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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Dating the way the older generations did?Yes. Will do. I was strong before, and I can be strong now. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Dating the way the older generations did?Oof, definitely a safety blanket. Never thought about it that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Dating the way the older generations did?I don’t know why I thought I should even give that place a chance, but I like that it’s women only over here- because then I can’t be gaslighted by strange men on the internet! Thank you for your help.! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Dating the way the older generations did?Yes, I know I have issues I need to work on, but by no means am I crazy for stating exactly what I saw. I can’t edit this post, but I wanted to mention that I’ve been following the Greta Bereseita (sorry not sure on the spelling?) method. She teaches women to behave in a high value way to get the results you want from a man. I have to admit, they definitely do work. It’s hard to leave because he does treat me fairly well. Always taking me out to nice dinners, getting me little gifts, putting me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Dating the way the older generations did?That is very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Dating the way the older generations did?Yes! How do people on relationshipadvice come to the conclusion that I’m insecure? I’m sure I’m insecure in ways, but what I saw, is what I saw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Dating the way the older generations did?It’s sounds very strange, but I focus better? Most of my friends are busy with college and families now, so we don’t see each other like we used to. I work a lot now too. It’s just nice to hang out with someone occasionally and then keep going. Without it, I feel very lonely sometimes. I dumped him once, and we got back together after 8 months. I was happy, but my dog passed and I felt very alone and traumatized, so I went back because I need the comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:23 AM |
| 7 | Dating the way the older generations did?Thank you 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 3 | What are your favorite FDS Youtube channels? (And a rant)Agreed. Just was adding that either way, going for married men is against fds principles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:27 PM |
| 5 | What are your favorite FDS Youtube channels? (And a rant)Yeah, Shera talks about dating married basketball players and getting money from them... uhh so you were a paid pick me? I wouldn’t give the time of day to cheating trash no matter the amount of money they offer me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:58 PM |
| 26 | good boy will let her take a shitOmg. This was me throughout my teens. I would purposely not eat for days on end just to make sure I wouldn’t have to use the bathroom when out with my bf at the time. Or, I would tell them how long the line was, or how I had a phone call to take if I was in there for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 01:01 PM |
| 15 | Disgusting pig calls woman "toxic" for being cheated onStay away from those subs!!! I was on one of them a few days ago, I guess to rant and get some uplifting advice, and although I did get some quality advice from a few people, this one scrote had the audacity to tell me that I was way too insecure and that’s why my ex emotionally cheated on me constantly! And that even “cuddling” with a female “best friend” was not cheating... man, I feel bad for his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if I’m a pickmeisha... but pretty sure I need therapy.I did for a long time, but honestly it’s been too long... and we all know that if he wants you, he will show it. We’ve been no contact for 2 months, and he’s blocked anyway. All ties have been cut, so it’s just getting over the rumination and I should be all good! And also not repeating the same mistakes in the future too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Not sure if I’m a pickmeisha... but pretty sure I need therapy.I needed it. And very true, thanks for ripping the glasses right off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Not sure if I’m a pickmeisha... but pretty sure I need therapy.I never thought about it that way, and I’ve managed to think of this situation a million different ways. This has been stressing me out for the past 6 months, and I’m happy to say that I’m ready for full closure. This is the advice I needed. Thank you so much ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Not sure if I’m a pickmeisha... but pretty sure I need therapy.Thank you. This is exactly what I needed to hear. I don’t measure up, and they won’t either, he’s just that type of guy. I will keep leveling up for myself first, and then maybe for a man who deserves me, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Not sure if I’m a pickmeisha... but pretty sure I need therapy.He seemed genuine about them being just his friends. After our final breakup, and him hanging out with them one on one has proven different. I walked away mostly based on some hints and basic intuition, which are proving to be true. And no, I didn’t beg for him back, just told him I’m not interested in friendship, and if it’s nothing more then just to not contact me anymore. Maybe the comparing is due to the fact that he would follow hot Instagram girls and also had literally 100 girls numbers i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Not sure if I’m a pickmeisha... but pretty sure I need therapy.I guess that is the pickmeisha in me. Maybe to him they truly are better, and that’s just life. I wish I didn’t have to be the center of all this when I was in a relationship with him. I appreciate any advice or lecturing as long as it’s from fds :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:27 PM |
| 9 | Not sure if I’m a pickmeisha... but pretty sure I need therapy.I will work on it. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:18 PM |
| 14 | Has anyone ran into this problem? Read this woman's story and can't help but to relateI liked my male best friend throughout high school, but I was very overweight. He of course was not into me. I lost weight that summer, and he hadn’t seen me in a few months... BOOM! instantly attracted to me and making sexual remarks. Now, we’ve been friends since kindergarten, and he is inching closer to being a HVM the older we get, he understands boundaries, and has cut that stuff out. Male friends are rare though, I’m happy that he knows how to control himself because I’d hate to lose a lif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 08:18 PM |
| 23 | The Accuracy 🎯Also, look out for these red flags within yourself. When I was with a lvm, his manipulation was causing me to ask him to cut people (“female friends”) off, dress differently (dressing up and buying all new clothes for nights out with the “friends”), and giving him minimal privacy because I had a gut feeling something was going on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 4 | What do you do when you’re already doing everything right?Yes, it’s the constant obsessing even when busy. I will try this technique. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 04:00 AM |
| 4 | What do you do when you’re already doing everything right?I will look into it, might be more comfortable with it too. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 02:10 AM |
| 8 | What do you do when you’re already doing everything right?I do believe that saying, but I feel like it doesn’t apply to men? They seem to move on so quick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 01:57 AM |
| 29 | AITA post, I’m speechless.Great situation to learn from either way. My apologies, reddit kept giving me an error when I tried to post a link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 01:05 AM |
| 11 | AITA post, I’m speechless.Ty!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, opinions on this article?Love the reply. I got a whole pick me vibe from the article... but about a year ago, I would’ve totally followed this article. Ughhhhhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:57 AM |
| 4 | But I was the better girl?Thank you. It’s very obvious that this has been effecting my mental health in every way. But no contact is moving me in the right direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:11 AM |
| 4 | But I was the better girl?Thank you for the reassurance. It’s not the girl’s fault if my bf was flirting with her. And I definitely do not chase men or fight for them lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:26 AM |
| 19 | But I was the better girl?Yes, just writing this made me disappointed in myself. I never thought like this before, and I don’t like to think of myself as “better” than anyone, because I’m definitely not. But I know I am good enough. This man would tell me how this girl used too many drugs, and then flirt with her. The girl is friendly and definitely cute, and her smoking habits aren’t his business. It encouraged the pick me behavior in me because I was like “hey, but I don’t do anything”, and I’m cute too, so why am I no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:35 AM |
| 15 | But I was the better girl?Thank you. I guess it just goes a little deeper to me. I knew that I was more than good enough, so I just felt worthy of more, and could not understand why I was trying so hard to prove it to him. I followed all that bs about needing to communicate my “needs”, but in reality I was having to explain to a guy why I needed the BARE MINIMUM. And also negging. Lots of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Would you accept any low value traits, if the high value traits outweigh them?Ooo hell no, I was talking about a new man who jerks it but still pays attention to you... the ex is a lost cause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Would you accept any low value traits, if the high value traits outweigh them?🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:47 AM |
| 29 | Would you accept any low value traits, if the high value traits outweigh them?Perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Do certain areas have more HVM?Hmm, let me try to explain... if the man has money (not daddy’s money), that to me shows he has a good work ethic, which is an important trait to me because my past exes could not hold jobs down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do exes offer us friendship?He told me that he didn’t want me to have feeling for him, and I told him that it was too hard for me so I would rather be strangers. If he wanted me, he would’ve done something about it 🤷🏻♀️... yeah we were best friends, but I want more. It is what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:20 AM |
| 7 | Why do exes offer us friendship?I broke up with him, so the ball was always in my court... but also, I think being friends with an ex is a total pick me move considering that there’s a fat chance you still have feelings for them and you would be trying to get him to “pick” you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Why do exes offer us friendship?Yeah, and then again, I wouldn’t date a guy whose friends with his ex, so I would feel bad for the next girl knowing he’s still hoping to sleep with me lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 10:55 PM |
| 8 | Why do exes offer us friendship?I told him not to contact me anymore, and I know I’m on a good path. Stuff like that is truly triggering. Thank you for the reassurance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 11 | Why do exes offer us friendship?True, but he wanted us to hang out and go places with nothing sexual involved... but why? That’s just leading me on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Do LVM change for the “right” women?Excellent. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Do LVM change for the “right” women?WORD FOR WORD!! It was always the girls wanting him and him “rejecting” them. What a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Do LVM change for the “right” women?Ooo... and he would pick girls “hotter” than me... so HE settled. Thank God for FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Do LVM change for the “right” women?Ugh girl, I was his caretaker 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:45 PM |
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