fdsalt1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	🤡 He’d also like to point out he hasn’t had a decent conversation with anyone on here and that is your job to fix	MALE DEPRAVITY	fdsalt1	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/22 07:47 PM
1	This woman's husband cheats on her with a man so she decides to have an "open marriage"	PICKME CULTURE	fdsalt1	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 05:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I walked away when my needs weren't met If he had said something like, "I am enjoying getting to know you but I don't think I know you well enough to commit quite yet" that would be totally fine after "about a month" The 🚩 is "I want to still get to know other people." Meaning: you're fine for now but I am hoping something better will come along. His answer wasn't about the relationship between the two of you, it was about him looking for other options.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 05:46 PM
99	Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scrote This is not "cheating", he's grooming a child! He's a predator.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 02:44 PM
10	Lost A public defender is for someone accused of a crime. Civil matters like divorce proceedings allow optional representation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/22 09:27 PM
14	Red flags are red flags. Not yellow or orange—they’re red. This is a good point. The way I've worked through it is: the red flag isn't so much what the person did, it's how it made me feel. If the action wasn't that big and then I let them know it kinda bothered me, do they validate or launch into something that makes me feel worse for even mentioning it? That's what the red flag is. It really clears it up for me and helps me be more in tune with my feelings and not get so hung up on well maybe they didn't mean it that way. It's more a red flag about co…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/22 02:36 AM
1	Is there a cure for pornsickness? After a three year relationship with a porn and masturbation addict, I talked to a therapist once who treated a lot of porn addiction. Essentially, I learned that pornsickness is just an addiction to masturbation and overreliance on the self. It is Avoidant Attachment in extreme form because the porn addict is terrified to ever rely on another person for meeting their sexual needs. They see porn addiction as a strength and are proud of their self-reliance and independence through masturbation an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 02:08 AM
3	We owe it to our grandmothers to live out our best lives Researching family history I found my great great grandparents in several censuses. My great great grandmother immigrated to the US from Italy when she was 19 with my great great grandfather who was 27. They were likely first cousins. The censuses list grade 6 listed as her highest level of education. She couldn't read or write or speak English her entire life despite living her for decades. The census lists her occupation as "homemaker" and says she had 10 live births and 8 children. My grandmo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 05:44 AM
19	Looking the same after babies Agreed. How sad was it that only weeks after giving birth, Meghan Markle's body had not completely recovered obviously and yet she dressed up and looked nice with her husband and new baby and still a post-birth belly bump and it was seen as radical and she was literally applauded for showing herself in person in such a state?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 06:02 PM
47	A “predictable response” from a redditor. My concern about men preying on young girls is definitely just jealousy 🙄 This is so true. When I was 26 a 35-year-old pursued me hard. I repeatedly mentioned the age difference to him and he did exactly what you said, condescended to me and told me maybe I wasn't mature enough to handle an age difference in our relationship. He said we had a connection but if the connection wasn't enough for me I would be better off with someone younger. He was a total manipulative predator. When I see younger women with older men, it's not that I am "jealous" it's that I want to war…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/22 09:12 PM