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Do black men not occupy any of these spaces at all? It would make sense given data on online dating but it seems as though it doesn’t matter at all. I wonder what other data points can contribute to them not necessarily subscribing to an ideology of hopelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:37 AM
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Were you able to find anyone? I don’t want to brag, I’m just being as objective as possible but this pretty much describes me and my group of friends. How rare is this type of guy that is disciplined, worldly, and have thick legs? I thought that was a baseline average male. It’s in American culture to discipline yourself in something right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:12 PM
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I most definitely wouldn’t. I have no idea what my current girlfriend even sees in me. All she says is that I’m a dork, but she loves me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:03 AM
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One thing about online dating is that without face to face interactions the default setting is what’s considered safe. I watched one of my friends use tinder and she said that most of the guys on there didn’t look safe, even good looking guys. Which is how I found out why black people don’t do well on dating sites but do extremely well outside of them. The girl I’m with now wouldn’t have considered me had I not met her and talked to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:54 PM
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Being a good person doesn’t mean being a doormat. Being good does not mean making sure no one is ever uncomfortable, I personally couldn’t care less about anyone’s confort
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:06 AM
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But over time this has negative consequences. People are so insecure about their dating prospects that many just gave up all together, and others are on the brink of losing their minds from romances that ended not because they weren’t good enough, but because someone better came along. That changes the very landscape of dating which has negative consequences for everyone. Why would a man put effort into his life if he knows that it’s to be expected that everyone in his romantic life will leave h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:50 AM
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This reply is the most effort I’ve seen to say essentiallly nothing. Let’s start with the beginning. You say “who is we” Everyone else who replied got it. It was simple shorthand for individuals who choose to do what is being asked of them, which is why there is a question mark at the end of the sentence. I don’t know if you knowingly decided to disregard that assumption in order to make yourself look more mature but it comes off as either oblivious or disingenuous, you yourself personally knows…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:32 AM
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Lol that kind of is happening. It’s embarrassing though, it’s not like I would know what to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:02 PM
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I’m not sure if I’ll eat it properly but I’ll take your advice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:26 PM
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It was more a grinding thing where I couldn’t control the fact that I got hard and the person I was grinding on (coworker) said she was “getting hot” and that I was huge. She then told everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:25 PM
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Any tips tailored for African American men? Like styling 4c hair? Or choosing better colors for a darker skin tone? Any places that are good for those kinds of tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:13 AM
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Quick question because I am a virgin but dating a girl right now. I measured it at 7.5 inches long and 6.1 inches of girth, or dollar bill. I didn’t know it was considered big until my coworkers made comments about it while I was drunk at a party. What am I supposed to do so I don’t hurt her, make her bleed or uncomfortable when we finally get to it? It’s been giving me anxiety every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:10 AM
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They only understand this a little bit. Biologically, a males desire for sex is so strong that the fact that women even compare it to their own desire sometimes shows how little they understand it. The share of male sex addicts is very likely much higher in men than it is in women. It’s like comparing someone on a cut to a person who dieted for like 4 days. It’s similar on some level but it’s just not comparable in degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:07 PM
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I know many girls irl with literally zero friends. They can have easy sexual success but there’s nothing beyond that which can lead them to feel worse about themselves. Sometimes when they talk to me they tell me in secret that I’m the first person they talked to beyond casual conversation in months. I know girls that were on the brink of suicide because there life was school, work, Netflix. The utopia the manosphere paints the average female life is the same apex fallacy they point out in women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:21 PM
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That’s because of the type of person that would sit around and complain all day about how things are better for other people. Going from the top (TRP, FDS) down to the absurd (incel, femcel, pink pill, black pill) it’s basically insecurity in how their own lives will end up based on chance. There’s certain things that are more likely to happen provided a given set of circumstances are present and that is enough for people to act completely psychopathically or to not do anything at all, not knowi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:39 PM
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Wouldn’t a more accurate statement be “If you want more opportunities with women of higher value than the average man” since most men will run into women that like them at one point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:08 AM
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Is that a bad thing? Why would going beyond this be necessary? On clothing I can understand because it’s difficult when literally all the cloths in the store are the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:58 PM
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I was under the impression that most men did this, but since I’m not gay I’m not dating them. Is this an actual problem with most men that they refuse to workout or take care of their hygiene?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:41 PM
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I would like to know that if a majority of men have bad hygiene? What extent of this list is true for all men in your experience? Is it typically all four of those things are missing in the majority of men or is it they have one or two element elements but lack the others? Is it that they have decent clothes that fit, good money, and good hygiene but no social life and that is the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 01:12 AM
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I think it’s a visceral experience expressed poorly. It’s not that you are used up, it’s that obtaining something with a lot of effort while also having knowledge that someone else had an easier time leaves a bad taste in a mans mouth. It directly puts his value as a mate at the forefront, and subtly you are telling him you are not worth as much as the other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:55 PM
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Do you suppose that has to do with too high expectations or is it something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:50 PM
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While this does seem to be the case, is this not a passive dating strategy. Is this out of fear for something else happening? Being told it’s not personal or they aren’t attracted to you is hardly something that will really destroy you. I believe it’s how online culture developed recently is it not? A trend in the mid 2000’s and subs dedicated to making fun of men who fail romantically to get you. It’s one thing to be told you aren’t attractive, it’s another thing to have that private interactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:49 PM
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Texting also has weird rules. Texting back at particular times will determine whether or not you have a life or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:46 PM
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This reply has no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:43 PM
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When my friends or women online in general talk I see a disdain for men and their efforts. Citing that they don’t dress well and they give up too easily. There was a thread that said that the difference between students in 2017 and 1997 was that students in 1997 had more confidence and tried harder than students in 2017. I just wanted to see if this phenomenon extended to dating as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:43 PM
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Given that I am a man I’m probably too ugly for them to try to hard for me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:39 PM
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