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0	Made out with a girl who likes me but we didn’t have sex. It’s kinda on you as the man to lead it there. She’s not going to do it for you. Also straight boob grab is a no. You work your way up based on her physical response. Ribs, curve of waist, slide back up make her back curve and push her crotch into yours, then grab ass, then grab boob. Women like to be teased and guided into a higher intensity. I hate when it’s like 0 to 100 right away. Like I almost punched the man I want kids with because he poked my backdoor randomly one time. Be a little more…	/r/seduction	04/09/25 08:50 PM
1	Made out with a girl who likes me but we didn’t have sex. If anything flirt again. Build tension again. Show that other girls give you attention but still look at her. Once it escalates go more passionate with the kiss and say you’ve been wanting to go back to my place haven’t you.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 08:39 PM
2	Made out with a girl who likes me but we didn’t have sex. It could be true. For us it’s how you feel at the moment. Nothing is really certain until it happens in real time and we could have had a different feeling and plan beforehand. You seem sweet; just go to the next girl and just smile and be nice when she’s around.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 08:16 PM
1	Made out with a girl who likes me but we didn’t have sex. She just wanted to test if her body felt anything for you or the attraction was just a minor itch. I can’t speak for all but for a guy if we kiss and it’s a nice thing to end the night I want to do it again and then fuck. And I’m thinking about the kiss the whole time. For my friend group atleast a kiss tests if there’s sparks or not.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 08:05 PM
2	After a first date, when is the best time to text a woman for a second date or re-initiate contact? Anything I want. I date to marry. I love talking to him. My thing is making sure he commits to being exclusive before I reward him with anything.	/r/seduction	03/09/25 03:56 PM
8	After a first date, when is the best time to text a woman for a second date or re-initiate contact? I always text back if the date was good. Every girl is different with what they want. But your next texts shouldn’t be about anything besides leading towards the next date. Save all your interaction, jokes, lines etc. for in person contact. Kept the present unwrapped. I usually find myself thinking in anticipation for him for that next meeting.	/r/seduction	03/09/25 01:43 PM
3	No follows up after sex No retention means we got what we wanted and are going for a new experience. I’m just telling you why we ghost or don’t bother reaching out again. At the very least they should have had you as place holder dick. We would swim across the Hudson to the person if we felt it was a good use of time. I’m sure you’ll get something more consistent on the calendar; just keep going for it. Find out what you may have done the same in every link that could be the reason and don’t do it. It’s a learning game…	/r/seduction	19/08/25 12:37 AM
5	No follows up after sex On to the next one for her. She would book you for another appointment if she liked the performance.	/r/seduction	19/08/25 12:27 AM
5	Telling people "not to apply pressure" is terrible advice That is not a myth. To be pedantic. You’re right; your presence can also be a means that goes beyond physical attractiveness. Like what the matcha Clairo feminist literature guys do. Or like being a comedian or otherwise having large groups of people focusing on you as you make them admire your ability to speak and evoke emotion. There’s an element of charm that you can present in a short window. BUT no amount of “game” and or pressure will fill in the gap of having no sexual value or presence. …	/r/seduction	15/08/25 06:05 PM
0	How do you not be boring? Drink	/r/seduction	15/08/25 03:13 PM
3	Finally found the courage to talk to women, accused of being a player In the casual approach. That’s just something you tell a guy so he feels good about his ability in women and then leaves you alone. If you flat out reject he will get salty But in this case it’s just they think your inability to settle down again after being old leaves you with no other option besides tryna get laid in free time. Although that is weird they would think that. A guy who’s been committed to one girl for a long time is usually a very good thing. These are just weird girls. If she th…	/r/seduction	13/08/25 11:52 AM
1	Can you be the prize as a male? Cool so the economy is why you will never be with an attractive woman and that applies to everyone? Your best bet is an arranged marriage then bud. Sorry for you.	/r/seduction	12/08/25 10:05 PM
1	Do l need to ask a wüman about her body count or l find out on my own?😁 What guy is next after you breakup.	/r/seduction	12/08/25 04:46 PM
4	Do l need to ask a wüman about her body count or l find out on my own?😁 If you wanna find out ask her what an acceptable count is. “What’s too much for a guy for you?”. It’s a few standard deviations above or below that. But also note we take that shit to the grave. Only other girls have heard all the stories. We even know what guy is next. You’re not going to get a direct answer ever. Or know the full details.	/r/seduction	12/08/25 04:24 PM
5	HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.” My man has literally never had to say let’s fuck. He just touches or grabs what he likes and things escalate. Most attractive guys know when a woman wants to sleep with them and already imprinted. That’s how he’s always done it. Only the three bfs before him say demand it from watching too many Andre Tate videos.	/r/seduction	12/08/25 01:26 AM
27	HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.” I’ve only heard women do that.	/r/seduction	11/08/25 10:45 PM
2	Any resources or tips to get better at teasing, flirting and bantering? Talk to as many women as possible and immerse yourself with content of good dialogue. Look at how it’s done properly all over. You’ll notice all of them share something in common in regards to the art of conversation. There an art in the sell. Whether it be tonality, cadence, structure, framework etc. that’s how they approach comedy. Women are more simple.	/r/seduction	11/08/25 04:27 PM
2	Can you be the prize as a male? Well if you live in some third world barely surviving then don’t worry about women. It’s beyond your capabilities so don’t worry about it. There’s bigger priorities.	/r/seduction	10/08/25 03:18 PM
2	Can you be the prize as a male? Genetics, hygiene, talent, income and ability to socialize are basic human traits independent of attracting women. Especially hygiene.	/r/seduction	10/08/25 02:28 PM
16	Can you be the prize as a male? You have to be worth liking, in a sense, yes. The wording is just very fruity. The answer is genetics, grooming and cosmetic habits/practices, and social ability/accomplishments. The former being the most important. And lastly; very much so. Girls will flirt in front of your man while you’re standing right there. That’s purely physical. Work with what you can do to the greatest extent. A LOT of guys will never be that guy ever at all but they can get close as possible. Surgery etc.	/r/seduction	08/08/25 01:20 PM
0	Stop treating her like an overrated celebrity and raise your standards. No woman is a 10 even if she is the hottest girl on earth. It’s just how we see it. I wouldn’t even call it advice. There so much assumption to what we think. And how we see things. What we respond to. And what we actually do. My finance bro (what you guys call a chad) fake feminist ex learned “game” from his older sister who was a sociopath borderline Incestuous sorority girl who told him everything. By far the guys with the best game have sisters or lesbian best friends. There is a clear difference. There is just a level of insight and comfort you can…	/r/seduction	06/08/25 09:57 PM
5	Stop treating her like an overrated celebrity and raise your standards. No woman is a 10 even if she is the hottest girl on earth. You should always think how does you being pretty benefit me. And frame your attitude and demeanor like that. So many dudes are telling her she’s gorgeous and pretty. Find out what’s interesting enough about her to even go on a second date with or speak to. It’s the same with guys. Like OK you’re hot, nice to look at, and insanely boring so thanks for the free meal.	/r/seduction	06/08/25 09:28 PM
3	Stop treating her like an overrated celebrity and raise your standards. No woman is a 10 even if she is the hottest girl on earth. Honestly treat a hot girl like they’re unattractive. That’s what we do and they believe it.	/r/seduction	06/08/25 05:49 PM
11	Stop treating her like an overrated celebrity and raise your standards. No woman is a 10 even if she is the hottest girl on earth. There’s a dude who thinks and treats her like a 3 and she’s all over him because you see her as mystic in your eyes. She has to prove herself to you not vice versa. There has to be a reason for us to like you back. As women we can’t stand a dude who sees us a holy to the point where they can’t be themselves. It’s sweet at first but then it gets hackneyed and annoying.	/r/seduction	06/08/25 05:08 PM
22	Stop treating her like an overrated celebrity and raise your standards. No woman is a 10 even if she is the hottest girl on earth. Ain’t no way I made this comment hours ago or yesterday it gets posted later. Which one yall bugged my house?	/r/seduction	06/08/25 04:47 PM
2	How do you approach women when you have that fear of doing it? Oh nice lol.	/r/seduction	06/08/25 02:16 PM
5	How do you approach women when you have that fear of doing it? How could a stranger online possibly help you? Get drunk and take some adderall. Spark up a convo. Be charming. Be funny. A little flirty. Gauge her attraction to you and if she’s receptive. Most important part. When she laughs hard tell her I know you’d be upset if you didn’t get my number. Give her a time and date to meet you and keep texting at a minimum until that time and date.	/r/seduction	06/08/25 11:47 AM
5	How do you approach women when you have that fear of doing it? You have to realize that you yourself are putting these women on a pedestal. You yourself. Some might call Syndney Sweeney a 10 and others might say she looks like a meth head with no ass. There is a guy who doesn’t think your crush is all that and she’s head over heels for him for that very reason. The guys who think the latter are definitely doing better. You’re not going to learn this unless your woman friend tells you this. Your body language and general ability to speak get ruined by gassin…	/r/seduction	06/08/25 01:31 AM
2	How do you build up A broken Man? Step away from thinking of dating and seduction. Please focus on your inner happiness. Find an activity of purpose or community that makes you happy. The women and all that will come with that. Who you’re loved by is how you represent yourself and your best attributes that god gave you. Both internal and external. You can improve on both to its furthest extent. But don’t even worry about damn girls right now. The internal is not spoken as much often. Please leave these memories and thoughts and …	/r/seduction	06/08/25 01:22 AM
1	Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth? Zero.	/r/seduction	05/08/25 09:45 PM
1	How do you deal with cockblocking friends at parties? I actively tell my friends to fuck off or I’m working something out. A girl knows how guys escalate and if she wants to escalate with him. If my gf is preventing me then that’s grounds to tell her to stop being a miserable bitch because no guy is hitting on her. We went out for a reason. We are just as annoyed if that keeps happening with someone we think we might actually want to know. If she’s allowing it then she’s just being nice and humoring you. You are overestimating the attraction perhap…	/r/seduction	05/08/25 08:34 PM
1	How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex. Second date. From our perspective the should have been a spark and attraction the first date. You should have escalated enough to the point where you are comfortable with each contact other that’s not sexual. And you should have flirted enough and smoothly introduced certain aspects of sex without just asking for it. Example: you might as well be naked while it’s this cold outside when I had on one layer of a jacket. By the second date we will engage even. Grab something when you make out. Say s…	/r/seduction	05/08/25 05:12 PM
6	Seduction is Useless Unless a Woman is Already Attracted to You For me my person was very physically attractive and that’s what he was known for but I hated the living shit out of him before getting to know him. I assumed he was just some himbo douche. He ended up having a mask of empathy, wit, warmth, kindness, depth, understanding etc. and that made him 1000x more desirable to the point I couldn’t stop thinking about him. He just said the right things and did the right things. Game if you will. I’m kind of on here to learn more of what he did to prevent it…	/r/seduction	05/08/25 05:02 PM
-5	Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth? We are giving to you guys easier than ever and lowering the bar for the most part. Physically not financially. It’s a great renaissance for you all. You’re getting layups. The economy is terrible so you don’t gave to worry for marriage either and we support ourselves. Just offer something like fun. It’s the era of senseless hedonism. Societies throughout history have always shifted from liberal and sexual into polar opposites such as Christianity and purity to come after it. Like in Ancient Rome…	/r/seduction	29/07/25 04:45 AM
30	How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl? From the other perspective. Don’t look for approval while you do it. For me the first guy to do it had the best game in general. Opened the door. No eye contact or acknowledgement that he even did it. Just kinda waited for me to get up and go. What he did right what was not look for me to even notice that he was being gentlemanly and he did it like it’s something second nature to him. Think about it like this you don’t tell a girl to get into a position you like you either get her there yourself…	/r/seduction	29/07/25 04:33 AM
2	Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against you You’re on the seduction subreddit and you’re not pursuing…. But that’s great; whatever you got going on-you’re happy. Good luck to you and all your endeavors. Have good day.	/r/seduction	29/07/25 01:14 AM
-4	Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with women OMG I literally just told a guy in this subreddit in here all that. Before you even posted this. He said it’s being a fuckboy but yes. And hygiene please as well-don’t just spray Dior over BO and not brush your tongue.	/r/seduction	29/07/25 01:07 AM
4	Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against you I don’t think having intrinsic value or being something worth liking is a fuckboy. The former mentioned is basic life skills. It’s lessons you should have within yourself and the women come second. It’s who you are before you walk out of the door. Having your most optimal body and appearance. Being prepared, informing yourself correctly, making sense of data and the information in life you take in, able to execute, maintain, organize, apply etc. These are all skills you’d need to get a promotion…	/r/seduction	29/07/25 12:59 AM
10	Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against you Both the genders have their flaws. This is ours. I’m not saying it’s fair but to us it makes sense and it’s logical to us. Maybe at the moment and not later. To men It makes absolutely no sense. But we guide our lives differently. Keep this in mind; you don’t have to be absurdly attractive to get beautiful women. You just have to be not ugly and I think any man can do that. Get to low body fat, groom, HYGIENE, find a haircut that fits, fit an appealing archetype/fashion style etc. Learn what you…	/r/seduction	28/07/25 09:52 PM
31	Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against you I have heard so many girls say they hate it but go for it and fold. I unfortunately fell into that category. Let’s just say multiple women want you and there’s competition for you for a feature, and you like that feature; it will work in your favor. If you’re chopped they’ll just assume you can only get ugly girls and do not want to be categorized for it. Never bring it up tho. It usually comes out in conversation and body language and women can tell.	/r/seduction	28/07/25 08:31 PM
-2	Is there a good guide for nudes/dick pics for men - with photos? Why wouldn’t they? This isn’t a fraternity. But yes If I’m holding it up next my forearm I need someone to get the photo. But mine are off limits. Double standards.	/r/seduction	27/07/25 06:09 PM
0	Is there a good guide for nudes/dick pics for men - with photos? Group chat.	/r/seduction	27/07/25 05:21 PM
3	Is there a good guide for nudes/dick pics for men - with photos? The only ones I have are the ones with me and him in it or we are doing something funny or playful as a couple. Or I want to show my friends for the GC. The rest are getting blocked or shared with your family members. If another woman specifically asks: fresh out of the shower, mirror, water dripping off the skin, hair wet, steam in the background, next to an item like a febreeze can. Don’t look at the mirror just look down. Make it artsy and shit. Also girl just tell him what you like and say t…	/r/seduction	27/07/25 02:03 PM
1	I got a second chance. Need urgent advice. I would drop it. The spark and sexual attraction is the biggest part. There’s tell tale signs if she’s willing to escalate your advances. You will rarely ever get a woman on the second try. You usually give her an experience to reference form when she’s thinking about you. You need to create that spark and tension and escalate smoothly.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 03:37 AM
1	How do you get ride of the laziness to approach more women while in the talking phase with a woman?? Drugs	/r/seduction	26/07/25 03:09 AM
0	Damn… what did I do wrong? Brazilians are very vain. You’ll rarely ever “pull” without being good looking or wealthy even to the most plain looking of person you’re pursuing. As far as foreigners go. Mind games or a framework or confidence or template will not work. They decided if they are going to fuck within the first 5 seconds and if you’re not their type visually or financially then you have no shot.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 03:07 AM
7	Dry Texts - What She’s Really Thinking If your partner is under 26-27 and working or studying; they’re going to be dry texters. There’s been girls who don’t stop texting you at all and then there’s some who take two days to reply. But you shouldn’t be using it as a main means of meaningful conversation anyway. Only planning for the next physical meet up. A few jokes here and there. Because the driest texters seem to be the most fun, chatty, and sexually forward in person. If they’re the opposite they kind of have more charm and commu…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 10:23 PM