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| 28 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several DatesYes. I went off the rails a little in my thread trying to defend women who engage in risky behavior due to bad circumstances. This is also a big reason why I would defend women who engage in this behavior. Not every imperfect woman is a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several DatesIf a woman is keeping her whereabouts a secret and is frequently engaging in unprotected sex with randoms, then it is probably more series then your average pickme case. tw prostitution/SA/suicide ideation: It reminds me of when I was financially forced into prostitution to prevent myself from becoming homeless. I would not let anyone know where I was. Partially because I was ashamed of it, but also because I wanted to die. I started experiencing psychosis and would fantasize about my johns murd… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several Dateswhen did i ever say that they were not about dating? besides the anti vax one, they are. i was disagreeing that some of these features will automatically make someone a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 7 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several DatesI said half, not all. Of course you would choose those examples from your list to make it seem like I'm criticizing protected sex. tw sa: Are you wanting to know my exact thought process from that time when a man removed the condom and kept going? You want me to defend myself from a pickme accusation because he did not listen to me when I suggested we stop because I was scared/uncomfortable/did not realize how bad that was? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:12 PM |
| 32 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several Datesright. we always say that women make choices for ourselves, that not everything we do is for men, yet i cant even shoot myself in the foot without being accused of doing it for male validation. i came from a dysfunctional, abusive household. very few people, male or female, would leave that situation as a HV person. that did not automatically make me a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 78 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several Datesoften, but not even in most cases. it has never been true for me. even when i was actively being sexually abused by men, i did not give af about what men thought. i was just unable to create boundaries for myself and i did not know what to do. i had no guidance. stop calling everyone a pickme. pickmes are women who live for male attention and put themselves and other women down to get it. by being so harsh towards other women, are we pushing women away? and are we engaging in the culture that pu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 128 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several Dateslol I am not risking my health just to use bc for a man. Also half of these are either irrelevant or seem like they could stem from low self esteem rather than a desperation to please men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 5 | I’m not sorry I have physical standards, die mad scrotes 🖕🏽🤷🏻♀️yep. "women chose men who act like this, that's why they are the way they are." WHEN??? Since people like using other mammals in the animal kingdom so much when talking about human evolution, males are large to fight other males of the same species. This is true almost across the board. Why do people think its so different when it comes to humans? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 9 | I’m not sorry I have physical standards, die mad scrotes 🖕🏽🤷🏻♀️Right. I am getting a little sick of certain users claiming it is women's fault for the way men behave. I see it frequently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:34 PM |
| 16 | I’m not sorry I have physical standards, die mad scrotes 🖕🏽🤷🏻♀️WTH is this? How is this FDS at all? This video does nothing but blame women for how men behave. If we determine how men behave, is she saying that women bred men to violently oppress us? And if we chose men with bigger muscles to "protect" us, who in this scenario are our men protecting us from? In this scenario, men would have already had to have been violent. Human males are small compared to other large animals. It is not like men evolved to fight tigers and bears with their bare hands. The … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Sexualization of Children?!? | LED LiveMy niece was gifted an LOL doll once. Not the surprise LOL doll, but a normal sized one. The amount of detail that went into the body was disturbing. First, its proportions were crazy, complete with large breasts, small waist, and a very thick butt. It also had a weird amount of detail on its body. It had nipples, muscle definition, everything. They made it look like a mini sex doll. After learning about the LOL surprise doll scandal, I threw it out. Barbie gets a bad rep but at least she can be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 21 | This is how black men feel about black womenWhere can I find where Susan b Anthony was against the black female vote? She was an abolition activist. I know she has a quote about saying that black men should wait for the vote, but she only said that to mock Fredrick Douglas because he said that all women should wait and focus on black men instead. If you look up many other feminist icons the internet usually says that they were also in support of black causes. I agree that there has been a disproportional focus on ww as we have typically h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:21 PM |
| 49 | This is how black men feel about black womenI think it’s safe to say that the ww who voted for trump tend to not identify as feminists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 0 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:17 PM |
| 0 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!I have been hit on while underaged, had food thrown at me, been robbed at work, and looked down on, but i still do not use the karen meme as it is obviously not used in my defense. it is just thinly veiled sexism. using it solves nothing, it just silences women. also it is horrible customer service to wrap meat up with a vegan meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:55 AM |
| 13 | Her quote says it all.most of us here will obviously disagree that theft and rape are comparable, but don't you realize that men already view it that way? the quote isn't saying that rape should be seen as theft, it's saying that by making sex work a valid line of work, it will only solidify the opinion that rape and theft are comparable. after all, if our body is a commodity and men steal it, it would be theft. she is saying that our bodies should not be commodities so we are not objects to be stolen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:15 AM |
| 10 | Once again, from the horse’s mouthThe only time I can think of this happening to a man was with Justin Bieber when he was struggling with lyme disease. I remember that for some reason. It makes sense that he was picked on though, men hate him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 12 | Her quote says it all.this quote does not say that women are objects to be stolen. it is saying the opposite of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!I am not going to name subreddits here as it against the rules, but do you happen to know where and how the karen meme originated on reddit? But I have also worked in the service industry for many years. Anybody who gets that upset because an old person gave them a dirty look needs to get over themselves. The karen meme is not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!I saw a video of a man dumping his drink onto a black female mcdonalds employee recently and the comments were saying she looked like she deserved it even though there wasnt any context, so yeah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 5 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!No it did not. Karen originated on reddit. I am familiar with the names black twitter used to use for racist middle aged white people as I used to follow it, but the decision to finally land on Karen to describe all of them was up to reddit males. How long have you been on reddit for? They have been using karen to describe any woman with a particular haircut over a certain age for years. Media outlets only say it originated on black twitter to excuse the usage of it, but its only to shield thems… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!Don't believe the media outlets that claim calling someone a Karen is just, or even that it started out as something good but then got hijacked. Karen has been around for years and it has always been about sexism against aging women. It was created and popularized on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:40 PM |
| 384 | Once again, from the horse’s mouthThis is not true at all. It peeves me when people say men age better/have better skin. They only say that because the standards for men and their skin are in hell. Go right now and look up an "attractive" older male celebrity, so the supposed best of the best. Look at his skin, would a woman be able to get away with that? absolutely not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 4 | Watch until the end!Thank you for saying that. This coming from him does not sit right with me but I have not been feeling very articulate recently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:04 AM |
| 0 | Watch until the end!Okay I take back my statement for mental health but my point still stands for climate change. Climate change is an extremely accepted view point. You need to ask who his audience is. He is not trying to convince elderly folk in rural areas or members of the alt right. His audience wont deny climate change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:02 AM |
| -6 | Watch until the end!He could have used climate change or mental illness instead. Both of those are generally more accepted. He even could have pretended to be a flat earther or anti vaxx. I don't know why he felt he had choose a women's issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 12:07 AM |
| 41 | Watch until the end!I think this is a bad example because periods are physical. A better example would have been to compare it to people who say their friends could not possibly be rapists/abusers because they personally have not been abused by them, or he could have said that depression does not exist because you might not see/experience it yourself. But either way this is a false equivalency. Denying systemic racism is comparable to denying systemic sexism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 29 | Men want traditional women until its time for them to be traditional men and be providers.Many of them already are liberal feminists. At least half of libfems are male. Where do you think libfems get their ideals? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:59 PM |
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