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That poor short little thing tried his best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:22 PM
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No matter how perfect he seems, a person who is secure will not use you for validation or hurt you on purpose. He was manipulative and gaslit you with his letter, and tried to triangulate you with another woman on top of it and you still saw right through him. I'm sorry you went through that and I just want to let you know that I'm really proud of you for ending it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:36 AM
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"Looks aren't everything" yeah right... It was hard not showing him how disgusted he made me feel I'm ashamed of myself for it, but if I can get one person to think "god, how well do I really know this person I met in an MMO chatroom" and cut him off, I'd be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:31 AM
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Men are trying to help their fellow "kings" cope by telling each other that looks aren't the be all, end all of relationships. Personality matters! They don't understand that in the past women put up with men who had neither personality nor looks because they had to! Women couldn't work. Then they started settling for only personality because women were still being socialized to believe looks don't matter, and to give the ugly men a a shot. Finally the way daughters are being raised is catching …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:25 AM
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Probably couldn't slow down because porn addiction and death grip ruined sensation for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:52 PM
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sniff checking their dick on their fingers, in public This is the first time I've seen anyone acknowledge that men do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:56 AM
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He's not even objectifying you with the sick kind of fondness he'd express for his dumb dog or his fleshlight. He's literally saying "I love you too much to not hurt you and expose you to disease and unwanted pregnancy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:54 PM
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Good on you for wanting better. This isn't like being annoyed because he keeps leaving the toilet seat up. He doesn't deserve to be with you or any woman if he chooses porn over the relationship. It's okay to set boundaries with your partners. Exclusivity in a relationship means he can't pursue other women, whether on OLD, instagram, onlyfans or in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:24 PM
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Sex positivity is one of the most powerful lies young women accept because it absolves them of thinking critically about their choices, their bodies, their future. It has convinced women that it's empowering (it's totally okay to have sex, it feels good and you want to feel good, and that's all that matters) to give yourself away, to sell yourself like a product. Sex positivity exists for male consumers. Sex positivity exists to commodify and ruin women. If I were to call myself sex positive bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:54 PM
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I appreciate it. I'm so excited for the possibilities ahead. I'm also so happy that you got to experience fulfilling things even if your ex did not share in them with you. I'm sure at clubs and concerts he's the oldest one there and I can only imagine how people roll their eyes at someone describing their career as a former "pro" gamer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:14 PM
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That's exactly why he did it, a loan from nobody is a debt to nobody. His parents would have probably expected repayment with threat of cutting off resources, if they were decent parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:00 PM
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You explained the heart of the issue so succinctly. Thank you. Their resentment is the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:51 PM
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I'm sure he was just depressed and needed ~communication~ and therapy. He was paying the bills (or his mother was, or you were) so it was wrong and controlling of you to challenge his financial autonomy by telling him to get a job. He's allowed to have his hobbies and spend his free time how he wants. If he chooses to have no purpose in his life, that's his choice and you just have to respect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:48 PM
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I entered the relationship knowing he was a gamer, and I was too. We were both in a bad place. Lesson learned: never look for romantic companionship in a time of need or while you're emotionally suffering. I was depressed but I always had hope for something better and eventually went back to school. I thought he would want to level up and experience all the hallmarks of building a successful life together but found after moving in with him, in a different state, that he was content working two d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:27 PM
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It feels so nice to know it's okay to just take small steps. ♥️ I can't wait for the freedom that'll come with a space of my own. After that, everything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:46 AM
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Thank you. I won't give up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:34 AM
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There are so many things I've wanted to fill my time with that I had given up on because it felt empty without the acknowledgment of someone who's supposed to care about me. Hiking, art, cooking, learning an instrument and so many other things. Something like a paint night would be so fun. All this time I've blocked out that I have life left ahead of me, and now I'm excited to think that I'm going to rescue the time he would have otherwise continued to steal. I suddenly feel like a hero. Thank y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:29 AM
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I'm happy you were able to get out. That's exactly how I've felt for so long, like life is over, but something snapped in me after the new year when he said I should just get over it. It's overwhelming, but then you've done it while caring for two little ones to boot. Thank you for your support. Can I ask what leaving was like for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:16 AM
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Visualize the path between days and decades... Everything that you said resonates with me, but this especially gives me hope. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:05 AM
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His words are dripping with spite. He can't name the new emotional experience because he'd out himself as a sociopath. He's vindicated knowing women who have scorned him despite his obvious empathy are suffering - if only they were smart enough to choose him instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:49 PM
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