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#KickHimOut2020feiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:22 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 12:38 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:10 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:15 PM
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NAH, SISfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:03 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?feiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:10 PM
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LEVEL UPfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:13 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:29 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:20 AM
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feiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:13 AM
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feiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:04 AM
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DISCUSSIONfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:58 AM
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LEVEL UPfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:46 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:10 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:12 PM
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FDS MOVIES & TVfeiyue-over-converse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:03 AM
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As the kids on TikTok are saying (and as a mulaney stan of years I agree) - Anna got us in the divorce 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:24 PM
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I just screamed out loud - ended it with a guy with a shitty stick and poke on his thigh 2 weeks ago 😂😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:24 PM
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Ayyyy!!! I know the girl on the left!! She’s awesome and has a great message 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:15 AM
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Yessssss haha My comeback is always “I’ll laugh when it’s funny”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:25 PM
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Which he admits to and recognizes as a reason he will carry blame for forever about what happened. I think it resonates as a real but of honesty more because of his willingness to own up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:24 AM
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YES!! It should be FDS required watching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:22 AM
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The whole special that this clip is from is “X” on HBO. But he also has two specials on Netflix under “Daniel Sloss: Live Shows” called “dark” and “jigsaw” that are on Netflix and I highly recommend all three! His level of self awareness is excellent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:21 AM
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YES!!! I immediately thought of the last guy things were a mess with and I was like ohhhhhhh so that’s where I was fucking up 😂😂😂😂 Edit: I can’t spell 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:30 PM
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Oh my god I just realized that now 🥴 DONT TIK TOK AND DRIVE LADIESSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:48 PM
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His show is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:27 AM
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Right? Totally rocked me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:27 AM
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Yes!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:26 AM
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Check out his whole special Jigsaw on Netflix! It’s amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:26 AM
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Just a stellar guy across all social media - his tally of breakups due to his special get me every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:26 AM
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I just discovered him but I’ve already talked about him to everyone I know haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:25 AM
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Yes!!! The whole “you should only be in this thing if you love them 100% and it makes you happier” blew my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:25 AM
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Yes!!! He’s hilarious and makes you think!! My favorite kind haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:19 PM
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I’m not into bdsm, but any time it comes up with a guy or a guy says theyre a Dom I just say “what’s your aftercare routine?” And when they stutter on about it bc they clearly don’t have one I just walk awayyyyyyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:47 PM
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😭😭😭 from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I’m gonna go cry now. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:24 PM
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Oh you have no IDEA - the roadtrip was in a converted schoolbus (which is my dream) the playlist is a shared Spotify playlist that already has 250+ songs, and we were gonna eat so much fucking BBQ our bodies were going to explode. It would have been wonderful. And then I realized that I want to take that trip with someone who loves me and cares about me and will 100% be there for me. And not someone who only lets me into the parts of his life that are convenient for him. I was building a MASSIVE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:24 PM
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Right?!? Like he straight up said to me “I’m not looking for a relationship” I NEED TO BELIVE HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:17 PM
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Ugh that is exactly it babe - like I’ve said to friends, I really never expected this to go anywhere - I thought it was a one night stand that I wouldn’t hear from again. So going backwards in this relationship from someone he had some HOT ASS sex with several times to someone he can only see as a friend has been incredibly painful and damaging to my self-worth. Right now I don’t feel like I don’t deserve anything good because there is obviously something wrong with me to make me so unattractive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:11 PM
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Haha what a perfect descriptor for him 😂 Yeah, I know in my heart that it is over forever. I just wish so badly that wasn’t the reality. And that makes me nervous 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:06 PM
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Hahah I’m not sure about Cambodian but I lived in China for 2 years so I can say it in chinese 😂 But yeah, I’m very afraid that he’s going to circle back around and that I’ll fall for it. But at this point I’m like no I would need so much from you before I could trust you with any part of me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:03 PM
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Ahahaha girl yes!!!! I’m just like....soooooo you would plan an entire roadtrip with me, call me daily, text me constantly, and yet you can’t see this as anything other than a friendship?????? Like sir am I just your emotion support animal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:55 PM
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Thank you, I am praying and hoping with everything that it was the right choice. Even know I can’t help but hope that he’ll “realize the error of his ways” but I am trying not to focus there. Because why not search for someone who is there for me in EVERY way from get? As much as talking to him brightened my day, it was also hurting me badly. And that’s shits just not cool man 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:40 PM
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Thank you ❤️ truely, I had to wrestle myself into doing this. But listening to him say that he didn’t feel that same way made me feel so worthless and small that I knew I couldn’t stay doing it. Definitely looking into some therapy now, I’ve been realizing I have a some attachment issues I clearly need to work through xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:38 PM
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My current female friend group is literally all HVW and literally all of them are single. It continues to amaze me how dudes just do not give a fuck about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 06:55 AM
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??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:14 AM
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Such a good account!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:56 AM
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Ahahaha truuuu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:37 AM
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The tea is HOT today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:50 PM
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Accurate comment is ACCURATE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:50 PM
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Omg you are a LEGEND! So proud of you for absolutely killing this and using it in an amazing way. I’m so ready to put this into action. I hope everyone good is coming your way ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:49 PM
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Amazing!!!! Go you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:48 PM
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Yo true!! Totally part of being a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:47 PM
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“Every man who got to touch me was afforded an HONOR” 100% queen energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:10 AM
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Yes!! I love the “not just any young fool can approach the throne” line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:08 AM
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Can your grandma be my grandma too??? She sounds amazing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:39 AM
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Right? I was like this is BRILLIANT. I’ve always been familiar with the concept of a rainy day fund, but Fuck Off Fund is just such a better and more motivating name!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:39 AM
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Ah these are amazing subreddits! Just joined both 😂 I love Reddit so much there are so many subs you can learn SO MUCH from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:38 AM
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Seriously it can be so crippling, not to mention unhealthy work environments, living situations, etc..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:37 AM
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Adding as more commentary: One of my goals this year is to establish a safety net fund (which i am now 100% calling a fuck off fund). I'm 25 and in a career now that means i don't have to be living paycheck to paycheck, yet I often find myself impulse spending throughout the month and struggling to save. NO MORE! From now on I am going to be smarter with my money, save more, pay off more, and hustle for extra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:17 AM
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I've had the exact same struggle since I stopped using OLD apps (because i hate them lol). One of my New Year's resolutions that might be helpful for you was to do one new thing a week, mostly social stuff, in an effort to try new things, improve myself, and meet new people. It's been really fun and while it hasn't resulted in any dates yet, I have a far higher chance to meet someone now than before when I was just at home with my cat!! Also, I've met some really dope people and tried some cool …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:35 AM
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MY FAVORITE TERM! and deff applies to this dude. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:22 AM
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yepppp. and apparently the cheating was with his wife's GOOD FRIEND. goes to show, even royal men can be LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:12 AM
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"heartthrob of a highschool vampire romance novel to author of the same novel" oh that got me good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:10 AM
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1000% yes homo. would change my whole sexuality for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:09 AM
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yeppppp. knew that going in, was warning by the reddit quarrantined notice, and STILL managed to be surprised by just how gross it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:08 AM
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accurateeeeee the whole plate spinning things is such an insane dick measuring contest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:07 AM
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hahahaha lucky i got that nonstick coating. :P not a place i'll be revisiting anytime soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:06 AM
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yeah that was a fun education in gross TRP terms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:05 AM
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exactly. it's so gross. Like, here on FDS we talk about dating multiple guys at once to keep our options open and remain impartial, but it's never a contest of how MANY we can date at once. Over there, it's exactly that and a strategy used to keep girls under control by letting them know that they are one of many that must fight for this dude's attention. BLECH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:03 AM
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this has nothing to do with anything but happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:01 AM
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My last dating experience was this exact same thing. We went on 2 lovely dates, he paid for everything, was a great conversationalist, we had a ton of stuff in common, a couple of great kisses, I gracefully turned down an offer to come back to his after the second date, and then he hit me with a "hey you're great but i think i just want to be friends" aka i probably just want to fuck you and bounce. Told him I wasn't looking for new friends because I have an amazing group of em. It was a super d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:55 AM
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A-FUCKING-MEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:47 AM
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PREACH. he's just saying "hello, i would like to have all the control here please."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:46 AM
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Use this fuck up. Learn from it. If you want to hook up, hookup. DO NOT every try to transition a hookup into anything else. A steady hookup means the "effort" level of the "relationship" has been set for him. He's never gonna want to exert more affort when he's already getting wants he wants from you. Dating for a relationship should be a totally separate thing. If you want a relationship, you gotta stick to the FDS principles. No sex until commitment. Don't make him the priority. Better yourse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:36 AM
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seriously. they way TRP deals with saying the "right thing" to a girl to keep her placated and on the hook is terrifying,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:29 AM
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yep - aka how many "plates" aka HUMAN BEINGS WITH FEELINGS can you keep spinning at the same time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:27 AM
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sorry WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:45 AM
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okay i wrote a MASSIVE (oops) reply separately, but the most important thing is exactly that. If they say the love it, they better have a very literary and well-thought answer for you as to why they love it. Any other answer is probably something to worry about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:10 AM
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Personally, I have always said that Lolita is one of my favorite books. As a Lit major I took a class that was entirely focused on Lolita (along with several short Nabokov works to contextualize his writing) and getting to break the book down piece by piece was incredible because it is one of the most COMPLICATED books you could ever pick up and read without doing a deep dive into it. I've always said that if not for that course, I would have read Lolita on my own and discarded it as creepy. It'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:08 AM
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TRUTHHHHHH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:55 AM
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preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:24 AM
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wow this is..... scary accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:04 AM
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I just saw this and was gonna post it here XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:36 AM
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Not OP, but just wanted to say that this is fantastic list of things that I literally just copy pasted into a word doc to keep. Excellent advice that i look forward to following. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 05:07 AM
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I feel like "Cool Girl" is a title all on its own and a slightly different animal. While the Pickmesha devotes her time to finding and locking down a guy with using traditional gender roles and giving far more in a relationship than their man does, a "Cool Girl" is far more into being #notlikeothergirls and a "guy's girl" who views herself as better than other women and therefore more worthy of guy's attention. Also far more likely to engage in casual sex and think she's awesome becasue she's so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 04:08 AM
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yeah...... personally I would never count Ye as a HVM. He just seems to suck all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:44 AM
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I’m new to this whole FDS thing by about 3 months and during this time it’s been really enlightening which of my friends are like “yes!!! Amen!!” When I quote advice for this subreddit and which friends put it down or disagree. One of my closet friends and I have been having a lot of conflict lately when guys are involved - we don’t go for the same type at all even on a physical level so there was never competition over the same guy (ew, a trope I hated even before FDS) - but it’s always been a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:41 AM
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God this one kills me. I have a close friend who wears recieving this compliment like a badge of honor and i just want to slap her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:50 AM
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I'm just.... sad now? like that is the most pitiful thing I've read in a while damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:49 AM
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Okay this is some real-ass Queen Shit TM. Ngl, I'm a little jealous you got to grow up with such badass women around you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:50 AM
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girl i was just reading this and was about to link it to this sub. XD i cannot with this whole thing. HOW has she not left him years ago?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:07 AM
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Yes! Like in a committed relationship, I'd LOVE to have some nice snuggling and Hot Cheeto time. But that's quality time, not an actual date! Better not be coming at me like that for months and not until you've locked me down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:15 AM
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Yes! You got this bb!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:12 AM
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Right? Like seems like some of her behavior wasn't super great (not the part about paying but the things like not being a good conversationalist on dates) but like HE WAS PURSUING HER?!?!? IF YOU DIDN'T LIKE IT WHY WERE YOU STILL THERE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:07 AM
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well imma go throw up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:03 AM
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This is exactly what I've been thinking about lately. I'm realizing that I just need to work on myself. Truly becoming content with who I am and the things I have in my life and not making the pursuit of a relationship the thing taking up most of my time (as I sometimes feel it is now). There are so many ways I can improve my life and become the fullest version of myself possible. And if someone comes along and can enrich my life even further, than yay! But if not, I want to be in a place where …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:00 AM
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Girl I swear you don’t realize how damn comforting american fast food can be until it’s unavailable 😂 When I went home to visit for the first time in 2 years I was like “hello family. Great to see you. Please take me to the nearest chik-fil-a, Taco Bell, or shake shack immediately.” 😝😝😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 01:09 AM
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My dear mother (who, for reasons that will become obvious, I don’t have a great relationship with now) is an uber-conservative christian who told me, and many other girls and women around me, that if a man cheats on a woman it’s her fault because she wasn’t making herself or the home inviting enough for him. Also that women are “helpmeets” who’s full purpose is to care for her man in every way, take care of the house by herself, and give him sex whenever he wants it (because men have needs). I a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 01:00 AM
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“U up?” 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:43 AM
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Yikes girl. Yikessssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:41 AM
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Omg sameeee makes me laugh so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:41 AM
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The closest one is in Shanghai and I’m in Beijing! Gotta find a reason to take a train down there 🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:40 AM
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🤮🤮🤮 that is the most pitiful sentence I’ve read in a WHILE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:39 AM
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Girl I swear like DO NONE OF YOU EAT DINNER?!? Are you not hungry at this hour?!? 😝😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:59 PM
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Yasssssssss - I miss Taco Bell #expatstruggles 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:51 PM
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The thing that really blew my mind on the Cool Girl idea was the book Gone Girl. That monologue Amy gives about how every wants a cool girl but no girl is actually a cool girl, she’s just trying to seem cool so that she’ll be accepted, made me sit the fuck up and listen. Down with the cool girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 10:48 AM
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Wowowowowowooww I am in tears this is hilarious 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:33 AM
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I think the Sex Positive movement helped me in a lot of ways. I grew up in a super religious conservative family where sex was saved til marriage and there was a lot of same around sex. A lot of my more sex positive friends really helped me to grow and learn and embrace my sexuality. HOWEVER. It’s such a double edged sword. I have a friend who is super sex positive and loves to preach this “fuck em and forget em” lifestyle but I see the behind the scenes of her constantly getting hurt by men bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:04 AM
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Literally came to say this 😂😂 my plants give me joy! Men not so much 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 01:56 AM
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ooh yes! I've been trying to do this every day as well. Even if its just a gals night in I'm putting on makeup. Gotta make it a habit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 04:28 AM
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hahah its one of my favorites. people, places, things, attitudes, experiences...all can be labeled as mediun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 04:26 AM
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ME👏🏼DI👏🏼UM👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:25 AM
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girl rightttt? literally my first thought. all that coolness wasted on that pale ass medium man. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:59 AM
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I literally just had a guy who I hit it off really well on the first two dates tell me he wanted to keep it platonic because he wasn't feeling sparks and I came SO CLOSE to being like well sometimes spark grow, gimme another chance! And then stopped and was like nah nah nah. I don't wanna be invested in someone who isn't 100% invested in me! (Also you bet your asses i told him that no, we would not be keeping it platonic. Either you're dating me or i'm out. You don't get all my dopeness as "just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:55 AM
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Thank you ☺️☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 09:58 AM
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ya girl is trying!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:00 AM
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yeah i have solid weeknds plans because a friend is visiting and staying with me, just have to make it to saturday morning without going crazy. I think if i can get to the weekend it'll fade. right now i just don't have other good things to focus on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:55 AM
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out of sight out of mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:31 AM
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haha as my dad always says "good riddance to bad rubbish" XD But yes, i'm just realy trying to get out of my head about it. Deep cleaned most of my apartment last night trying to stay away from my phone so that's one positive! Going to try and have dinner with a friend tonight to keep myself busy. (no way am i walking outside, i live in beijing and the wind chill alone is enough to murder you XD)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:30 AM
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yeah we did text after the date that evening. we both said we had a great time and then he said "let's do this again soon" but since then nothing. so there was the common courtesy texts but then nothing. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:28 AM
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Oh my god I just read this book and it blew my damn mind. Changed so much about the way I view dating and my own attitudes. Some of it is a little old-fashioned for me, but like DAMN they’ve nailed it in so many ways. I listened to the audiobook, but just got the physical copy so could reread and make hella notes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:44 AM
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