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Question for BluePillfeelstheheats/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 06:31 AM
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I honestly don't understand what i said was wrong, im saying women should not be held responsible to defend themselves in such situations because they have weaker physical strength which will likely lead to them being submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 01:50 AM
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First of all, I am merely saying that it's wrong of people to expect women to defend themselves in these types of situations, and perhaps I better understand the focus on males in the fight against rape. I don't understand whats wrong with saying a girl is submissive, you will have to teach me more on that. Secondly, if a man "freezes up" when someone attacks him, he is not a real man. Real man will fight someone who threatens their life. I swear its like some people don't even think gender diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 01:48 AM
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Hold on let me get this straight, first you state your opinion that: Also, are men that much of scum that they can't help themselves but rape woman at a party. Is half the human race such despicable pieces of human excrement such trash they can't help themselves but to victimize women. Then you say you allowed a drunk girl to undress herself in front of you: We went with a bunch of other people to a bar and she threw herself at me. So we ended up in the hostel naked after drinking Then, you ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 07:18 AM
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I see, so in the end self-defence classes cannot change the submissive nature women have. That is quite insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 06:56 AM
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What is something a rape victim could have done differently? Don't go to parties and get drunk without staying in a group of friends, and if you go off alone with a guy, make sure your friends knows about this and can check how drunk you are and determine its ok. Now your going to say, its not a drunk person's fault for someone taking advantage of them. I will say to that, how do you prevent people from wanting to take advantage of drunk people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 03:09 AM
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women can't really do harm I honestly rolled on the floor laughing upon reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 01:53 AM
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Wow, quite an in depth response, thank you. In a sense, you basically confirmed that women are not aggressive in nature and probably all women are submissive in nature in these types of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 01:49 AM
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Your making an assumption that all rapists have violent intent. I don't believe this is necessarily true. I think a big portion oF non-stranger rapists pick victims based on vulnerability, which would indicate a lack of resistance. A good example is that not all thieves have violent intent. If a thief decides to simply grab a girl's purse, he doesn't always do so with being prepared to assault her if needed. He might just be assuming she won't fight back and call the cops to deal with it. Hope t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 11:53 PM
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Mental coercion is not under the legal definition of rape. Also, one can sue someone for blackmailing and have it otherwise disproved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 11:46 PM
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Thats what I think should be the standard, but many women think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 11:45 PM
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Exactly, its expecting girls to shout out loud "FUCK ME HARD AND FAST" which they might not want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 11:45 PM
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"The toxic idea that men should want to have sex all the time hurts men, " This is biological, it's not an idea. If a guy had the opportunity, with no consequences to have sex with every girl in his university he would. How can you actually refute this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 11:41 PM
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Oh yea i agree totally, and the sex is going to suck because the girl doesn't want to do it in the first place. Im referring here more to legal matters though, where a girl can wield a victimhood as a weapon in some circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 07:21 PM
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Smartphone 3G networks work almost anywhere in the country, so thats a dum situation. If it were true though, then that changes things, but in general going with a guy alone to a secluded spot without the intent to have sex is somewhat questionable in my mind, but in that case the coercion is more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 07:17 PM
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Exactly, I don't recall teaching thieves not to steal has ever worked, correct me if I am wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 07:06 PM
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Now tell me, where in the definition of rape or in the pages of any book of law does it say sexual coercion with emotional pressure or social pressure is illegal? Oh thats right ITS NOT. Stop making up laws that don't exist. That girl could have called a friend to come pick her up, or someone she knew to get a ride back. Or she could have called a taxi.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 07:05 PM
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Overall, I think its because black culture in America values redpill traits in men and girls more so than other classes and races.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 05:49 PM
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The Americentrism of Reddit sometimes never ceases to amaze me. Has any Blue Piller interacted with a traditional Russian woman before? Even if they did they would just declare that all Russian women are brainwashed by Putin
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 09:26 AM
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Or you could say a robot kit or something like that. Overall though i agree, i have seen many progressive parents encourage opposite gender roles and not a choice in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 09:23 AM
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even though it's not the right choice for many women. Hold up there, we gotta go over how we define what a right choice is for someone? Last time I thought only someone themselves can make their own right choices.......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 09:22 AM
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Yeah, get over yourself. No one fucks women so good they cry themselves to sleep because of you leaving her 20 years after the fact. For someone who is avoiding making assumptions about people, that is a very, very bold assumption. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 09:19 AM
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No, he is saying that when a woman already knows someone and is drinking with them, the woman doesn't have her guard up as much as if she's sober walking home alone at night. Because of this, often times it becomes harder to convict non-stranger rape where alcohol is involved because the woman would blame herself for the incident, or there isn't resistance, or the guy could say he didn't know how drunk she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 04:02 AM
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No, its the idea that once a female has had sex/relationship/fling with a true alpha, all the other men she has later on will never compare to him, and she will always long for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 03:52 AM
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How would you prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 09:58 PM
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1)yes 2)yes 3)yes 4) If it's the first time then yes, but if its in a relationship and one party is comfortable with the other party for sex, id say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 09:53 PM
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You didn't read the last two paragraphs: "If my analysis is correct that a man and a woman who are intoxicated sexually assault one another, then this has implications for how one would expect a man to respond to a complaint of having sexually assaulted a woman, when both parties were intoxicated. The man will not simply defend on the basis that the woman was not intoxicated; he will also argue, in the alternative, that he was intoxicated and therefore sexually assaulted by the woman. This has t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 09:44 PM
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It does not matter. If he was drunk he could not be responsible for his actions, and neither could she if she was drunk as well. People do not have a legal will if they are drunk. Read up on some legal studies before you make conclusions: http://www.libertylawsite.org/2014/10/13/intoxication-and-mutual-sexual-assault-under-the-yes-means-yes-statute/ "This asymmetry may or may not make sense as a policy matter. But it does have an important consequence – both parties to a sexual encounter that go…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 03:51 PM
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I was referring to the speed of penetration not speed of escelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 08:13 AM
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Well the first example you provided is definitely whats in question here. However, with the second example, if both parties are drunk, it's not rape as neither can consent to sexual activity. In any court of law that case will be dismissed as two people raping each other can have no convicted suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 06:34 AM
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Going too slow or too fast might be rape though, gotta stay within the speed limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 12:19 AM
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But what about if most rape is unreported?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 06:51 AM
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they know that if they give it up too soon the man may leave. That is very, very subjective. If I know a man is out my league, he usually has other options besides me. If this man wants sex, and I don't give it to him, he might very well choose one of those other options. So serving his desires to me at least is the route to reeling him in. Again, I will get annoyed if their wrong guys come on too strong, guys where it just doesn't connect for me. The key here for any guy is to have value throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 06:41 AM
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You would only have to build half the number of bathrooms, imagine the savings on construction costs!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 06:03 AM
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ok clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:55 AM
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Just curious, why do you think #6 is not true or why do you not agree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:44 AM
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It seems to me fundamental that a women's complaints about her dating experience tend to revolve around the fact that men move in for sex faster than they're comfortable with Ok, this is actually very misunderstood amongst guys. For many girls, you have to remember sex is a roller coaster experience that has many conditions that needs to be just right for it to occur. When a girl says the relationship is going to quickly towards sex, it is by no means a "set-timer" thats applied to every guy in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:17 AM
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Well neither, more of what im trying to ask is, did being raised in a home like yours make you prone to, when older, always putting women on a pedestal, giving them lots of gifts/favors, and trying to win their hearts by being kind and treating them well? Kind of like TRP definition of a beta-nice guy. For example, if a man says something offensive to a woman, and the woman slaps him on the face, is that acceptable? Hope that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:45 PM
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ok but did you turn out to be a nice guy in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:29 PM
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Independent of morality yes, female manipulation constant no, TRP believes that society is somewhat feminized, and because of that, females have a greater incentive and freedom to manipulate men for resources. Therefore, a man must be careful as to not give himself away easily and always view himself as a prize for the female, never trying to win the female as a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:12 PM
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TRP advocates not letting females manipulate you and to always demand respect. This isn't an issue with animals because animals could never pose a threat in modern society of this nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:10 AM
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Right, it would be, but im trying to compare the amount of sexual partners vs. the quality of them for guys. Something in me thinks it would be the 20 5's because when i hear guys talk or brag about sex, its always with how many girls they have been with or emphasizing the abundance, i haven't heard of them bragging about how hot they were. But that is just my world and my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 10:36 PM
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Right, yes I was referring to more the affirmative action in regards to races rather than genders, since the women vs. men argument in sectors like tech is much more grey than a black person or white person being hired from some middle class job. If the sexy guy did hold it for a man, thats ok because i know the sexy guy has value and holds power in my eyes, so him helping someone else is like him acting superior to them. Now if he holds the door open for 20+ people, thats not forgivable because…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 08:52 PM
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I don't like affirmative action for the same reason, it immediately starts with the assumption that whatever minority is less capable. I have to disagree with you on this one here. Its not that certain minorities are less capable, its just that they have many difficulties that majority races like White or Asians don't face. For example, computer science is a field lacking minority populations, in part of the fact that minorities who are socioeconomically disadvantaged can't afford or have very l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 08:39 PM
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Whats being said is that the vast majority of nerdy people embody that lack of social skill. There will always be outliers like your biochemistry phd. Hell my uncle was a professor of neurosurgery at a hospital in Israel and he probably slept with every single nurse in his department.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 07:09 PM
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So your saying that hooking up is immoral? lol Also your saying that younger guys ages 18-22 should only date older women? and anyone who dates girls age 18-22 is immoral? You should reevaluate your thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 03:02 PM
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Omg that's laughable. Sorry. But you cannot compare a mouse and a HUMAN by their genetic code when it comes to brain power/behavior. You just can't. The difference is enormous. Ok, im not going to judge you for not understanding genetics, but all behavior and all brain power arises from the expressions of proteins which are coded and transcribed from your DNA, specifically receptor proteins in the CNS like Protein Kinase C, whcih activate specific targets for neuron synapses: http://www.brni.org…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 07:16 AM
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Problem is for the women you need to define that when they rate a guy as most attractive, what does that mean? Does that mean they would sleep with him? Does that mean they would go out with him? It needs to be more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 05:09 AM
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The point is men are cheap while women are of high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 04:26 AM
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Research with animals is a different, er, animal. Animals mostly submit to brute strength. Humans don't. The age of brute strength ruling where individual humans are concerned has passed. No, the mouse and the human share 99.5% of all genes, they are essentially identical for molecular biological experiments like monitoring the effect of estrogen on the brain. Humans don't submit to brute strength huh? Ok, so if your walking down the street, and some huge, aggressive man with tattoos and piercin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 04:24 AM
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Thanks for the signs of what to watch out for. I have to say the constant traveling and overseas stories is something I never would have thought about, yet now it makes perfect sense.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:19 AM
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What are some ways to determine if a woman has lived through the party world if she isn't involved in a publicized business like playboy?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:34 AM
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Precisely, its not that the things nice guys do are a turn off, its just that their only value are the favors they do for us. If you have social status, good lucks, confidence, and a set of goals you want to attain, thats really sexy. Think about it this way, would a girl think the captain of her high school baseball team was a nice guy for offering to give her a ride on his motorcycle back home? NOPE. He has status, physical strength, confidence, and above all the motorcycle ride initiates phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 11:52 PM
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One possibility is you have some repulsive behavior that you might not be aware of that's driving girls away. What I mean by repulsive is that you talk about things that are inherently strange or a turn off to us girls, like the following: -potty humor -feminism( in a serious manner) -rape/consent laws -anything to do with female hygiene issues The list goes on, but try and think back about your interactions and see what you did wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 11:46 PM
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According to this study they do: http://www.researchgate.net/publication/8458597_Estrogen_has_mnemonic-enhancing_effects_in_the_inhibitory_avoidance_task Estrogen can alter the cognitive performance of the brain that makes them (mice) avoid certain tasks or compete less for food and other resources. What makes you think society holds back women from being dominant? Can you site an example where women when given freedoms would be more dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 11:33 PM
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I have friends who are attractive, unconfident, and are getting laid left and right, with women fighting (sometimes literally) for the privilege of letting the pretty unconfident know he's valuable. This statement contradicts itself. value and confidence are synonymous. Can you elaborate more on why you think they are unconfident? I think your not reading it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 10:52 PM
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When you apply science to female sexuality what you get is a big load of gibberish. Sex is a personal thing, like u said, u cannot quantify it like quantum mechanics or whatever the fuck that stuff is called. It is not in correct to say the vast majority of females are attracted to masculinity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 05:43 AM
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http://np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1r35ck/the_ideal_rp_relationship_sounds_a_lot_like_a_247/cdjxj6y Here is one, a comment that says that a girl wouldn't like being used for the pleasure of her mate, and only likes a mutually beneficial pleasure. Ill find more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 05:14 AM
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But im just curious though, Doesn't the idea of having 20 different girls to sleep with in a month, which is an average of 2 every 3 days, sound more of a turn on to you than sleeping with just one 9/10? Again, i don't know this because im a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 04:34 AM
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Sorry but I think that statement is bullshit. A guy can be buff as hell, have the nicest ass I could bounce quarters off of, but if he doesn't act confident, or he doesn't act like he is the strongest man in the room, my attraction for his body is instantly lost. Masculinity is the core of attraction, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 02:01 AM
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You can be emotionally damaged as you want to be. But all women are different and some don't wish to hold back their lives like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 05:24 PM
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You are jumbling a whole bunch of things into one. Assault, sexual assault, and harassment are crimes. They are instances of harm inflicted upon women in this case. Yet, they are illegal. Discrimination and sexism on the other hand are legal, so they have a much more dramatic effect on a daily life than rape would. Point is, do all of these things in the big picture cause women to feel oppressed, or do women in general rise above the status quo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 08:08 AM
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Yes, but the experience was awful. Not sure if you are a girl, but the feeling of your vagina slamming clamp tight instantly is just terrible .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 07:39 AM
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I don't know, but it was just an extremely awkward experience. His dick was so small i couldn't see it from underneath his pubic hair. At first I honestly didn't know how to react. It was so weird omg! Call me a size queen but this is part of the reason I love Black guys! You never have to worry about what their packing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 07:08 AM
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But what about if I had an NVD experience with an Asian guy before? Can I use that as justification not to want to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 06:52 AM
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But it is one of the possible feelings in response to acts. One can have many different responses to certain acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 06:52 AM
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Oppression is a feeling, not an act. Feelings are up to the interpretations of individuals. Each individual woman has her own interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 06:43 AM
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Wait, your saying feminism decreases control that a woman has over her life? Can you explain this a little, because usually people say feminism promotes freedom for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 05:26 AM
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You would think I would because the NBA is like what 80% black men? But actually I don't really like men who are too tall because it makes them look too long and too thin. I like more the buff, jacked look in a guy, but not with a super lean body fat. I would say Barry Bonds in his prime was very sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 05:24 AM
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and have to fear rape in the streets, then yes. To fear being raped outside on the streets? LOL Yea in Detroit sure, not in the whole of America. I have never heard of women being afraid of being raped in public though, that is something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 05:17 AM
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Your probably right, I don't. Im guessing its the equivalent of the bragging right I would get if I hooked up with an MLB player or equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 05:05 AM
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But I honestly don't understand why more women don't use the unwanted sexual advances to their advantage. Whenever I'm at work and a guy advances on me, I make him think i'm interested and have him do some chores of favors for me. I have one dude I know from the HR department that gets me coffee every single morning! Although when were talking about men who are doctors this would probably be different.......
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 05:03 AM
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Ok, i do understand your scenario, especially the second issue your brought up. However with the first scenario, do you think it was possible that the male intern simply connected better with your boss and that is what lead to his higher pay and better hired position? I mean overall how would you say his performance was on the job, you only commented on his education.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 04:32 AM
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hmmm Interesting, so some guys do care about the aesthetic average appeal of their past partners. One more thing, in theory, if you were a virgin or had only had sex with a single girl before, would that change your answer? or would you still pick the 9?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 03:50 AM
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I guess my question is doesn't being able to add 20 girls to your partner count excite you more than sleeping with just one really hot girl? Assuming the 5's were not fat and not too skinny Im just curious, from a guy's perspective why they would pick the 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 03:38 AM
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No it's not for a lifetime, just for a month period. Generally this question came into my mind to compare if men also seek the best mate like women do or are more plentiful mates the more sought after option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 01:18 AM
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Just curious, what does TRP have to say about women who get massive packages and tons of procedures for cosmetic surgery? Does it in fact extend the time a woman can ride the CC, or does it help attract a BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 05:54 PM
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The key here is kindness with a personal benefit. Example: If a guy says this to his FB or fling: "Hey there, let me give you a ride from work today, save your energy for when im ready to rumble." This is a kind gesture, but it always puts the man first because it displays his desire for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:36 PM
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Yea, the penis size issue slipped my mind when typing this question, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:32 PM
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Something to be taken note of is that, throughout all of her crying, she does not make one attempt to apologize or say sorry for concealing or masking the truth. Even after being caught, her only concern is who will raise the Alpha children, not at all one concern for the respect of the Beta husband.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:32 PM
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But u chose to be in that LTR out of your own will right, correct? it was not done out of necessity?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:30 AM
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But are those guys getting lots of girls in the sack??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:28 AM
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They talk about how men must have high partner counts or they're betas. If you're a man who doesn't sleep around the implication is always you are whipped and not a real man. Men who settle down don't really want to settle down. You miss the point. TRP advocates a real man is a man with freedoms. He has attained the ability and the confidence to do whatever he wants. A man without choice or abundance mentality is a beta. Alpha and Beta and determined by sex partners, sexual partners are a side e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:11 AM
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gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:08 AM
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So why do other guys with so much money not have as many girls as him? Most people do seek fame of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 09:18 AM
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oh i see your point, its like saying a "successful" computer scientist is Steve Jobs, yet in fact there are many computer scientists who don't hold a finger to him yet are still successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 07:52 AM
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Oh i see like real early, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:35 AM
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https://instagram.com/danbilzerian That is success....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:33 AM
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https://instagram.com/danbilzerian
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:31 AM
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TRP's definition of successful with women is Dan Bilzerian: https://instagram.com/danbilzerian
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:31 AM
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I would disagree. If given the choice, men would want to have sex with as many women as they possibly could.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:08 AM
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But in theory, can a genetically prone alpha male, after constant years of feminist shaming be turned into a nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 12:51 AM
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I see, so tell me, you must know a lot of nice, meek guys getting lots of girls, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 12:22 AM
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Sorry but if you proactively trying to be desirable to other women as to have it be threatening to your SO, it's passive aggressive manipulation, there is no churching that up. I may be very naive and misinformed on the deeper workings of the dread game, but on the surface and to an outsider, people will take it exactly like i took it. The concept behind dread game is maintaining value with your partner, It can verge on a type of manipulation, but it takes into the account that value on a psycho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 11:08 PM
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is that, "show people you don't have to be a 9-5 dad of 3 with a white picket fence and a 401K to be happy"? I'm all for that. Not what I meant exactly, but close. More about the sugarcoating in regards to relationships. You see TRP seeks to discourage men from participating in "oneitis" where the male has a infatuation about a specific female he will find that will be his absolute soulmate, like in a fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 09:44 PM
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Personally I think if you had a war of what type of man could have sex with the most women in a year, I think the black guys would win. Just my opinion though. For the war side of things your probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 09:26 PM
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I guess it depends how we define assertive. Growing up in the SF bay area, generally leader-like women are praised here rather than deemed unpleasant. This might be very different elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 09:23 PM
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I see. I brought up the holocaust example because, in a way, a holocaust denier could say, the documented pictures/texts are forged and faked by bribery, the media involving the holocaust is largely influenced by Jewish interests, the holocaust was a bait to get the Jews able to steal palestine away from its people, etc. etc. What I am saying is that, TRP similarly to Atheists, seek to convey a supposed truth beneath the well-accepted standard of the population. The main rational of TRP is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 09:21 PM
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The mere existance of the blue pill means that the red pill is not completely true. This logic has problems. You could say the existence of Atheism disproves god, or that existence of Holocaust Deniers disproves the Holocaust. Can you explain what parts of TRP you believe aren't in line with the female mind? Im just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:48 PM
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Yes and No. If a girl acts dominant or strong-willed, she usually gets a "You go girl!" cheer or similar compliments. I have just nearly never seen it go the other way for a guy in a social circle. The employment is a good point, definitely, but im trying to describe a setting where there aren't any risks for accepting one person or another( No financial losses).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:22 PM
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The link i posted was wrong because its a link to the blog of the magazine and not the tumblr account which has many more pictures I describe of. Academic studies don't get an accurate partner count because all men exaggerate there partner count and women minimize it. If attractive men don't have the most partners who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:18 PM
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I see your point, yes in that sense your right, there true for me. What I did mean by correct though is that, TRP guys, whom are younger, idolize a type of man that is at the top of the pyramid so to say, the top dog, whom has a couple of girls to hook up with when he wants. Generally, to achieve that kind of life, TRP insights on what females want correlate positively with achieving that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:14 PM
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Problem with surveys is that females will minimize their partner count/sexual experiences but males will exaggerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:10 PM
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http://www.brobible.com/sports/article/another-reason-to-hate-tim-tebow/ http://www.spike.com/articles/cfiy96/shocking-report-reveals-that-athletes-get-laid-a-lot Here are some more links for you. I don't know why you don't want to see how popular, handsome, buff men will get more sexual partners than average looking, skinny men who aren't popular. But hey, your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:08 PM
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Crap I just did a few google searches and realized how many fortune 500 companies were started by Jews, Holy moses!!! -Google -Facebook -Goldman Sachs -Gap -Snapple -Starbucks -Oracle -Dell Calvin Klein -Slim Fast -Warner Brothers Seriously I hope i can find me a Jewish Black guy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:06 PM
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I am not really sure what your looking for then. There are many pictures there showing athlete guys in a hot tub with 6-7 girls at a time. What more proof do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 07:59 PM
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http://www.collegemagazine.com/How-Sports-Can-Get-You-Laid Its siting that even guys on the football team who don't play that much and aren't NFL prospects can have 5 or 10 girls at a time. Just imagine what the quarterback at a school like USC can do!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 07:37 PM
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Ok, hmmm, can I ask you one thing though? According to TRP, is it right to say that you should want your future sons and grandsons to be the most alpha as possible and have he highest testosterone levels, right? If black men have higher testosterone and more RP traits, why exclude them? If it's low socioeconomic status I understand, but I'm just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 07:10 PM
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Well, I acknowledge the theories on thinking about female relationships as economical models very similar to how it really is. One thing I don't agree with though is that men are either alpha or beta. There is a lot in between and no one is clearly the most dominant or most submissive man. I think it's more accurate to describe it like a pendulum that can swing between the two extremes of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 06:43 PM
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Ok so let's go over what you call legitimate, if you want to prove what you think is correct about female sexuality, go ahead, I'm ready to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 06:15 PM
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So she is afraid of fulfilling a desire her boyfriend or husband wants? Interesting.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 05:56 PM
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Yes but no way in hell did I ever hook up or have sex with 50 different guys. My issue is only that I think you should see a girl for what she shows you, not who you think you want her to be. Guys often meet a certain girl, like a portion of who she is and want to wish the rest of her was the way they wanted, but it can't happen like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 04:04 PM
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Ok try marrying a girl who has fucked over 50 guys and let us know if she changes. It seems like BP always give women the benefit of the dought....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 03:54 PM
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I think your right on the money with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 03:51 PM
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But why do you assume that is the case? Do you not think it's possible a woman who gave blowjobs to 25 guys but not her husband might not really be attracted to her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 03:28 PM
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Well as a female I have to say most of TRP theories on female sexuality and desire are essentially correct for me and how I behave. Would you mind elaborating on what parts of TRP you refuse to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 03:25 PM
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Oh of course. What's even more shocking is how your exactly validating the existence of the cock carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:47 AM
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Oh um, it stands for non-visible dick, like its so small it doesn't stick out from the surrounding pubes. Just something my girlfriends and I made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:05 AM
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Right, but is it bad to deny other males based on their race? When I was in high school I had an Asian BF who had a NVD. And after that I just can't bring myself to date an asian guy again...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 07:42 AM
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Sounds like you are essentially saying the supposed AFBB argument is true. Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 07:15 AM
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You have it backwards my friend. All the feminist laws, like Yes means yes, 1 in 5 women are sexually assaulted on college campuses, etc. That stuff targets the masculine frat guys. They want all men to be nice guys, essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 06:34 AM
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Another example is short women wanting tall men. Short women usually want tall men because tall men are considered hot. But isn't that hypocritical? The woman is short and she wants someone that does not share that characteristic. Too me, there is a difference between the desire of biological characteristics and the desire of psychological characteristics. Generally, men and women do attract the opposites physically. Men want a women with: Wide hips, small waist, narrow shoulders, long hair, lar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 05:08 AM
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That's a good point about penis size though. In theory one's dick could be so big it might not be able to fit in a woman's mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 03:18 AM
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Ok, but I think it would be very twisted of the male to ask for a specific sexual act and then call her immoral or wrong for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 02:15 AM
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Right, but if she gave the yes to other guys and not her current husband for specific sexual acts, is she truly attracted to her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 02:01 AM
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So your essentially saying that a woman might feel if she gives her husband oral sexy he might think she is wrong for that? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 01:20 AM
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But why would she be ashamed of them I she did them with other guys and enjoyed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 01:02 AM
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Your feeding something into the question that is there. No where in it did I say she does not like to do them any more, I simply stated she does not like to do them for her current husband. She could still fantasize about them with other men, you don't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 12:11 AM
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it's another 'to comply' to specific requests, as if you are a circus animal or prostitute or rpw female. Wait, im confused here, i thought guys are supposed to ask for sexual acts because consent prevents rape? Can you explain what you mean here? Also, lets assume the female admits she used to do these things, so we don't play bending around the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 11:55 PM
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Right, by truly attracted, i mean the most attracted she could possibly be to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 11:46 PM
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Define identify first. What does it mean when a man identifies as a nice guy? Does he just say he is? or does he try to be one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 11:03 PM
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You misunderstand the point and clearly haven't read the insightful comment above from the IT person on this thread. In order to have more woman CEO's you need more female qualified candidates. According to published education data, only a small percentage of women are pursuing higher risk, higher time, higher paid jobs. You treat women as if they are all the same person. You need a pool of qualified female candidates pursuing a CEO position or starting their own companies to get more female CEO…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:58 PM
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I'll try and find it, but one of those types of surveys also asked a question about sex that a woman regretted or felt slutty for doing and called that sexual assault too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:26 PM
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Depends if you murdered a woman or a man
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 06:34 AM
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"SEX SHOULD ONLY BE ENJOYABLE FOR MEN. SO FOLLOW THESE STRICT RULES RANDOM PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET TOLD YOU. BECAUSE YOU ARE A FREE THINKING ALPHA. NOW LAY BACK, THINK OF ENGLAND, AND DON'T STARE AT YOUR BUDDIES' COCK." Third comment down....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:46 AM
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Id say they are found more in leader-like, more masculine men, like athletes, actors, surfers, frat boys etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:30 AM
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"SEX SHOULD ONLY BE ENJOYABLE FOR MEN. SO FOLLOW THESE STRICT RULES RANDOM PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET TOLD YOU. BECAUSE YOU ARE A FREE THINKING ALPHA. NOW LAY BACK, THINK OF ENGLAND, AND DON'T STARE AT YOUR BUDDIES' COCK." He is essentially saying its ludicrous to think a real man shouldn't abide by his girl's desires.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:23 AM
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The article you sited makes a very, poor argument, which is actually incorrect entirely: "I’ve been in more than a few meetings where once an attractive female staffer leaves the room one or two of the guys will comment on her hotness. This goes on, believe me. Guys are still checking out the girls in the office. I see their body language noticeably change whenever a pretty female employee enters the room. Words, thoughts and important points are missed because of a new perfume or a low cut blou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:18 AM
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It is not no. I just posed the female scenario because its more suitable for this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:55 AM
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http://www.np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1f03zr/can_an_adventurous_alfalfa_male_have_a_mmf/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:54 AM
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http://www.np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1f03zr/can_an_adventurous_alfalfa_male_have_a_mmf/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:53 AM
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http://www.np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1f03zr/can_an_adventurous_alfalfa_male_have_a_mmf/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:53 AM
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http://www.np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1f03zr/can_an_adventurous_alfalfa_male_have_a_mmf/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:53 AM
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This is a monogamous marriage only.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:21 AM
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Hmmmm, I agree that both members of the couple have to share the innate fantasy of three person sex, but in general I believe it might be a case of the man, or the woman, opening up the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 12:40 AM
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How do u link without it being reported ? I tried it and they took it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 12:03 AM
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Did your son end up staying on the team after all though? I didn't get that part.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:36 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1f03zr/can_an_adventurous_alfalfa_male_have_a_mmf/ Read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 10:29 PM
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Well, some guys have said that the man is disrespecting the wife's sexuality and being cruel for not allowing her to explore herself, AKA oppression...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 10:12 PM
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No, you have it wrong. Naturally and throughout history, society and social hierarchy naturally evolved to a sexist state. Men bring in the resources, protection, women provide sex, off-spring and raising them. Men take on roles that suit physically strong and tough tasks, while women take the other roles that involve tasks suitable for a female body. Feminism sees this and seeks to change it, while the TRP seeks to find a way to live life according to those principles because they naturally occ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 09:42 PM
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Very, very interesting, so from your observation, the gender gap in the workforce is more due to lack of female qualified candidates than the oppression of hiring them? Hmmmmm I wonder what feminists have to say about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 08:57 PM
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One idea is that Tinder increases selection of males because it takes a mass amount of male potential partners and puts them in front of a female in the palm of her hand to flick through as she chooses. This expedites selection because now she doesn't have to wait for males to approach her or go places to meet them. Possibly, this gives her the idea to raise her bar for men as she has so many possible suitors. Pornography can possibly decrease male vigor and sexual agenda because it gives males …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 07:13 PM
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Can you say a little more? Are you saying in your experience there are a small percentage of guys with more than one girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 07:06 PM
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By undateable, do you mean you couldn't have a deeper relationship than just sex, or do you mean that you wouldn't do anything with them beyond being a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 07:03 PM
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Obviously, you won't find absolutely true data on this because its based on someone's honesty, and more often than not, Men exaggerate their sexual partner count while women minimize it. But, here is an academic article that proves some trends: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf Among women aged 15–44 in the 2006–2008 NSFG, 11% had never had any form of sexual activity with a male partner in their lives, 6.1% had sex in their lifetime but had no opposite-sex sexual activity in the pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 06:52 PM
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Oh i see what your referring to. What I meant is that, if you made a graph of the number of sexual partners a male has, versus the frequency of how many males have attained that many sexual partners, you will get the highest frequency somewhere between 1-5, and as you keep increasing the partner count the number of males in that category also decreases at an exponential rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 06:22 PM
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brb let me link some threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 07:02 AM
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Mind explaining this a little more? Normally in a closed community all the females are only mating with a small percentage of the males. EDIT: Just to make sure were only talking about humans though, where a female only holds one fetus in a pregnancy at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 05:47 AM
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No. The idea is, you should not view her 25 partners as any sort of achievement. Your 25 partners is a remarkable achievement for a man. It does not work the same way for women. It is just a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 05:46 AM
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Strangely enough, at some top-tier universities this isn't as much the case. My brother went to Stanford, tall guy, 6'3", but average build and slightly above average looking, white. Overall he is outgoing, but he said in his freshmen year the girls were really sleeping around. I mean he didn't really have to even approach them that much to get them to notice him. He attributed it though to that most Stanford girls have super strict lives in high-school, so they get to go wild when they get out …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 04:30 AM
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The problem with that theory is that you had to work hard for fucking those 25 girls, while the woman merely chooses to do so. It's not entirely the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 04:05 AM
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This is interesting about the gay men. i haven't known a gay man deeply, but I didn't know there sex drive is similar to a heterosexual man's in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 01:01 AM
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No, you see this is related to another topic, where BP defends the fact that you shouldn't judge a woman for having a slutty past when determining her for a longterm relationship. They make this defense by that some woman are just programmed to be promiscuous, while it is in fact a conscious choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 12:49 AM
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And thats because the attacker called her up and told her to recant her report or else he will come kill her, of course, lolz.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:16 AM
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No prostitution does not count for this. There can only be sex between the two parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 10:46 PM
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isn't that what you call hitting the wall? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 10:17 PM
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You are giving examples of sexual orientations, not gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 07:43 PM
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Why do they need to adapt though? I thought you live life how you want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 04:00 PM
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Not really. Facts are agreed upon. The change in entropy of the water is based on an explanation of quantum mechanics, which is a theoretical science. It is highly agreed upon by physicists, but it is not proven beyond a shadow of a dought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 03:57 PM
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taking responsibility for your own success. The problem is most academically successful kids have lots of their responsibilities taken care of by their parents, which leads to a lack of extrovert behavior and leadership qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 05:09 AM
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Its a poor video because it misleads people in the definition of what a role is, and confuses it with a characteristic. Definition of a role: the function assumed or part played by a person or thing in a particular situation. This implies its a set of tasks or responsibilities. A gender role therefore means a set of tasks or a responsibility that are specific to a gender. So it is ok for people to disregard traditional gender roles and pursue what they want, like a woman being a government leade…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 05:06 AM
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Exercise, but get really buff and lift heavy weights. Focus on putting muscle weight on, increasing testosterone to the max. When you start seeing how much you can lift, it will make you feel like you can do anything you want, which will translate into your success with women. Also, if you pick a hobby, become the best you can at it. Always excel in things, never be happy with what you have, always strive for more. Hmmm. I think your not reading something right. The typical marriage is a male- h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 04:00 AM
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No. People don't get what they want if they settle for something less. If you don't have the option available to you, you create that option. Why do you think Steve Jobs created Apple? Because nothing available gave him what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 03:49 AM
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Im too lazy to type this all here, but I can tell you, you are not exuding to the women you meet that you are a man of high value and importance. This comes from one of two problems, either you are not working on yourself to become valuable and important, or you are not communicating that you are. I'd really like a life-partner relationship in which there is mutual love and admiration, but those feelings seem like they're in such flux and out of my control. Can you explain what you mean by that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 03:46 AM
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What does the year have to do with the partner count? I'm talking about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 02:52 AM
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Ok, I am a person that believes what the vast majority of people believe. This is what most people do. I don't believe you can redefine a specific thing to your own needs, and in doing so your on the verge of sociopathy. My mother is a psychiatrist, so I guess i am more exposed to these types of people by virtue of stories I have heard and spending time around her office. If someone is married, they get married because they want to be secured to one partner, hopefully for life. Thats the plan. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 12:59 AM
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Wow, You know i never thought of it that way. Your right! Who am i to make the judgement for other people to be with? By that point, If i ever see my daughter snorting cocaine, I am going to tell her I can't make the judgement to whether or not its a good idea and let her know I probably don't understand the reasons she is doing it. I am for sure not going to convince her its a bad idea, because that would be judging her. I need to be a good person because thats who i want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 12:49 AM
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You know what, I think your right, i am totally wrong about this. I wasn't looking at things in the big picture. Also, I think from now on that I am going to say that all the drug cartel guys who are convicted of drug crimes aren't really convicted of drug crimes because there one judicial definition that sort of implies they aren't. Presumably, they should be freed from jail, but they won't really be freed , including not really being guilty and not even having an attorney because they don't fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 12:43 AM
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Ok Im going to check if this logic applies to other stuff. Certainly feel free to avoid men with drug addict history and if you wish you can advocate to your friends that they avoid men with drug addict history. And chances are one day a friend of yours will marry a man with a drug addict history and you'll have the choice to take it in good grace or sulk about it and end up on the outter. Oh shit.......That doesn't jive well now does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 12:38 AM
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Ok, when i google the definition of marriage, this is what i get: mar·riage ˈmerij/ noun 1. the legally or formally recognized union of a man and a woman (or, in some jurisdictions, two people of the same sex) as partners in a relationship. You see where it defines the two person part? You can attempt to redefine words, but somehow that sounds a lot like mental disorder i heard about on tv. once.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 12:29 AM
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So a monogamous relationship is a reality that doesn't exist? hmmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 12:04 AM
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Ok so for this debate marriage is monogamous. no poly woly jolly please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 11:55 PM
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We share office space with another firm, and the MALE boss of that firm is the biggest creator of drama I have seen in my 15 year career. Just curious, you only mentioned the boss of the firm, which is the person by default with the most power, most privileges, and the least likely to be fired. Does the boss of your firm behave worse than the lower tier employees of your firm?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 11:38 PM
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No it's not. Marriage is a set deal thats defined as monogamy until death do them part. The question is does a girl who had sex with lots of men make her inadequate for marriage. The goals of marriage are universal, you cannot define them for your own personal liking, or else its not a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 11:29 PM
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Interesting, now why does insecurity of a man conflict with a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 10:51 PM
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In this case the marriage would mean only monogamous marriage. do people actually have open marriages? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 10:41 PM
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Sorry to sound dum, but what does the alpha widow term mean? I know the difference between an alpha and beta, but I thought an alpha doesn't usually get married and wouldn't leave behind a widow?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 10:31 PM
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Oh shoot i thought u said does not. Sorry i had a blonde moment. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 10:00 PM
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So your saying people's past behavior doesn't indicate future behavior? I wonder why colleges check your SAT scores before admission. There probably rubbish though right? since past performance doesn't indicate future performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 09:54 PM
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All data is a correlation for any scientific field. Heating water to 212 degrees farenheit is associated with a 99.8% chance of it boiling, but that extra 0.2% does not mean its not true. Nothing is ever 100% or 0% true,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 09:38 PM
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Perhaps women who make lots of money are not ready for marriage But this is exactly what op is trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 09:16 PM
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When you mean by ended up, what does that mean exactly? Like the marriage began one way and turned into something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 09:01 PM
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Right but I don't see where TRP says: Look for girls who want a relationship and manipulate them to want a fling I think it emphasizes more so just attracting girls that are already inclined with casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 09:00 PM
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If you always put others people desires before yours, you will never get what you want out of life. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 08:55 PM
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Exactly, because if you have the woman being the main income provider, the husband needs to take on motherly duties. So swapping gender roles needs to be agreed upon if it were to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 08:46 PM
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You misunderstand the point about wanting the relationship. Women can want many things, but they see what they can get. Think of it this way, if you had the opportunity to meet a famous athlete you always admired growing up, you would be happy just to shake his hand and get an autograph. But you would be even more happy, if the athlete was willing, to play his or her sport with you. But your not meeting the athlete only based on the premise that you get to play the sport with them. get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 08:44 PM
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You misunderstand. A women can be ok with casual sex, but in her mind she would find it a dream come true to snag a guy for a relationship. Example: When I was in college, I used to hookup with an OL for my school's football team. Guy overall was very sexy, charming, and a great, powerful man. I was more than happy to have sex with him, but in my mind, if possible, it would have meant the world to me to marry him and have his children, but that possibility wasn't a reality at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 08:40 PM
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They fail to recognize that what men value is not what they value. Women clearly value men for what they can give them monetarily, and men value women for their attractiveness and to a far less extent their income (relative to women). I believe there are two factors to this. One, top quartile earning women, or women in leadership positions in businesses, like female entrepreneurs tend to be selfish and somewhat dominant. This can be a turn off to most men. Also, the best way to say it is that a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 08:36 PM
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Ok I think studies like this do not look at the actual parenting of kids that study hard and get good grades vs. the disadvantaged kids who join gangs and such. Boys who are pushed hard to get good grades and succeed academically, are encouraged to do just that. Often they come from middle class homes, where sometimes their only responsibility is school, and the rest is up to them in their own free time. There isn't a big emphasis at all on building leadership, personality, or being physically f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 08:08 PM
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I think you misunderstand the amoral bit. All that means is that, it only looks at what a woman wants, and what a man wants from one another. It excludes any moral judgements that come from a such interaction, and makes it straight to the point. it does not assume that certain desires, from the man or the woman's point of view need to be "rationalized". A desire for sex is a desire for sex, it needs no justifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 07:58 PM
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Just to clarify in this context no physical contact would occur unless the women was receptive to the first approach. But yea I agree with u
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 06:50 PM
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Nope it's where u said all men can be aggressive and violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 06:26 PM
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And your tactic is the same thing that applies to one person applies to all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 09:26 AM
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You are assuming by default all men have the potential to be aggressive. It's no different than saying all muslim people have the potential to become suicide bombers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 09:10 AM
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You misunderstand the point. What he is saying is that, feminists say they seek equality, but if men and women aren't the same to begin with, equality in the real sense isn't possible to achieve. The labor example is one that highlights the feminist argument that "Any job a man can do, a woman can do too. And if she isn't able too, its our job to help her do it right." I don't believe that is an extreme of feminism. The problem with that argument is two things. First, it insists that the reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 09:09 AM
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I highly, highly disagree with you on this. Women receive lighter sentences for the same crimes as men, and most female crimes like prostitution are greatly under-reported and are rarely prosecuted. Cops profile people all the time. The most dangerous is a black male, while the least dangerous is a white female.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 08:52 AM
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You see? This is what feminism constructs and is why i hate it. They are a group of women that want to rid the world of men. They start by killing off their sexuality. What kind of woman doesn't like compliments? Do you see what kind of cow poop these people come up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 08:50 AM
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Criminal? Probably not. Potentially impolite due to tactless and lack of consideration of what her point of view might be? Very much so. Likely to get him a repuation amongst local law enforcement if he does it all the time, especially if he does it gracelessly and with poor consideration of the feelings of those he approaches... and maybe he will end up one of those who gets questioned after a sex crime happens? For sure. Ok now if a woman whose decently attractive does this, it would never be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 04:58 AM
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Definition of harassment from google search: aggressive pressure or intimidation. Note the words, Aggressive, and the word pressure. Saying hello to someone and starting a charming conversation isn't being aggressive or pressuring them. Also, you are categorizing all male-female interactions as a harassment. Do you realize that? You are also assuming, again, that women go to cafe's and mall's to not be hit on. You don't know that and have no way of knowing that unless you approach them. avoid th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 03:20 AM
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Women serve lighter sentences for the same crimes as men. Women are more sought after in higher paying fields than men, and can likely be held in view with less standards for a job than men. Female promiscuity is hailed as a girl having fun, while male promiscuity can be thought of as predatorily or evil in some circumstances. Female birth control exists, male birth control doesn't In schools literature and education is favored towards showing females in a positive light just because they are fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 03:13 AM
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That's assuming a lot. Your assuming, that every single woman in a park or cafe wants to be left alone which is not always the case. A woman, like myself might be reading a book in a cafe, but she might be doing so just to kill time and would love for someone to make things a little more interesting. U never know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 02:58 AM
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Can you explain why you think society is not feminized? Do you realize how many advantages I have gotten in college and high school for being a cute girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 11:43 PM
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absolutely, and women aren't able to act in selfish, manipulative ways in a masculinized society Why do you think there is such a huge difference in eastern western cultures in regards to how women behave? In San Francisco, I can always flirt with the cashier in banana republic to give me 10% off, that might not work so well in Tokyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 11:29 PM
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In a feminized society, women have a greater incentive to act in self-centered and self-benefiting ways that can be thought of as evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 11:21 PM
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"I bet he'd be great with kids!" Fatherly traits are a turn off for just hooking up, FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 11:17 PM
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Im going off of taco's comments here: http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2y358t/in_your_experience_has_feminism_made_you_ashamed/cp6i1f4 That approaching a girl for sex is rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 11:09 PM
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Right, it is not "repeated approaching" but "approaching" in a singular sense of the word. AKA, one strike, your out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 10:40 PM
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Not sure what autism spectrum and boolean mean here, but im trying to say the law is in correct in evaluating consent to a yes or no question for a female. Sorry if this is hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 10:39 PM
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You mistake the definition of aggression. Here is a great example. "Joe goes to BestBuy to buy a new flat screen TV. While he pushes his cart in line, another guy named Bill, cuts in front of him in line. Joe tells Bill that he cut him in line, but it appears Bill either ignored him or didn't hear him. Aggressive choice: -Joe walks up to Bill, looks him straight in the eyes, and tells him its rude and disrespectful to cut through the line and he needs to get to the back of the line and wait his …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 10:07 PM
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Well sweety, I wouldn't declare rape because I have matured to the point where I acknowledge im the one who agreed to hooking up, and thus I have to face what I chose to get. However, I just want to highlight sex or sexual encounters for women are an involved experience, its not an act with a specific person. Asking if there is consent has no guarantee of being honest given a set of circumstances. You cannot simply say there is consent or there was not. This is why when you do have sex, you need…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 09:58 PM
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You have something a little bit off here. TRP criticizes and talks about the flaws of a feminist SOCIETY. This means that, individual people like yourself and your friends might carry a more equal view point, and some other people you know might be outlandish. But the idea is that, it does not matter so much what people think versus an entire social hierarchy. Examples of this are: Women receive lighter sentences for the same crimes as Men, Women are preferred for employment on many jobs just fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 07:38 PM
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cool What does cool mean here? just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 08:43 AM
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Textbook TRP example here the only guys that can get away with being mean are very attractive guys AKA the Alpha guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 08:11 AM
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But why do u think it is crap? or what parts of it do you think are crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 04:44 AM
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I do it all the time. If I want a 20% off coupon at Target, I flirt with the male cashier and make him feel good about himself so he will do something nice for me. Or I might be a little suggestive and try and get him to give me what I want. Im a 24 year old female. I would so I agree with most red pill theories on female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 04:32 AM
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TRP and feminism are conflicting opposites of each other. Feminism recognizes that naturally the way human culture shaped itself became sexist, men held more power and authority than women. Feminism seeks to change that and flip that around. TRP on the other hand wishes to keep it the way it was. Granted, both sides can have some compromises, but overall you can never have true equality between two different creatures. If you oppose one you favor the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 04:24 AM
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If you sleep with your boyfriend 3-4 times a week you are not in a BP or beta relationship then. A BP relationship involves: The male having not much authority or say in decisions The male is manipulated for favors The female holds off on sex unless her demands are met The female tries to convince the male that a female-centric relationship is the standard model. There are still relationships that dont fall into the RP or BP categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 04:21 AM
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most people seem pretty happy in mostly BP relationships, so the potential audience for TRP is limited. Sweety, most men don't understand when their happy or not. Its hilarious when people think men can be happy having sex once every six months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 02:52 AM
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You think within a sea of ignorance. The reason TRP exists is because of feminism. If society continues to become feminized, more men will become attracted to the TRP. TRP and feminism grow in unison. If it gets to the point where men cannot find jobs anymore, TRP will probably become a male revolution. Now you are going to tell me that feminism stands for equality. I won't be reading that, because I have seen first hand as woman that it does not. I don't feel right putting myself over a man's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 02:50 AM
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Just saying there is no reward in thinking a specific gender is perfect. Take it or leave it. Im not against you at all. Just giving you good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 10:25 PM
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Just curious, by paranoid lunacy are you implying that a girl is too good or pure to falsely accuse a man of rape? If so I think your not thinking of men and women equally here. You shouldn't assume a girl is good hearted because it puts a lot of pressure on us to behave in ways that you see fit for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 10:12 PM
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Ok I will, but for this sake I am only referring to casual sex situations, where I am not in a relationship with the guy. The question is yes or no, but the yes or no is dependent on many different things about the guy. If I consent to hooking up with a guy, I am consenting on the basis of that I want to have sex with him because I BELIEVE that the experience will be exciting, thrilling, and absolutely euphoric. That it will fulfill what my sexual desires. This consists of many behavioral elemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 09:30 PM
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Again, you are treating consent as the same between both sexes, which is a huge mistake. Male consent: Tight butt, cute face, curvy etc. whatever....CONSENT TO SEX. Female Consent: Good looking guy, but needs to be confident, charming, powerful. I want him to be assertive, he needs to play with me in the right way first, if there isn't enough kissing and touching I don't want sex. I want to make sure that he will give me good sex, to play with me rough and hard, like how I like it. If he isn't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 09:03 PM
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Problem is consent is not so clear cut for us girls as you might think. You see my desire for sex depends on a number of different things, and some of them I don't know until the sex actually starts. For example, let's say I meet a somewhere, we hit it off and I want to hook up with him. My desire for hooking up is dependent on the fact that the sex with him will be as exciting as how he charmed me when I met him. If the sex turns out to be bad, for whatever reason, I wouldn't have consented to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 08:36 PM
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Exactly, I think its only logical the decision making point should be at the beginning of the sexual encounter. Or else its so wishy-washy. Plus it's offensive to me because it makes girls seem as if their helpless creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 08:15 PM
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Hmmmm. My mother is actually a psychologist that specializes in treating people with sexual disorders, like fetishes and sex addiction, and usually the guys who like really fat girls have a food fetish tied with sex, where they are aroused by extremes of weight gain and consumption rather than the pure appearance of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 04:50 AM
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Ok maybe let me clarify. When I mean fat I am referring to 80-100 pounds of fat tissue over a healthy body weight, I don't mean husky guys or burly guys. I mean reaaaaaalllll big guys, something u can't dress up. Also, I recommend that you will be much happier learning about what different think and feel versus thinking your already know what they all think and feel. I am entitled to my own opinions based on my own observations as a female. Thats one thing TRP might have right. Ignorance isn't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 11:16 PM
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If you are implying that women can ignore fatness in a male i highly disagree with you. Sorry, but I think that's disillusioned thinking. Also 90% a male being fat goes along with being insecure and having no confidence. The exceptions are like what I described with the guy I hooked up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 10:42 PM
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Right, I am not arguing that. I am just mentioning that out of the exceptions that exist to that rule, they are pretty much all for men. Please correct me if I am wrong, but I am not aware of any sort of roles or jobs that are best suited for fat women more so than women of healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 10:31 PM
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I think with men there is more of a wide range of acceptable body types and scenarios where being heavy can be attractive in some way. Example: I once hooked up with an OL guy in college that was at least 6'8" and weighed 300+ pounds, yet the mix of muscle and fat gave him this look of a giant, rather than a fat man. The physical intimidation he had over me just made me go crazy. Obviously this isn't your average joe, but a woman couldn't really fit this type of role.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 09:57 PM
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Interesting arguments, didn't know about the corn issue. However, with regards to this: Again they think their fatness is intrinsic to them (like a higher melanin count is intrinsic to black people), so if society shuns them for their fatness, then society is the problem. This is the part that really, really bothers me about the FA movement. It is totally crazy in the sense that it "accepts" a negative quality about themselves and does not seek to change it. For example, there has never been a "…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 09:47 PM
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The most weirdest part of it for me is that they even state consent needs to be given at each stage of a sexual encounter, and the absence of a yes in a specific stage can be a red flag. Like seriously? It's like treating myself like a performer or something, asking what part comes next in the session.... :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 08:08 PM
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No you miss the point. The said article is stating a situation where a drunk female is making a move on one of her male friends. However, it appears to the guy that the girl is horny and wants him, yet at the same time she is actually drunk and probably wouldn't act this way without alcohol. What made him uncomfortable, based on my own experiences and what i've read and is that anti-rape campaigns paint the picture of college rape as where the female is served numerous drinks by a male and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 08:03 PM
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Women are not as horny as men and should not feel the need to fuck every fit man with a decent face they see. By this logic should high sex drive women get a free pass for casual sex while low sex drive men are shamed for any sex they have outside a relationship? This idea has to do with that if a guy just has a good looking face it is normally not enough to entice a girl for sex. There has to be a sense of confidence that he has, along with other traits that would make him sexy to me. This is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 05:54 PM
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Given that they kept staring at me and my body, I will have to disagree. Mind you this only occurred with guys I saw in a library or a class. The guys I used to meet at parties were totally not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 05:10 PM
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Right on. The other thing I never understood is why are women against the idea of cat calling or being overtly hit on and why does it make them feel uncomfortable? Even if a guy in the street gives me a bold compliment and i don't really fancy him, I still enjoy being validated for being beautiful and sexually attractive. It ain't giving me no butterflies in my tummy, but it makes me know I'm doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 03:59 PM
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I didn't say hi because if he ignored me still then I would have my feelings hurt by being rejected! Also if your sitting so close to someone while u could sit anywhere else on the table, I mean isn't it obvious? Like why would a girl sit right smack dab next to you? Also can u elaborate on why a guy should do everything he can to spread awareness about rape, yet still manage to not be worried about it himself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 03:50 PM
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Why try to talk to a girl if you run the risk of being labeled a creeper/tryhard/etc.? Hmmmm true, but I am making the connection that many guys feel approaching a girl they don't know is criminalistic in nature due to the notion that a lot of propaganda that all men are potential rapists, and any sort of advance is possible sexual assault or harassment. Basically that what's holding them back is coming from the nice dude's own rational than a fear of being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 06:38 AM
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I find it more sexy if a guy just leans in and stares into my eyes for a moment to let me know he is guy to kiss me. This way, If I am not into it, I can just move away. Were all different people, but to me asking if you can kiss = not confident that you would want to kiss him = insecure. Mind you I do like to be dominated in bed, so that might be why I am different than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 06:06 AM
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Well respect is when I say don't do something, they do not do it again. But if you get to the point of asking before you give someone a kiss, it takes away all the confidence a guy has and it takes away the spur of the moment butterflies i get. I don't mind simply rejecting someone after they make a move on me If I don't like them. Somehow the idea of a guy asking me if he can do things to me is making me feel like im a sex worker or a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 05:04 AM
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haha, i appreciate the suggestion, but i deserve a discount
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:53 AM
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Getting too much for free makes me feel like I am not worth it to be honest. The bigger thrill in getting free guac is telling myself I got chipotle on a sale. I do this at Abercrombie as well sometimes when I want a full priced item with a small discount at the end ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:26 AM
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Can you elaborate on what you mean by the best option for a woman? Generally I think I have all the options. Whenever I meet a new guy, I am always thinking if he belongs in the flings/FB category or the boyfriend category, based on his confidence level and how assertive he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:24 AM
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I don't think getting free guac lowers my self-respect, I just feel good about myself when i get stuff for free when a guy thinks im pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:08 AM
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What's wrong with choosing a career based on your best pieces of your personality? By stressful I mean with math things that tell computers and iphones what to do. By the way, I am no troll. Look at the tech industry, its male dominated, and it ain't cause there sexist, got it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 01:52 AM
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Very true. It really comes down to who successfully manipulates, which comes down to who has more perceived value. I'd venture to say in a college campus setting, a gorgeous fit girl has a lot more value than most of the guys she interacts with. So there is more incentive to be manipulated by her than your average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 10:50 PM
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So tell me, if this is true why do i live in a world of nearly all nice guys who could do anything I say If I simply butt-bump them or rub their chin?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 08:26 PM
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You totally miss the point here. People can do what they want do if they feel they can. No they will not threaten the cashier, but they could demand they want a discount in a loud voice. For example, lets say you are walking along one day and see an old man begger, who demands you give him a dollar. You believe that you can get away with saying no, because he does not pose a physical threat to you. Now, what about if a jacked, muscular man with tattoos all over his arms and a long beard approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 08:20 PM
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LOL Buddy, mines and oil fields don't require advanced educational degrees. You are comparing apples and oranges. Oil fields require immense physical strength, something women don't have. But both genders can be excellent nurses. Now tell me again, why don't we encourage more males to go into nursing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 07:12 PM
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Ah, I see. When the person mentioned "usually" I thought that meant physical intimidation by men is immoral or not acceptable, rather than not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 07:01 PM
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lol what is grey matter? Sounds like a type of playdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 06:51 PM
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As a nurse, I never see any encouragement for males to become nurses. Literally ever. And nursing is a female dominated field. Just thought to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 06:49 PM
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Can you elaborate on what you mean by physical intimidation isn't an option for guys? I used to date a black guy that was 6' 5", 220 pounds of nearly pure muscle. When he simply asked to use a machine in the gym someone else was using, they would always just get up and leave so he could use it. Generally I don't think girls can have an intimidating appearance, unless guys are scared of nice butts 0__0
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 06:32 PM
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But the question here is do females have an environment where people are more likely to given to what they want? More so than for men. To me I think the answer here is yes. I mean everywhere I go i read and here about how we want girl power in this job, we want girls to do this, bla bla bla. I literally don't here people encouraging men for certain roles. Like last week when I was with my girlfriends we were discussing the big Tech moguls, and how known of them nearly are women. But seriously? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 06:29 PM
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Yea, well in general men who can fight and beat other men are very appealing to me. There is something about them fighting against each other that really gives me butterflies. Thats why i love guys who can box, plate rugby, or any rough sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 06:04 PM
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uggghhhhh. I have to say even though i'm a girl I don't understand feminists in the modern day :( . Why would they want men to believe their sexuality is disrespectful and unlawful? I mean I like being approached by guys even if they aren't my type because its a major self-esteem boost and overall it just makes life more fun and interesting. I guess I just like having an atmosphere with sexual tension, it gets me excited, haha. I think the whole thing with all men are rapists is such a fib also.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 09:53 AM
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Im only comparing a girlfriend, one you could leave at any time you felt you weren't happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 08:01 AM
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Much agreed. Don't get me wrong, obviously I have a fear of being raped, but I think rape culture, especially in college campuses is over blown way over the top. I mean I remember literally walking around the main quad of my campus and seeing hundreds of signs of girls and guys carrying phrases like "My Body My Rights" or " Teach Men Not To rape, Dont Blame us Girls". I would say 95% of the guys in my classes on campus would not even intimidate me in the least bit in terms of being potentially v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 05:10 AM
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It can come from two possible places. One, as you said, is that the guy views the expression of his sexuality towards other females as not socially acceptable, awkward, irrational, or taboo. He can only the expression of his libido in the context of a friendship, with someone he knows well. I have noticed a lot of guys won't approach me or my girlfriends if we aren't in their social circle at times, which is probably due to the above reasons. Like a "Oh, I am just a stranger to her, why would sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 02:34 AM
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It's worth mentioning here also that, if the favor comes from a guy who has quite a bit of status, then girls will view that as a privilege or opportunity instead of "favor". Example: When I was in college, all of pac12 student athletes had these motorcycles they were given by the university to use for transportation. Most of the student body didn't have cars or other vehicles, so this was something pretty uncommon for a student to have. I remember once I was talking to a guy on the Baseball tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 11:09 PM
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I see, Understood. I was just thinking as a man though, it would probably be less demeaning to have your sexuality acknowledged yet rejected, versus being told that we couldn't even sense you had a penis in between your legs, if you catch my drift.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 10:58 PM
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Sorry to drop this here but I had to bring up something. Guys that I keep as friends, or at least most girls keep as friends, we do not see them in a sexual way. This means specifically that, their actions toward us, like putting their arm around our shoulder, trying to be flirty, or rubbing our back, we don't see those things as sexual advances because we view them as brothers, or non-sexual beings. There is zero sexual tension with me and my guy friends. So when they bring up something sexual,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 10:53 PM
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Disagree with you here, "Let's just be friends" is actually what a tell a guy when I don't see him in a sexual way at all, and in my book is actually more of a blow to a young man than a simple rejection. When I think of a guy as a friend, I see him as a nice dude with a great personality, but there is zero sexual tension from him. Like I feel totally comfortable telling him anything on my mind that I couldn't tell to my girlfriends or other guys I know because they wouldn't be willing to listen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 10:43 PM
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Your missing the idea here. The "nice" guys you mention here are doing these wonderful things for girls right off the bat once they meet them. It's like them saying to me, "Hey, I think your totally awesome so I am going to do these wonderful things for you." So these guys project their role as man as a doer or giver of things. The things is the best thing about them, not the guy themselves as a man. When a give a guy a blowjob, I am doing it because I think he is a confident, sexy and seemingly…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 10:36 PM
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I disagree with many things your saying, and I have a valid opinion to offer as a female here. Men create the friendzone because they have an illusion that befriending a girl is a step closer to getting her to hop into bed with you. They believe that a girl needs to feel comfortable with a guy as a friend before they even touch each other or kiss. This is really the furthest thing from the truth, and it really disgusts me that a guy would even think that. If you want to have sex with me, be char…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 10:26 PM
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Yea, the looks for both the girlfriend and the plates or whatever you call them would be the same but the difference is: Girlfriend: like you said would have only slept with a couple of guys, is generally kind and generous, enjoys cooking for you and doing nice things for you, and doesn't ask for much in return. Gives u blowjobs while you wake up in the morning, sex when you want etc. however you must be monogamous in this situation. OR Flings: as many girls as you could attain as plates or what…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 10:03 PM
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Exactly to your last point. The whole concept is that favors can't ever create attraction, but they might help strengthen it in some circumstances if it already exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 08:05 AM
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Absolutely NOT. In my head, being a 24 year old female, guys who are friends and guys who I am sexually attracted to are to totally distinct groups in my mind. They are like black and white. Being part of one, a friend in this case does not at all get you closer to being a lover, and really drives you further away from being a lover to me. If a guy starts offering me favors, I do like that he does that, but to me he is telling me thats all he has to offer. It's like saying that he isn't confiden…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 07:40 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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