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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Get off of OLD!I've made 6 posts in a year, how does that translate to you "scream in need for attention"? If I wanted attention I would be on OLD lol Its an opinion. How is it any different than someone here saying that a HVW wont date a man who watches porn? Just because you feel personally attacked doesn't mean people dont get to express their views | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Get off of OLD!New hobbies, friends of friends... Not dating, just making your life more full, being more social. If you choose the right hobbies, the right people to hang out, you will find HV men. Where do you think you could find better men? At the shitty pub and the gym or at a coffee shop in a better part of town, or a museum, or a place to do some hobby. If you get along with HV people, e assure you their circle is also HV. Just go from there. Probability wise, its a better choice than OLD. And you get t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Get off of OLD!wasn't being passive agressive. truly hope it works out for the women that do use OLD despite of my opinion about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Get off of OLD!agree obviously, for me is basically the same... not worth it either way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 15 | Get off of OLD!It’s not wrong, just risky and most likely waste of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:30 PM |
| 11 | Get off of OLD!You think men you meet on OLD are potential friends then? Look I respect I’m not trying to be judgmental, but I honestly think men on OLD aint good men, not as partners, and not as friends because you started the relationship as potential sex partners (since thats the point of OLD) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:28 PM |
| 25 | Get off of OLD!I don’t understand... I dont have time or patience to have online conversations with men, high value or not. Just seems like a waste of time to me Just dont try to meet men during a pandemic, online or not, is meeting a man really that urgent? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:20 PM |
| 33 | Get off of OLD!It not better to get some hobbies and meet people in the regular way? What do you think about answering to DMs on social media? Do you think something good can get out of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:17 PM |
| 18 | Get off of OLD!You think a reasonably intelligent man couldn’t curate his social profiles, have a decent carrer, be well spoken, just want to use women for sex, and be good at deceiving them to get there? Yes majority of men irl are low value, and that percentage grows exponentially on OLD, because OLD is known as a good way to get pussy and not commitment, so it is a LVM magnet. Is just not a smart choice to waste time there. Is like wanting a man that is rich and going to a poor neighborhood to find youself … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:51 AM |
| 33 | Get off of OLD!Yes it is a big part of our dating world, however, its the shittiest part also. Why waste your time there hoping to find a HVM when using OLD is on itself a red flag with men? No HVM will be on OLD unless it is a very specific app just for LTR, which tinder, hinge, etc are not. The most popular the app, the less HVMs will be in it. On OLD you get men that do everything to pass your vetting tests just to pump and dump. That’s what they are there for and believe me, they know the game. They know v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Hey sisters, don't you think compliments from men are trash?Only like compliments from women or gay men honestly ahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:02 AM |
| 7 | Cause a woman can’t be funny or cute without a catch 🙄 I get responses like this daily. OLD is a cesspool.Please don’t try to find a HVM on OLD. Almost impossible honey, you’re just wasting your time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:52 AM |
| 17 | Pick Meisha mad that a man who wasn’t even willing to commit “cheated” on her after she bought him Husband level Christmas gifts. Thoughts?the flat bill hat ahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:52 AM |
| 2 | BOOK SUMMARY: The Gift of Fear - Chapter 4: SURVIVAL SIGNALShttps://book4you.org/book/1238618/83926a you can download it here. this site is great (z-library) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:26 AM |
| 22 | Why LVM don’t do house projectsIt emasculates them to have some other man doing it for them. Fragile male ego 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 8 | The decency: “I have a wife and a gorgeous kid but you’re georgous”I have worked in multiple bars and nightclubs part time (im in college). Men that hit on women there are the worst. Most tried to flirt with me, they hit on anyone even the women working that just want to be left alone. It’s just to have someone to hookup for the night. No man is looking for his next wife in the club | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 39 | Why LVM don’t do house projectsStep 1 - Contract hot handy man so that scrote sees him doing the work that needs to be done Step 2 - Pay with scrote’s money Step 3 - Dump scrote’s ass Step 4 - ✨Profit✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:41 AM |
| 44 | FDS saved me todayYes! Also see FDS as an online BFF that always gives the best advice ahaha this sub embodies Strong Independent Woman energy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 230 | Scrotes mad at us on Reddit when they see pictures of us buying our own cars/ rings etc. Mad at us if we require a man to provide. Mad at us anyway. I love this sub but maybe we should discuss less random NVM/incels opinions as they are literally nobodys.It’s good to adress some of their claims here so that women new to the sub that have been blinded by patriarchy can understand our points, and it’s even better that they talk about FDS since a lot of us came here after reading some scrote criticizing the sub elsewhere. However just prints of conversations with LVMs or that kind of thing I do consider unnecessary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 6 | Objectification and Physical CategorizationWe should tho. Give them a little pay back just before kicking their ass to the curb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:30 PM |
| 28 | Porn is not cheatingI have had this conversation with male friends. I honestly think they all watch it, specially younger generations that grew up with access to it. The ones that quit are the ones that got severely addicted. The ones that see it less doesn’t even cross their minds that could be a problem. I think some would stop if asked and explained why tho Lol I think men are a waste of time 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:21 AM |
| 92 | Reminder...Be careful about messing around with fuckboys. They know that game better than us, they have been playing it longer. He’s sad because his ego is hurt, not his feelings. Don’t put yourself in a position where you can fall in love with a fuckboy. Just dont engage with that type of man at all, much less sleep with them, they don’t deserve it anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I think I'm going to institute a new rule to help me get mine and weed out the trashYes! Knowing your body is an essential first step to be able to have good sex. Most women can only cum if they are the ones ‘taking charge’ of pressure, timing and rhythm. A HVM will let you do your thing and not getting impatient while you’re at it, and with time will know what he has to do to help you reach orgasm. Every women is different, you have to know your body to be able to guide him and let him know what you like. If he ignores or isn’t open to advice, he aint it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:58 PM |
| 19 | !!ROAST THE SCROTES!!Thank youuu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 34 | !!ROAST THE SCROTES!!Their pp is always very soft 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:41 AM |
| 28 | !!ROAST THE SCROTES!!Same, never used, always viewed tinder as an hookup app, and always thought that if a man has tinder he is not relationship material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 40 | !!ROAST THE SCROTES!!Yes, even though I do personally prefer tall men, the problem with most short men isn’t the height, is the inferiority complex that normally comes with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 13 | !!ROAST THE SCROTES!!Tinder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:22 AM |
| 39 | !!ROAST THE SCROTES!!Oh the one thing men aren’t bad at is emanating red flag energy, if we were to list them all we would get really tired ahaha We could do a part 2 though 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 10 | Guy admitting that he lied about liking a girl so that he could have sex with herBackwards cap, fanny bags, sunglasses at night/indoors, skinny jeans,... if a man wears any of this, he aint it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:27 PM |
| 6 | A pp after too many sexual partners 😔Amazing. Wish more women understood that if a man is engaging in casual sex he aint it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Reconsidering marriage and kids?I understand what you are trying to say, however, seeing what my mom has gone through to raise me and my two sisters alone after divorce, I really dont think it's a good idea to have kids by myself or to risk being the sole caretaker. if you have kids alone, or with a man who doesn't really help at home/with bills, you most likely have to give up your own life to be able to work, take care of the home and take care of the kids. Its A LOT easier while having a HVM by your side. I just dont feel l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Reconsidering marriage and kids?that's my fear, we can vet all we want, still doesn't garantee nothing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Reconsidering marriage and kids?But for them is a matter of ownership. Being able to say "thats MINE". And when that happens with kids, happens with the woman also. Suddenly you become his property too. I dont want to be pregnant for 9 months, push a baby out, care for them 18plus years just so a man can say "This is MY kid, my blood, my legacy" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Why it's important to date multiple guysI feel that if you actually checked for red flags before, most men wouldn't even qualify. Example: see who he follows on social media, see what he likes, how he behaves online. All of this can give great insight on someone without even having to go on a date. And 90% of men dont pass this first test... I dont know how you find so many potential HVM that are also attractive but okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | SUB SUGGESTION: Critical Theory + Radical Feminism + Liberation of WomenI'm an architecture student, doing my master's dissertation. My dissertation is about finding ways out of the system through architecture/housing options. However, a lot of the resources on liberation eventually lead me to feminism and female liberation. I would like to share some quotes, essays and books so this community has access to them, but maybe creating a sub specially dedicated to critical theory and actual feminism would be a better option. What do you think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Social Media and Red FlagsYeah.... no. How did you meet btw? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:09 AM |
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