feeltheweird Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
123	FDS & Anxiety / Neurodivergence	DISCUSSION	feeltheweird	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 03:55 PM
1	Quote seen on another sub	MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS	feeltheweird	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/21 11:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	This entire Twitter thread had me shook Jfc what a sociopath - I’m so sorry he ruined climbing for you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 03:53 AM
35	Princess meets FDS I know people have tried to change the meaning of the song online but they’re still wrong. Personally, I find it super irritating as it takes away from our ability to understand why we are where we are as a society. This song is not representative of our time place but instead offers a window into social expectations/limitations of our parents/grandparents/great grandparents. To refer to it (without irony) as the “date rape song” limits others opportunity for understanding why fathers taught the…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 06:46 PM
34	Princess meets FDS Yeah, that’s not actually a song about date rape. It’s a song about how women were forced to come up with all sorts of excuses in order to not be considered a slut when they wanted to exercise their sexual agency. Edit: Also, how is this relevant to the image? Edit 2: Since the original comment is deleted, the song reference I commented on was “Baby it’s cold outside”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 06:12 PM
205	The Mask Slips Those sound a lot like narcissistic traits - I hope you can get out fast	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/21 07:18 AM
11	They didn't win the sperm race. Our eggs choose the high quality and genetically compatibe sperm. - studies show. 😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/21 03:50 AM
3	This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us. Hi, what’s their @, want to know who you’re referring to - thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 04:30 AM
87	My perspective on FDS as a lesbian and former sex worker Someone can still be a lesbian and turn to sex work. Sex work is most lucrative if you’re engaging with men as the buyers are often men. Straight men have performed in gay porn. Performing a sex act that is either heterosexual or homosexual does not determine your sexuality especially when there is a monetary exchange. It’s the sex acts we WANT to do with WHO we want that are better indicative of sexuality. I don’t think it’s fair to negate OP because you think lesbians are incapable of performi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 04:30 PM
3	About Bennifer and Latina Pickme Culture Oh please don’t leave us hanging on that one! Dish dish dish lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 09:33 PM
18	This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with this This is how dog training works and does not surprise me that it’s the same with people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 05:57 PM
2	If a man tries to justify using the c-word... I hear you but there is an awesome Ted talk on this word and frankly, after hearing it, I’m pretty sold on reclamation of the c-word. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ted-talks-daily/id160904630?i=1000515373519	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/21 08:05 PM
104	iT's JuST a PrAnK dOn'T bE sO dRaMaTiC (TW: Abuse resulting in death, sexual assault) This is fucked on so many levels. That’s not manslaughter. That’s murder. He murdered her for views. Obviously being locked outside in the cold is going to result in hypothermia. This is like him locking her in a building, setting it on fire, and being surprised she burned. That’s what fucking happens!! Just because he was too stupid to recognize the actual consequences (which he was more than capable of understanding with just .2 seconds of additional thought) does not mean it wasn’t murder. Fu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/21 05:47 PM
123	Just friends, though! Yup! That’s one of the reasons I don’t like the fwb thing because in order for me to be able to do it emotionally, I’d have to dehumanize them in some way. I don’t want to be in the habit of dehumanizing people. That’s not the kind of person I choose to be.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 06:18 AM
2	Do men that dont watch/dislike porn even exist? There are quite a few male commenters who appear to be quitting porn in the comments section of anti-porn Ted talks (mostly the ones of men sharing their porn addiction stories). I’m still social distancing so I’m not entirely sure about real world males. Either way, there does seem to be a level of self-awareness. I did briefly date a man who I later learned had recently identified within himself that he had a porn addiction. I don’t know how it’s going for him now though as I was wholly unequi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 06:14 AM
20	The end is brilliant! Love this woman. Omg I love her - hilarious!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 09:07 PM
6	Preach it 👏🏻 I think it’s a bride/groom blend of some kind	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 04:54 AM
6	I JUST CANT WITH THE AMOUNT OF TRUTH HERE. Yup! I That’s the way to do it! I also like to try to look as if I’m too much trouble to deal with lol l try to get the kind of energy to exude from my body that says “you might win, but you’ll definitely get fucked up in the process” 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 03:28 AM
9	I JUST CANT WITH THE AMOUNT OF TRUTH HERE. Yes! Night walks are my favorite walks and I take the same precautions. Glad to hear from another woman who won’t let the negative chatter keep her from enjoying what she likes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 10:24 PM
1	Do Not Let Him Fool You About His “Friend” I understand. I think I clung onto the part about “your issues or problems”and interpreted it as the relationships issues and problems. I agree with you. If my SO shares a problem we’re having and their friends use it as a reason to put me down, it’s definitely cause for alarm. Especially if they won’t have my back if it happens.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 04:28 PM
2	Do Not Let Him Fool You About His “Friend” I think there’s a balance here. Talking with a close friend or family member about the things that happened in my relationship helped me to realize I was in an abusive relationship. There is certainly a line where every little disagreement shouldn’t be shared but if there’s something that keeps coming up and it’s not getting resolved I fully support sharing with a close confidant or two. Since that relationship, my philosophy is if you’re afraid my friends and family will think poorly of you if …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 03:57 PM
44	Watch out for love bombers ! Nothing wrong with taking free gifts while they're being offered. However, yes, probably best to not expect that to last.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 06:26 PM
3	5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piece Fucking love this and you’re so spot on. I felt so alone before finding FDS, like I was a crazy person for not dating for almost five years. But no one I came across really did it for me. It always felt like to continue to go out with these men was unfair to both of us because I just wasn’t interested. I’ve been told to lower my standards countless times but I won’t because I am so much happier being alone than settling. I’ll admit there are some things I’ve read on FDS that have rubbed me the w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 05:10 AM
16	Don't get it twisted; women didn't leave "in the good old days" because they were trapped, not because they were fucking ride or die. We literally had no choice but to put up with abuse and other myriad bullshit. Men cannot stand the fact that we are no longer forced to submit. My grandmother (born 1935) got her own bank account when she was 16 without needing anyone’s permission. This was in CA. I’m sure there are some areas where you couldn’t, but I think it’s important for people who make these kinds of statements to include the details of where this took place.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/21 07:53 PM