how much does that cost?” “You’re such a baller!” “Aren’t you a little young to be living there?” “Wow! Well, that is cute.” translation: "Oh no! She's out of my league and I can't trick her into settling! Darn."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:05 PM
23

"You have it all wrong! Burglars don't want you to lock your doors and set up security systems. Burglars don't actually care about that. They're simple. All they want is for you to leave your valuables unprotected and easily accessible." Yes, duh, we know. You completely missed the point, men. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:02 PM
8

/r/againsthatesubreddits /r/againstdegeneratesubs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:07 PM
31

Lol. “I like it more when gross 40 year olds fuck off and die, but you don’t see me interrupting others unprompted about it.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:25 PM
8

Wow. Yeah I would’ve screamed back: fuck yeah I’m aggressive. I don’t wanna be a little bitch like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:23 PM
8

Well...she IS in the wrong for not immediately leaving him after that. Fuck the entitlement of that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:52 PM
35

Men AND women. Don’t let yourself be a LVW/pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:27 PM
2

supremacy issues And mental and developmental issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:31 PM
3

If these “men” can have the self confidence to continue to exist, you can have the confidence to expect good treatment from those on your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:12 PM
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This is a really good point. If you added up the hours the wives/girlfriends of these whiners spent on doing their laundry, cleaning up after them, cooking them food and doing their dishes, the hourly rate for that (even at min wage) would probably far exceed the cost of taking her out to a dinner every week or paying for her manicures/pedicures + flowers and the occasional gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:59 PM
3

Any chance this is helpful enough to go in the sidebar?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:52 PM
7

Men who go their own way except when they need women but are too shit at life to have women voluntarily want anything to do with them, and therefore have to pay women for time. Laughably pathetic. The lack of self awareness is astounding. Keep thinking you're the shit, MGTOW. Just keep it up with whatever delusion you need to keep yourselves away from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:45 PM
1

So they can feel superior about tricking a wild animal that doesn’t know better into being ripped out of the medium it needs to be in to breathe, and killing it by suffocating it to death. It’s for sport. The bigger the animal you can trick into being killed, the better you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:17 PM
9

It's apathy. But they can only understand it as hate because hating others (women) is what they're familiar with and can relate to. Pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:17 PM
14

Yeah, a lot of hate for people who don't use read receipts but I turned myself off to protect myself from a narcissistic abusive ex who demanded to know where I was at all times and demanded I respond immediately. Now I'm much happier without read receipts. It removes the anxiety of feeling like someone else might jump down my throat if I don't answer their stupid text immediately, at least until I can get therapy for the trauma that asshole left me with. Until then, I enjoy the privacy that a l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:32 AM
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He probably got a shitload of praise for posting this. But if a woman wrote some huge wall of text about how she’d get men interested online, flirt with them, convince her to Venmo her money or buy her shit before she started ignoring them. Then wrote about the magical moment where she grew the 2 brain cells needed to figure out that she was using men. She’d be downvoted and flamed to hell about being a “bitch” “gold digger” or “selfish” or “oblivious” or “materialistic.” And yet Red Pill Theory…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:19 PM
2

Oh what a shame. Not being gestures vaguely at him a mess like this is non negotiable to most women, that’s too bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:15 PM
3

If you're really asking: he doesn't respect her anymore. I don't know if he ever did. That's the only way you could call someone a pig for vomiting. Even if I saw an animal vomiting, I wouldn't think it was a disgusting pig. Men are quite happy to have sex with women they don't respect. It happens all the time. Women usually wont have sex with men they don't respect, so women aren't able to notice this difference in the sexes. They assume if a man will have sex with them, then respect must be th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:14 PM
4

Hope you told him that sort of lack of consideration for other people's time and energy is why he's probably going to continue to not love himself and be miserable for the rest of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:57 PM
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Lol. I'd bet her standards are as low as her self esteem, so she'll have no problem attracting man children that are more than happy to use her as a bangmaid, unpaid therapist mother figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:33 PM
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If she doesn't have shit to say then why is she posting instead of just lurking? Fucking durr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:26 PM
4

Sure! Keep blaming everyone else for leaving instead of looking inward to see if you might be the cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:14 PM
13

That's a good point. Somebody needs to get this guy in touch with MGTOWs and the two of them can argue about whether or not women are needed until hopefully they just run out of calories/time and just die already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:46 PM
10

I bet this guy would also be against socialized healthcare, even though food and shelter are basic needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:45 PM
8

Yeah I don’t like to white lie so this guy has nothing to worry about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:45 PM
5

Adults are allowed to hit on other adults? It’s not a crime? This stupid fucking idiot isn’t aware that he’s just sexually harassing people. And that the sort of dumb shit he says is probably what stalkers would say. And stalking and harassment are illegal. Fucking idiot. No wonder he was divorced. Hopefully he never gets in another relationship. Always baffles me how people can be so fucking stupid. Hopefully he wins the Darwin Award early one of these days and just fucks right off this planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:15 PM
13

I don’t know, Steven. With your small brain, moronic closed mindedness, and limited creativity, what are you going to do for 40 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:03 PM
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"You gotta try getting pegged with an 8 incher! Slam that shit right into your prostate! So good!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:23 PM
3

Ask the widdle man if he wants a pacifier. Or divorce him on the grounds that you’re not a pedophile and no longer want to be with someone with the intellect and mind of a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:14 AM
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And yet, those girls still get more attention from men than he gets from girls. Somebody’s a widdle jealous. Dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:23 PM
13

“Just in a mood” but probably thinks women are the emotional ones who can’t control themselves based on their moods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:18 PM
13

Uh. Yeah. If you’re gonna be an embarrassing low value pick me then high value men aren’t gonna want to date that shit. Why the fuck would they? Nobody likes a person who doesn’t have self respect, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:14 PM
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What a silly thing for those people to say. Your career can afford you to e opportunity to get coffee delivered to your house every morning. Also who needs coffee made for them? I’m an adult. I can make my own damn coffee. Not to mention how rare it is to find a man who is capable of making really good coffee and cleaning up after himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:48 PM
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Damn I’m over here in my 30s getting more than enough attention from men. Funny how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:02 AM
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Aka "I don't want to admit I made a mistake because then I have to deal with the burden of starting over and accepting the consequences, so I'm going to keep rationalizing staying in this because of sunk cost fallacy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:08 PM
6

But if we’re like “I’m a get me one of those rich loners from a first world country. At least he won’t have any expectations. Here’s the time of day from a woman baby lol.” Then he gets butthurt about gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:21 PM
14

Why can't men just stfu and stop being shitty? That's all. It's not complicated. We're waiting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:54 AM
6

Damn. Well, before you send him a selfie, he needs to send you his psychiatric evaluation, his resume, references of his character from friends, proof of sexual ability, and credit report. Just kidding. Nobody wants to date self absorbed, oblivious trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:52 PM
9

Hey they have more than just degrading sperm to offer. They often come bundled with misogyny, lack of social skills, a sense of entitlement, and erectile dysfunction!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:55 PM
3

Ah yes. Because genuinely nice people are okay with the idea of just becoming an asshole for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:53 PM
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FDS: Stop accepting less! Have higher standards and work on yourself. Haters: That’s hateful!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:27 PM
10

Because they’re insecure as fuck. But women are the emotional ones, ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:44 PM
14

Wait til he’s old enough to warrant prostate exams. Just kidding a lot of men are too insecure in their sexually and postpone that for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:03 AM
20

So insecure. He wants advice? Grow the fuck up. Work on yourself. You’re not 8 years old anymore. Get therapy if you need to. Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:38 PM
4

Oh, is it post your delusions day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:45 PM
9

Oh hey, just saw a post in another subreddit about this. Top comment said basically the same thing: being a single mother is easier than her life when married to the NVM father. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/kb8eta/whats_it_like_as_a_single_parent/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:42 PM
15

Let's start off our relationship with a lie. What could go wrong?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:53 PM
8

Women don’t get paid as much as men do for doing the same job with the same skill set and experience. Making a child for a man means a 10 second orgasm. Making a child for a woman means 9 months of bodily destruction and suffering. So, fuck 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:08 PM
2

I recently tried Flamingo. They’re from Target but you can get them mailed to you too. It’s working fine so far on legs and armpits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:49 AM
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I’d guess because a lot of them are narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:58 PM
6

This is called negging. Guys who aren't attractive or charming enough to get girls on their own have to look up how to seduce girls online, and resort to learning from other incels how to use manipulative dark tactics to prey on girls with self esteem. This is part of the "Red Pill" theory. The more we educate other women (and people!) about this, the less effective it'll be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:48 AM
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That's when you tell him you had expectations of his penis size, ability in bed, earning potential, and character, and yet he fell short on all of those, so you feel robbed. Again, you're not mad, but he's been a bit unfair to you. Again, not mad, but he needs to start telling women ahead of time so they're not so disappointed when they date him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:37 PM
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And probably because women tend to look for a PARTNER to build their lives UP with. As opposed to LVM who tend to look for PREY (whether it be children or lvw) that he can manipulate into being DOWN at his level. That way he has someone he can use to get off into. Women generally don’t struggle to find someone to sleep with them. But since this is the prioritized goal and often a great struggle for a lot of men, I think it really angers them. So they have to make things up like “the wall” to com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:21 PM
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“Women can do it all” but if you say “oh, so men can’t?” they’ll get butthurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:42 AM
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Better to find out sooner than to waste a single more day tied down to this garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:33 PM
3

Which sex is accountable for most violent crimes and murders again? And how many of those were an irrational and disproportionately angry reactions to something? Fucking dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:30 AM
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Oh no sounds like little boy is hurt and scared he won’t compare against other men if you raise your expectations!! Poor baby. Just kidding. This is pretty laughably pathetic. Sounds like he knows he’s going to have a hard time finding someone to put up with all those shortcomings of his, so his best bet is just to gaslight women into thinking he’s acceptable when he’s actually well below average across the board.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:25 PM
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How can you not believe that? Did you hear about this? https://www.vice.com/en/article/5dpbxq/police-bust-global-pedophile-ring-arrest-childcare-worker-and-soccer-coach Children as young as 16 months were assaulted. Some by daycare workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 06:18 AM
3

Yet if dinner is late and they’re hungry no woman ever gets on their case about being nagged to cook. I’ll cook when I get to it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:35 AM
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Oh, I can do all the traditional feminine roles of cooking and cleaning. But can you pull off the traditional male role of being the sole breadwinner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:32 AM
5

Me too, but unfortunately men aren't raised in a society that expects them to be subservient to and agreeable to others in spite of cost to themselves. But girls (even in western societies) are raised like that, and are shamed if they aren't kind, sweet, and accommodating. I say "even in western societies" because in many Asian societies, this is the cultural norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:40 PM
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That's what low self esteem does to women. And this guy's going to feel entitled to pretty girls forever. When she leaves him in 10 years to restart her career as a single mother to kids who have only ever known a neglectful dad, he'll probably end up on Tinder messaging young, impressionable 20 year old girls with low self esteem about how "mature" they are. And these girls will probably fall for it and end up investing their youth, time, and energy in exchange for years of emotional baggage. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:04 PM
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Or in a year she'll look back on this after being saddled with their kid that he never feeds, sleeps, watches, or changes, wondering where she went wrong or how she can "support" him more in hopes that he'll be a better dad or better partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:01 PM
9

These same men probably flip if asked to give emotional intimacy + emotional support but aren't interested in sex. Even though that's the type of friendship women give to each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:25 PM
8

So is this dude also having sex with his male friends? Or just not willing to lend an ear to his friends problems and/or keep him company? Wow! Sounds like a winner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:14 PM
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This is why we need to be teaching our girls to become financially independent or capable of supporting themselves, regardless of what their dreams are. Even if you do marry a HVM with a life insurance policy, that doesn’t mean you’re immune to being widowed. If everyone were financially independent, we’d have fewer women trapped in unhappy or abusive relationships. And if we teach girls to expect and demand a fair division of”unpaid” labors at home like child rearing and household duties, we’ll…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:48 PM
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I think part of it is that we're brought up to think that the ideal life is a married life - kids or not. So girls want that so badly that by the time they grow up to be adult women, when they realize they haven't met many men who treat them right and are worth the emotional energy and time the woman would like to invest in a partner, they start to lower their standards. Desperately hoping that if they give (by being more yielding and willing to sacrifice what they want), they'll get more back. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:43 PM
10

I think she should come up with a way to humiliate his body, and wear that. "Limp dick" or maybe "Ten second twig."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:53 PM
39

Damn, guess all those dudes who got raped in prison didn't back themselves enough. Shit, I guess kids who got molested and raped didn't back themselves enough, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:09 AM
23

Yeah, does this guy not know English? It DOES happen daily. In America alone, a woman is raped every 2 minutes. In the world? I wouldn't be surprised if it's every few seconds. If not for sport, then what else? Is raping these women paying their bills somehow? Are they doing it despite not enjoying it? Why the fuck else are they doing it? Because someone pointed a gun at their head and told them to do it? Wtf? It's for sport. Imagine being so fucking oblivious to how wrong you are that you can u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:50 PM
22

You also need to lose that beer gut, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:32 AM
10

I bet if you asked this guy what his personality is he’d say some shit like “I’m sarcastic and have a dark sense of humor.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:28 AM
4

This is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:25 AM
19

Wonder how badly he would've flipped if you told him you were buying dick pics from one of your male "best friends' to "support him."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:35 AM
6

Don't forget to include respect in there, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:54 PM
4

Damn we better thank all those super ugly people who worked for women’s suffrage. Imagine having to indirectly brag about your beauty. Imagine feeling like your beauty (something you don’t have much say in) being your greatest asset. Just goes to show she doesn’t have much else going for her, as she’s not proud of her accomplishments, intellect, or character. Fucking yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:05 PM
6

He wishes you would've texted him instead of wishing he knew how to make sure he is able to wake up at a certain time... The fuck? Set an alarm or buy an extra alarm clock. It's really not hard, and basically every working adult has to do that. Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:22 PM
5

"Shit, I AM? I better start billing his insurance for all those years of unpaid work. Yikes, I'll have to amend my taxes to account for all this additional income I failed to report. Does anyone know of a good debt collecting agency? Because I'm not convinced this dumbass is going to pay up."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:58 PM
4

Wow, who knew that piano playing was the panacea to ALL relationship problems? Damn, when is this guy going to get a nobel prize for solving literally every couple's disagreement? Divorce lawyers and marriage counselors HATE him for destroying their relevance to society. Man, do you think this novel solution would extend to resolving even non-romantic relationships? We can just stop having wars if we just have every country who has any dispute play piano nonstop until the other gives in! Who kne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:56 PM
8

As someone who was an unpaid homemaker for an ex who threatened me with red pill garbage like "when you hit the wall at 30 and I'm wealthy, a lot of younger girls are going to be chasing after me." Uh huh. You're doing well in your career in part because you're benefitting from me being a full time homemaker, secretary, everything-for-you, for free. You're threatening to leave me for no longer being young? Like what am I supposed to do, make a time machine? This is while he'd spew red pill stuff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:14 PM
82

Found out about the term “displaced homemaker” today. Basically describes women who spent years as a homemaker, I paid, not contributing to her resume, who them is divorced, abandoned, or otherwise no longer able to be a homemaker. Some states have programs that help these women with career counseling, writing resumes and cover letters. I thought it was pretty cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:30 AM
5

It’s ok to use in medical situations. I’ve also heard male/male used often in police work and I think that’s fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:22 PM
61

FDS: Defend yourself if a man is trying to rape you. inb4 LVM incels: ThIs Is A HaTe SuB tHaT CoNdOnEs ViOlEnCe, BeCaUsE RaPe IsN't ViOlEnT aNd My ReAdInG CoMpReHeNsIoN iS aS LaCkInG As My ChArAcTeR DuRr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:03 PM
8

I like how they call them personality masks. Because the target audience they're marketing probably believes liking Pornhub is a personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:49 PM
57

A few options I'd like you to know about: You could get a P.O. box You can sign up for Informed Delivery which is a service that emails you black and white pictures of mail that's supposed to be delivered to you. I care for an eldery person I don't live with, and I do this to keep tabs on the mail she since English isn't her first language. Costs $1 because they use your credit card to ensure you actually live at that address (I think via your credit card's billing address) and aren't just some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:36 PM
36

Like an employee begging his termination to be reconsidered because “I didn’t assault my coworkers! I never stole from the company! I may nod off on the job sometimes but at least I don’t sleep through most of it! And I may show up tipsy sometimes...but you KNOW I’ve never shown up completely shitfaced!” Man, get the fuck outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:56 PM
3

By LVM standards, these men are gold diggers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:27 PM
18

“Wow that’s a shitty overweight dad bod. If only your penis were bigger.....It’S JuSt a JoKe!!!” Watch him lose his shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:18 PM
329

"7 years ago I dropped my standards and settled for this man. Lack of self respect and settling for mediocrity sure is funny and endearing! Happy 7th anniversary, babe!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:05 PM
2

She was far more successful at 20 than he is in his, what, 50s? And more people want to be with her (women included) at this very moment than with him in his entire lifetime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:48 PM
39

Like a dude saying "I have a sexual fantasy where I date, marry, and sleep with men, but I'm straight." Yeah, ok, guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:42 PM
51

Right? Like do these idiots walk into a Maserati dealership and complain that their prices are too high?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:19 PM
8

Your friend doesn’t sound very supportive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:16 AM
1

Is his dick 8 inches? Cuz you care about a balance between not too small and medium size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:07 AM
22

Lmaooo you fucking directly called him out on negging. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:30 PM
24

That’s when I’d ask him how long his hairline has been receding or how long he’s been battling his age related erectile dysfunction. Or how long he plans to continue to make less than 7 figures. Oh, you want to discard basic manners and behave like uncivilized savages? Sure, I can humor you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:58 PM
21

Yeah and if we turn every single conversation into how good of a dad they’d be or how dependable of a provider they are, moments after meeting them, they’d be enraged and turned off immediately. But they don’t have the brain cells or the cognitive capacity to consider “hey, maybe when I turn every conversation immediately into sex, without putting her at ease or at least fucking pretending I want something else other than sex, it backfires and does not work in my favor.” How can they be so fucki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:56 PM
66

Did this guy suffer actual brain damage? How the fuck can you be so stupid and still earn a living holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:43 PM
9

“Success” and “f*mcels” as if it’s hard to get laid as a woman. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:35 PM
29

If we’re all undesirable, what’s the problem? Why the hate? If they think we’re all deluded, why don’t they just shake their heads and move on in silence? Do they not have the emotional maturity for that? Their hate for us just is just proof we’ve hit a sensitive spot. Cry more, sad fools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:32 PM
12

Which is laughable because the most attractive men I know prefer women with short hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:32 PM
17

This makes me so sad. As someone who left an abusive relationship, I think we need to teach children the importance of boundaries and respect. Otherwise, they'll keep growing up into adults who accept anything but fair, good treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:49 PM
86

If I paid $5 in bus fares to show up for job interviews and I didn’t get the job then I’ll being USEDDDDDDDD. Used to waste their interviewer’s time and energy!!!! I’m entitled to everything!! Fucking idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:15 PM
5

She isn’t even fat...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:03 PM
15

THEY were the gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:37 AM
11

Maybe ask them if they’re friend zoning themselves. Because then maybe they’ll realize that means no sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:13 PM
3

If I can blame the results on my life on outcomes that I cannot control, I won’t have to take any responsibility! Responsibility is ScArY. WoMeN bAd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:16 AM
9

Was watching a nature documentary the other day where a male bird was giving a fresh grub to a female. According to the narrator, he was trying to persuade her to be his mate. It made me think of how many men would have considered that female a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:25 PM
8

Let me brag about being abusive, include a bunch of laughing emojis on it and throw it up on social media to broadcast how little self awareness and morality I have!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:29 AM
9

You rejected a fuck boy, you didn’t actually do anything badass. You anonymously badmouthed women trying to save other women from unhappiness and mediocrity; you didn’t actually do anything badass. Have fun mistaking your arrogance for confidence, you sad little pick me. And enjoy your shitty marriage with whatever mediocre male you bend over backwards for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:44 PM
30

I just want to ask this guy what the difference is between a partnership and a relationship is. And just watch him struggle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:48 AM
25

Lol. Pathetic. Have fun suffering for decades in your shitty relationships!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:08 PM
6

Plenty of girls have their period before age 13. Maybe learn to shut your fucking mouth, ignorant scrotes. Jesus fuck. How shitty at having basic knowledge can you be. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:43 PM
2

We also try to steer women away from toxic Pickmes. Does that mean “FDS hATES wOmEn?” No. It means if that’s your takeaway, you need to work on your goddamn reading comprehension.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:26 PM
14

Sounds like he doesn’t understand what FDS is about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:45 PM
3

“Wow, that’s a pathetically cheap man.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:37 PM
16

They’re too stupid to realize this reveals how empty their lives actually are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:45 PM
27

So they think it's a woman's job to do dishes, but they no longer think it's a man's job to be the primary breadwinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:39 PM
14

And girls don’t like it when men think we give a shit about their entitled opinions on how strangers should dress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:58 AM
34

Can’t believe men are so choose when it comes to their food, the car they buy, the motorcycle they buy, the career they choose. A partner is only something you try to keep for a lifetime. At least with houses and careers you can swap those every 20 years without much heartbreak. Yet men have their stupid boxers in a bunch because they’re upset women won’t settle. When are they going to complain about employers being choosy? About employers not wanting you to be an ex-felon? A drug user? An emplo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:41 PM
5

Imagine being openly racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:00 AM
11

She states she's staying at home full time. That's her full time role. He works full time. That's his full time role. They both should equally benefit from the other's full time role. As for any side hustles they have, I imagine they can decide what to do with that amongst themselves. If my husband and I both have our own side hustles, I likely wouldn't even touch that or feel compelled to split the (tiny) gains from my own side hustle. It's a different story if we get good/famous enough at our …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:59 PM
25

Because the wife gave up her career and is willing to take a 20 year employment gap on her resume, PLUS the risk that the husband can just up and leave her anytime (leaving her with less than ideal employment prospects). She's also taking care of the children and the household administration, and presumably chores like cooking, grocery shopping, etc. The husband benefits from all this. Would it be fair the husband to be the only one to reap the rewards of his labor, when he fully reaps the rewar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:25 PM
5

That's awesome. Love reading stories like this. Found this thread a few days ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/ifrbqm/whats_your_living_well_is_the_best_revenge_story/ Similar stories of women leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:27 PM
3

Lmao@“I asked first” What is he, a toddler?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:02 PM
3

Support other women when you can and teach them to lift up other women instead of putting them down. Warn them about what a pick me is and show them how they can stop being pickmes, if they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:37 PM
11

Classic projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:06 AM
50

So fucking true. Even funnier is when they are uncomfortable with you talking to other men, being alone with other men, having platonic friendships with men (even gay men)... so they forbid you from doing that. Like, wow, if you didn't think any other dude would ever find me attractive, why do you keep me locked and hidden away? Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:02 PM
13

What kind of fuckhead asks a girl this question? Maybe she hasn't found someone good enough. Maybe she hasn't found a man secure enough to not be intimidated by her talent and success... or she's not interested in dating. Mind your own goddamn business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:04 AM
5

That’s a lot of words to say “I’m cheap and unimaginative.” Also he’s blaming you for lack of ideas. I’m sorry, what? Sorry that I prefer men who are able to court women. Imagine treating a job interview like this. “So what can you do for this company?” “Oh, I don’t know. Let’s just see if things work out. You’re asking me to provide a lot of ideas for someone who isn’t giving me any ideas.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:35 PM
10

Then red spillers the audacity to claim women will commonly “shit test” men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:01 AM
2

“Don’t fall in love with potential.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:00 PM
2

“You’re tough, I like that.” “You’re arrogant. I hate that.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:40 PM
1

Yeah if they’re not doing it to good standards I’d have them pay a housekeeper to do it right out of their own fun money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:31 PM
10

lol “no one ever taught me.” Who the fuck taught them to jerk off, something they’re able to do just fine? Better report whoever that was to the FBI for pedophilia before the statute of limitations is over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:31 PM
3

Because we hate the idea of settling and we have trapping ourselves to a shitty life. Crabs in a bucket mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:14 AM
2

Dumbasses need to go back to school and learn basic reading comprehension. FDS: Become independent. Don't depend on men financially. Men: ???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:59 AM
3

A liar and a gas lighter. Piece of shit c
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:18 PM
5

Fascinating. Thanks so much for sharing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:35 PM
20

In my late 20s, my ex had me convinced I would be done for when I hit 30. Yet, he was still super controlling and insecure. Wouldn't let me speak to male friends (whom I was friends with before he and I got together.) Would accuse me of ogling his business associates (I wasn't.) Was afraid to let me find work because he didn't want me getting hit on there. (In hindsight, he didn't want me working because then I could attain financial independence.) I left him before I hit 30. Got the same amount…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:22 PM
15

I'm very curious - what was the term he used for "emotional labor"? I'm fascinated by these studies and want to show my girlfriends (some of whom I'm convinced are stuck with an unfair share of labor even though they work full time just their partners.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:17 PM
39

Elon just has money. I think he's probably still a LVM, characterwise. Grimes' mom hates him and called him out on Twitter shortly after Grimes gave birth. Mothers don't just call out their daughter's boyfriends for no reason, especially if he's a billionaire set for generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:12 PM
6

Ah, yes, someone who doesn't take no for an answer and then gets really pushy, and tries to shame you for your preferences by comparing you to a genocide. Wow! Where do we ladies line up for a guy like this?!?! Also Nazi Germany did not fucking happen in 1990. Is this guy a fetus or is he brain damaged?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:38 PM
10

He wouldn’t have to drive all those hours if he just, you know, didn’t fucking cheat on her and ruin the marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:56 PM
22

That’s funny. If you post the same story with the sexes reversed in a few months, you’ll prob see a very different set of replies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:52 PM
6

This guy seems lukewarm about dating you. I'd pass on him. Time is your most limited resource. No use wasting it on a guy like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:50 PM
6

Because most men can’t imagine turning down an offer to a date, probably because they project their own lack of choices and low standards onto everyone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:27 PM
4

Please post her handle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:18 AM
26

Yikes. Looks like this guy needs to get his vision checked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:01 PM
2

Yes. Please please ask your friend for help. This is absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:09 AM
5

Oh, funny. PUA resent and devalue women for riding the “cock carousel” but they have no problem pumping and dumping multiple girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:21 PM
24

Yet PUAs are literally just pursuing pleasure and multiple partners (hypergamy.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:29 PM
33

“I don’t have much to offer so I don’t and can’t ask for very much! This means women suck.” - This guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:27 PM
9

Gonna start feeling like my male friends owe me free gifts and their bank account. How does it feel now to crush my soul by not giving me free shit for no reason?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:41 PM
28

Why do you think men stereotype wives as people who will never be satisfied or happy? Holy crap this is such a good point. And isn’t this basically m in every sitcom, too? Where the men are always humbling buffoons who can’t take care of themselves, let themselves go physically, are dumber than their wives who are way out of their league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:26 PM
40

It’s also not a fair comparison because we don’t want it. When men or women are penetrated against their will it usually doesn’t feel good and is painful. But if you have a penis, and you’re fucking a man or a woman, it’s going to feel pleasurable. At a gay bar, they’d presumably be the one taking a dick. Not such a desirable proposition now, is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:21 PM
34

The woman is STILL at a disadvantage by having to leave her career. Gap years don’t look good on a resume. I’d want the woman to be paid more than 50% of the couple’s income because if anything goes south, it’s now harder for her to re-enter the work force. She’s doing the riskier job. And her pay should account for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:34 PM
10

I’m gonna hope this is fake or put up by someone who actually hates the guy and is trying to out him to the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:29 AM
40

So glad you told him off. Hopefully since he’s been shamed he’ll think twice about pulling this shit again on anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:58 PM
11

Darth Vader is real. Just ask the guy who played Luke Skywalker! I'm guessing this fucking idiot doesn't know what a pap smear entails. Sorry dude, but most speculums are bigger than your dick. Guess all the teenage girls who got pap smears done are ruined forever. Oh, damn, wait, some men are into fin-dom and some men are into cock and ball torture. Just ask the male porn stars who partake in that! That must mean ALL men love having their balls stepped on by women in high heels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:21 PM
10

Yikes can somebody say low self esteem and lack of self respect? With a side of low self awareness? Yeesh. Maybe after having three kids with this loser while he continues to pursue young girls, she’ll get fed up realize she shacked up with the wrong dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:38 AM
24

This idiot is trying to friend zone himself. You hang out with platonic friends. You court those you want to have a romantic relationship. Cheapskate doesn’t even have the balls to be honest and admit he doesn’t make enough to comfortably afford to take a girl out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 04:19 PM
5

This is such a genius phrase. Using this from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:05 PM
25

“I don’t like idiot men. I hope that doesn’t make me sound intellectualist. You’re just the same as the others. When a man shows up in my Tinder messages and proves he doesn’t have the brain capacity necessary to figure out why a woman would block him, I just figuratively walk out and block him. Not even going to respond to the pathetic message he’ll send me on Snapchat later.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:04 PM
54

Classic projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:02 PM
10

Look at me getting away with being a bad person! I'm so ignorant and unaware that I think this is something to be proud of! Please, validate me with likes, social media. I'm desperate for validation because my self esteem is in the gutter for being such a shitty person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:28 PM
9

Every person who lives in a third world country would like to have a word with this sad sack of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:28 PM
2

How/where did you meet this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:26 AM
7

He doesn’t even have the self respect to defend his own wife. Probably doesn’t have enough brain cells to realize that if someone criticized his choice of a spouse, that person is indirectly criticizing him, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:19 PM
15

Time to start joking about how small his dick is. Oh, no one can joke anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:06 PM
5

Really? Is there a title for this? I’d love to read more about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:05 PM
15

6) Remember you're not responsible for other people's happiness (unless they're your dependent child or something.) You don't owe them anything. Even if they were paying you to be their therapist, unless you agreed to be on call for them 24/7 you don't need to respond to them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:01 PM
5

What a scumbag. Glad you saw his true colors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:29 PM
4

How did you find out about the cheating? Did this guy just admit to it without feeling guilty?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:11 PM
5

I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:35 AM
35

I like to think she does. Look at it this way. She can share the wisdom of her grandmother over Twitter to other women who need it. And, she can simultaneously either: Open this secret bank account but when the boyfriend questions it, laugh it off, deflect, and say “don’t be silly! Grandma was probably just being paranoid. She grew up in different times.” Or Her husband isn’t a LVM abusive emotionally manipulative sack of shit, so he doesn’t mind that she has her own bank account(s) and doesn’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:21 AM
44

Learn about his business practices back in the 90s and you won’t feel that way anymore. He was despised for what he did. But younger folk today hear about his philanthropy and don’t know what he used to be like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:16 PM
33

In your opinion, what culture raised men to be HVM most consistently or most commonly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:31 PM
25

Because they’re too stupid to know better. And some pickme is going to settle for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:22 PM
95

“I guarantee you that I’m too ignorant to be ashamed of being so openly racist!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:46 PM
19

Boys are sex trafficked. If he wants to live out his dream of being raped by an older, stronger man, I'm sure he can find someone online who will fulfill his fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:43 PM
10

I like it because it’s got the double meaning of taking himself (the trash) out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:40 PM
3

Any idea why you stopped wanting to have sex with him? I’m concerned about losing my sexual attraction to otherwise solid men. Was it just your sexual attraction to him or was t your sex drive completely?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:27 PM
42

I think it’s because women tend to be very generous, patient, and compassionate - wether it be instinctive or due to society putting a higher expectation on girls as they grow up. I suspect women have strong instincts to nurture and provide (emotionally and practically) for others. I was in a relationship with a shitty dude and I gave him SO much. It feels good to give. But now after FDS I’m able to catch myself when I feel myself wanting to give to selfish or entitled people. It’s resulted in l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:50 PM
3

You can still death grip in crochet. It just takes practice. When I stared knitting it was really hard on my hands too. I was holding everything too tightly and keeping too much tension in my yarn. Made things harder for myself. With practice, that went away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:10 PM
3

Don’t think so. I do fine without dick. But I’ve been so busy with all the new hobbies I want to pursue because of covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:37 PM
6

I would do it bc I think it’s the right thing. It’s up to her how she reacts. She may hate you. But that’s not on you. Thats be because she’s in denial and taking out her inability to cope with reality in you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:04 PM
37

Straight up verbal abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:06 AM
27

I think you're underestimating how lazy and self-centered these people are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:15 PM
28

If your SO has a problem with your crippling drug or alcohol addiction, choose your addiction over them. If they're the type of person who doesn't want to see you destroy your life, their issues with your addiction will never go away, and will likely branch out into other aspects of the relationship. Do your addiction a favor and find someone more compatible with the addiction who will have no issue enabling it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:13 PM
24

I think they should just have their asshole penetrated by the dildo. Then they'll understand what it's like to be injured down there during every bowel movement. And how degrading it is. They don't have to defecate out of their infected leg wound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:43 AM
18

As an addition to that, if someone was truly sorry, they'd do what they could to make sure it doesn't happen again. The first time could have been a legitimate mistake. But generally, when people realize they made a mistake, the either try to fix it, or if it's not possible to fix it, they make sure they wont make that mistake again. LVM saying they're "sorry for <some self deprecating comment here>" are likely just fishing for validation. Fuck that weak shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:39 PM
41

Probably hoping that their words online will lead to women devaluing themselves so that they can get away with being lazy and lower effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:34 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:03 AM
8

Can you provide some sources for women being jealous more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:00 AM
9

They say if you have a friend who talks shit about others behind their back, then they're likely talking shit about YOU to others behind YOUR back too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:49 PM
15

Birds of a feather flock together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:47 PM
23

I guess the difference here is it sounds like grandpa treated grandma very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:14 PM
10

Just my guess. But it probably started when porn started, and when men were able to feel as if they had easy access to (virtual/fake) sex from 20 year olds. And to rationalize their inability to get any sex, they told themselves they didn't want sex from older women (who had since matured and didn't want to deal with these scrotes and their bullshit anymore.) Basically men's trying to cope/come to terms with something they can't have (confident, older women)... while putting on a pedestal younge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:34 AM
1

Having standards is NOT something you should feel embarrassed about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:40 PM
5

He got his wish. She'll stay out of it for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:26 PM
3

Let's see how he reacts when she starts to get emotional attention and validation from other men, which is her choice and her right. I think his tune will suddenly change. This poor girl. What a fucking asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:25 PM
44

Hey, maybe you're able to be happy from sun up to sun down because you're not saddled with a man child that erodes your sense of self respect and sucks up your emotional energy and time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:22 PM
8

Pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:15 PM
212

Well tell him he can start off slow with a small buttplug. And if that feels comfortable to him, he can go ahead and start using larger ones. Or tell him you’re not interested in pegging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:19 PM
26

Lmao @ they aren’t smart enough. Never mind programming used to be a female dominated field decades ago when it was in its infancy. And hey even if we were dumber, he’s still probably single so girls are still smart enough to not stay with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:27 PM
2

Interesting... I know that paste works very well for scrubbing scrubbing stuck on food + grease off of pans and bakeware. Guessing it's the exfoliative action. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:55 PM
46

Oh dear. Looks like his insecurity was showing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:02 PM
106

I've seen videos on Youtube where wealthy career women pay for the "boyfriend experience" in Japan. It's a bit like a strip club/brothel, except instead of sex, what the woman gets out of it is a charming, handsome man giving her his attention and company, often at some sort of establishment like a bar (at which the man is employed) where they'll buy drinks. I don't know of such a thing that exists in the US. But I bet if it did, and a husband was complaining that her wife was going out to these…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:51 PM
1

I love how it has a happy ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:30 PM
42

Maybe he can take this time to catch up on high school biology which he clearly didn’t do well in if he thinks this is an overreaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:20 AM
120

Upsetting how so many men are misunderstanding us in that thread. Calling us sexist and the equivalent of theredpill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:53 PM
14

This is how you spot a professional idiot who didn’t pass basic biology and has no grasp in germ theory. And who also somehow manages to dodge awareness of current events. Truly a specimen nobody in their right mind would want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:37 PM
18

Wow. I would have been tempted to ask him out of snark to let me help HIM relax by allowing him to buy gifts for me off my Amazon gift list. Maybe then he would have understood how appealing phone sex with a stranger is to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:35 PM
7

Do you get ingrowns down there and if so.. how do you deal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:37 AM
8

What a great idea. She’ll cherish those when you’re gone, too. Wish my dad did something like that for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:48 PM
12

LMAO! In that case I suppose an equivalent to their Instagram friending/DM/follows would be if we just had men we texted as emotional support buddies, but we never knew what they looked like. "It's no big deal babe, just a guy I met online that I talk to about my emotions." Pretty sure men would still lose their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:47 PM
38

I wonder what the majority of these men would say if their partners started saving insta pics of dudes (for masturbation) and DMing them. Like when the story is flipped what sort of mental gymnastics are they going to perform to try to avoid straight out admitting to double standards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:05 PM
16

We are the prize. I’m guessing this bitter incel hasn’t heard of the crabs in a bucket mentality. Otherwise he wouldn’t be so obviously and shamelessly partaking in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:53 PM
15

Because he’s too stupid to process the fact that maybe if he can’t afford to lose 20 seconds over someone else needing the elevator, he should take responsibility for it and leave the fucking house sooner to get whatever he needs done. People like this boggle my mind. Especially those who are speeding or weaving dangerously through traffic because they’re in a hurry or they’re late. Like dude. You’re a fucking adult. Get your shit together. Most people learn how to not be late when they’re in mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:30 PM
21

Same reason toddlers don’t get embarrassed throwing a tantrum for not getting the candy they want. They’re entitled, ignorant of how they should behave, and not self aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:27 PM
2

This is really insightful. When you say: and all around hotties are just looking for someone to love that will treat them like a regular human being. Do you mean they're looking for a girl who wont excessively fawn over them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:37 AM
2

You can’t force people to do what you want. Best thing you can do is arm them with the information she needs to make the right decisions. She’s lucky to have someone like you who not only has her best interest in mind, but who also knows what she should be doing to get wha my she wants. So even if she continues going through a coolgirl or pickme stage, she’s leagues ahead of most other girls because you’re at her side. So please don’t feel bad or guilty that you can’t “save” her right now. You’r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:24 PM
10

That's true. "doesn't watch it much" is also subjective - he might feel like once a week isn't much but it sure as hell is way more often than what men 50 years were exposed to. Thanks for responding. :) Glad you earned yourself a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:41 AM
6

How did you meet him? What makes you doubt his pork habits? Do you notice sounds like ED-like symptoms or does he ask you to do degrading things?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:02 AM
22

What is this, a training course for doormats?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:58 AM
1

How/where did you meet this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:37 AM
13

Wonder how many years it’ll take for her to realize this was a huge mistake and regret it. On the plus side, she might turn into a very outspoken person when it comes to the issue of saving your virginity for someone you care about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:41 PM
5

Imagine being so insecure you worry about how other people will judge your friend’s clothing. Not even your clothing!! A friend’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:32 PM
3

Where did you end up meeting this guy? Sounds like a rare catch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:33 PM
10

Reminds me of "Fear Of Missing Out" or FOMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 12:27 AM
52

Me, thinking about MGTOW: doesn't care Men, thinking about WGTOW: TRIGGERED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:11 PM
11

"That's how we fall for you...Its hard to be more interested in your activities and the books you read than your butt and boobs" If he has ever had male friends, what was the initial draw he felt towards them? Sexual attraction to them (oh, so he's bisexual?) or was he attracted to their money (gold-digging?) Or their power (so you're telling me he'd openly admit to wanting to use someone as the initial draw to being friends with them?). So he's openly admitting it's not possible for men to be i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:38 PM
30

“We don’t want headaches! It’s only going to get harder as we get deeper and deeper in the relationship.” = I’m difficult in relationships. Despite many people having smooth relationships that just get better with time as they learn more about each other and mature, I’ve been the common denominator for all my relationships, and NONE of them got better over time. But I’m so fucking ignorant and oblivious that I don’t even realize this is not something everyone experiences because struggling to ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:30 PM
163

I was wondering what the illustrator intended. A reverse google search yielded this: https://www.sagestossel.com/2009/10/women-waiting-for-the-ideal-man/ Looks like it was made for a book titled "Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough" Yikes. Literally settling. I've regret every time I've settled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:01 PM
16

The flip side of this comic would be: "Women settling for a subpar man." What image comes to your mind when I say that? Probably not one with a happy woman in it. Probably not one with unaffected, happy, well balanced children in it, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:58 PM
8

He was just comfortable being openly racist to you like that? Completely shamelessly dating he wouldn’t marry someone over her race? Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:34 PM
16

I'm impressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:03 AM
36

Right? If they're thinking is men are after sex, and women can get sex easily, so women have it "easy." Okay, flip the stereotypical roles. If what women are after is a provider, then the rationale is easily exposed as completely idiotic, like someone saying "wow, everyone jumps at the chance for easy money! ThAt MuSt MeAn MeN aS PrOvIdErS hAvE SuCh aN EaSy TiMe FiNdInG a PaRtNer SiNcE tHe SoLe CrItErIa iS SoMeOnE WiLlIng To ReCiEvE FiNaNcIaL SuPpOrT." Like, no, dipshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:31 PM
43

Yeah, we have it "easy" if a woman's goal in dating is to have her body used as a fleshlight. If Greg posted on Grindr offering his asshole for men to use for free, I'm sure he'd have great a pretty easy time finding someone to take him up on that offer. Ergo, WoW DaTiNg SuRe Is EaSy FoR MeN!!!1!! Watch a fucking animal documentary for once, in your life, Greg. There's a reason females in nearly every species gets to choose the mate, and males have to compete. Because in many cases, the responsi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:28 PM
29

He sounds high value to me. Would love to meet a man like that, today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:55 AM
10

Wow, and he stayed by your side through med school? Most guys I dated complained I didn’t spend enough time with them when med school only left me about two days off (from studying) per month. One ex even faked having cancer because I was not giving him enough attention despite juggling my school’s heaviest clerkship (surgery) AND a parent’s recent stage 4 cancer diagnosis. I regret being such a doormat back in my youth. Now that I think about it: most of those guys didn’t even go to college. So…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:54 AM
4

That’s so sweet and wholesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:51 AM
8

Where did you meet this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:19 AM
4

Out of curiosity, did you two meet in medical school?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:17 AM
83

Reminds me of "crabs in a bucket" mentality - when people pull you down whenever you try to escape or improve your current life status. Maybe because they feel insecure if you're not suffering/stagnating at their level, with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:14 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:08 PM
1

Wow. What a neat idea. Is this a book you would recommend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:51 PM
12

As an aside, I believe this is why gambling is so effective/addictive - you don't win all the time. I recall reading that animals are better trained to perform a trick/behavior if the reward is not consistent (i.e, if you're training a dog to come when called, rewarding it some of the time but not all of the time is more effective than rewarding it all of the time.) Seems counterintuitive, but if you won every time you gambled, it wouldn't be as "fun" or "exciting."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:06 PM
2

Probably washed his butthole with soap for the first time in months. And maybe laundered the sheets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:23 AM
17

1.1k upvotes for a man clearly stating he is okay using someone and leading someone on for an entire year. Not only wasting a year of their life, and possibly leaving them with trust issues. What in the world?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:19 PM
2

Man. As someone who has been hounded by exes who ask “what do you want?!” Only for them to argue with me on why their abusive behavior was justified, or try to bring me down, this really spoke to me. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:51 PM
2

How well we treat people shouldn’t be based on what they look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:19 PM
17

No you don’t understand. We’Re GoLd DiGgErS for wanting to be cherished and wanting men to put in an iota of effort to show we’re appreciated. ThAt’S sHaLlOw!!!! You should be happy to stay forever in a relationship with none of that, even though you could walk away at any time and find another man willing to treat you like a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:22 AM
4

Guess I’m not ever watching Jim Carrey movies from now on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:52 PM
80

That’s when she should say she has HIV. See how quickly he does a 180.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:46 PM
39

BuT wOmEn ArE tHe HyPeRgAmOuS sEx!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:38 PM
23

Wonder how he’d react if a woman asked him to give up porn for their relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:33 PM
4

Maybe unhappily married women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:26 PM
6

As an Asian gal who gets Asian flush (See: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcohol_flush_reaction), when anyone asks me if I want to drink, I tell them I can't metabolize alcohol, and that it causes discomfort when I drink, and that as a result of my genes, every drink I have increases my chances of getting esophageal cancer. In my adult life, nobody pushes me to drink. If they did, I'd probably ask them if they'd offer cigarettes to nonsmokers or if they're only interested in me, specifically, ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:45 PM
19

This has to be sarcastic, right? No woman can be this oblivious to how desperate and spineless she's broadcasting herself to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:11 PM
5

Do you have a source for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:53 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:27 PM
1

I’ve since done a LOT of reading in narcissists Can you recommend some of these readings? I’d definitely be interested. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:28 PM
3

Old at 33? Hilarious. What is he, 12?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:46 PM
-3

I genuinely hope you’re not just paying lip service. Because if you truly do mean what you say, it gives me hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:50 PM
6

I’m glad men like you exist. I think a man hearing your perspective from you would be much more impactful or believable than for them to hear it from a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:49 PM
2

Sounds like a challenging, but rewarding journey. Thanks for taking the time to share it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:54 PM
4

I’m intrigued that you said you were both low value in the beginning. Much of what I read here tends to gravitate towards “if your man is low value, leave, because there’s not much hope there.” Would you be willing to share more about his and your journey towards becoming high value? Was it something you both innately wanted? Do you think either of you had a mindset, a certain drive, or a unique perspective that was the key for wanting to improve yourselves? What were your motivations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:27 PM
1

Yikes. Sorry to hear it didn't work out for you. :( Thanks again for taking the time to respond.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/19 03:43 AM
3

Huh, okay. Thanks for responding. Supposedly after 6 months your body adjusts and cramps/flow might go back to normal. Were you one of those for whom it never normalized? I am just paranoid about starting hormonal birth control, but aside from condoms, it seems like copper IUDs are the only actually effective method.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/19 03:12 AM
2

Out of curiosity, how did the nonhormonal IUD negatively affect you?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/19 02:42 AM
20

You make six figures. Have you looked into freezing your eggs? I understand you’re worried about your fertility. But do you really want kids with someone like this? Freezing eggs will allow you to try fertility treatments with your own eggs later, in case your fertility declines. This guy sounds like a nightmare. He’s so bitter and entitled. Even if he were sexually satisfied, and started being sweet to you again, would you feel like it was real? What kind of man says he loves a woman then lashe…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 12:38 AM
1

When I was a 15 year old girl (just a child!) I didn't like children either. Now, I do.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/19 07:27 PM
3

OP deleted her post but from what I can glean from the comments, she didn't vet properly. At this point, though, what are her options? Separate, despite having had a child with him?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 08:53 PM
6

Those are not the only two reasons. Cases in point: menstruation, sickness. But the main reason is what I think many other people have already pointed out. High SMV men may find the act of putting out on the first date as a red flag, as a sign that the woman has a high n count or doesn't value her chastity/body, and he may next her. They may also have been friends before and found out they're into kinks like teasing or prolonging sexual tension. There are so, so, so many reasons to wait.
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