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21

My very EX boyfriend HATED this quote. I ended up marrying a man who is capable of loving an independent woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:05 AM
8

u/Shabutie420, with love, do you REALLY want to be a girlfriend for life for your POS alcoholic boyfriend? Really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:00 PM
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Fuck that guy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:08 PM
8

A heterosexual man who isn’t all about my pussy is bizarre. Period. I’ve never dated a guy who wasn’t really, really into pussy - like looking, touching, tasting. I feel the same way about dick so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:23 AM
-12

Got it - Men suffer from the problems men create. here’s the smallest violin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:36 AM
3

It’s not “creepy” to not want to fuck everyone lol. You are SO normal and your sex life sounds really healthy. As a woman in her late 30’s, it’s almost a little frustrating for me to have to convince younger women that “sex involves an emotional connection”. I didn’t grow up with hookup culture or ubiquitous porn. In college, women were agitating for the right to have casual sex lol. “Slut walks”, that sort of thing. I felt a sense of incongruity then - Yes, I want to be able to freely make my o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:36 PM
4

Just think about all the shades of human sexual feeling that are being shoved under the “queer!1!” umbrella! And then what’s leftover to be labeled as “normal” (porn, hookups and misogyny). I’m shocked that “old fashioned” or what people now consider “prudish” isn’t some kind of “identity” yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:24 PM
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If hookup culture didn’t exist “demisexual” wouldn’t exist either. You have to normalize the idea of hookup culture to even get started creating the “demisexual” identity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:53 PM
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men trying to normalize hookup culture EXACTLY. Don’t feel comfortable fucking any and every guy? Sorry babe thats normal and YOU’RE the odd one out. But don’t worry! We have web comics and t shirts and a qUeEr community for you! Don’t let your normal human feelings be repackaged and resold to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:51 PM
5

Men are GARBAGE. I hope you can get some rest ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:29 PM
11

demisexulaity is a sexual attraction where a person eels sexual attraction only to people they have developed an emotional bond to But isn’t this like the default? We want to have sex with people we have an emotional bond with? I feel like modern hookup culture, rape culture and the patriarchy are trying convince women that a perfectly natural and normal part a human sexuality - Sex comes with an emotional bond! - is somehow a “queer identity”. It’s not. I’m not here to tell you you’re not demis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:25 PM
-31

I like balloon guy’s messages so much I can almost forgive his penis! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:13 PM
30

Good for you! Don’t let garbage men get away with garbage behavior!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:46 AM
-7

This is my throwaway lol. I wish I could show you my main, and then tell me about how much I make excuses for shit men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:34 AM
6

So catty! eyeroll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:33 AM
17

She supported him working overtime. And I agree, she should’ve went out with friends instead of staying home with her boyfriend. There’s no reason she can’t go out and have a good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:32 AM
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Not a newbie despite the flair, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:28 AM
1

No, I was telling her that her feelings are valid, and she should get a good nights sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:28 AM
-7

I get it. I don’t know ALL the details, I wasn’t there, so I’m responding accordingly. You know, like a stranger on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:20 AM
0

It really doesn’t feel good when a night you’ve put effort into doesn’t go as planned. :( I don’t envy your BF for having to work through the holiday, but it sounds like he didn’t really recognize the effort you put into the night. I can’t say if this is like a red flag or anything, but I sympathize ♡ I hope you can get a good night’s sleep and you two can talk about it productively in the morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:21 AM
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I’m definitely really only interested in marriage for the financial and legal aspects No girl, you’re not. You want commitment, you want a socially recognized partnership, you want a husband, you want MARRIAGE. Your boyfriend DOES NOT. This is so sad. Either he says “no” and she’s stuck in a permanent holding pattern because she won’t dump him, or he says “yes” and she’s talking about her “fiancé” 3 more years from now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:49 PM
77

Accusing a woman with a valid complaint as “evil”, “filled with hate” or “bitter” is standard Reddit BS. A go-to phrase that means absolutely nothing and only projects the sayer’s insecurities onto the woman. Whenever someone doesn’t have a logical comeback I’m accused of being “hate-filled” LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:41 PM
7

Women-only subs are awesome ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:45 AM
26

Pregnant queen put your feet up! You’re doing the hard work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 08:51 PM
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oh we have a sub for this!! r/ActualStraightMen/ C’mon in! You don’t have to be Lesbian to participate (though you might wish you were lol)! ActualStraightMen don’t care who the space is for, they just come in dicks a’swinging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 08:32 PM
20

I know how you feel. Touch is super important to me too, and I went YEARS without enough physical contact. It’s really hard. Don’t feel silly about needing it. Knowing this about yourself is really important too. It’s hard, but if you know what you need and you can communicate it to your next potential partner. Good luck! Edit - Congratulations on starting law school!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 08:25 PM
9

Yes. Yes you would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:11 AM
26

One half-baked date and now you’re his MOMMY?? His cold, his medicine, his lookout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:11 AM
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Thanks to MY hard work I leveled-up at work and I’ll be earning more money next year. I discovered FDS, leveled-up my self-respect and dumped my LV boyfriend. I’m feeling good about myself and my boundaries! It’s going to be a good 2020!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:00 PM
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FDS methods aren’t really that new. Women used to have dates with multiple “beaus” before they decided to “go steady” with one (which usually led to marriage).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:50 PM
15

Step right up! SEE the amazing Scared to Commit Scrote! GAZE with amazement at the Contortionist Girlfriend willing to bend in any way necessary to keep her low-value dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:44 PM
13

I don’t want anyone to know about you Sorry that’s not a joke. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:38 PM
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Listening to your needs is so important! Go to bed early if you’re tired, have something to eat if you’re hungry. It’s really small, basic stuff, but I think women are so programmed to think of everyone else first we don’t do for ourselves enough. You have to take care of yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:34 PM
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Skin care! Asian skincare (the multiple step kind) really helped me get out of a long depressive episode, and is surprisingly therapeutic for my OCD (lol?) Pretty underwear! I buy it for ME. Long walks in nature! Being around greenery is also very therapeutic. Loving self-talk! I (try to) talk to myself like a friend. We’re kind and loving when we talk to friends, so I can extend the same kindness and love to myself. ♡ Good luck! You’re an awesome lady who deserves good things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:32 PM
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This just in - Men are garbage! Dating your long-lost daughter?! wow what a pos loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:26 PM
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What wrong choice? NOT staying with a guy whose life goals aren’t meshing with yours? The way you describe him, he doesn’t sound like a huge catch. And the conversation you just had, about him not being ready to marry for another few years, that would’ve really pissed me off. You could probably do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 01:41 PM
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HE told he had no plans to marry you!! That 3-4 years bs is because you put him on the spot. I really believe that I’d you’re nearing 30 it shouldn’t take you longer than a year of serious dating to know if you want to marry someone or not. If your boyfriend couldn’t give you a clear answer by now chances are he’s not really planning on marrying you. Or he’ll string you along for a few years just to be sure nothing better comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 01:38 PM
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Figuring all this out is like half the battle. You can start making changes and decisions to get the future you want now, and you can be happy about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:11 PM
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Think about it this way - Are you a “fixer upper” girlfriend? Does your boyfriend (who also was just caught by surprise at the idea you want to get married) exercising a lot of extra “empathy” to understand your “POV”? There are men out there who are ready to be your husband yesterday, AND who have careers (like you do!) want a family now (like you do!) and have their own apartment (like presumably you do lol). You’re an awesome woman bringing value to the table. What is your boyfriend bringing?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:07 PM
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Do you really want to marry a man who “never had a girlfriend before”, has “lots of debt” and “still living at home”?? Really?? If you are serious about settling down and starting a family soon, he’s not the guy for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:18 AM
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drank the wine and ate the pastries And FUCK YOU low-value loser!! LOL Now go get you some good, fresh, not drunk at 5 am dick LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:07 AM
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With love, it sounds like maybe you should work on personal issues before you’re dating. Sharing personal information is a part of a healthy relationship, and if you don’t feel like you can do that no relationship is going to work very well for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:24 AM
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His idea to meet at a mall right before Christmas sounds awful. But you need to communicate your boundaries more clearly. If you don’t want to go, say no and mean no. If he insists, tell him you can meet him some other time when he has a better plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 04:54 AM
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Maybe it was a neg on OP. Like I said in a later comment, the way he asked made her feel uncomfortable, which was why she posted. That is a problem. But trans women who don’t say upfront they are trans women are not uncommon either, FWIW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:31 AM
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If the way he asked you felt weird though, it might indicate to something larger about his personality/character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 11:44 PM
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I don’t want to argue with you, and I don’t think showing your tits to get a man to pay your phone bill is “leveling up” either, but there’s a big difference between prostitution and running a bullshit game on a man. Even just in terms of mental/physical health and safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:58 PM
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I don’t even really like the term “sex work”. It’s like selling men’s ideas about female sexuality back to us in a way that makes it sound desirable. “Work” is autonomous choice. “Prostitution” sounds prude and old fashioned. But, as a feminist, I don’t want men’s ideas of “eQuALiTy”, and I don’t see FDS as running the same bullshit game on men that men run on me. There is nothing empowering about men using women for sex. And what really bothers me is that the whole “empowered sex worker” myth c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:36 PM
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He probably just sticks it in lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:19 PM
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You’d think he’s get the point from your first comment - A woman who explicitly says she is looking for a partner who respects her time and boundaries probably isn’t down for sexting a stranger. Yet he persists. What’s wrong with brain-dead males who can’t take a hint, much less a “hey d00d no I don’t want to hear about your pp”? NEXT!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:41 PM
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Personal grooming is SO IMPORTANT. I can’t stand a grubby guy - poorly fitting clothes, dirty fingernails, bad skin, unwashed, etc etc. Even if you’re very physically attractive otherwise. Poor grooming shows you’re poor in general, you have poor time management skills, low social awareness and just NOT MY TYPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:16 AM
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Old, worn-out sperm is a well-known medical risk: https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/link-parental-age-autism-explained/ https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/25/well/family/the-risks-to-babies-of-older-fathers.html https://www.dw.com/en/biological-clocks-men-have-them-too/a-48113326 ETCETERA. Ladies looking for families, don’t settle for tired, weak old-man sperm, especially when it comes from flaccid, unhealthy males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:56 PM
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Your gut can tell you better than Reddit. If he seems worth a date he’s probably worth at least a date. And, importantly, It’s just a date. If you really feel iffy ask to speak on the phone before you meet to get a better feel for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:48 PM
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She woke up to find her husband masturbating next to her while sleeping “MANY times” (emphasis hers), despite clearly communicating to him that that’s obviously fucking gross please stop. Okay ladies - Pushing boundaries? GOODBYE. Not respecting clearly set boundaries? GOODBYE. DO NOT be the woman whose husband is ejaculating on her sleeping face and taking pictures of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:23 PM
107

Please sir, may I have a bit of dick sir
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:14 PM
6

I’m a foreigner living and dating in Japan for 17 years. I wouldn’t consider that by itself a red flag, especially if the guy is young. SEA and “exotic” developing countries like Nepal are cheap, popular places for young Japanese people to travel to. I went to Nepal with a Japanese boyfriend many years ago actually. An older guy, established in his career who travels to SEA regularly by himself seems strange though. Actually, I would wonder if a younger guy who travels to Southeast Asia a lot is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:44 PM
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WDI do? girl you LEAVE. If you’re to the point of “oh gee internet strangers my bf’s financial, emotional and sexual resources are all going to random cam girls not me wat do??” you should have left yesterday. I think posts like this really show the value of listening carefully to your “inner voice”. This Reddit post is basically a recording of the insecurities in this poor woman’s relationship. And it sounds ridiculous. I’m sure a month after she breaks up with this asshole and rereads her post…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:22 AM
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“stretched out” is a weird myth made up by people without vaginas lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 10:35 PM
7

Fingering is super underrated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 04:18 PM
28

Unwashed sick dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:19 AM
17

Don’t know why you’re being downvoted. I want to believe OP will have a really positive conversation with dear boyfriend, and he’ll like totally empathize with her and “no babe I love you so much no more porn” or whatever. But ACTUALLY, her boyfriend will probably get defensive and think she’s a prude. And he’ll hide his porn use. If he’s already consuming porn he already doesn’t have a problem using women, and I don’t see OP changing that, nor should she. There are already HVM that don’t use po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:06 PM
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I guess it only depends on if we all actually care what the menz think. TBH any male lurking on FDS is definitely one I am NOT fucking like dude get a life LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:28 AM
7

You don’t know me, but I’m rooting for you ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:15 AM
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Nothing to add, but good for you! It takes a strong woman to break an addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:40 PM
3

Stop replying. You can only stop the crazy train by getting off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:01 PM
17

their pasts are often garbage fires
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:49 PM
55

brainwashed into believing contemporary sex poz bullshit Poly relationships are a MALE FANTASY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:58 PM
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Married her high school sweetheart. In a “poly” relationship. Husband has a fucking live-in girlfriend. (!?!) She still does all the work. Wishing you, your kids and your $25 a week godspeed. Men are fucking GARBAGE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:20 AM
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No drama = You don’t get to have emotions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:09 AM
3

They’re married. Tinder profiles with random pics or very scanty info means married where I live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:08 AM
44

Why marry your high school sweetheart anyways?? LOL Girl there is better dick and higher quality men out there I promise!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:00 AM
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I can’t believe she thinks there’s something there to fix. Her husband sounds like a disgusting piece of shit. I wouldn’t want a man like that around my daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 06:49 AM
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TO BE HONEST, a man who spends large amounts of money on frivolous things, even if they’re for me, isn’t husband material because it shows he isn’t responsible with money. But a man who can’t pay for dinner and drinks, or a nice Christmas present? Thanks but no thanks lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:44 AM
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oh geez guys we created a society in which we can’t express human emotions without being attacked by other men ladies feel sorry for uuuss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:27 PM
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I date in a foreign language; I’m an English speaker living in a very non-English speaking country and while I have an excellent command of the language I’m not a native speaker. I wouldn’t hold grammar mistakes against a non-native speaker. If he’s just a fuckboi who can’t be bothered to spellcheck his messages then fuck his lazy ass lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:01 PM
2

I hope so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:52 PM
7

NOT temporary. You’re sacrificing your needs to stay with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:38 AM
3

Having an AP only makes sense if you’re both married. Why would a young, attractive single woman want to get involved with a married man? It will never be the relationship you want. His family will always be more important (rightfully so). He might not be losing interest in you. Maybe one of his kids are sick, job is busy, things are tetchy with the wife and he just doesn’t have time for extra right now. Or he is losing interest in you because a huge part of infidelity is “new relationship energ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:55 PM
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Trust your gut. I can think back to my worst boyfriends, and there were always the even the tiniest little red flags early on. It doesn’t matter how any of us take the comment, what matters is that it “doesn’t sit right” with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:59 AM
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To be honest, I really don’t like it when the person I’m going to meet comes off as insecure so a big X for both of you I guess. His texts sound vaguely passive aggressive to me, like he wants you to feel bad for him. It might not be a terrible date, but that’s a trait that might carry over into his personal relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:55 AM
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TRUTH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:15 PM
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Don’t respond. Document and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 02:15 PM
12

YES. More fishing!! Less obsessing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:18 PM
4

look I’m good at clothes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:16 PM
28

I fucking hate your ex husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:12 PM
2

It’s not a bad thing to know what you like! I know what kind of place I want to go on a date, and I have no problem telling him. I’d rather he decide the actual place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:04 PM
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As an 18 year old, why would you want to be stuck with him? Did you plan on staying with the same person you started dated at 16 for the rest of your life? Trying exploring your independence first. You don’t like how attached you are to your boyfriend so maybe you should work on being happy without a boyfriend. If you don’t want to do a long distance relationship then don’t. You have to choose. Your boyfriend will not choose FOR you. It will probably mean you breakup, but that leaves you free to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:03 PM
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I never start messaging first. Seeing him put in an effort is important to me. I’ll forgive a “standard” sounding first message, and I usually reply, but then if his reply doesn’t interest me I unmatch I only messaged first once, because the guy had a bunch of pictures and an interesting sounding profile. But then his reply was really, really low effort. So...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:34 PM
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Because men on tinder just swipe right on EVERYTHING. I match almost every man I swipe right on. But I just met a seemingly HVM on tinder, AFTER weeding through dozens of low value/low effort messages. It can happen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 10:38 PM
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The picture leaves something to be desired, but this is actually a really great quote (check my profile!), originally attributed to the Australian writer, Irina Dunn (thanks Wikipedia) I dated a guy in college who was SO triggered by this quote, lol. He was a cringey niceguy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:07 PM
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WTF is up with untidy/weird backgrounds on OLD profiles?? Nope sorry dude the piles of dirty laundry behind you are just not doing it for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:06 AM
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It’s very unlikely you’ll get a satisfying reply Like NONE. Leave him BE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:03 AM
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Sex Work Exclusionary Radical Feminist Basically a (real) feminist who thinks a woman selling her body is never good. Prostitution should be illegal. Period. There is nothing empowering about selling sex. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 10:27 PM
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It’s not her guys, it’s YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 09:18 AM
12

my body just rejects it LOL. The womb {{{knows}}}
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:48 PM
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YoU sHoUlD sToP rEaDInG!! Just like a man to think he knows what’s best for a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:41 PM
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Won’t someone PLEASE think about the short menz!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:35 PM
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stuck with a live-in [partner] EXACTLY. It’s a lot harder to extract yourself from a relationship (or dump someone!) when they live with you. Big NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 06:45 AM
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I can’t imagine getting engaged and not being married within a year of then. 3, 4, 5 year “engagements” are a joke. That’s just a man’s way to trick you into doing wifey shit without actually committing. I’m kind of old-school in that I don’t even think you should live together before marriage. You’re cooking his breakfast and you’re still only his girlfriend?? FUCK THAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 06:26 AM
15

eww it looks LUMPY. hey baby nestle in my matted chest hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:07 PM
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All of the “good” men I’ve met have had warm, loving and respectful relationships with their mothers. Men who still rely on their parents/mothers for their basic needs are a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:04 PM
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women being jealous of big fake boobs lol no MEN like to IMAGINE that women are super catty bitches to each other and our relationships are filled with drama. It’s a stupid, tired trope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 11:49 AM
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Drive through Burger King, (with a coupon!) on a (maybe first??) date? I get the mortgage thing, but don’t you then make dates part of your budget?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 11:43 AM
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I think there’s a lot to be said for self care - like skin care, hair care, mani/pedicures, massage, clothes that you like, whatever falls into your interest and price range. You might feel more secure if you focus on doing things that make you feel good (and generally have the side benefit of improving your attractiveness). I actually climbed out of a long depression a few years ago and part of the process was Asian skincare lol. Taking care of myself, noticing myself more, was really important…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 12:30 PM
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