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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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177	I finally broke up with my narcissistic abusive ex and everyone around him thinks I'm In the long run narcs always uncover themselves to everybody. His friends will see his mask slip eventually, be it in 10 years, doesn’t matter. You should cut contact with every mutual friend otherwise you won’t heal. Find a safer place to live. They WILL see his true self, while you’ll be healed and thriving. Eventually even the stupidest friends see patterns of behavior. And the comparison to future you will make them understand you were right all along. In the meanwhile, their opinions are ir…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/21 11:47 AM
105	Sisters, the vetting NEVER stops. Once you accept this, you will feel more confident and less insecure in your relationships with men This is especially true for those under 25. I’ve seen several men in their 20s being somewhat normal, then getting redpilled or escalating narc tendencies and become literal monsters by 25.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 07:45 PM
2	This woman I reached out to on a sub wants your thoughts and opinions on her situation. Everybody has given great inputs but just in case you’re still reading comments and need reassurance: he is a massive pos who was planing on cheating. When I snooped on my ex, it was because my gut screamed to. Mine also projected like your ex did, and I suspected. Then I found some cheating evidence and stupidly, pre-fds, didn’t confront him. Also, suddenly going to the gym is in the cheater’s textbook. Happened to me as well. This is all a blessing in disguise: go no contact and read here so y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/21 03:57 PM
14	The novelty variant of the "Blood in the water" test: "Nobody has ever done ... to me" Brilliant!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/21 06:11 AM
30	Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄 💯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/21 05:53 AM
11	I’m just so over dating at this point Lv men became dry and with 5-6 hr breaks between texts after we started dating. They want to appear busy (with “options”) and they are afraid of rejection so if it won’t work out they can convince themselves/their lv buddies that they didn’t even want it to. Anyways, low self esteem 🚮 I also don’t think he’s losing interest (and I think it stems from the socialization of “not good enough”). He already knew you so it’s not deep enough yet for him to lose interest in your character + men don’t dat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 06:49 AM

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