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Re J10’s comments on relationship awesomeness. You really don’t need to condition or mindfuck or whatever to get a girl to do anything like that. Women know exactly how to please a man. Right down to the most obscure detail. Every man sub communicates just fine and thats important because if you’re spending your time on MRP you are totally not spraying it around overtly all the time too I’ve really come to believe there is nothing more than the basics and that MRP is just rat park for the male h…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/26 09:08 PM
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I haven’t checked your life story and I’m sure people have told you, you’re fat before but leaning out will make a big difference. You can google “snake diet” or “velocity diet” and see there’s really no need to do all this habit forming. If don’t want to be fat: just stop doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/26 12:09 AM
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I wonder how many friends you have. I’m long divorced now and have more male friends than I had before I was married. Idk if I could have cultivated them within the last stage of my marriage but it’s been one of the biggest solutions to similar issues going forward. Having a bunch of guys around you who’d help bury a body used to be a meme here for a reason. You will always need that. And you will always break a romantic relationship with it until you find it somewhere else.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/26 12:01 AM
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I know guys that take fin, rogaine and micro needle. I even know guys that tattoo stubble on their scalps and get “hair systems” glued to their head. And a Bunch of bald dudes that DGAF. Point is that Baldness is absolutely curable in 2026. Some just look better before or after. R/bald has a surreal amount of glow ups just from shaving some randos head. Just decide whether you yourself want to look like stratham or dicaprio. You can always… change your mind later?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/26 10:45 PM
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Skinny but who am I to say. “Sex needs to be the reward for her”? Sorry but no. So far off I can’t even.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/26 10:37 PM
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Dude you should be eating whatever you can get your hands on. The fucking chair you’re sitting in. Until you weigh 180lbs. Minimum. managed to not gain any weight Lmao. Not even tits on a fat bitch. Look up sexual di-morphism dummy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/26 10:31 PM
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I haven’t seen this much textbook LARPing since… well I forget his name but it was a askMRP unfortunate a few years ago but anyway I’m surprised you’re here getting glazed while so many others suffer so much for so little. I encourage you to focus on the micro-interaction: change the music, take the last bite of food. Get grounded in reality… I’m sure I read that somewhere. Check out HSP’s guide to training bitches.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/26 10:26 PM
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Social life in SA is three bros, two bottles of vodka and one whore.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/26 10:17 PM
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I cannot think of any Muslim country where pre-marital sex with whores is not the norm but I’m sure there is one.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/26 08:52 PM
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At this point in my life, I honestly don’t think i would gaf if an LTR fucked around much less a plate… easy said tho. That being said, I know what it’s like to be in a relationship for what has been your entire adult life. Very hard to be objective in that case. Very hard not to spend all your MRPing trying to justify the past and make it work. Very hard to not let the “old you” gaslight you into giving him more days.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/26 10:34 PM
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My previous LTRs weren’t big kissers. Post RP, the last couple of girlfriends would essentially rotate a fully flexed tongue around the back of my throat like they were churning butter. It was the kind of sensation that didn’t particularly “feel” hot but also made my dick rock hard whenever it happened. Idk… it dropped off but I had told them I liked it. And every once in a while… when I was particularly horny… I’d slap them (lightly) and say “put on a show for me” and they’d know exactly what t…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/26 10:23 PM
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Women aren’t psychic. The same guys that believe a woman can’t operate a car let alone a business running scared of a woman magically “sensing their incongruence”. Lmao. And then you claim you can detect validation seeking over OLD texts yourself. Peak insecurity. Though that does rather bring the whole thing full circle.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/26 06:02 PM
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Idk what all this style stuff means but from the memes you reference it feels like it will feature fedoras… I will limit myself to suggest there is a lot of space between plaid shirts and an actual business look… perhaps look at an issue of GQ or similar… my apologies if you’re in IT and this is simply the best you can do. Do not text whoever this disinterested thot is to get “closure”. The biggest bang for your buck you will ever get is moving on without wasting your time on following a Hail Ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 07:38 PM
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You need more validation. Not less. If you’re chasing strength, enter a contest. Try and beat the local high school girls in the 136lbs class and rinse/repeat. Vague stuff about getting your wife and colleagues to bow down to you. Is she dtf? How much do you earn? Have you truly moved beyond the objective metrics by which we mere mortals compare ourselves? Or are you simply delusional?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 07:30 PM
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While it is obviously uncomfortable to read, this is a straightforward case of staying the course and getting results. You’re way in your wife’s head sure and second guessing yourself but aware of both. I’ll scroll down but I doubt there’s anyone here this week or even quarter that’s actually running the program as effectively.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 07:15 PM
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You need to learn the difference between setting out to achieve something by the established method and it being a covert contract. You need to learn the difference between wanting something and validation seeking.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 07:15 PM
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These glib analogies always seem to be vaguely eastern reinventions of turning the other cheek. Just remember that worked until it didn’t.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/26 01:23 PM
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Again nothing in that post will make a woman crawl over glass but I guess you’ll see.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/26 06:38 PM
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Yes. Most of us aimed for 12 post-D but the magic seems to happen at 20 You’ll be shocked how little anyone will care about your divorce or your kids. It helps to take a beat and consider whether you’re planning things like this because you want to or because you feel you have to but that will be easier when you’re in it and 4. Lead to the same thing this just practice super simple Control Game after 2-3 bangs and the a girl will filter themself out or promote themself up over time. Be wary of y…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 07:28 PM
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⁠date for 3 months before exclusivity is even considered What I’ve seen IRL is a notch count of around 20 seems to mentally shift things. All that old baggage about scarcity, missing out, Oneitis, the pedestal etc just magically falls away. That’ll take 6-18 months depending on your standards, tinder-fu and how often you cockblock yourself with a quasi-LTR. ⁠No meeting my kids for 6 months Just putting it out there that years post D, I’ve never introduced another girl to my kids. Don’t assume it…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 11:19 AM
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Lmfao. Out of the mouths of lurkers…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/26 11:34 PM
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No cold showers? And one friend, once a month you say? Still. If no one else can see your greatness, you can post on the internet about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/25 07:01 AM
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Nobody got here from not giving enough comfort. Subs write diaries for their dom btw.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/25 06:56 AM
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There is no text game. Period. 2-3 messages, ask them out. You are going to find there is very little correlation between “flirting” over text (which again, doesn’t exist) and chemistry IRL. It’s like… you watch what they do and not what they say or something…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/25 06:52 AM
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I understand the appeal of Jack10 for those who favour rationalising the status quo over change but you should at least skim the basics: Rollo, Roissy, Roosh (huh? three “R’s”?). Might give you some perspective. A red pill if you will. Or… plough harder at your 9-5 to boost attraction? Sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/25 06:48 AM
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Flair checks out
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/25 02:47 PM
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Tricky one. Mate guarding is unnatractive. Kids need boundaries though. OTOH, what woman doesn’t know what those are… my experience is that woman know EXACTLY, like in a spooky way, how to please you when attraction is high. All I can add is be a little wary about putting your wife’s flirting, “qualifying” herself to you in your “alpha points bank”. It’s been observed plenty of times that girls having affairs just get hornier. Kind of female version of the Coolidge Effect.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/25 11:40 AM
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Your section on (presumably) your frame is just a list of what you think she’s thinking. Reads like an OYS 1 but RP isn’t for everyone and you’ve seen you can’t last long in the wild.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 08:43 PM
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Normally the advice would be to eat more but at that height, weight and lifts it shouldn’t be necessary. Depends how much you want it. There’s also caffeine. I can’t imagine not drinking it yet a friend of mine doesn’t. 400-600mg 1.5 hours before the gym is more potent than most PED’s without. But outside of meme programs, athletes use more volume to overcome plateaus, as opposed to less. And… planning to lift less? Idk what to tell you. If you can’t stick it longer than three months, maybe you …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/25 05:56 AM
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Dude if you deload from this won’t be lifting anything at all. Have you considered any strategies to lift more?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/25 11:39 AM
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Lmao man in 2025 asks man in 0025 what to do and claims rationality.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/25 11:36 AM
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Sticking to the program and the wife complaining is not being Rambo.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/25 08:09 PM
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If your wife’s fucking you, there must be something you’re actually doing right that’s left off the page. Because your stated trajectory - “lead” the family, do better at work - are just the tragic definition of being a better beta. Maybe she’s just fat af and you have wife goggles tho. Game is fine but imagine if you put a Bumble profile up for a week. Would you get butterflies in your tummy if someone swipes on you? And they will. Would you ponder what you’d get with better pics?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/25 08:05 PM
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It isn’t though. Read any RP vanguard post ever. Or simply list for yourself any upside to being married. Most guys end up here already married. You winding up here before that tells us two things.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/25 07:55 PM
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Why are you getting married? The premise of red pill is that you really shouldn’t do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/25 09:23 PM
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That’s exactly why I enjoyed this post: very self aware synthesis of the foundations, obviously based on your own experience. Having posts like this in the back of my head were probably what I got the most value from.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/25 09:44 PM
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No need to go corporate America. Make money. Have fun. Has worked for plenty of people.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/25 07:09 AM
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What you’re describing is the burgeoning urge to protect, which is effectively the root of love for men.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/25 07:07 AM
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Least hopeless alcoholic at AA. Impressive.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/25 12:09 PM
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If you ever get over this part, you and everyone around you will be happier.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/24 10:18 AM
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That EFA seems crystal clear to me but I think it’s more effective to ignore these. Certainly don’t probe it you are a) in her frame, b) asking questions she doesn’t know the answer to (she wants to “feel” she’s high maintenance) and c) you’re asking her to communicate in manlish. The point of PFP is to not need that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 07:21 PM
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I do incline treadmill these days. Boring af but seems safer. Cycling and swimming good options too.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/24 05:16 PM
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Criticism does not kill skill. If you can actually weather the resultant shit testing, it just causes pouting, followed by enthusiastic fucking. “Tingles are born in the defensive crouch” - Roissy - is always true but for sure it’s easier not to do… But have you tried just telling her? Tell her to moan or do whatever. Once she’s trained just cuff her and say “put on a show for me” when she lags.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 09:05 AM
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Your vision is word for word the blue pill fantasy. Don’t complain when you get the blue pill reality.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 08:59 AM
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Doing it for her? Not the worst if it gets it done I guess. She does sound nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 08:57 AM
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At your weight it might be the running causing the injuries, not the lifting. I lifted injury free for 15 years. After about 3 months of running, was laid up with back pain, sciatica, you name it. That being said, I put up 1,400lbs on the big three at 181lbs bw earlier this year. Now I deadlift the 25lb dumbbells after a front/back squat super set and I’m more jacked than ever. Ngl: no idea how that works but you don’t need to go heavy for aesthetics.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 08:55 AM
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For the record I’m the one that brought the pizza meme here. It’s fine but there’s plenty of ways of eating big. I did GOMAD to go from 140 to 210lbs but Sunflower seeds, of all things, are very calorifically dense and likely healthier. A bag of those, a scale and a shot glass will help you hit your goal every night. r/gainit has a lot of ideas like this. As far as I can see you’re lifting twice a week and throwing more and more wacky stuff in there. You really want to be doing three days and so…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 08:42 AM
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Nice to finally see this attitude dude 👊🏻
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 08:32 AM
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Joking about the wife’s weight problem? Weak but it’s a tough one. For every wife that follows the good example (aka covert contract) approach there’s 5 that don’t. If you went full retard and she fully submitted, you could just tell her what to eat but… would you really want that? Or you could ditch her for someone who’s naturally vain, or conscientious, enough to maintain a good figure. I think “joking” about it is likely to end in frustration for one or both of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/24 08:29 AM
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He’s a complete chad except he’s not educated and doesn’t have money. Lol.
/r/askMRP12/11/24 09:29 PM
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Lmao married men tears
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/24 08:49 PM
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All that matters for hypertrophy is how you execute a year - consistency, progression, anchors, leaders - and the moment: controlled eccentric, emphasis on the stretched position, forceful concentric and generally constant tension - which are btw diametrically opposed to optimising lift numbers. I don’t think the programs in the middle mean shit compared to the variation of how people execute them IRL. That being said, Joe Bennett aka Hypertrophy Coach is a good gateway to the dark side. He typi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 08:55 PM
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Sheiko, Blakely, Arnold, Simmons, Kroc, Alsruhe… Google anyone with an actual track record then Google how they, or their athletes, ate and trained. Guess what? It wasn’t 5x5 and intermittent fasting. Or just use the super secret knowledge on Reddit I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 07:42 PM
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I did the whole SBD thing for 15 years. Switched to bodybuilding a few years ago and all the injuries stopped. I can still total 1,350lbs at 185lbs. So, while I won’t win any contests, the strength never went anywhere and I actually look like I lift now. Cool that you lowered the weights and compensated with volume but why ever increase it? Presumably you’re not going to compete so wouldn’t it be the dreaded… “validation”?! Tempo training, myo reps, variations like the heels-elevated-front-squat…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 07:36 PM
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6’3” 30 yo has access to RP content but chooses to log about reading the bible and nofap. Jfc.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 06:42 PM
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Goal of benching 220lb. Activities include cutting to 155lbs and doing GSLP… either the goal is wrong or you are just taking about the most roundabout way to reach it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 06:38 PM
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Goal of benching 220lb. Activities include cutting to 155lbs and doing GSLP… either the goal is wrong or you are just taking about the most roundabout way to reach it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 06:37 PM
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The benefits of protein top out at 0.7g / lb, so 157g daily is plenty to take you to where you want to get to - presumably 190lbs or so - you might find it easier, cheaper and more effective to add carbs and/or fat. I know guys that get a giant jug of trail mix or cereal and just eat it over the week.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/24 02:28 PM
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Roissy defines the pair bonding process succinctly: “cover her mouth and force her to swallow”.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 08:37 AM
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If you don’t have a second plate you have a girlfriend. And if you think it’s not serious and you’re enjoying the ride… you have a future second wife. Read/reread PFP. It takes on a whole other meaning post D.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/24 11:19 PM
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I’d drop conventional deadlifts and, I don’t have a precise answer and I understand how frustrating that is, but I’d try: Side twists Side bends Dead hangs Pullovers Twisting/hockey deadlifts My experience is that you’ll organically find movements that unfuck you but I’d also recommend checking out some unconventional influencers like @rangeofstrength on instragram
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 10:42 PM
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Extensive studies show you can gain LBM in a deficit. Certainly don’t expect to lose any unless you’re like 5% bf
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:58 PM
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I have fucked up disks. My dad has the exact same ones and he’s never touched a weight in his life. Louis Simmons had like 6 herniated disks. It just happens with age dude. Work around it. Pro tip: don’t deadlift. It’s dumb. I don’t and I can still pull 600lbs when the mood strikes me.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:56 PM
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You are so money and you don’t even know it but there’s a positive trend to the FR’s that will sink in in time I think
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:52 PM
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“Thicker than you would like” means fat in any language. No marriage. No kids. Only fucks you with a gun to her head… I don’t know what to tell you here?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:49 PM
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I work from offices globally and from home. With all good and bad experiences. What works is an “opening your shop” and “closing your shop” routine. Sometimes that’s moving to an outer building, sometimes it’s a walk to get groceries after CoN, sometimes it’s just moving a screen to a table and storing it away after - worth the inconvenience ime.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:47 PM
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Man fucks woman on sexual strategy sub. Crab in barrel: “not so fast”.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:44 PM
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Your weakness is always going to be where your fear of rejection kicks in. For a lot of guys that's opening. For others its escalation. That's where they feel plausible deniability is now out of reach. The way to address that is to make sure you're communicating sexual intent - in a socially acceptable way - before you reach that point. Text only for logistics Meet somewhere "because its close to my place" Break the touch barrier early on Something overt like hand-on-thigh 20 min in That's it. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/24 08:14 AM
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The signal to noise ratio isn’t great but the “vanguard” writers stuff is good, particularly Whisper and HumanSockPuppet.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 05:57 AM
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Again I went through a similar process. Reading Sepean’s posts in chronological order was helpful for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 05:55 AM
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When you’re unable to answer the question that was asked, it’s very clear ego defence. Those are always helpful to look into in your own time
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 05:47 AM
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Most guys
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 05:44 AM
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Being authentic doesn't mean expressing. And expressing doesn't mean talking. Or maybe they do to you. Internal voice. Autonomy. Respecting yourself. Seems to me you are all mixed up with container words. Thoughts follow actions. Just focus on doing things and all those words won't seem as important.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 10:26 AM
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Way, way too soon. Your "nuclear shit test" is just the standard. And you failed it by immediately negotiating with her. Way, way too soon. You need time to learn to live in the headspace of ignoring her and to internalise it. Way, way too soon. Ask me how I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 09:25 AM
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I've only seen this addressed well once. I can't C+P the link for some reason but if you google "trp.red itiswr1tten self confidence must be verified" you'll find it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 09:22 AM
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Girls can play the tape forward. If she replies to your texts, she's effectively communicating to you that she has considered how it would feel to fellate you, until you ejaculate into her mouth, and then swallowing your cum, and is generally - barring some radical, and previously unknown information (like being too much of a pussy to escalate) - not averse to the idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 09:12 AM
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IF and portion watching are what fat people say. Just count calories and diet for a few weeks if you want to be less fat. Once you're lean, its easy to maintain with those tools.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 09:02 AM
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Kick her out. Get a better one. If you can't get a better one, that's what you need to work on.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 08:58 AM
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I am a cheap dopamine addict. This isn't a real thing which means you wasted a paragraph - and perhaps a lot of your life - on a meme.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 08:56 AM
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I do the right thing rather than seeking someone else’s validation. In what way are you not simply substituting your imaginary friend Allah for other people? and how is any of this going to help your sex life? Please give reasons for your answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 08:49 AM
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Game: New girl showed up at climbing, very much my type and we flirted a bit, recieved a lot of IOIs. First time in a while where i felt i strong urge to escalate beyond casual flirting and pursue it. However I am way to early in my journey to know how my ideal sex/love life would look like, and if i where to stray, i wan’t that to come from a place of proper abundance, and a very premediated descicion, not just out of the blue and uncontrolled feelings if that makes sense. A lot of work to do a…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 08:47 AM
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Personally I, and everyone else in the real world, think that validation is good. But since you're on the hunt for seeking it: your "lifetime maxes" (lol) and how awesomely you fucked your wife are that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 08:45 AM
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Be a little cautious here. You are articulating a "be a better beta" plan. social life I have a lot of interesting friends, business associates etc. That is unquestionably attractive. But mainting it is basically texts and one weekend a month of hanging out. Hardly a bustling social life. Charisma, confidence etc is absolutely attractive but don't conflate that with going to PTA meetings and BBQ's. Just do the former without turning your life into a chores list. career trajectory 90% beta provid…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 08:38 AM
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The accusations might have been a genuine shit test. Since a shit test is the intersection of anxiety and arousal and seeing other women is generally attractive but anxiety inducing. If you’d A+Ad instead of getting triggered, you’d have passed. Keep doing that and you might not get triggered anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 02:31 PM
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I’m more inclined to take this at face value but your point 3 and your general use of “love, love, love” can only end badly. Until you fix your brain, you’ll at best yo-yo between compliance and cuntiness. Love is a function of attraction. Women are not attracted to men, the way men are attracted to women. When you’re so busy with your own shit, she begs you to fuck her. She will be wet. When you shove her over the sofa and start pounding her. She will be wet. When you laugh at her shit and make…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 02:25 PM
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I still can’t tell what you want but if it is to fuck other women in front of her, she’ll isn’t going to put the girl in your lap. At least not the first time. Sooner or later, you’ll have to arrange the logistics, deal with her cold feet and any retrospective feelz etc In that respect what she says doesn’t matter. Now or ten years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 04:32 PM
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Doubtful. You really think you couldn’t find a hookup in 2024? As I said, I think it’s more interesting that you keep bringing it up only to push it away.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 12:41 PM
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watch what she does, not what she says One exception to this that girls talk about what truly turns them on. A LOT. But then a girl being turned on by a man’s sexual options would be RP 101 anyway. I think the appeal to authority was interesting. It being true wouldn’t mean you have to do anything about it. There might be a thought there but anyway you STFU and that was good.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 09:20 AM
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Luckily I can trust this guy. Famous last words but feedback IRL can be incredibly helpful for sure. it makes its way into the way I act and carry myself. It doesn’t. Thoughts follow actions not the other way around. Just keep polishing your actions and worry less about whether you’re a Real ManTM
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 05:38 PM
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Be wary of coaches, especially ones who “diagnose” you with mysterious syndromes that guess what: need more money to fix. I’m not a man yet and they can sense this quick They can’t. If you kill one limiting belief, make it this one. No one can see inside your head. It’s your own little fortress of solitude. All that matters is what you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 04:16 PM
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The decision to divorce is usually the most logical one any man can make but it will likely be a roller coaster going forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 01:38 PM
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How confident are you that your emotions aren’t being affected by steroid useage? Have you considered dialling back your dose in the short term?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 08:32 AM
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I didn’t read the post but was correct that you don’t know what Rambo means
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 07:59 AM
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I know what Rambo looks like An excuse not to rock the boat and tiptoe around your wife more?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 09:01 PM
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Dark triad traits are not inherently attractive. This is untrue in both red pill canon and the mainstream scientific community. Unless you’ve discovered something new, this statement is so wrong it could not be more wrong. They are traits that often correlate or rhyme with the traits of an attractive, high value man. This is like functional fitness nerds saying women are attracted to physical strength not muscle ie nice to believe but… they aren’t. If only there was a term for beliefs like this.…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 04:25 PM
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I misspoke using the term HL and sent you down a rabbit hole. None of that stuff matters. There are a million cargo cults built around dry pussies. Nobodies breaking new ground there. The way to recalibrate is to overcorrect: fuck her at least once a day for a couple of weeks. Forget about whether she’s into it or not. If you really get a hard no, whip it out and jerk it on her face. You think she’ll… what? Use a safe word? Call the cops? Divorce you? Or are you really worried she’ll respond to …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 04:04 PM
2

Laying out expectations is not Machiavellianism but the part where you ignored her and that fucked with her head was good.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 02:49 PM
2

My point is that this exact kind of thought process is not helpful. Playing war games with a woman is about as useful as negotiating the Marshall Plan with your cat. These are the “blue pill”, “matrix” type ideas that don’t work for intersexual dynamics and (presumably) brought you here. Be attractive first, then use the appropriate red pill models: oldest teenager in the house, managing bitches etc
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 01:29 PM
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The sexting thing is a shit test too. But it’s whatever. Personally I take the view it is actually a lot easier to do the work on yourself outside of a shit relationship. Worked for me. Sparring partners are fine but some guys are stuck with little more than a heavy bag… figuratively speaking. And nothing is going to make you lose weight faster than matching nothing but fat bitches on Tinder. If you’re done, STFU and divorce prep.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 09:07 AM
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I’d be cautious about your silent treatment “victory”. Good that you didn’t roll over but letting her act like a bitch for three days, then having an adult to adult talk is just not how this works.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 08:55 AM
3

Grief is a powerful aphrodisiac. All strong emotions are. As a thought experiment: a twist of perspective and this all reads like your wife could be one of the HL women that post in deadbedrooms. I encourage you to think on Sepean’s analogy that a man’s Frame is the precise equivalent of a woman’s cleavage. That isn’t a glib comparison. It is one of the fundamental mental models you’re searching for in your life. How far does the mere hint of a great set of tits get a women in life? What about t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 05:51 AM
4

Just practice the tools in WISNIFG until that space between stimulus and reaction becomes natural.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/24 03:31 PM
5

Slow is steady, steady is fast. Get into the habit of pausing and really listening to what someone says, then pausing and really considering what they are objectively saying, stripped of your initial emotional response. You have the right not to respond at all, to tweak her nose, walk off, keep telling her to repeat it etc If you choose not to respond at least it’ll annoy women for a different reason: it’s like them being a bug under a microscope. Better than saying “guh”.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 11:53 AM
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Jesus. Worst take I’ve ever heard on here. And that’s saying a lot. Just STFU. Both of you. Women don’t respond to dad jokes. Nor should they.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 11:41 AM
3

Use a blindfold if it appeals to you visually but base it off your enjoyment not some kind of performance art for her. The handcuff knot is fun but a cheap BDSM kit off Amazon will have cuffs and whatnot that are super low effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 09:21 PM
5

Make a list. Do it all. It doesn’t take that much to flip the dynamic. You will look back and laugh at how easy it was.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 08:09 PM
5

Definitely tie the handcuff knot in advance. Dicking around with knots is a passion killer.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 06:32 PM
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Well done on recognising some Nice Guy coping mechanisms but why is it that you even have sex issues when your wife is clearly dtf at the drop of a hat. Why is it your plan to bury it now. Idk if you were a late bloomer or a peeping Tom but you need to unfuck your attitude to fucking. I stand by (what you see as) degrading your wife. I’m sure there are other methods but as a rule you should aim to be a woman’s darkest sexual chapter anyway. Make a list and work down it. Don’t worry about whether…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 02:13 PM
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You need to be the right kind of asshole. An asshole who cares too much would play dumb games to take out his frustrations on others. The “right” kind is doing what he wants, not worrying about whether his dates are fun enough. Deny it all you want but it’s very easy to see which one you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 02:02 PM
4

Try living beyond your basic blue pill, Madonna/whore attitude for a trial period. It doesn’t have to be harder than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 07:24 PM
3

Cover her mouth and say “swallow it you fucking slut”.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 02:30 PM
2

I don’t speak hamster so can’t make out what you’re trying to say here. But on the subject of sex: women want to be owned. Bend her over and fuck her. Slap her. Spit in her mouth. Stick your thumb in her ass. Just fucking do it, don’t ask for permission “gamify” it. Dial it up to 15, find out what you like and then adjust from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 02:22 PM
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it’s either a FMF threesome with her, or not at all She called your bluff and you folded like a bitch. No wonder she won’t do FMF: she’s already up to her ears in pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 12:06 PM
3

Either you have a FFMI of >26 or you’re in denial and fat. Impossible to know really.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/24 02:45 PM
2

or fake it at least. Fuck that’s sad
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/24 10:28 PM
5

Lmao. When you’re so beta, you think the cuddles are the reward in this scenario
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/24 04:33 PM
1

Saying it depends on Frame is as idiotic as saying “if you can’t be a fat, Cheeto eating basement dwelling neckbeard, your Frame is shit” which coincidentally is also something LARPers often do. Being vulnerable causes a spike in feelz. That’s it. If used sparingly it’ll cause some sparks but the law of diminishing returns kicks in fast. Being able to bleed your emotions constantly might be fun lifestyle wise, if you’re that much of a pussy you can’t handle your own problems but there really is …
/r/askMRP31/01/24 04:56 PM
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One day your daughter will be in college and behaving however the face tatted minority currently rearranging her cervix tells her to.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 01:01 PM
5

In the latest instalment of I-want-to-fuck-other-women-now-that-I-actually-can-but-I-feel-guilty, broke plowhorse tries to recruit someone else to kill his puppy but things don’t go quite as planned…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 06:31 AM
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I see the merits of GFTOW but right now 'women are secondary to mission' seems like a better mindset for me. Yeah man. Girls have cooties. You go your own way. You’ll show ‘em.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 10:13 PM
1

What is your resting heart rate?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 10:07 PM
1

Read mallardcove’s various guides to OLD and order some pussy to your door
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 10:01 PM
1

This is nothing more than a Nice Guy’s shame and rationalisations. Where something comes from does not matter. People respond to what you DO. If you want to get better you need to practice not whine and take your ball home.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 04:35 PM
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Guaranteed whoever told you that was another armchair quarterback that’s never actually been through it. When separated you should be fucking within 7 days. When suffering from Oneitis you should be fucking the next one immediately after.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 02:19 PM
2

Game doesn’t work? Ok buddy.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 12:11 PM
2

retroactive jealousy Is it though? Or is it envy? Of your wife having experiences you didn’t. Of chads having carefree abundance. Anger at yourself for not pulling the latter off yourself? Emotions are a lot easier to process when you correctly identify them.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 05:12 AM
3

this was no come to Jesus moment to be sure Seems like you’re the first MRPer ever to recognise this. Congrats.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 10:57 AM
3

coast through the rest of my career if I want Lol. Famous last words. Your hamster is working hard elsewhere. Articulating a grand covert contract and even providing very most helpful citations. How much fucking did you do in your six months abroad? No need to answer. How terrified was your wife or you stepping out? No need to answer. To be a good leader, you need good followers. Be someone that can actually fuck another woman and she might turn around. If she doesn’t: it is not on you or your “…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 10:27 AM
0

Do you also think humans use 5% of their brain? There are insights to be had from knowing the actual science behind these sound bites. Watch a lecture on it with the sound off. See if you get 90% of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/24 09:07 AM
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Lower back pain deadlifting: Stretch your hips. Hip flexors, glutes, quads, hamstrings etc there are a thousand routines on YouTube. Find something that takes 5-10 minutes and do it everyday. When soreness spreads from your lower back, to your ass: it’s working. Learn to brace. Learn to activate your glutes and hamstrings before deadlifting. Again, thousands of YouTube videos. Find the worst thing about your form and exaggerate it in a warmup set eg bar too far from your shins. This is a proven …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/24 11:15 AM
1

My brain doesn’t work at that height but I doubt you’re anything special at those stats. That being said, improving your looks won’t give her skills she doesn’t have and Red pill is no guarantee of curing an inveterate fat bitch. You will have to set a boundary and be prepared to leave over it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 11:59 AM
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If you think doing what you want is a covert contract, you are not going to go very far. You see yourself in this guy. The only difference is he’s fucking an actual woman. And your take is he should stop and list diet, workout, porn, alcohol, accountability goals so he can miss them all too? Only then could he be a 10 like you. Seems to me you’re a crab in a barrel fears other men might be getting their dicks wet without extra steps. Redrum your ego indeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 11:53 AM
2

You spent five years fixing her problems and not her feelz. Now she’s looking elsewhere
/r/askMRP10/12/23 07:41 PM
1

Women do not desire equality.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 07:55 PM
1

I saw a few “I used to be’s” before I stopped reading. I’m not a fan of the whole catholic self flagellation thing but the other extreme is this “I used to be alpha” narrative bias. It’ll hold you back if you really don’t want to suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 07:54 PM
1

I saw a few “I used to be’s” before I stopped reading. I’m not a fan of the catholic self flagellation but the other extreme is this “I used to be alpha” narrative bias. It’ll hold you back if you really don’t want to suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 07:52 PM
2

You have been found guilty of lifting more than this dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 07:45 PM
1

100% of the people that “need to figure out what they want” should just read what they wrote and just fucking do that. It is not different from the fat motherfuckers declaring they know they need to be less fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 07:40 PM
2

I try to embrace it Eventually you have to just jump off the cliff. Lick her asshole. Spit in her face.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 07:31 PM
1

Flick the switch.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 07:29 PM
1

Plausible virtue signalling that hides sexual shame.
/r/askMRP05/12/23 10:29 PM
4

Here’s a red pill for you naturopaths can’t diagnose genetic abnormalities: you are a stoner who spends too much time researching novel excuses on the internet.
/r/askMRP05/12/23 03:37 PM
2

You’re citing things you already had coming in. You’re bored because your n count is still one and nobody’s given you permission to do something about it: have at it.
/r/askMRP05/12/23 01:33 PM
1

His injuries come from playing football and botched surgeries. Not lifting.
/r/askMRP05/12/23 01:30 PM
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This is the definition of a unicorn As a divorced, 40 yo, dad: if you can’t pull 28-32 year olds with no kids - and ideally no plans for kids - this was a failure to merp. What are your lifts? What is your experience gaming women? No need to answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 09:29 PM
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Thank you Karen
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/21 08:36 PM
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I haven't spoken to my parents in weeks. I don't have time for video games and I'm shredded. My family are very well fed and watered. Right now they are at home while I am out in a nightclub chasing tail with my wingman jack daniels. What is your perspective on this?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/21 08:17 PM
2

Another question is “what is submission?”. The bridge between acting and becoming dominant (or simply being domineering) is accepting submission. Which, I guess, is going to a far harder thing to internalise for most.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/20 07:26 PM
2

You’re broke, fat, weak and have no life. Of these, fat is the easiest to fix. You can even work on being weak at the same time. But pick one and nail it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/20 10:00 PM
1

I gave you a jab on lifts a while back. Seems like they’re way up since then. Well done, keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/20 06:10 PM
3

Gonna go out on a limb and guess you don’t have kids... and haven’t read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP13/12/20 04:43 PM
2

I hit a squat PR while my wife was in labour. Day after the birth I got her settled at home and headed out to the gym again. I can’t recall what I got that day but I’m sure it was light bench. Tips? Put the grandmothers to work.
/r/askMRP13/12/20 04:21 PM
2

wasted effort There's that word again. It's not wasted if you do it for you. Differentiation works both ways. It should be fun to flirt with an independent being, with their own mysterious thoughts and feelings, and seeing how they react. Don't you ever tell your 2 year old random nonsense to see how they'll react?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 12:51 PM
0

6’0 174lbs pls eat.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 12:19 PM
1

I feel the energy I give freely is wasted If only there was a term for having unstated expectations. She’s not fun anymore What did she say when you gave her this feedback?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 12:13 PM
10

No kids? Don’t live together? Not a pretty waitress you’ve never actually spoken to? Text her. “👎🏼🙏🥳” What a time to be alive.
/r/askMRP29/11/20 11:07 PM
1

I announce our relationship to be over Winning.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/20 12:35 PM
1

You say you have new beliefs that you don’t believe. Curious what, specific, beliefs (that you do believe) are they replacing?
/r/askMRP28/10/20 09:48 PM
1

Get it grinding into your throat (giggity). You need to get the weight on your delts. If you can do a weighted "zombie squat" you're doing it right. In practice that means shoulders forward/inward, elbows higher, up, up, up, up, wrists cocked back but that can all be accomplished by keeping only 3 (or even 2) fingertips on each hand in contact with the bar, shoving your elbows up and letting it roll right into the base of your throat. That's a new type of discomfort but you'll quickly learn to f…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 10:50 AM
3

90% chance this both identifies the problem and fixes it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 05:38 PM
2

Empathy is one of those things that means something different to different people. First time I had to fire someone, I got one piece of advice: “just don’t apologise”. Made sense (“if you’re sorry why are you doing it?” Etc). Turned out to be one of the best pieces of advice I ever got. Just say what you have to say and let them react how they’re going to react. Words will be spoken back. Sometimes emotional words. You can easily listen, sometimes with a lot of sympathy, - especially if you like…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 02:42 PM
2

180cm, 71kg, BF 18% Wife mentions that I look hot She sounds like a really good person. giving me more time for workouts, helping me calculate my calories Great mom too. Instead of playing nice I directly told him that's not true and reminded him of the situation which caused it and he forgot. In the end I showed him possible options and told him what the ideal solution was and how to get out of this mess. A way to accomplish the same thing and keep your job.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 11:01 AM
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this: my social anxiety issues. leads to this: I’m afraid she finds her “true love” (she’s very attractive and always had a lot of attention) and I hate to think that I’m just an episode in her life. The funny thing is I don’t think I even love her anymore but just thinking about her being married and possibly having more kids makes me feel almost desperate. On the other hand, I remember the same feelings with my girlfriends back in my 20s so I’m sure it is just my ego and it shall pass. but thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 10:56 AM
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If you squat <220lb you do not need to avoid overdoing it, focus on form or meditate or deload. There is a time for auto regulated programs e.g. when you are cutting hard. Things with fixed sets/reps (like 5x5) you are never, ever going to make progress stopping when your body tells you to. Your body is a liar. You say you’re expecting to fail on bench... maybe work out what needs to happen to stop that happening? More food. More reps. Direct arm work. Pull aparts. Change your grip. Try an over …
/r/askMRP19/09/20 07:34 AM
1

An invitation to monologue can become this definition. Doesn’t mean don’t do them but only after the recipient has indicated they are all ears. This is easily achieved by snorting derisively, blanking, saying something enigmatic like “I have a view on this” (and not elaborating). In other words: STFU. The idea that you know something of value is irresistible to people 10 times out of 10. Same words but the recipient values them. This is the difference between verbal masturbation and verbal bukka…
/r/askMRP15/09/20 05:55 AM
4

Women married to rich men and fucking handsome janitors is the hypergamy meme. It’s tautological.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 10:50 PM
6

I don’t get what your issue is. If I use Bumble/Tinder, I swipe on like 5-10% of the women. The attractive ones. Male hypergamy? Or “normal”? I think your ELO drops anything over that so it may be survivorship bias.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 05:09 AM
3

I guess if my wife gives me a pass, I’d probably look the other way on how people her grandmother read about in the newspaper thought. But I am old and in my experience, men want things from women. Babies want things from adults. Bees plants. Those little birds that live in hippos mouths... you see where I’m going with this. All relationships are transactional. You might then say symbiotic > parasitic but, for example, if loving your kids is a response to a parasitic relationship driven by genet…
/r/ExRedPill10/09/20 09:39 PM
0

We live in a very precarious gig economy now. Ever seen the movie Falling Down? Glengarry Glen Ross? Once Upon a Time in Hollywood? Or read Moby Dick? Do you think the economy is... smaller now that there are almost 8 billion people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:08 PM
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I assumed she was fucking him even though she says she didn’t. Could it be that you actually made this post because you harbor doubts in this respect? ​ If so... LTR went over to a boys house that she used to fuck years ago she went on a self-proposed “break”. she told me and showed texts that she sent they weren’t going to do anything. She then went over tonight to tell him that we got back together I wanted to go over to hers tonight but she wanted to spend time with him instead of me Throw on…
/r/askMRP10/09/20 07:20 AM
4

aggressive and masculine, and also passive aggressively Some would say these are contradictory. In college I dated a girl who had a bunch of glass jars on a shelf. Each one was filled to the brim with medals from swim meets - she apparently had so many she had no clue what to do with them - she went on to compete in martial arts at an international level and still later became an Olympic weightlifting coach. Great girl, very feminine. I had no idea she was an athlete until I asked her what was i…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 12:12 PM
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Many people do not ask about dating history. Some would consider it "uncool" (a sign of neediness, envy), some would even consider it "not-cool" (rude). The ones that do (ask) are probably just making conversation. So a general attitude of "Don't ask, don't tell" is going to be: A) Very helpful and; B) Completely acceptable. Think of it as how you'd hand-wave away a conversational gambit on your experience horse riding (assuming you don't ride horses). The books No More Mr Nice Guy and When I Sa…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 10:02 AM
5

Huh. Verbal diarrhoea does trump height.
/r/askMRP05/09/20 08:53 AM
1

would dating work for someone who does not actively think about it and does not actively think about the opposite sex? You could argue that this is the archetypal "Natural" and what PUA ideas like "Inner Game", "Tao of Steve", Mark Manson's Models are striving to codify. The success I see in my own life, and those around me, has certainly come from acting closer to this ideal. For me I've never fully internalized the belief and probably never will because I don't believe I'd meet the women I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:54 AM
2

I once broke an ornament my mum owned due to throwing things around indoors. Didn't feel like a big deal - I didn't make a habit of things like that - but I wasn't sure of the sentimental value (which could have been a little or a lot), so I made up a story. In the end she was pretty relaxed and I figured it didn't have much value to her after all. So 25 years later I launch into this anecdote about how I was screwing around when I was a kid and she blurts out "that's when you broke my ornament!…
/r/askMRP01/09/20 07:17 AM
1

OYS My escalations/initiations need work. Pook talked about an internal change where you stop looking for green lights and start accelerating at reds. I feel like that's where I'm at now but also recognize that those "Internal Game" concepts appeal to me because they tend to sound more elegant (or at least less retarded) than PUA stuff and you don't really have to "do" anything to get there. Reading Steel's cheat sheet to the Mystery Method: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7aeib…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/20 09:50 AM
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