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I used to like that sub (and still occasionally participate on another account) but it’s so infuriating. People are literally writing think pieces defending Clayton and about how no one is allowed to use the term gaslighting unless it fits their own narrow definition while doing anything they can to blame Susie and drag her for having standards and boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:14 PM
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Exactly this. Madi had the same concerns and told Peter before fantasy suites, and I remember clearly how the bachelor sub piled on her. They twist themselves into pretzels to blame the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:10 PM
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That's true, and I'm happy that it seems like the number of women potentially harmed by him is small, but he said he's had to refer patients before and if even one women who sees him can't get contraception I think that's unacceptable. It's normal to get BC pills from a PCP where I live, and many women may not have the time or money for a surprise referral. Even worse if the woman is in an abusive situation where getting contraception might be an urgent and almost life-or-death matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:04 AM
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The bar for men is in hell. I'm not glad he's neglecting the medical needs of what could be up to half of his patient population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:04 AM
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I have to disagree, I feel like that's just accepting weaponized incompetence. Contraception definitely falls within scope for a PCP and if he doesn't understand it he needs to take the time to learn. I could maybe accept that in complicated cases, for women who don't react well to multiple methods, a consultation with a specialist is appropriate. But there are plenty of resources to learn - one of the sane doctors on the original thread linked him to training resources that they said shouldn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:00 AM
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Starter comment: Ladies, what are your experiences with male doctors? I thought all primary care doctors were required to know how to prescribe contraception (because that's probably one of the main concerns for half of their patient population) and do basic gyn (routine pap smears). That's certainly the case with my female primary care doctor. Given how straightforward this should be and the hassle of US healthcare, I would be absolutely furious if I encountered a doctor like the one in this po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:24 PM
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Has anyone else read the recent TIFU post about flipping a mattress? Basically, a woman and her husband moved houses and flipped their mattress (that wasn’t supposed to be flipped), and didn’t realize until 9 months later when the mattress was still uncomfortable. Fairly minor mistake right? There are comments calling her insane, downvoting her far into the negatives, basically telling her she’s a silly woman and should take time to reflect on what else she’s messing up, and telling her that she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:42 PM
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That was my first thought as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:14 PM
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Woww. "Don't bring those standards here" while a man in the same situation would be celebrated. ETA: This reminds me of something the ladies on the FDS podcast stated - that men police each other to have high standards while both men and women police women to have low standards, and it's so so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:56 AM
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Wow this looks familiar. My ex and his roommate were doctors in residency and their bathroom always looked like this or worse (there was often literal black mold in the tub). Now makes me wonder about their hygiene with hospitalized patients 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:10 AM
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The funny thing is, even if that was true (it isn't), it's still other men doing the raping! Men are the problem, this doesn't go both ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:40 AM
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Great discussion on this episode. Like Reaux, one of the most dangerous situations I was ever in was because of a woman. We were best friends in high school and connected at the hip. We went to different universities and started growing apart because I was more studious and she went a little nuts - going out drinking seven nights a week, cheating on her bf, etc. One weekend I flew out to visit her and we went out to the bars. The night started out bad and got worse. She kept ditching me alone or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:52 PM
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This quote from the article hit me hard: 'Survivors of prostitution consider it “serial rape,” so they regard the term “sex work” as gaslighting... “Sex work” implies that prostituted people really want to do what they have virtually no choice in doing. That their poverty, homelessness, prior sexual abuse as children, subjection to racism, exclusion from gainful occupations or unequal pay plays no role. That they are who the pornography says they are, valuable only for use in it.' As an aside, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:18 PM
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Same! I'd love recommendations for good accounts to follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:54 PM
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I think it's an Andrew Dworkin quote: "To right wing men, we are private property. To left wing men, we are public property." I often feel politically homeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 10:44 PM
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