featheredsnake Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Money is not enough, you need a lifestyle	CMV	featheredsnake	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 05:06 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? I would think "stepping up" means different things between a single mother vs a single father. In the case of a single mom, stepping up likely means becoming the provider for that family for the man. The other way around I would think it means finding a "motherly" woman who (I'd think) in exchange doesn't need to work. I don't think it is a 1 to 1 comparison but both exist on both sides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 03:12 PM
1	How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time? I don't think it is because we are purposely dumb. We are wired that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 02:06 PM
2	Money is not enough, you need a lifestyle Understood	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 06:39 PM
1	Money is not enough, you need a lifestyle It was nightime where I live. I assumed I could continue the conversation in the morning	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 02:44 PM
12	Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively dating Yea, the responses are pretty whack... which only further proves the OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 02:37 PM
1	If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl? I have no data to back this up but I think the culprit is the unnaturalness of online dating (being able to quickly swipe between options) amplifying forces that would naturally occur to create a more uneven distribution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 01:08 AM
1	What percent of women do you believe are willing to financially support their husbands permanently? and also how many of them are beautiful women I once was in a serious relationship where we both said we'd have our backs if anything bad financially happen to either of us. I lost my business and it took me about 2-3 months to get another job. I was able to pay for my portion of rent during that time and utilities (off savings) and she covered my portion of groceries and similar expenses during that time. We didn't go out during that time. Although I was actively fixing my situation and took care of everything house related, she made it he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 06:06 PM
3	The 80/20 doesn’t mean only 20% of men are having sex and relationships…it means 20% are having the interactions and relationships THEY WANT with women I agree with your points. The pareto principle has been misused tremendously. However, I think you shouldn't be so hard on semantics because it obscures one of the main pain-points men bring on this sub. Not everybody in society knows how to present and/or debate an argument the right way unfortunately and it is easy to drown someone's pain point in technicalities. My conclusion from continually reading this point on this sub by other men is that they are indeed frustrated by a very infertile da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 05:42 PM
1	Both men and woman prefer more feminine faces in rich/healthy countries I don't even know where to start lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 02:40 PM
2	Lower earning partner should propose to higher earning partner I understand your point and I share the same feeling. I'm not a high-high earner but I do ok with the amount of money and free time I get from my business. I agree with the sentiment completely. Marriage from this position (at least the way marriage is setup right now) does feel like a huge vulnerability. If things go south, I am the only one that loses from the arrangement so it feels stupid to get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 08:24 PM
1	Lower earning partner should propose to higher earning partner You make a wonderful point. Unfortunately, most of those concepts are not mainstream and thus I don't think are good counterarguments to OP. However, more options, like you mention, should be mainstream.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 08:19 PM
6	Both men and woman prefer more feminine faces in rich/healthy countries It's really a good advantage. I don't take care of my looks, skin or hair and I wake up looking fabulous lol ... I don't grow a thick beard or stuff like that and I used to wish I had different traits but this has been working out great the older I get because I look youngish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 06:27 PM
5	Both men and woman prefer more feminine faces in rich/healthy countries I am an unkept man with a feminine face lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 06:01 PM
3	Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below. I tried to be clear about the jealousy point. I did get jealous as did she. Jealousy doesn't magically disappear - and I would even go as far as saying you don't want it to disappear in a relationship. What I was trying to say is that my attitude towards jealousy changed tremendously. I would have never ever hit on another girl in front of her. That would have been extremely inconsiderate. Not something you do to someone you love. I am from another country than her so I was glad she got treated …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 06:13 PM
4	Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below. I didn't say my partner was flirting. I said the other person was flirting with her. Relax, nobody is forcing anything on to you. I am just sharing my experience. I doubt you can see a pattern. You really dont know what kind of relationship or what kind of poly relationship we had. Sounds like you are inferring things for the purpose of maintaining a bias. The whole purpose of this sub is to learn. You don't have to agree with everything but you are for sure missing out not having an open mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 02:38 PM
7	Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below. I had one polyamorous relationship. It is one of the best relationships I've ever had if not the best. If you take away the "ownership" portion of a relationship AND have the maturity to handle it, you are basically with the other person because you truly appreciate who she /he is. It is a deep level of friendship. In all honestly, if this were more common, it would be a healthy sign of our society. I do want to clarify that polyamorous is not synonymous with no rules. We did have some rules. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 03:14 AM
2	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. I wasn't referring to any of that in my original comment. My comment was an answer to OPs complain that women gravitate towards "negative" personalities as if they are making a choice to fall for them. What I was saying is that the personality types women are attracted to are not based on a logical choice made by women but rather it is the result of a long evolutionary process in which women's preferences need to account for the situation pregnancy creates. At a first layer level, we don't choos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 12:05 AM
1	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. Not very sharp are we	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 04:20 PM
0	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. You are missing the point. The personalities and characteristic women are attracted to are the result of a long evolutionary history in which they have to be "pickier" than guys because of the risk of pregnancy. What you are saying is akin to saying that it doesn't make sense that someone likes sugar now that Splenda exists. You like sugar because of our evolutionary past. Did you choose to like girls? Breasts? Butts? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 04:17 PM
1	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. The filter chooses the square jawed hunk because in our evolutionary past that was higher chances of surviving than a weak man. Women don't choose what type of guys they are attracted to no more than you choose liking sugary foods.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 04:09 PM
5	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. Again, women aren't choosing what personality traits they are attracted to. What they are attracted to is the result of a long evolutionary history that is shaped by the fact they are the sex that carries offspring. Just like you are attracted to a certain type of physical characteristics without knowing why so are girls attracted to certain personality types without knowing why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 12:24 AM
1	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. The short answer to your question is that those traits (which you say seem bad by modern standards) were higher predictors of survival for most of our evolutionary history. Women don't select men based on a logical algorithm just like men also aren't attracted to women based on a logical algorithm. There is no rational decision making on your part when you follow a 10/10 model on instagram. Likewise, women are attracted to men for equally "primitive" reasons. Not a single one of the sexes is act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 10:09 PM
124	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. Women get pregnant. Getting pregnant leaves you vulnerable. It is very high risk. Guys dont get pregnant. Is it really that far fetched that women would have a more comprehensive filtering process?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:42 PM
2	How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters? You can forget what people say or give to you but not how they made you feel. When I (Male) moved back to my home city after being away for 12 yrs, I met this redhead I found insanely hot. I wasn't looking for a relationship and neither was she. We had amazing chemistry and great times together having fun and getting into all kinds of adventures. We made hundreds of stories in the relatively short time we were "together." We had crazy passionate sex. We were full of desire for each other. She is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:31 PM
2	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? Everything being distributed in a bell curve means you are going to find women with higher libido dating guys with lower libido. Naturally, it doesn't represent the majority of cases and it deserves its own conversation to talk about its particularities. With that being said, and returning to the topic of women not interested in sex, I think one of the points that OP is trying to make (albeit, not greatly) that is important for this conversation is that indeed living with a female partner who is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 11:28 PM
2	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? Can't imagine that being sustainable long term. It's interesting how many women here downplay that situation. It is a difficult situation catch22 because the moment you bring it up to talk about it like you would in a healthy relationship, it feels to them like you are asking for it which makes women want it less, feeling like a chose and such.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 01:57 PM
2	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? I used to be in a LTR where the girl would barely have sex with me at the end. I tried to be a good partner and initiate in all the best ways I could. Eventually I broke off the relationship which she didn't want to break off and thought it was ridiculous that one of my reasons was lack of sex. Some women on this sub really undermine how frustrating of a situation it is to not have sex with your partner. Without telling you what to do, if you really want to understand the opposite sex better, ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 01:39 PM
2	Has social media and dating apps ruined dating? This is the right answer. Social media (at least the attention-seeking way it has been built) is bad for human interrelations and society. There's a study where kids 10 yr old who've used SM from an early age had the social abilities of 4 yr olds.	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/22 06:21 AM
1	In bed, all the pressure to "perform" is in the man. The other side of the coin is pretty good isn't? The guy is "expected" to take lead... And women like that. You get to move her in different positions and do many things and whatnot. Always saw it as a win/win privilege because the girls like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 04:12 PM
2	You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv" I agree with your point but I would add that your looks (scale 0-10) measures something different than SMV. We know that girls are "choosier" for biological reasons than men. So a 6 girl is not necessarily looking for a 6 guy. The difference of what it would take for a hookup is even larger. The SMV, as you say, is based on your actual opportunities whereas the 0-10 scale measures looks. Related but definitely not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 01:27 AM
1	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive I wasn't expecting that the girls were going to defend the fake photos. They are blaming it on the guy for falling for it. Sounds like gaslighting. I don't think any of the pill philosophies support the extremes some girls are showing on social media. It's like saying that a company can put a fake job offer out there and then have you waste your time trying to go interview for them when the offer is something different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 04:12 AM
1	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive I think it was a combination of both. Looked to me that she did some photoshopping too	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:36 PM
43	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Recently went out with a girl that looked nothing like her social media pictures. It was very disappointing. I could have kept going out with her (had she been honest) but that level of dishonesty is a deal breaker. I get some makeup is good and I like it but between makeup and filters what they are showing is lies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:59 AM
3	“My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for men I am in favour of more birth control for men. It's crazy that options like risug are not available. To the point though, just like we want more options in birth control we also want options for parenthood. This is a very reasonable idea but it does require a totally different society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 11:36 PM
6	“My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for men I think you are being too quick to judge. As I understand OP's argument, people would get to chose to be a parent. I think it is a great idea but very "futuristic" in the sense that it would require more access to abortion clinics and a host of other guarantees.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 10:54 PM
5	Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In Dating I've had similar experiences. Another one is if I'm out with an attractive girl at a restaurant or bar having a good time. If I have a male waiter, he'll give me very poor service. I get the feeling they think "this guys has it too good." This is despite the fact I am polite and tip above average. Definitely a lot ob jealously beyond those scenarios.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 04:37 PM
1	My boyfriend is a Red Piller and it’s ruining our relationship. Is that even valid RP philosophy in a relationship?	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/21 03:45 PM
1	Are women really chasing after guys out of their league? Well I mean, high quality people depends on what you mean. For me, the fact that they went to school to "catch" a dude with a good profession felt dirty at that point in time. I personally wouldnt consider them high quality from that perspective. Social-sexual market wise (or whatever we call that lol), they were all very attractive girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 03:38 AM
7	Are women really chasing after guys out of their league? I know at least 3 girls that went to med school to do this. They ended up dropping out and dating guys that went on to become doctors. At least one of them that I know got pregnant while he was still in school. It happens for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 10:49 PM
1	Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing? I think intelligence by itself may not be very attractive but intelligence put to use might be. If someone has intelligence but doesn't have the character to use it, it's as if the person didn't have the intelligence. On the other end, if someone has intelligence and the character to use it and does so, the person is usually very attractive. Yes, we are creatures born with intelligence but also with a character that needs to develop to utilize it. Our first ancestors that had access to fire took…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/21 05:19 PM
0	If 80% of women are going after the top 20% of men, what are the remaining 20% of women doing? Ie dating or sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/21 05:27 PM
5	If 80% of women are going after the top 20% of men, what are the remaining 20% of women doing? And going after doesnt mean they aren't playing with the bottoom 80% of men along the way I assume	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/21 05:25 PM
6	Thank you RPW, your advice has landed me the most amazing man and given me a new (happy) lease on life! Congratulations!	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/21 02:15 AM
1	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. I agree with what you are saying and really is the best perspective. I wasn't trying to say it is impossible or that he shouldn't try. Quite the opposite. I was more trying to say that his point that it is hard for young men has substance. Hard? Yes. Try? Of course!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 06:12 PM
0	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. I understand your point regarding need and value. However, I feel it misses the point of what this young man is expressing. A young woman will have options to date people her age and up while this option will not be available to him (plus other factors like the one he mentioned). Overall, giving a young girl the feeling of plenty of opportunities and more likely to leave. It's a sound argument to me because young people are not thinking of relationships in a mature/long term framework, and reall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 04:21 PM
12	Do men make terrible friends? Why is there a dependency on women fixing their loneliness? This girl clearly is not asking for the purpose of learning. She wants to reinforce her view/create conflict.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 04:06 PM
2	6'7", millionaire, NBA player, Zion Williamson gets exposed for msging a nobody female with an onlyfans. How can a regular guy compete when chicks who are AVERAGE can have full blown affair with athletes? She had a BF, who she was cheating on. AF hits her up for booty calls while BB commits to her. The whole problem of social media artificially inflating girls smv because guys will like/follow because they are horn dogs	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/21 08:56 PM
4	6'7", millionaire, NBA player, Zion Williamson gets exposed for msging a nobody female with an onlyfans. How can a regular guy compete when chicks who are AVERAGE can have full blown affair with athletes? She had a BF, who she was cheating on. AF hits her up for booty calls while BB commits to her. There's also the potential factor that to him she was attractive enough	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/21 08:25 PM
1	One mistake and they're done (discussion) Isn't that some bull ... where did you hear that?	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/21 05:52 PM
2	One mistake and they're done (discussion) I just did some digging with vasalgel and the original article I read was wrong. There is no release date yet. Apparently they got a lot of requests from that fake news article.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/21 03:48 PM
3	Redpill tactics don't work in my country, what can I do? Could demographics also be at play? I read the population of women is greater than men in Russia (not sure if this extends to Eastern E)	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/21 06:01 PM
3	One mistake and they're done (discussion) Vadalgel is going to be available in the US in a few months thankfully	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/21 03:32 PM
7	I don’t like my bf’s female friend and I don’t know if I’m being too sensitive or not You're not imagining it. It is def on purpose to seek attention	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/21 11:51 PM
1	that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UP What's the name of this show?	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/21 03:24 PM
1	Why should a woman have sex with you? What do you have to offer her? Maybe it's what happens around the sex? If she is having exciting times with you and having sex it is worthwhile	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 04:31 PM
2	What is purple pills view on a young woman who is not promiscuous and doesn't want a promiscuous man? It was what I was thinking about. I wasn't a playboy but I didn't start getting desires for a family until the age of 30	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 03:10 PM
2	What is purple pills view on a young woman who is not promiscuous and doesn't want a promiscuous man? Perhaps someone slightly older ready to settle down	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 02:59 PM